Our Hotwives

Being in the LS for years, it seems play partners tend to come and go (no pun intended). In other words, these relationships tend to have a limited lifespan. What's the longest relationship your hotwife has had?

30 yrs here.

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 11, 2024 8:08 pm

30 yrs here.

Wow, thats a lifetime of it. How come you guys could keep it this long?

My wife entered into a relationship just before Covid. It continues on and off to this day.

My answer was over 10 years but that's not a clear answer. She has had relationships from every category on your list. She mostly preferred one and done. She's a fanatic for variety. However, she has had longer. Right now her longest is 26 years. Her second is 10 years. Those are the two longest. The others were a couple of hours to a couple of years.

Bridget_Joshua wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 12, 2024 1:47 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 11, 2024 8:08 pm

30 yrs here.

Wow, thats a lifetime of it. How come you guys could keep it this long?

Does it make it a poli-relationship?

Susan had an on/off relationship with her first love (who was also a good friend of mine) for more than 30 years.

When we started out quite a number of years ago, we used to go for "one and done" experiences, or at the most, two or three rimes with the same guy. With the AIDS scare, plus other concerns, we decided over a decade ago that it was much safer for her to find an fb (or two) who was married or in a long term relationship and who played with his wife's (or girlfriend's) knowledge and permission. It cut down on her opportunities but we have felt safer. She has now had the same two fbs for over ten years.

My wife has had a few long term bulls. One was for about 3 years. And another is a current bull that has been fucking her for 4 years

If you're only looking for longest duration, then my wife's sort-of ex boyfriend tops the list...they have been seeing each other for over 15 years. At one time they were hot and heavy, but now it's cooled off to a good friendship with sex every once in a while.

2nd on the list is her current lover - they've been together for 11 years. And yes, the lover and the ex-bf overlapped in time.

In the past, she'd keep a group of 3 to 5 men, and the members of the group slowly changed over time. About 6 months was the longest for any one man, although a few of them lasted longer. The lover and the ex-bf both came out of that group.

And sprinkled over all that time were a few one-night stands.

My wife has had two that lasted 2-3 years. One of them, I really wish it had lasted the rest of our lives. The guy is great, a lot of fun in bed for her, and all around good person. He enjoyed sex with her, and she with him. Of all her lovers, she says he has been the best. Sadly, he wanted to get a girlfriend and did, and that was the end of that. My wife is still in touch with him every now and then. Maybe in the future, but he lives three+ hours away now, so not a convenient distance.

Very surprised at the answeres thus far - Didn't think there would be so many long term partners! Love it!

I selected more than 10 years because my wife has had an on and off relationship with an ex-boyfriend from her school days. He’s not very reliable and he often goes months without contacting her and sometimes over a year between meeting up, usually in bed at our house or his flat.

I tell her that he’s taking advantage of her by only contacting her when it suits him and she agrees, but says she likes him and likes having sex with him so is happy to go along with it. A few years ago when we were talking about him she told me that they had been seeing each other for so long that it would have been nice to have had his baby some time and I’m pretty sure she meant it.

She likes a proper relationship, not casual sex so, other than him, her boyfriends tend to last at least a few months.

After many partners at parties and at home, we gravitated to a LTR with a physical trainer who loves to do MFMs with us. We are in our 7th year.
They are good because they allow fond feelings to grow and everyone to learn what kind of love making feels the best. Actually, highly recommended.

Bridget_Joshua wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 12, 2024 1:47 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 11, 2024 8:08 pm

30 yrs here.

Wow, thats a lifetime of it. How come you guys could keep it this long?

He is a single man, never been married and doesn’t want to be. He’s always been a part of our lives, so our daughter always knew him as mommy’s best friend and that is how my family knows him. None of them know we have sexual relations. My husband works a lot, so him and I don’t get to do alot together. So I do them with my lover, like concerts, movies, he even comes to family things. and no one suspects a thing. So I am lucky. We’ve. We. Married 36 years our daughter is 34 now and has two kids 10 and 9 and they always know him as mammys best friend!

16 years on and off. They fucked twice a week in the beginning then dwindled down to once a quarter now.

Natatude wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 13, 2024 7:24 pm

Bridget_Joshua wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 12, 2024 1:47 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 11, 2024 8:08 pm

30 yrs here.

Wow, thats a lifetime of it. How come you guys could keep it this long?

He is a single man, never been married and doesn’t want to be. He’s always been a part of our lives, so our daughter always knew him as mommy’s best friend and that is how my family knows him. None of them know we have sexual relations. My husband works a lot, so him and I don’t get to do alot together. So I do them with my lover, like concerts, movies, he even comes to family things. and no one suspects a thing. So I am lucky. We’ve. We. Married 36 years our daughter is 34 now and has two kids 10 and 9 and they always know him as mammys best friend!

