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My Mom cheated on my dad. They would argue over it. She even brought guys home and my Dad would stay seated by the TV. The guy at first be uncomfortable walking into our home with my Mom. Then he would come over to take my mom out or just to go in the bedroom with my mom. He would say hi to my Dad and us kids. My Dad would say it's cheaper to keep her than leave her. After the guy would leave my Dad would argue about her lover and her. My Mom would take him into the bedroom to calm him. When they came out my dad was in a good mood. Later on I asked my mom why she did this and she said "Your Dad had a special desire but was ashamed of it." "Once I fed his desire he was calm and happy."

Any idea how your mom met these men? How often did it happen?

I suspect you are not the only second generation cuckold.

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:23 pm

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

How old were you when it started. Or perhaps I should ask how old were you when you realized what was happening?

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:23 pm

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

You had such first experiences and you liked it.

You were able to go and saw her?
Have you talked with her as she was your first adult „audio” and real actress?
it's interesting how you perceived your first sexual experience with a woman compared to what you experienced at home - your mother moans and her sight of her during it.

Could you share more about your experiences?

I find this subject very interesting. I’m always thinking on what made me want a hotwife in the first place, much less having it be the one sexual desire that is always on my mind, more than any others.

I caught my mother fucking a carpenter that was working in the house, when I was about 15 years old. I remember no sexual feelings of any kind. There were no other incidents which I’m certain about but doubt that was the only one. My mother and I have always had a very bad relationship and still do to this day. She is an incredibly domineering woman, I therefore married a woman who is her polar opposite. My wife has been an on and off hotwife for the last eight years, she also had a long term lover many years ago, which she didn’t tell me about until the hotwifing started. I remember when she did tell me, there was zero anger, only intense sexual gratification to the point I ejaculated as she was telling me about her feelings for her lover.

I have absolutely no idea why I truly enjoy my wife being a hotwife, it’s also been very good for our marriage in ways that have nothing to do with sex.

Whiskey wrote: ↑

Sun Dec 29, 2024 9:34 am

I find this subject very interesting. I’m always thinking on what made me want a hotwife in the first place, much less having it be the one sexual desire that is always on my mind, more than any others.

I caught my mother fucking a carpenter that was working in the house, when I was about 15 years old. I remember no sexual feelings of any kind.

Maybe it was just a kind of live pornography viewing.
You were so suprised that it affected your mind. Just jump to your head. Apart from that someone important for you (even bad relationship) was having sex with someone else. Of course not with you but someone not apprtiopate.
You haven’t mentioned what you saw so it is hard to say.
Maybe her moans, maybe a view of the act with them naked.

Mr Mrs Cream

They were naked on the bedroom floor, I immediately left, and she acted like nothing ever happened. I never said anything either.

Who knows what it was that flipped that switch in my head but once it’s on there is no turning it off, I’ve tried several times, it comes back stronger than ever. Thankfully both my wife and I fully embrace hotwifing and it has definitely benefited our marriage.

My parents were swingers. I gradually learned what was taking place as I was old enough to understand.

I hated it. I still resent my father for being interested in other women, I don't think my mother was too enthusiastic about the whole thing.

BrunetteLover wrote: ↑

Wed Jan 01, 2025 3:05 am

My parents were swingers. I gradually learned what was taking place as I was old enough to understand.

I hated it. I still resent my father for being interested in other women, I don't think my mother was too enthusiastic about the whole thing.

I can imagine that it was not comfortable for you.
Other women with your father or someone than your father with your mom.
Were they so open that you saw other lovers at your home or hear the moans and you could not go there?

Mr Mrs Cream wrote: ↑

Thu Jan 02, 2025 10:30 pm

Were they so open that you saw other lovers at your home or hear the moans and you could not go there?

No, they went away on vacations, but the travel brochures were around the house.

I once heard my mother complain to a trusted friend that she did not like any of it.

