My wife’s partner wants to eat her ass out

[Hillcountry66]

My wife’s partner wants to eat her ass out. Very rare that I ate her pussy out but her partner seemed to eat her pussy out every time and now my wife is comfortable and enjoys her pussy being eaten. Her partner asked if he could eat her ass out. Is there any chance that while eaten her ass out he will want to penetrate her anally? I didn’t want him to and wife doesn’t think that he will. Not sure how this foreplay usually plays out?

[Watchinu69]

It doesn't always lead to anal, but he may want that... let your wife enjoy anal with her BF if she wants too- you want her happy right?

[Treat yourself girl]

Can't believe you rarely eat her pussy. My gal fucking demands it and I can't get enough of it!!!

[Whiskey]

He’s going to want to do everything he can. Anal, count on it.

[Hillcountry66]

Treat yourself. Mind giving me some pointers how to eat a pussy that’ll have her gushing? And how long do you work on it?

[BT2]

I agree with Whiskey. He will want anal. Some hotwives like it. Some don't. If you don't want him to, then talk it over with your wife and have her agree that ANY anal play is not in the cards. She doesn't have to be moralistic about it, simply say no because it is embarrassing, uncomfortable, and most times hurts. If he still persists, he is not much of a lover.

[airhorn]

My wife’s partner wants to eat her ass out. Very rare that I ate her pussy out but her partner seemed to eat her pussy out every time and now my wife is comfortable and enjoys her pussy being eaten. Her partner asked if he could eat her ass out. Is there any chance that while eaten her ass out he will want to penetrate her anally? I didn’t want him to and wife doesn’t think that he will. Not sure how this foreplay usually plays out?

I expect that if he wants to eat her ass out, he will be at least willing, probably interested in, and likely want to fuck her ass.

This does not mean that he would try, demand, or possibly not even ask to do so.

[Her number1]

My wife’s partner wants to eat her ass out. Very rare that I ate her pussy out but her partner seemed to eat her pussy out every time and now my wife is comfortable and enjoys her pussy being eaten. Her partner asked if he could eat her ass out. Is there any chance that while eaten her ass out he will want to penetrate her anally? I didn’t want him to and wife doesn’t think that he will. Not sure how this foreplay usually plays out?

I guess, more importantly, why are you not wanting her to try anal with another guy?

[Hillcountry66]

Her number. Do you think I should just let it play out? Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner? We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts. I don’t want there to be a certain bond if it’s going to go further then sex if that truly does happen with anal sex.

[sana9889]

Her number. Do you think I should just let it play out? Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner? We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts. I don’t want there to be a certain bond if it’s going to go further then sex if that truly does happen with anal sex.

It most definitely bonds them. Wouldn't be surprising if they become exclusive.

[trecital]

It most definitely bonds them. Wouldn't be surprising if they become exclusive.

Why would they become exclusive? Your statement doesn't make sense.

[trecital]

Her number. Do you think I should just let it play out? Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner? We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts. I don’t want there to be a certain bond if it’s going to go further then sex if that truly does happen with anal sex.

"Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner?" Why should it?

"We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts." If it hurts with you, then it is likely it will hurt with him. Unless he's got a tiny dick.

"....if that truly does happen with anal sex." No, it doesn't 'truly happen', just because it's anal sex. Why would it?

[sana9889]

Her number. Do you think I should just let it play out? Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner? We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts. I don’t want there to be a certain bond if it’s going to go further then sex if that truly does happen with anal sex.

"Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner?" Why should it?

"We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts." If it hurts with you, then it is likely it will hurt with him. Unless he's got a tiny dick.

"....if that truly does happen with anal sex." No, it doesn't 'truly happen', just because it's anal sex. Why would it?

Women are submissive to accept sex in general. She will need to be more.submissive for anal. Esp if she is doing it because she wants it.

Women aren't submissive to just any guy. They want to be for only certain men.

[slenderfish]

Her number. Do you think I should just let it play out? Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner? We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts. I don’t want there to be a certain bond if it’s going to go further then sex if that truly does happen with anal sex.

Is this a newer or a long-term lover? I am assuming this is more of a newer relationship, merely because of the question.

It seems to me that over time, these kinds of things work themselves out. So you are in the process of working it out.

When it's all said and done, why are you and your wife in this lifestyle to begin with? I'm assuming it's for her pleasure as well as yours, that you both get something out of it. If she develops a desire and decides to proceed with a bit of anal play, that should be a good thing for her and for you.

Look, you've already committed to the fetish of her enjoyment so your concern seems to be more about your ego or your control. But you can merely add this to your fetish/enjoyment if you just wrap your head around it in that way. Ultimately your wife will likely appreciate your support and it will strengthen your bond with her.

[trecital]

Women are submissive to accept sex in general. She will need to be more.submissive for anal. Esp if she is doing it because she wants it.

Women aren't submissive to just any guy. They want to be for only certain men.

What a lot of nonsense.....

[slenderfish]

Women are submissive to accept sex in general. She will need to be more.submissive for anal. Esp if she is doing it because she wants it.

Women aren't submissive to just any guy. They want to be for only certain men.

What a lot of nonsense.....

Let's not hijack.

Those of us on this site know that there are alpha men and middle=ground men and submissive men. Same for women. Some women are submissive. It's not a stretch to postulate that a woman who is drawn to an alpha man may tend to be a submissive type. Still, making broad statements about all women or all men will certainly not be accurate.

[trecital]

Women are submissive to accept sex in general. She will need to be more.submissive for anal. Esp if she is doing it because she wants it.

Women aren't submissive to just any guy. They want to be for only certain men.

