How to serve my ex ?

[hfinglas]

I’m a 52-year-old man. I was close friends with a woman (now my ex) for a year before we became a couple for a few months. Eventually, we ended the romantic relationship at her request and returned to being friends.

During our relationship, I valued my independence and wasn’t always fully available, which caused some tension. I was also going through a stressful period at work and, in an effort to be honest with her, I turned down a casual relationship with someone else. This might have affected my ability to fully commit to our relationship, and I sometimes felt emotionally distant. Ultimately, we mutually decided to break up and remain friends.

While we were together, I sometimes took on a more “macho” role, but since she’s a strong, confident woman, I think neither of us took it very seriously. She was assertive sexually, often being quite dominant, while I enjoyed focusing on pleasing her. However, during our time together, we didn’t engage in penetrative sex.

Now that we’re friends again, she remains a strong presence in my life, and I’ve realized I’d like to explore a different dynamic with her. Specifically, I would love to serve her—both emotionally and physically—as her submissive. I would love for her to call on me whenever she wants and allow me to please and serve her. I think she might enjoy exploring this side of herself, as she’s creative, strong, and independent, though she hasn’t shown interest in online kink communities and seems more “vanilla.” However, I believe she’s open-minded and curious.

My question: How can I approach her about exploring this dynamic, either directly or indirectly, and suggest that I become her submissive?

[trecital]

I'd just straight out suggest it to her.

Having said that, I'm not quite sure why you are asking this question on a Hot Wife forum. The answers you'll get are going to be biased towards certain lifestyle ideas and opinions. And therefore possibly not very balanced.

[Cdncuck]

Why not state it just as you have below? It's short, to the point and clearly states what you want.

Now that we’re friends again, she remains a strong presence in my life, and I’ve realized I’d like to explore a different dynamic with her. Specifically, I would love to serve her—both emotionally and physically—as her submissive. I would love for her to call on me whenever she wants and allow me to please and serve her. I think she might enjoy exploring this side of herself, as she’s creative, strong, and independent, though she hasn’t shown interest in online kink communities and seems more “vanilla.” However, I believe she’s open-minded and

[venus-can99]

Agre with cdncucuck…. If she is smart, open minded, creative and honest she will probably let you know whether you are “worthy” of her or not.
The question is what happens if she rejects your “offer” ? Can you still remain friends?