Our Hotwives

Just a little background, wife and I are 43 and 47 respectively and have been active in the LS close to 4 years now, played with more single guys and a few cpls.....mostly meet single guys. Up till now we have played with single guys ranging from 35-50, she says it's her comfort meeting guys in this age group. I feel she's too body conscious in meeting younger guys. She goes gymming regularly and is fitter than most women her age, in fact acquaintances often mistake her being 35-37.

A few days ago I kinda strongly suggested that we should explore to meet younger guys and she would obviously still have the final say on the guy...this time she agreed to explore. I have been looking up younger guys actively and chatted with a few, finally yesterday I introduce her to one of them on chat (who I thought was very mature for 26) she chatted and didn't immediately say no even after knowing he's 18 years younger in fact he shared some of his pics and she said nice pics and they had brief general chat. He mentioned to her in chat he's totally ok meeting couples our age who are mature and loves mature women who know what they want.

Although I'm not very optimistic at this stage, definitely exciting she agreed to explore and didn't shoot it down. Her decision is still final.

Anyone else going through or been through something similar? How did things end up?

Leggysandy has always been attracted to older men. Her criteria until now have stipulated that guys have to be >= her own age, despite my urging her to try some younger bucks. She seems to be warming up to those younger men now, though. Turning 40 may have changed her perspective a bit

Farmgirl, for many years didn't want guys younger than her children, but that change in mind " clicked" for her one day a few years ago and she took a lover 40 years younger than herself.
It also allowed her to teach and mentor him, something she enjoys.

I'm 62 and my sweetie is 27 so I guess in a way we're doing the age thing within ourselves. She tends to go for younger men around her age. For her 18 or 19 is just too young for her and they are just too impatient, but the 25 and older men are just right for her...and of course the occasional 62 year old, too. lol

My wife was 44 when she started hotwifing. Even at that age she could rock a bikini so she had no trouble attracting men. After a year she had been with five guys, all a bit younger than her. Then she started dating a young black athlete aged 23 (recently graduated major college basketball player). She was reluctant at first to have sex with a man young enough to be her son. He was incredibly patient, and courted her for months, until finally she gave in and gave him what he wanted -- an older, white married woman. He became her favorite.

My wife never gave a damn about age (She was 53 when we got into it.) If he turned her on, he got a chance to play with her.

My wife Brenda is 56 and her bbc bf is 29
her gf Abby is 35
her co-worker Wendy is 42
her rich guy is 63
her bi-swinger couple is m 49 f 46
transgender is 27
This is her current list. Is is currently talking with a guy that has her interest peaked..... Fireman is his job. From pics this guy is very good looking and has been a bull for many couples.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 12:05 am

Leggysandy has always been attracted to older men. Her criteria until now have stipulated that guys have to be >= her own age, despite my urging her to try some younger bucks. She seems to be warming up to those younger men now, though. Turning 40 may have changed her perspective a bit

Reckon she's similar to my wife in certain ways, but mine was not averse to someone younger, just not too "in his 20's young". BTW checked out her pics.... SEXY AF !

snoogaloo82 wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 7:11 am

I'm 62 and my sweetie is 27 so I guess in a way we're doing the age thing within ourselves. She tends to go for younger men around her age. For her 18 or 19 is just too young for her and they are just too impatient, but the 25 and older men are just right for her...and of course the occasional 62 year old, too. lol

haha wow! I feel mines now warming up to the idea of someone as young as 26, they chatted and she's asked me to give her TG id next time he messaged so reckon that's a good start now its up to the guy not to shoot himself in the foot! However even in young like we like them to be mature and patient

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 7:23 am

My wife was 44 when she started hotwifing. Even at that age she could rock a bikini so she had no trouble attracting men. After a year she had been with five guys, all a bit younger than her. Then she started dating a young black athlete aged 23 (recently graduated major college basketball player). She was reluctant at first to have sex with a man young enough to be her son. He was incredibly patient, and courted her for months, until finally she gave in and gave him what he wanted -- an older, white married woman. He became her favorite.

This sounds kinda similar to us she started when she was 40. I would be happy if she connects with someone in late 20's to explore n see how it goes. She's agreed to chat with a 26 yr old one on one on her TG ID (she chatted with him on my TG ID when they chatted the one time) Excited to see where this is headed

NC-hotwife-hubby wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 12:10 pm

My wife Brenda is 56 and her bbc bf is 29
her gf Abby is 35
her co-worker Wendy is 42
her rich guy is 63
her bi-swinger couple is m 49 f 46
transgender is 27
This is her current list. Is is currently talking with a guy that has her interest peaked..... Fireman is his job. From pics this guy is very good looking and has been a bull for many couples.

She's proved age is truly no bar!!

leo-cpl wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 9:59 pm

snoogaloo82 wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 7:11 am

I'm 62 and my sweetie is 27 so I guess in a way we're doing the age thing within ourselves. She tends to go for younger men around her age. For her 18 or 19 is just too young for her and they are just too impatient, but the 25 and older men are just right for her...and of course the occasional 62 year old, too. lol

haha wow! I feel mines now warming up to the idea of someone as young as 26, they chatted and she's asked me to give her TG id next time he messaged so reckon that's a good start now its up to the guy not to shoot himself in the foot! However even in young like we like them to be mature and patient

And that is what my sweetie is, mature and patient, as well as kind and caring. I hope he doesn't shoot himself in the foot! lol

leo-cpl wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 10:02 pm

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 29, 2024 7:23 am

My wife was 44 when she started hotwifing. Even at that age she could rock a bikini so she had no trouble attracting men. After a year she had been with five guys, all a bit younger than her. Then she started dating a young black athlete aged 23 (recently graduated major college basketball player). She was reluctant at first to have sex with a man young enough to be her son. He was incredibly patient, and courted her for months, until finally she gave in and gave him what he wanted -- an older, white married woman. He became her favorite.

This sounds kinda similar to us she started when she was 40. I would be happy if she connects with someone in late 20's to explore n see how it goes. She's agreed to chat with a 26 yr old one on one on her TG ID (she chatted with him on my TG ID when they chatted the one time) Excited to see where this is headed

Every older woman deserves a boy toy.

So there's an update....she chatted with this guy on her TG ID, they ended up chatting quite a lot generally mixed with minor flirting. At the end all she told me she had doubts about the guy being a good fit and I asked her why so .....she didn't have any concrete reason. All she said was he is too fit and she feels she may be very conscious.

Is this something that's a deal breaker for Hotwives??? even when the guy expresses that he find them hot n sexy???

We left it at chat n explore, its just too early to decide and we can meet casually for a drink n see how it goes.