Scars

[Reaper34]

Anyone’s wife have surgery that left scars and affected the wife’s confidence/libido? Wife had a “mommy makeover” with breast and tummy scars, and now seems unwilling to do “hotwife” stuff anymore, which I fully support her.

Since the surgery (about 12 months ago) she’s been apprehensive about being nude in front of other men. Even though she loves getting fucked by others, especially creampies.

I mentioned maybe just a blowjob to get her warmed back up (clothed). Nothing yet.

Any others have experience with this and any thoughts on how to proceed?

[hornedhubby]

Rub cocoa butter on her scars while telling her how beautiful she is.

The CB is what used to be recommended. Better lotions for this purpose may be available these days. Ask the surgeon's opinion.

Best wishes.

[MarknSusan]

Our good friends hotwife had the same type of surgery. She uses a scar cream that the plastic surgeon recommended (it really helped) and she dresses very sexy.

She wears lingerie that helps with the tummy line. It has not slowed her down one bit.

She has hotwife dates about three times or more per week (I am not exaggerating). She is a very confident lady and I assume like your wife is beautiful with a nice looking body.

Our friends wife at first, felt the same about her scars but got her confidence back..the scars will NOT deter anyone.

[D+D]

It’s a shame to feel that way but it doesn’t affect the pussy one bit and that is what men really want from a married woman, married pussy. They are not looking for a trophy wife or any wife usually or they would be dating a single woman. My wife likes to say that her stomach looks like a war zone and it kinda does with three major surgeries including a C-section but it hasn’t affected her hotwifing one bit and it doesn’t show when dressed.

[hotfreaks]

My wife had a C-section, and was very self conscious about her scar. I repeatedly assured her that it was beautiful. Its a physical sign that she is a mother, and a good one. I explained, to me, it signifies that she is a beautiful woman who had a child, and can still be herself, loving sex, and being shared with any man she wants.

[Parsifal]

My wife had a C-section scar when we married, and we refreshed it with her third child after that. Never a problem; she was proud of it. Then came her foray into the Lifestyle. Her lovers didn't care either, but somewhere along the way she decided she wanted what she now perceived to be minor imperfections essentially erased. It was 100% her idea, although I told her I'd be supportive within reason, and I am - provided she goes through with the photoshoot I've planned for her as soon as it's all healed. Stay tuned.

[kaskap79]

I don't care about scares when I am with a Hotwife.
It just shows that she has been living her life.
We all get scares during our life.

[Natatude]

I did feel like that a few years back, as I have had 5 ports in my chest, so I have 3 on one side and 2 on the other above my breasts. I’ve had a tubal and gall bladder removal also when I had our daughter they cut me a couple inches and I ripped 4 more so I had 200 stitches I still have that scar bad I can feel it. However my husband and lovers tell me how beautiful I am and they don’t even pay attention to them. So I have learned to overlook them myself. Just keep telling her how beautiful she is and men don’t look that close to judge her for them.