Do you prefer to watch or to hear about it?

[Massage4Wife72]

Why choose only one. I would think both would be absolutely amazing!!! Waiting and hearing about the detail later adds so much excitement!! The imagination is such a wonderful thing!
Watching provides so many visuals and sounds for one to enjoy!!!

[Deppi]

More often than not I overhear her in another room.
She feels like she can’t open up and be wild when I am around. Feels ashamed at what she does for others. But she has no problem being in another room and being loud if anything she plays it up and becomes louder.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I’ve always preferred to watch and was fortunate to do so hundreds of (maybe 1,000+?) times in her 16.5-year relationship with boyfriend #1.

I’ve seen it all!

Then, she decided she was ready to move on from boyfriend #1 and took on a slightly younger boyfriend #2.

We decided to “cum clean” with him and tell him that I’m aware of their relationship AND that I’m okay with it. He was blown away, of course, but he was immediately defensive and said he wouldn’t be able to handle an MFM threesome. “It’s just not my thing, man. I don’t think I could handle another guy watchin’ my junk. Y’know what I mean?!?”

(“No. I don’t! It’s about her pleasure!)

I knew how much this guy meant for my wife, so I demurred with the “We’ll see!” response.

Well…..Long story short:
It’s been over two years. He plows my wife on weekends and she’s STILL coming home to tell me about it (and happily getting reclaimed).

It’s a different kind of experience, I was telling someone recently, but thrilling in its own way. (When you’ve seen everything, it’s not hard to imagine how it went down at all.) I’m grateful that she comes home wanting me to reclaim her, and there have even been a few occasions when he has finished in her just minutes before she has come home so I can feel some sloppy seconds and more (if she should push me to go down on her before I get to “jump in.”)

It’s been a fun ride, all these years.

I kind of laugh at the clowns who make fun of men who allow their wives to wander. If they’d put their hangups to the side, they’d become hotwife addicts just like the rest of us. In my humble opinion, there is NO sex better than sloppy seconds. It blows my mind every time I’m able to get it. They don’t know what they’re missing!

What a fantastic experience!

We’re in our early-/mid-50s, and we wonder how long our “luck” (in discovering this lifestyle) will last. Hopefully, I’ll be getting sloppy seconds well into our 80s.

Oh well. At least her boyfriend and I will die happy, satisfied men! And she is DEFINITELY a happy, satisfied woman!

[masculinecuck]

I watch/clean

[david29]

I think I would prefer to watch

[Dutchpride7]

The good thing about watching is that you're available for clean up duties, both on her and him. Being wanked off as she tells you the details of what they did together is fun too so I voted for a bit of both.

Like me.

From a Bulls Perspective:
The hotwifes I'm with regularly it was agreed on when making plans with them that hubbie was always there watching & also involved in cleanup of myself and his wife. So I've found it very thrilling & rewarding to make sure the hubbie is always there & participating in what he likes and deserves.
It is an awesome & wonderful thing to be part of when all 3 are involved but not only that all 3 are getting exactly what they want as far as their sexual desires & pleasures satisfied and met. So it becomes as a team that works together as a well oiled machine,performing their tasks to ultimately keep each one satisfied & happy.
Thee only way I prefer to enjoy is All 3 are happy & content. It's a win,win,win,across the board and such a pleasure and joy for me to carry on in this manner. Would not have it any other way!
Cheers to all...

[htwfluver_4]

We have tried all sorts of things. I haven't found one time that her being with other men has failed to turn us both on. I have watched the seduction. From one man to as many as seven men at one time. That is a thrill in itself. I have listened to her as she was being fucked and left the phone on intentionally for me to listen. I have listened as her choice or choices left the phone on without her knowledge for me to hear as she is taken. That was intense as she could be completely herself and let go without any holdups. I have watched her with single men and even with as many as seven men at one time. One of the hottest was when she went out at night then came home early in the morning showing all the signs of a full night of being fucked senseless and was telling the details as I took her back.

[safado]

She fucked around when I was working thousands of miles away. I would only come home two weeks out of every three months.
When I got the job, I coaxed her to flirt with coworkers and go out to bars with single girlfriends. She made a goodbye dinner date with a much younger coworker who was leaving town. That was her first.
She then met a guy at a singles' bar and he became a regular lover. She sent me pictures of how she dressed and then told me in detail what they did in emails and phone calls. It was very hot.

[SammySigns]

After a lot of trial and error, my favorite is when I am at home getting texts and pics and vids.

[A and L 48]

Love to hear her tell me about it, while I'm fucking her slippery pussy. Plus the excitement of waiting for her to get home

[shorebird]

Being right outside the bedroom door listening to them make love is extremely hot!

[SRKnight]

always preferred to hear about it or listen in on a cellphone that has been "accidentally" left on you

[Parsifal]

It's funny how my wife is more turned on making vids for me than by me watching in real time and space. One reason is that live performances are unpredictable, which adds angst. Relatedly, angst from me watching is a distraction. However every time I watch she does reach orgasm.

[windymiller]

Over a period of 30 years i have done all permutations and enjoy all, watching, listening or not being present and giving them time together.

I would like her to take a lover, a man i would never directly meet so would know little if anything about him other than being presented as i have for many years with her cum filled panties to wear afterwards.

It is still easier to get a lover if he assumes that she a married women is simply cheating rather than knowing her 6ft 3 17st alpha dominant husband is aware and approves.

[petej55]

The good thing about watching is that you're available for clean up duties, both on her and him. Being wanked off as she tells you the details of what they did together is fun too so I voted for a bit of both.

there it is! Clean Up Duties!!! Shirley expects Clean up!!!!

[petej55]

It is not allowed to watch since i am in regression into babyhood - but great to hear it

little Benita

Would love to hear more about the Regression!!!! I have performed regression diapered!