N
- Both your marriage and your Lover, those are pretty impressive years these days. My hat's off to you, all of you.
- So lots of solo public times together is/was there PDA? I assume not around family though. With your husband away or working so much, did your and you do things with your daughter? School things, sports etc?

More than 10 years with an amazing hotwife and her husband until they moved out of state. It has been 7 years since I last saw them but we are still planning on reconnecting when they visit again. I can't wait!

Sean and Jennifer here.

Our was around 4 &1/2 years. We had two regulars, Kevin and Robert who joined in our play time over those four plus years. It was one or both who joined us a few times per week. We figure that she was fucked nearly 600 times by them.

We met Colin when we had been together for a week or two. We answered his ad in a local paper, in the days before internet dating.

He was shagging Becky within 30 minutes of meeting and it continued for 10-15 years.

We still see him now, although they don't have sex anymore.

35 years (minus a 3 year break because of COVID).
But add on a minimum of a year and a half admitted to, as a secret affair, prior to me finding out. But I suspect it was probably more like 3 years.
So, maybe spread over 38 years.

She prefers someone she knows and can trust.
I've encouraged 'one offs', but she was never keen.
She had her fair share of 'one offs' and intermittents in our early days (as did I).

Her best riend was her first sexpartner so that would sum up to roughly 25 years.

Asking for male playpartners the longest period is about 5-6 years. That is also the time we are into i.
He is not her main playmate anymore as we moved quite far away - occasional visits happen from time to time though.

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 14, 2024 6:16 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 13, 2024 7:24 pm

Bridget_Joshua wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 12, 2024 1:47 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 11, 2024 8:08 pm

30 yrs here.

Wow, thats a lifetime of it. How come you guys could keep it this long?

He is a single man, never been married and doesn’t want to be. He’s always been a part of our lives, so our daughter always knew him as mommy’s best friend and that is how my family knows him. None of them know we have sexual relations. My husband works a lot, so him and I don’t get to do alot together. So I do them with my lover, like concerts, movies, he even comes to family things. and no one suspects a thing. So I am lucky. We’ve. We. Married 36 years our daughter is 34 now and has two kids 10 and 9 and they always know him as mammys best friend!

N
- Both your marriage and your Lover, those are pretty impressive years these days. My hat's off to you, all of you.
- So lots of solo public times together is/was there PDA? I assume not around family though. With your husband away or working so much, did your and you do things with your daughter? School things, sports etc?

Sorry I was out of town till last night.
It depends on the event we go to if there is any PDA. As we both live near Pittsburgh, him being 45 minutes from us in PA. I am from a small area so if we are going so say a Luke Bryan concert we would have no PDA but when we go on a cruise or away from home vacay we do. If that makes sense.
Yes, our daughter and our grand children know him as my best friend. We give each other a hug and a peck on the lips and say good night I love you! Watch the deer! When he leaves lol that is the norm for us. He’s been to our daughter graduations and wedding. And picnics and all my family things at my parents.

Natatude wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 20, 2024 1:04 pm

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 14, 2024 6:16 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 13, 2024 7:24 pm

Bridget_Joshua wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 12, 2024 1:47 am

Wow, thats a lifetime of it. How come you guys could keep it this long?

He is a single man, never been married and doesn’t want to be. He’s always been a part of our lives, so our daughter always knew him as mommy’s best friend and that is how my family knows him. None of them know we have sexual relations. My husband works a lot, so him and I don’t get to do alot together. So I do them with my lover, like concerts, movies, he even comes to family things. and no one suspects a thing. So I am lucky. We’ve. We. Married 36 years our daughter is 34 now and has two kids 10 and 9 and they always know him as mammys best friend!

N
- Both your marriage and your Lover, those are pretty impressive years these days. My hat's off to you, all of you.
- So lots of solo public times together is/was there PDA? I assume not around family though. With your husband away or working so much, did your and you do things with your daughter? School things, sports etc?

Sorry I was out of town till last night.
It depends on the event we go to if there is any PDA. As we both live near Pittsburgh, him being 45 minutes from us in PA. I am from a small area so if we are going so say a Luke Bryan concert we would have no PDA but when we go on a cruise or away from home vacay we do. If that makes sense.
Yes, our daughter and our grand children know him as my best friend. We give each other a hug and a peck on the lips and say good night I love you! Watch the deer! When he leaves lol that is the norm for us. He’s been to our daughter graduations and wedding. And picnics and all my family things at my parents.

N
- All I can say is awesome and I hope many more years.

Thanks so much!