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Hi everyone. I just wanted to share some thoughts.

Firstly I don't like the term bull - I am a friend who enjoys the thrill of being with another man's wife. I would rather describe it as "friends with benefits".

What are the things I find thrilling?:

1. I love the thought that a I can give pleasure to someone's wife.
2. It arouses me that the wife is excited by this.
3. It arouses me that the husband is aroused by this.
4. It arouses me even more if the husband is also made jealous by this.
5. It arouses me if she is the mother of children and is a normal day to day wife. the taboo of this arouses me.
6. It excites me when the husband encourages me to pleasure his wife.
7. It arouses me greatly, to have verbal communications with both wife and husband about this. During foreplay I love to discuss the above. Repeating it and reassuring each other about what's going on.
8. I like asking different questions to the husband for example "hope you don't mind that I will just smell your wife's arse hole". And then getting his approval.

Do any of the stag/cuckold husbands enjoy such verbal interactions?

Best thing is pussy and no strings attached. The husband and wife stay together and you can fuck her with zero financial support. Just lay the pipe and go

For me all of the above + it arouses me leaving my sperm inside his wife both as a way to mark his wife's pussy is now my territory and it arouses me even more if I know they both get aroused by playing with my cum (husband getting an erection from seeing it dripping out of her pussy, him cleaning it up, the wife reaching another orgasm as he cleans her up, husband enjoying sloppy seconds, etc. etc.)

Not to mention that cum helps build true intimacy with the HW and by extension with the couple..

My wife has said her lovers are aroused by the opportunity to replace me between her legs.

yes very arousing longtermhubby

I can't relate to any of the forgoing. I'm not being critical - I just can't relate.

My wife is a hotwife and I have also visited and had sex with other women in the past. I did it because I liked the sex. No feelings of power, dominance, nor anything like that. The fact of whether she was a hotwife, divorced, single, etc. didn't really enter into it. The only exception I made was after the first couple of experiences I stayed away from wives who were cheating.

I should add that my wife also avoids being "the other woman".

indecentproposal1979 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 09, 2024 11:11 pm

Hi everyone. I just wanted to share some thoughts.

Firstly I don't like the term bull - I am a friend who enjoys the thrill of being with another man's wife. I would rather describe it as "friends with benefits".

What are the things I find thrilling?:

1. I love the thought that a I can give pleasure to someone's wife.
2. It arouses me that the wife is excited by this.
3. It arouses me that the husband is aroused by this.
4. It arouses me even more if the husband is also made jealous by this.
5. It arouses me if she is the mother of children and is a normal day to day wife. the taboo of this arouses me.
6. It excites me when the husband encourages me to pleasure his wife.
7. It arouses me greatly, to have verbal communications with both wife and husband about this. During foreplay I love to discuss the above. Repeating it and reassuring each other about what's going on.
8. I like asking different questions to the husband for example "hope you don't mind that I will just smell your wife's arse hole". And then getting his approval.

Do any of the stag/cuckold husbands enjoy such verbal interactions?

Totally agree with all of the above. So good to have hubby there and having him taste his wife's juices on my cock after she has orgasmed. Asking him how good it tastes when he is licking her pussy clean after I have finished in and on her. Discussing his performance with the wife as he does his job knowing that he is cleaning a place his cock is not allowed. All so good.

indecentproposal1979 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 09, 2024 11:11 pm

Hi everyone. I just wanted to share some thoughts.

What are the things I find thrilling?:.....


Do any of the stag/cuckold husbands enjoy such verbal interactions?

If the wife confesses that you pleasure her in ways that her husband never has, is that a turn on for you, knowing that?

MartasBoy wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 10, 2024 5:52 pm

indecentproposal1979 wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 09, 2024 11:11 pm

Hi everyone. I just wanted to share some thoughts.

What are the things I find thrilling?:.....


Do any of the stag/cuckold husbands enjoy such verbal interactions?

If the wife confesses that you pleasure her in ways that her husband never has, is that a turn on for you, knowing that?

it is a great turn on

While I get that a lot of hotwifing, and especially cuckolding, has a fair bit of latent (and sometimes overt) homosexual/homoerotic undertones, I guess I fall too far on the kinsey scale to be into that. But for folks for whom this plays a part, I'm very happy for them.

My interest is entirely on the wife. I respect the husband, of course, and I especially respect their primary relationship, but to be complely honest, I don't give him much thought most of the time, and certainly nothing with any erotic consideration.

I find women that embrace and seek to explore their sexuality to be alluring. A married woman that wants to thumb her nose at societal expectations for women, for marriage, etc is sexy to me. Exploring things with wife that has just freed herself from those shackles (especially if she's curious about trying out my rope shackles :p) is fun and fulfilling.

Beyond that is the enjoyment of giving her satisfaction. I'm not naive... I understand the nuances of NRE, novelty, power dynamics, etc. As a novel, hopefully exciting man, I can provide her something her husband can't. I'm not BETTER than him, per se. If the situation were reversed... if I was the long familiar husband and HE was the fresh, intriguing new guy, then he would likely be able to provide something I couldn't just the same. Really, we're just hacking human sexual psychology to all our mutual benefit.

Tldr: I enjoy my connection with the wife. I want the husband to be happy and enjoy the dynamic, but he isn't my focus and nothing about him adds to the eroticism for me.

The only couple I've ever been with was my SIL and her partner, although I was treated as the cuckold.
My fantasy was for us to include my wife so that I could watch him fuck my wife, as they'd been lovers in the past, each time when I was overseas. And so, in order to get the SIL to agree, I did everything that she told me to do. I loved her and enjoyed being in her arms and so I always enjoyed our times together even when it meant me taking his penis in my mouth whenever he or she wanted me to. Apart from just seeing him fuck my wife, I wanted to experience actually going upstairs to bed with her at the end of the day. I'd been sent by my wife to join her in the morning many times when we stayed with her family, before she was with her partner.as. My wife didn't like that I was always horny in the morning.
I never behaved as a 'bull' in the usual sense but going with the SIL, once she had a partner had the advantage of giving me more creampies to eat.
When we did all eventually start having foursomes I'd always get a buzz leaving my wife downstairs, snuggling up with him and me taking her sister's hand and taking her up to bed. I felt more in love with both women than at any other time.