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2 boyfriends

Unread post by Flcuck4herand » Tue Nov 05, 2024 8:06 am

My hotwife is currently seeking a new boyfriend and there are 2 we're talking to and both seem to fit what she is looking for. One would only be available once in a while and the other more often. My question for a hotwife is if she takes both as boyfriends does she tell them she is having 2 or is it just none of their business? We aren't new to the LS but not real experienced either. How would you handle it?

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by BT2 » Tue Nov 05, 2024 9:58 am

My wife has had two regular fbs for over a decade. She sees each two to four times each year. They are both terrific people who enjoy lovemaking, are respectful of her, etc. As far as my wife or I know, they don't know of each other.

So yes, if your wife and you are o.k. with her having two lovers, and the expectations of frequency are manageable with all concerned, I can see no reason why she can't enjoy them both. After all, it is recreational sex - she is not looking for a regular affair and neither are the two men she is corresponding with.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by ugcp » Tue Nov 05, 2024 10:28 am

I think it depends on the nature of their relationship(s) and established expectations. For example, if they are more casual, sex-focused connections, in which she and the boyfriend(s) don't really discuss other life details, then there may not be a reason to share. However, if she is the type to connect on a bit deeper level, such that it requires effort to "hide" the other relationship, then it would probably be better to be open rather than fumbling with untruths and partial truths (which can erode the integrity of the relationship over time).

Additionally, I'm of the belief that it is ethically required to let any fluid-bonded partner (ie no comdoms) be aware of any other fluid-bonded connections that might be going on. For example, if I'm sleeping with a hotwife, I would assume she is fluid-bonded with her husband, but before she and I would stop using condoms I would expect to know if she is also not using condoms with other men (and if her husband is doing the same with other partners), that way I can decide if I truly want to go condomless. And I would obviously be open with her for my current sexual partners too.

Bryce 69
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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Bryce 69 » Tue Nov 05, 2024 11:34 am

I tell my Bulls I am not exclusive
if your not involved MfM with them they do not need to meet

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Cdncuck » Tue Nov 05, 2024 1:26 pm

My wife had multiple boyfriends. She made it plain she wasn't exclusive with anyone. She didn't make a big deal about it but she was open about it. Some guys weren't happy about. They got their walking papers.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by little sissy Benita » Thu Nov 07, 2024 10:10 am

My mommy (former wife) is living with her african bf as married couple and she have 2 close friends from the african family

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Natatude » Thu Nov 07, 2024 6:21 pm

I have 2 regular ones, they do know about each other. One is just for sex, the other is a very long term lover and I do everything with him, from concerts to vacations.
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namitha157
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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by namitha157 » Thu Nov 07, 2024 9:15 pm

What would the emotional effect be? Is it possible to be in love with both of them?

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Natatude » Sun Nov 10, 2024 6:34 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Thu Nov 07, 2024 9:15 pm
What would the emotional effect be? Is it possible to be in love with both of them?
I love both of mine in different ways. If that makes sense. One is 46 and I live him. but none of his family know about me so it has boundaries. My other is if 30 years. He gets special treatment.
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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by bowlerlb » Sun Nov 10, 2024 7:02 pm

It is normal for a hotwife to have more than 1 BF.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by namitha157 » Sun Nov 10, 2024 9:13 pm

Natatude wrote:
Sun Nov 10, 2024 6:34 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Thu Nov 07, 2024 9:15 pm
What would the emotional effect be? Is it possible to be in love with both of them?
I love both of mine in different ways. If that makes sense. One is 46 and I live him. but none of his family know about me so it has boundaries. My other is if 30 years. He gets special treatment.
This is really interesting.
Not sure if i am wired to love two men like this.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Natatude » Wed Nov 13, 2024 7:19 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Sun Nov 10, 2024 9:13 pm
Natatude wrote:
Sun Nov 10, 2024 6:34 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Thu Nov 07, 2024 9:15 pm
What would the emotional effect be? Is it possible to be in love with both of them?
I love both of mine in different ways. If that makes sense. One is 46 and I live him. but none of his family know about me so it has boundaries. My other is if 30 years. He gets special treatment.
This is really interesting.
Not sure if i am wired to love two men like this.
I never thought I could either, however it’s happened and I love my husband more than anything. I have enough to go around.
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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by namitha157 » Thu Nov 14, 2024 3:30 pm

