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3-Year Journey

Posted: Sat Dec 28, 2024 4:15 am
by euroscouple
About 3 years ago my wife and I made a conscious decision to work on her coming to terms with her sexuality for good and leaving behind her conservative upbringing. It has been a journey and a half so far haha.

My wife grew up in a conservative country which caused her to have her sexuality repressed both by her parents and society in general. When she moved countries for her studies at the age of 22 she had never kissed anyone, never had a boyfriend and definitely never had sex. In her first 2 years away from home she rectified those things but you don't change how you view your sexuality and feel about it in just 2 years.

About 3 years ago my wife and I started having longer conversations about our kinks and turn-ons again and both came to the conclusion that she wanted to be more open about her sexuality, especially in public/with other people involved. The stage was set.

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sat Dec 28, 2024 11:27 am
by The Owl
And what has evolved on the stage that was set three years ago.

Please continue...

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sat Dec 28, 2024 9:17 pm
by venus-can99
Great start ec… looking forward to hearing how things have evolved

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sun Dec 29, 2024 3:59 am
by euroscouple
In the beginning started with my wife being more daring with how she dressed. Wearing form-fitting clothes and showing off her body were things that she wasn't allowed to do in her home country and even though she had learned to accept that she could do it now she very often still had those old thoughts in the back of her head. As a "rule" initislly we made it so that anytime those thoughts were creeping up to her she would message me and tell me about them. It helped her contextualise things and overcome those thoughts.

One of the times that stuck out was the following:

While I was at the office my wife messaged me about how she had had one of those negative thoughts about dressing conservatively as she was getting ready for shopping for groceries. We did our usual exchange of messages and in the end laughed about how stupid those negative thoughts are. She returned to getting dressed and I to working. Some 10 minutes later, however, I received another text:

"I'm not wearing a bra, baby."

My own thoughts were racing now. I was getting hard.

"Ooooooh. How does it feel?"
"It's interesting haha"
"How so?"
"Idk it's kinda the opposite of what I was thinking about earlier"
"No need to think about your parents now lol"
"Hahaa no"
"Do you like it?"
"Yeah I think so, it's interesting"
"Which top are you wearing?"
"The black one from UNIQLO and my striped green tshirt over it"
"Hmmm those are pretty thin layers, people might see your boobs"
"And my nipples maybe haha"
"I'm so turned on haha"
"Thought so 😘"
"Don't show off too much, leave something for me later haha"
"Don't worry 😘"

Later that day not only did we have great sex but we also talked about her braless adventure before and afterwards. She said she was super alert and somewhat paranoid about people staring at her chest but ultimately only the cashier looked at her breast when she was looking up to my wife as she paying for the groceries. She said it was exhilerating that she could go out like that and not feel anyone staring at her. I asked her why she decided to go braless: She told me saw some women do it recently when she was ob her way to work. It reminded her of her first year at university when she had a girl in one of her classes who would almost never wear a bra. She said trying it out herself intrigued her. I asked her if she wanted to do it again. She said yes.

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sun Dec 29, 2024 7:26 am
by trecital
From your earlier description it sounds like your wife is about 27 years old now.
Glad that she is starting to experience the simple pleasures to be had by going braless.
Do you think she would be up for going braless...topless, that is, on a public beach? If she found going to the shops braless to be exciting, then topless at the beach will really get her going.

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sun Dec 29, 2024 8:11 am
by skoot1958
In the 80 I worked in Sweden, if I did not see the receptionist tits 3 times a day, I was not in the office, I loved watching my wife walking around with her boobs free, it was β€œnormal” at the time, it should be for all woman, enjoy your body

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sun Dec 29, 2024 1:06 pm
by euroscouple
trecital wrote: ↑
Sun Dec 29, 2024 7:26 am
From your earlier description it sounds like your wife is about 27 years old now.
Glad that she is starting to experience the simple pleasures to be had by going braless.
Do you think she would be up for going braless...topless, that is, on a public beach? If she found going to the shops braless to be exciting, then topless at the beach will really get her going.
The story above is from 3 years ago, she's explored more braless adventures since then haha

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Sun Dec 29, 2024 11:51 pm
by trecital
euroscouple wrote: ↑
Sun Dec 29, 2024 1:06 pm
trecital wrote: ↑
Sun Dec 29, 2024 7:26 am
From your earlier description it sounds like your wife is about 27 years old now.
Glad that she is starting to experience the simple pleasures to be had by going braless.
Do you think she would be up for going braless...topless, that is, on a public beach? If she found going to the shops braless to be exciting, then topless at the beach will really get her going.
The story above is from 3 years ago, she's explored more braless adventures since then haha
Would be interested to read about some of those other braless adventures.