Great answers. I have to add my father put up with it. She would even bring men home.

surry wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 3:17 am

My Mom cheated on my dad. They would argue over it. She even brought guys home and my Dad would stay seated by the TV. The guy at first be uncomfortable walking into our home with my Mom. Then he would come over to take my mom out or just to go in the bedroom with my mom. He would say hi to my Dad and us kids. My Dad would say it's cheaper to keep her than leave her. After the guy would leave my Dad would argue about her lover and her. My Mom would take him into the bedroom to calm him. When they came out my dad was in a good mood. Later on I asked my mom why she did this and she said "Your Dad had a special desire but was ashamed of it." "Once I fed his desire he was calm and happy."

Started very similar to me I watched my mom with a couple of different men before and watching was my first intro to sex and even masturbation as I watched some big man jerk off on her face I copied his movements. Seen her with some white guys and some black guys so that definitely shaped who I want inside my GF

My mother was (and still is) a pre-Vatican II Catholic and was (and still is) absolutely loyal to my father, now deceased. However, she had a best friend she met at Sophie Newcomb College who grew up the filthy rich scion of old Mississipi landed aristocracy. The friend, Mary Jane (double given names are so Southern), was partially of Amerindian descent, of a hybrid vigor that far outpaced that of her Georgia Techie nerdy husband, right out of Dustin Hoffman's cuck husband portrayal in Straw Dogs. When I was an adolescent, my mother scoffed at how Mary Jane was into menages a trois with two guys she met through dance classes, which apparently resulted in an unexpected pregnancy that yielded fraternal twin girls, each of a different father, I later learned. Though my mother was brutally judgmental of the entire episode, my knowing of it strangely attracted me to Mary Jane far more than I was able at the time to understand. Turns out that I ended up not in the marriage market for a mother image but more suited for one with a Mary Jane-level libido. Mary Jane ended up divorcing her techie husband years later, and the twins, who remain friends of mine, eventually came to learn of their parentage through genetic testing. Those girls, too, have their mother's "round heels," as my saintly mother put it.

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Fri Dec 27, 2024 8:08 am

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:23 pm

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

How old were you when it started. Or perhaps I should ask how old were you when you realized what was happening?

Wow sorry bout the late reply, but it started for me when I was 6. First time I saw her, she was getting fucked from behind in the master bedroom against a wall, lights were off in the room. I knew what was happening cause I still have a vivid memory of it.

Mr Mrs Cream wrote: ↑

Sat Dec 28, 2024 11:55 am

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:23 pm

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

You had such first experiences and you liked it.

You were able to go and saw her?
Have you talked with her as she was your first adult „audio” and real actress?
it's interesting how you perceived your first sexual experience with a woman compared to what you experienced at home - your mother moans and her sight of her during it.

Could you share more about your experiences?

I saw her multiple times through out the years, in various positions. I use to sneak into the home to get a snack while playing outside. And it would almost always seem like no one was home, until I would get close to the master bedroom. Id peak in and their she would be fully nude performing a sexual act or having one done to her. I wouldnt make a noise and would sneak out the home every time.
The purpose of sneaking into the home was to get a snack and be back out without anyone knowing - in case my mom would be like no more going back outside.

Strong family bonds. My wife enjoys younger guys because of something she secretly watched years ago.

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:32 am

I suspect you are not the only second generation cuckold.

I am!

My wife enjoys younger guys because of something she secretly watched years ago.

Which was?

54321

54321 wrote: ↑

Sun Oct 12, 2025 3:51 pm

My wife enjoys younger guys because of something she secretly watched years ago.

Which was?

54321

A masturbation session.

I think this is a pretty common discussion in various forms.

I suspected my dad was a swinger probably by my teens? I confirmed it for sure a few years later.

My own personal journey is that I kind of think it's just like any other sexual orientation. A lot of it is just part of who you are, and the rest is the environment you grow up in.

For my parents part, they divorced when I was young, so I only have vague memories when they were together. I was fortunate that the subsequent step parents I had in my life were loving and kind people who treated me well. Also, unlike a lot of parents, mine were cordial, polite and unified in front of me. I never heard a bad word, or negative comment from either.

I remember as a teen being extremely attracted to the "slutty" girls. I couldn't understand why dudes were so put off by them. When a high school girlfriend cheated, I was more pissed that she snuck around and lied.

I think all of this kind of makes it pretty easy for me to live in the lifestyle in various forms over the years. Once I found all my dad's "history" after he passed? Well it's pretty obvious that it runs in the family. I can also guess that it didn't start with my dad either. I have my suspicions about his dad too. My mom? I doubt it. I think that may be one of the reasons they got divorced.

