Our Hotwives

The frequency varies, of course, depending on many variables such as busy schedules and boyfriends who come and go. But, on average, what would you estimate the number to be? If none of the categories fit, then give details in your post. If you are a wannabe, then vote on what you think you would prefer.

For the twenty five years it went on our friend would come over for a night of frolic two to four times a year. Usually three times a year. He’d come over lots when there was no sex involved. We were and are friends.

Almost every day.

My wife's boyfriend has moved in with us and fucks her in the morning before heading off to work and then at night when we go to bed together. Every Saturday night we attend a swingers' party with our group of five other couples and she usually gets fucked by at least three of the other husbands during the party.

The wife doesn't like or need a BF. she prefers a friend that she happens to sleep with. This leads to generally traveling overnight a few times a year. When she had a regular it was once a month.

My simple answer to this question is, I wish it was more often.

My wife often enjoys vacationing with a lover. While on vacation together, they will typically have sex every day.

Depending on schedules, it can be anywhere from every other week to a few times a week.
If Farmgirl had it completely her way, it would be every day.

We're older now and her sex life and our sex life is considerably slowed down. She has a couple of guys she sees when it happens. When she was 19 she started working in a bar. She had plenty of options and was usually playing two to four times a week. She was extremely active.

My answer would be not enough

About once a month, give or take. Sometimes I wish it was more often but all things considered, it's probably about the right pace for us. Keeps it fresh and hot. I'd hate to wear it out and become mundane.

Its a question of opportunity and mood, there's no fixed frequency here. We have work n family commitments but if I had to avg it in a year around 10-14 times. Most frequent twice in 2 days( different guys) on two different occasions

Before she had a steady boyfriend, it was a few times a year. Now that she’s in a relationship, she sees him at least once a week, and often several times.

When we first start a few months ago it was a couple times a month. Now we have a very regular bull. They are together 4-5 nights a week now.

My wife is long time retired now so I based my selection on her most promiscuous period. She was at her peak when I was working overseas and she was dating several guys. She was getting fucked maybe 2 or three nights a week and not necessarily with the same guy, with me being away she exploited her freedom to the full, with my permission of course.

My wife is a hotwife. She for the past several years limited herself to two regular fbs, and she has sex with one or the other of them "a few times a year". It usually happens when one of us, usually me, is feeling particularly turned on - so maybe half a dozen times a year, at most. With us it is a special recreational sex thing rather than a regular lifestyle thing.

We have been in this lifestyle for almost 20 years. There have been some dry spells do to regular life getting in the way. There have been times where she has had 4 or 5 guys on rotation...and she was getting fucked several times a week. She has also had long term bfs that she saw weekly. It ebs and flows

I chose daily, which is pretty close. She probably gets fucked 345 days out of a year. She has one "boyfriend" that stays the night a lot and lives 6 miles from us. She also has three local fuckbuddies in their 40s and 50s that are married but their wives won't fuck anymore, so Lisa is their "stunt pussy" (her term, not mine) for when they just need to fuck and cum in a willing pussy. Four horny men can keep a cuckold wife busy, so while she has a rare occasional day where she doesn't get fucked, she has lots and lots of days where she gets fucked more than once.

sana9889 wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 26, 2024 4:19 pm

Almost every day.

I assume you are speaking for yourself. How often is it a new guy (or girl)?

We have been playing over 25 years and frequency has varied. From breaks of months to multiple times a week to even multiple different times a day.

Wifewithothers wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 19, 2024 9:45 pm

We have been playing over 25 years and frequency has varied. From breaks of months to multiple times a week to even multiple different times a day.

For most of the year it was just my bf.

I've started hooking up outside our relationship. My pussy needed some extra attention this month. My bf still gets my ass almost every other day.
So had a different guy every week this month. Saw one guy twice.

No set schedule. Can happen 3 times a month, then go 3-6months with no contact or desire. Now she is 75,, the frequency is reduced but not lost. She has gone more than a year twice, then 3 guys in a few weeks

TO

She moved in with him last July. She gave birth to his baby August 11 and now she’s pregnant again with baby. That’s the reason I checked daily.

sissy pauline

This question aims at a moving target for my wife. The grand tendency has been for the frequency to increase over the roughly nine years we've been at it. Also, in each of those years, I've discerned a pattern of seasonality with it. It waxes in light and warmth and wanes in dark and chill. Right now, little more than three weeks from Solstice, she's weekly. At the other Solstice last June, she embbed up to twice or more. These 2024 frequencies are maybe triple her activity as a newbie.