What a lot of nonsense.....

Let's not hijack.

Those of us on this site know that there are alpha men and middle=ground men and submissive men. Same for women. Some women are submissive. It's not a stretch to postulate that a woman who is drawn to an alpha man may tend to be a submissive type. Still, making broad statements about all women or all men will certainly not be accurate.

" It's not a stretch to postulate that a woman who is drawn to an alpha man may tend to be a submissive type."
Equally, it's not a stretch to claim the exact opposite. Or any statement in between.

The person I was responding to has a habit of making broad statements about what 'women' do, or what 'men' do, or don't do, etc. And nothing to back up these statements. Hence me calling it out as nonsense.
I don't mind people saying things like "in my experience", or "I would suggest", or similarly couched statements. I just get bored of reading personal opinions presented as 'universal truths'.

[sana9889]

Women are submissive to accept sex in general. She will need to be more.submissive for anal. Esp if she is doing it because she wants it.

Women aren't submissive to just any guy. They want to be for only certain men.

What a lot of nonsense.....

Let's not hijack.

Those of us on this site know that there are alpha men and middle=ground men and submissive men. Same for women. Some women are submissive. It's not a stretch to postulate that a woman who is drawn to an alpha man may tend to be a submissive type. Still, making broad statements about all women or all men will certainly not be accurate.

" It's not a stretch to postulate that a woman who is drawn to an alpha man may tend to be a submissive type."
Equally, it's not a stretch to claim the exact opposite. Or any statement in between.

The person I was responding to has a habit of making broad statements about what 'women' do, or what 'men' do, or don't do, etc. And nothing to back up these statements. Hence me calling it out as nonsense.
I don't mind people saying things like "in my experience", or "I would suggest", or similarly couched statements. I just get bored of reading personal opinions presented as 'universal truths'.

Women are naturally submissive. There are few exceptions. Stronger women will submit to stronger men.

Being penetrated, and allowing access to your body is submission.

[trecital]

Women are not "naturally submissive".
Where is your evidence for them being "naturally submissive"?
Personally, I find your statement to be insulting to women.

"Stronger women will submit to stronger men". How so? Physically? Mentally? Either way, that statement is just not true.

"Being penetrated, and allowing access to your body is submission". Complete nonsense. Where do you get these crazy ideas?

These are just your personal thoughts and opinions, that you then try and claim, with no evidence whatsoever, that they are 'universal truths'.

[Her number1]

Women are naturally submissive. There are few exceptions. Stronger women will submit to stronger men.

Being penetrated, and allowing access to your body is submission.

That right there, bag it up and take it to town! It's all horse shit, but then, people will pay for fertilizer.

[OZCPL]

Maybe the question of submissiveness should be debated in the BDSM forum

[slenderfish]

And so the hijack did occur. It's okay, we all have opinions.

I'll try to bring it back.

When my wife (SW) chose her guy (Mr. S) he told her from the beginning that he is an "ass guy" and it is just so happens that SW sports a fabulous tight ass.

And of course I'm an ass guy. SW would naturally attract one, so that's also not any surprise. We did go through an anal phase and she was patient and did like it at first, even having orgasms while riding me inside of her ass. Over time, I suppose I was just too into it and she understandably requested a break from it. I think she was wanting to put it back in the category of it being an exception reserved for unusual and special times.

All good by me, and of course I accommodated her request. No choice, really.

Some years passed and our ongoing adventure brought us to hotwifing. And she chose Mr. S. After she shared with me that he had indicated he wanted her ass, I also had mixed feelings. We'd been on this break from anal going for a few years (denial?) and here she was with this new guy and was clearly considering anal with him. Why would she otherwise bring it up?

In the aftermath, during our reclaiming sessions, she never offered up that she'd given him her ass. Until one day, when she was quite tipsy and we were having a private sex session, I asked her to retell the story of being fucked by Mr. S and I further commented about the special day when she was comfortable enough with him to go bareback. She smiled and I suddenly got the impression it was an opportunity to ask about the anal. She replied in her sloppy way, that "of course, I told you he's an ass guy" or similar. But the next day, when recovered, she recanted. And she still avoids the topic.

I'll never really know, but it's tantalizing to think that she did. She was deep in the NRE and I really do believe she would have done it.

On reflection, I do hope for her sake, and for his sake, that it happened. He would have a lovely memory, her rocking his world, etc. And me, a reflection that she was so turned on by him and into it, that she broke her own rule and gave it to him. Just a yummy concept, that I love to think on.

[Her number1]

And so the hijack did occur. It's okay, we all have opinions.

I'll try to bring it back.

Your "highjack" is another's discussion.

[Her number1]

Her number. Do you think I should just let it play out? Does anal make her have a submissive bond with her partner? We don’t have anal sex because she says it hurts. I don’t want there to be a certain bond if it’s going to go further then sex if that truly does happen with anal sex.

Personally, I would let her enjoy herself with whatever type of sex she likes, or wants to try.
Farmgirl has always preferred lovers and grew to want boyfriends. They are no threat to our relationship even while she has fluid bonded with several over the years. She absolutely loves anal, but the bonding for her comes from her body absorbing the sperm/etc. of her lovers whether by anal or vaginal. She says, " My body absorbs thier DNA ", that's how she looks at it.
I know she is mine, so I have no problem with her semen bonding with her boyfriend, in fact, I like it for her, and for us.
I can see no difference between vaginal and anal for any bonding by your wife. If your bond isn't the strongest, hotwifing isn't for you. It's all about trust in one another.
I fear you doubt that trust?

[mychubbyhotwife]

Your wifes partner is warming her up to fucking her ass.