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My grandmother, a Pennsylvania Dutch, Would compliment my girlfriends as "Oh! She's fat!" meaning that they were, in her opinion, healthy. In her world skinny people were sick. I had to reassure my girlfriends that it was meant as a compliment.

I have nothing against fit women. I think a strong, shapely, muscular woman is sexy. A six pack on a woman is as sexy to me as I can assume a six pack on a man is sexy to them. And I have nothing against women who are not "fat". I love all shapes and sizes.

What kind of woman do I prefer? A woman who is not "fat" and who is not "skinny". Healthy

As is in all things in life somewhere in the middle is the most comfortable.

I prefer a woman who might be referred to as thick or curvy up to and including some you would consider fat. For my money they are better in bed

A number of years ago I dated a number of women. (My wife was already a hotwife.) I am also a bit smaller (down there) than average. I dated a woman for a couple of years, who was plus size. We really liked each other, had great times together, but the only way we could have intercourse was doggy style. She was too big, and I was too small, to have sex in the missionary position.

As nice as this woman was, I prefer a woman who is a more average size, for practical reasons.

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Fri Nov 08, 2024 1:28 pm

I prefer a woman who might be referred to as thick or curvy up to and including some you would consider fat. For my money they are better in bed

Word...

Although all women can be a lot of fun to have sex with, the greatest obstacle I ever encountered was when a woman's thighs were so big I couldn't enter her missionary. I know that's what doggy is for, but I prefer face to face fucking.

As far as larger women go, as a friend once said about his love for plumper women: "There is more to love!"

Typical soccer mom build, curvy, chesty. I ttink because they typically don't get every guy's attention it turns them on to have someone really into their body. And for me the more she is into it the more I love it.

Typical soccer mom build, curvy, chesty. I think because they typically don't get every guy's attention it turns them on to have someone really into their body. And for me the more she is into it the more I love it.

I am fat and sassy lol I’m 5’9 210lbs. Hubby always says a man wants a woman with some meat in her bones, we are farmers so he always said if your gonna go buy a cow do you want a plump ne if a skinny one? Lol all of my lovers have loved my body. So it makes me feel good! 🥰

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 10, 2024 6:24 pm

I am fat and sassy lol I’m 5’9 210lbs. Hubby always says a man wants a woman with some meat in her bones, we are farmers so he always said if your gonna go buy a cow do you want a plump ne if a skinny one? Lol all of my lovers have loved my body. So it makes me feel good! 🥰

I've always felt that those skinny "model type" women have a kind of attitude that comes off as superior and with obvious vanity. I know that is a generalization that is biased. Still, it makes me feel like they are unapproachable and kind of smug. Many of the women (not all) I've met that are comfortable with their bodies that don't fit societies ideal standards seem to laugh a lot more, are more realistic, are easier to talk to, and simply more fun to be around. I've learned my preference is to be around fun and engaging people. That old saying, "You can't judge a book by its cover", is true. Too many of us, men and women, miss out on the "book" because we're so caught up with the "cover"!

coastalkid wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 11, 2024 9:15 am

Natatude wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 10, 2024 6:24 pm

I am fat and sassy lol I’m 5’9 210lbs. Hubby always says a man wants a woman with some meat in her bones, we are farmers so he always said if your gonna go buy a cow do you want a plump ne if a skinny one? Lol all of my lovers have loved my body. So it makes me feel good! 🥰

I've always felt that those skinny "model type" women have a kind of attitude that comes off as superior and with obvious vanity. I know that is a generalization that is biased. Still, it makes me feel like they are unapproachable and kind of smug. Many of the women (not all) I've met that are comfortable with their bodies that don't fit societies ideal standards seem to laugh a lot more, are more realistic, are easier to talk to, and simply more fun to be around. I've learned my preference is to be around fun and engaging people. That old saying, "You can't judge a book by its cover", is true. Too many of us, men and women, miss out on the "book" because we're so caught up with the "cover"!

Very well said!!

I am an ass man. I love women with big fat asses in tight jeans. I always get a hard-on watching them walk down the street and bend over to pick-up something. Another thing about big-butt women they always have big fat tits which are my second favourite thing abut female bodies

The Flemish painter Peter Paul Rubens had a fetish for abundantly full figured females. Just check out his The Three Graces or The Judgment of Paris.

In Ruben's time, looking well nourished signified wealth and leisure. It was the boney, stringy haired wenches who worked the fields from dawn to dusk and who lost 6 of their 8 live-born children to childhood disease and famine. However, by the late 20th Century, it's the cut physique with six pack abs that signifies the wealth and leisure that allows for hours of hard work in the gym, whereas nowadays it's the hefty damsels who slave long hours in sedentary jobs that can't pay enough for healthy foods or living conditions.

There is a wonderful read by a late 19th Century American philosopher named Thorstein Veblen, called the Theory of the Liesure Class, that puts so much this into perspective! It's no coincidence that my wife's long, beautiful nails have to go as soon as our business demands her presence at the keyboard.