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 11, 2025 9:08 pm

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Fri Dec 27, 2024 8:08 am

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:23 pm

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

How old were you when it started. Or perhaps I should ask how old were you when you realized what was happening?

Wow sorry bout the late reply, but it started for me when I was 6. First time I saw her, she was getting fucked from behind in the master bedroom against a wall, lights were off in the room. I knew what was happening cause I still have a vivid memory of it.

I'm surprised that at 6 years of age you knew enough about sex to know what was happening.

surry wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 3:17 am

My Mom cheated on my dad. They would argue over it. She even brought guys home and my Dad would stay seated by the TV. The guy at first be uncomfortable walking into our home with my Mom. Then he would come over to take my mom out or just to go in the bedroom with my mom. He would say hi to my Dad and us kids. My Dad would say it's cheaper to keep her than leave her. After the guy would leave my Dad would argue about her lover and her. My Mom would take him into the bedroom to calm him. When they came out my dad was in a good mood. Later on I asked my mom why she did this and she said "Your Dad had a special desire but was ashamed of it." "Once I fed his desire he was calm and happy."

It worked a little different with my mom's influence. My mom did not like how my dad never helped out around the house. She insisted that I had to help with housework, just as much or more than my sister's did. I was required to help with vacuuming, dusting, and washing windows. I was the one responsible exclusively for cleaning bathrooms, because my mother said, as a boy, I made the biggest mess in the bathroom. She didn't think it was fair for my sisters to have to clean my urine dribbles from the toilet.

My mother also taught me to cook basic meals for myself, because she said she wasn't going to constantly be at my beck and call, making me breakfast or lunch, whenever I wanted. When I turned 10, she told me that I could learn to sew my own buttons on my shirts, and do basic sewing repairs on my clothing, because she already had to do that for my father, and she was going to teach me better than his mother had taught him.

When I met my wife, my mother told her that I knew how to do basic house cleaning, cooking, and basic mending. She told my wife, that this was her mother-in-law's gift to her, to have raised a son who was not helpless around the house. My wife was was a graduate degree professional career woman when I met her. She was attracted to the fact that I could take care of the house, and that she would not have to come home from work, and be a housewife, in addition to that.

My mother visited us often, and she and my wife became good friends. When my mother would visit, my wife would check with her often, and ask her if there was anything she needed. When my mother would mention that she needed some laundry done, my wife would say, "Your mother needs some laundry done. Check with her to see what she needs, and take care of that please."

When my wife started dating a guy, I think my mother figured it out. My wife always said she was going out with a girlfriend for a drink to unwind, but by the way she dressed, and the fact that she often came home well after bars had closed, I think my mother knew. When I expressed my displeasure at how often she went out, and how late she stayed out, my mother would just say, "Your wife is a very busy career woman, and her job is very stressful. She needs little diversions to help her deal with the stress of her job. She appreciates what a good husband you are, and how well you take care of the home. You have nothing to worry about. You need to understand that a a successful high power career woman like her, needs her little distractions and diversions. You need to understand and accept that, and keep working to show her the benefits that you bring to the table, in this marriage."

I think my mother felt very satisfied, that she had helped my wife have the kind of life that she wished she had had.

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Mon Oct 13, 2025 8:44 am

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 11, 2025 9:08 pm

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Fri Dec 27, 2024 8:08 am

aliefguy wrote: ↑

Thu Dec 26, 2024 7:23 pm

This is exactly how it started for me. My mom use to get fucked by my father's cousins while he was at work. I use to sit in the living room while they use to take turns with my mom. They would distract me, but I walked in on her having sex a few times. Pretty sure my dad knew bout it. Lead me to make sure my wife became a hot wife as well.

How old were you when it started. Or perhaps I should ask how old were you when you realized what was happening?

Wow sorry bout the late reply, but it started for me when I was 6. First time I saw her, she was getting fucked from behind in the master bedroom against a wall, lights were off in the room. I knew what was happening cause I still have a vivid memory of it.

I'm surprised that at 6 years of age you knew enough about sex to know what was happening.

It happened so often that it was easy to put together.