Natatude wrote:
Wed Nov 13, 2024 7:19 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sun Nov 10, 2024 9:13 pm
Natatude wrote:
Sun Nov 10, 2024 6:34 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Thu Nov 07, 2024 9:15 pm
What would the emotional effect be? Is it possible to be in love with both of them?
I love both of mine in different ways. If that makes sense. One is 46 and I live him. but none of his family know about me so it has boundaries. My other is if 30 years. He gets special treatment.
This is really interesting.
Not sure if i am wired to love two men like this.
I never thought I could either, however it’s happened and I love my husband more than anything. I have enough to go around.
I really want to give this a shot.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Astrid Servel » Fri Nov 15, 2024 11:23 am

The whole point of this scene is that it allows a wife to days as many men as she wishes.
I always say I’m not into just one guy at a time.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Astrid Servel » Fri Nov 15, 2024 11:23 am

The whole point of this scene is that it allows a wife to date as many men as she wishes.
I always say I’m not into just one guy at a time.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by namitha157 » Mon Nov 18, 2024 12:22 pm

Its really nice having two boys desiring you. Giving you attention and making you feel beautiful. Its just, wow!

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by bltn1966 » Mon Nov 18, 2024 12:59 pm

When talking about men, my wife and her HW friend like to say they have “Dick on the shelf “. My wife rarely go out on dates. However, she had 2-3 go to guys she’ll can call up whenever she needs it. She’s not exclusive to only one guy and will never be. Especially after a young guy she thought was a ladies man, fell in love with her.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by namitha157 » Wed Nov 20, 2024 2:32 pm

Maintaining two secret relationships is exhausting emotionally...

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Bryce 69 » Wed Nov 20, 2024 5:50 pm

i have had multiple
Bulls in the same time frame quite a few times
i enjoy being transparent and letting them know other Bulls use me

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Bryce 69 » Wed Nov 20, 2024 5:51 pm

:oops:
why should they care

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Thebestdays1 » Thu Nov 21, 2024 3:06 am

When my wife had boyfriends she'd only have one at a time. However, she cheated on all of them with both men and women and they never knew.
Some of the men she cheated with were aware she had a boyfriend as well as being married but she never wanted her boyfriends to know she was seeing other people too.
With the lovers, it was just sex but with her boyfriends there'd be a connection too and she didn't want to risk losing that. She never told any man that she also liked women and so none of them knew she also had a girlfriend.
She admitted to one boyfriend that she'd sucked off her nephew when she was seeing her previous boyfriend and he became a bit jealous. Unbeknown to me and him at the time, she was still sneaking off to see her nephew occasionally but she stopped when she realised her boyfriend was jealous of him.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Shadnaster » Thu Nov 21, 2024 8:27 am

if he knows she has you, knowing she has another BF shouldn't be a big deal.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by Parsifal » Fri Nov 22, 2024 4:56 pm

My wife has varied situations with her regulars, including me, her most regular of all.

One of her regulars is married. He cheats on his wife. She's quite attractive, I'm told by Gala whose seen photos of her on his phone, and the wife is pregnant with his third child. He's just horny for some strange and, in particular, for older women. She's 17 years his senior, just as I'm 17 hers. She started off with him pretending to be a cheating wife, but eventually she came clean she's a hotwife. He thinks she sees only him. So in a sense, she's cheating on him. She's turned on by the double cheating aspect of it - he's cheating on his wife to fuck my wife; and she's cheating on him by screwing other outside regulars (not just her husband, me). I'm the apex male in her life that knows both sets of lies and cheats that energize her sexually. I benefit by ladling off some of that energy for me.

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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by scarlettscuck » Mon Nov 25, 2024 10:58 pm

Parsifal wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2024 4:56 pm
I'm the apex male in her life that knows both sets of lies and cheats that energize her sexually. I benefit by ladling off some of that energy for me.
Very hot twist of events and relationships. In the end Gala is getting all she needs from her stable lead by the apex male. Perfection.
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Re: 2 boyfriends

Unread post by leander99 » Mon Nov 25, 2024 11:58 pm

Two boyfriends is better as one, it is safer for your marriage. Let them compete.

I think she should simple tell them she might not be "monogamous".
She doesn't need to tell them all the details, but there is not need to lie either.
If they refuse, well that's their loss.

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