Has she graduated to wearing some thin or slightly see thru tops? Tight or loose?
Deep cut to show some cleavage?

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2025 4:14 pm
by euroscouple
euroscouple wrote: ↑
Sun Dec 29, 2024 3:59 am
In the beginning started with my wife being more daring with how she dressed. Wearing form-fitting clothes and showing off her body were things that she wasn't allowed to do in her home country and even though she had learned to accept that she could do it now she very often still had those old thoughts in the back of her head. As a "rule" initislly we made it so that anytime those thoughts were creeping up to her she would message me and tell me about them. It helped her contextualise things and overcome those thoughts.

One of the times that stuck out was the following:

While I was at the office my wife messaged me about how she had had one of those negative thoughts about dressing conservatively as she was getting ready for shopping for groceries. We did our usual exchange of messages and in the end laughed about how stupid those negative thoughts are. She returned to getting dressed and I to working. Some 10 minutes later, however, I received another text:

"I'm not wearing a bra, baby."

My own thoughts were racing now. I was getting hard.

"Ooooooh. How does it feel?"
"It's interesting haha"
"How so?"
"Idk it's kinda the opposite of what I was thinking about earlier"
"No need to think about your parents now lol"
"Hahaa no"
"Do you like it?"
"Yeah I think so, it's interesting"
"Which top are you wearing?"
"The black one from UNIQLO and my striped green tshirt over it"
"Hmmm those are pretty thin layers, people might see your boobs"
"And my nipples maybe haha"
"I'm so turned on haha"
"Thought so 😘"
"Don't show off too much, leave something for me later haha"
"Don't worry 😘"

Later that day not only did we have great sex but we also talked about her braless adventure before and afterwards. She said she was super alert and somewhat paranoid about people staring at her chest but ultimately only the cashier looked at her breast when she was looking up to my wife as she paying for the groceries. She said it was exhilerating that she could go out like that and not feel anyone staring at her. I asked her why she decided to go braless: She told me saw some women do it recently when she was ob her way to work. It reminded her of her first year at university when she had a girl in one of her classes who would almost never wear a bra. She said trying it out herself intrigued her. I asked her if she wanted to do it again. She said yes.
Sorry this took a bit longer. Post-NYE work has been a lot.

Anyway, after my wife went braless for the first time she kept her word and continued to go braless several times over the next few weeks. Usually she did it when going to the shops. We both found it incredibly hot and it showed in our bedroom. We discussed multiple times what she liked about it and how comfortable she was with doing it. She said that for the first time in her life she was not feeling negatively about strangers seeing her body and that they might think of her in a bad way. I asked her what her thoughts were if people were thinking of her the opposite way: enjoying seeing her body. She didn't have an immediate answer or at least not one that she had had thought theough before. Later that night she came back to my question though: She admitted that it made her feel "naughty" that someone might enjoy seeing her braless boobs and that she liked feeling that eay. She didn't want me to think less of her for feeling that way and hoped that I was really okay with her not wearing a bra after knowing about her feelings about it. I assured her that I myself was enjoying this side of her and that I would love for her to continue. I admitted myself that I liked that she was being naughty this way and that I liked that people got to see her braless and were liking what they were seeing and that it was a turn-on thinking about people watching her braless. We both were pretty happy about this talk and equally turned on in the end haha.

Fast forward a few weeks I was once again at work and feeling pretty bored. I went to open my phone and message my wife but accidentally scrolled up and found myself looking at a braless but clothed selfie she had sent me the other day. It didn't take more to make me start feeling turned on. I continued scrolling which just increased my arousal. I saw she was online. I had an idea and messaged her:

"Baby, what are you doing right now?"
"Finishing a report"
"Are you alone?"
"No why? What's up?"
"Do you wanna take off your bra?"

Two minutes passed.

"Yes."

A few seconds later I received a braless pic from her from her work bathroom.

"Like what you see?"
"Oh absolutely"
"Hmmm"
"I think your colleagues would like it too"

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2025 8:06 pm
by aztd
Great

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Fri Jan 10, 2025 3:41 am
by euroscouple
euroscouple wrote: ↑
Mon Jan 06, 2025 4:14 pm
Sorry this took a bit longer. Post-NYE work has been a lot.

Anyway, after my wife went braless for the first time she kept her word and continued to go braless several times over the next few weeks. Usually she did it when going to the shops. We both found it incredibly hot and it showed in our bedroom. We discussed multiple times what she liked about it and how comfortable she was with doing it. She said that for the first time in her life she was not feeling negatively about strangers seeing her body and that they might think of her in a bad way. I asked her what her thoughts were if people were thinking of her the opposite way: enjoying seeing her body. She didn't have an immediate answer or at least not one that she had had thought theough before. Later that night she came back to my question though: She admitted that it made her feel "naughty" that someone might enjoy seeing her braless boobs and that she liked feeling that eay. She didn't want me to think less of her for feeling that way and hoped that I was really okay with her not wearing a bra after knowing about her feelings about it. I assured her that I myself was enjoying this side of her and that I would love for her to continue. I admitted myself that I liked that she was being naughty this way and that I liked that people got to see her braless and were liking what they were seeing and that it was a turn-on thinking about people watching her braless. We both were pretty happy about this talk and equally turned on in the end haha.

Fast forward a few weeks I was once again at work and feeling pretty bored. I went to open my phone and message my wife but accidentally scrolled up and found myself looking at a braless but clothed selfie she had sent me the other day. It didn't take more to make me start feeling turned on. I continued scrolling which just increased my arousal. I saw she was online. I had an idea and messaged her:

"Baby, what are you doing right now?"
"Finishing a report"
"Are you alone?"
"No why? What's up?"
"Do you wanna take off your bra?"

Two minutes passed.

"Yes."

A few seconds later I received a braless pic from her from her work bathroom.

"Like what you see?"
"Oh absolutely"
"Hmmm"
"I think your colleagues would like it too"
"Maybe"
"Did you think about it?"
"Yes"
"Do you wanna do it?"
"Yes"

That was that. The anticipation was killing me. 5 minutes I get a new text.

"I did it."
"How does it feel?"
"Exciting πŸ˜‚ How do you feel?"
"Excited πŸ˜‚"

I was pretty turned on by that point and excused myslef to the bathroom.

In the evening at home my wife told me that nobody really seemed to care that she was not wearing a bra anymore. As she was finishing some last tasks and had to speak to her colleagues she noticed that some of them looked at her chest. She thought she was blushing but kept her composure. Over the next weeks my wife started going to work braless as well now.

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Fri Jan 10, 2025 3:55 am
by trecital
euroscouple wrote: ↑
Fri Jan 10, 2025 3:41 am
I was pretty turned on by that point and excused myslef to the bathroom.
Slightly strange that your wife telling you that she'd removed her bra, had the effect of giving you the urge to urinate. But I suppose it can affect different people in different ways.πŸ˜ƒ

Re: 3-Year Journey

Posted: Fri Jan 10, 2025 7:21 pm
by euroscouple
So, after the stories I've told in this thread so far, we were now 4 months into our exploration phase. Summer had just begun and my wife was skipping on wearing a bra over 50% of the time she was leaving the house now. It was an incredibly sexy development to witness and something that had not only had a positive effect on her being comfortable with her body and sexuality but her in general.

Summer was upon us and with that outdoor concerts and raves were back. Attending concerts and raves together was one of our things since the beginning of our realtionship so naturally we were looking forward to them. A few days before our first rave of the year S. (my wife) brought up the topic of her outfit for the rave. I knew what she was getting at by the way she phrased her question but I really wanted her to say it out loud.

"Would you be fine with me going braless to the rave?"
"Yes. Do you want that?"
"Yes."
"I'd love for you to go braless there."
"Are you sure?"
"Yes, absolutely."
"It's gonna be different than going to the supermarket or occasionally to work without a bra, you know. People will look."
"Baby, I'm absolutely okay with it. Like I said, I'm gonna love seeing you braless there. I know you're gonna look incredibly sexy and people will look. So bit it."

Part 2 will follow soon.