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My wife is looking for her first one night stand while on a business trip to orlando in three weeks, any advice?

Sexy dress, heels, skimpy thong. (you want to give him things to remove)

Video the experience!

Any other cities she visit? Love connecting with HWs in the DC area

Hotel bar, sexy dress, eye contact, and smile

Bisiness travelers' lounges and bars on those business hotels.

Crowd is "safer".. many are looking for NSA quick action for the night..
Sure shot.

Dress business sexy casual, heels, a little more makeup. She will have no problem attracting attention at any hotel,bar, club, or cocktail lounge she goes to. Her struggle will most likely be finding someone she finds fuck worthy and vibes with.

She has a type and that really limits her options, the older, decent shape guy with gray hair.
Last year at this conference she just flirted and got hit a decent amount, but has a fuck buddy at the time who didn't want her stepping out.
Her travels are limited to an annual conference in Orlando, and three or four rotating conferences in the normal conference cities i.e. Boston, Chicago, Vegas, STl, etc

Jmoney wrote: ↑

Mon Jan 06, 2025 4:59 am

She has a type and that really limits her options, the older, decent shape guy with gray hair.
Last year at this conference she just flirted and got hit a decent amount, but has a fuck buddy at the time who didn't want her stepping out.
Her travels are limited to an annual conference in Orlando, and three or four rotating conferences in the normal conference cities i.e. Boston, Chicago, Vegas, STl, etc

What a fuck buddy doesn’t know won’t hurt him. Hotels bars and lounge areas are safer and a room is available with a short elevator ride.

Always loved the idea of a business trip hookup for my wife!! Wish you two the best of luck!

Don't let her forget the condoms. It's especially fun if you are the one who buys them.

Keep us up to date on how it goes. My wife has a business trip to Orlando in the next couple of months

yes i have advice:
be safe picking up random men

The first time my girlfriend had a one-night stand during a business trip, she didn't tell me when she returned home. This was her first incident of non-monogamy. I found out, because she wrote about it in her journal, and I found it during her next trip. It made me hot, and I wasn't upset that she had been unfaithful to me. I waited, and she eventually confessed her infidelity. I didn't tell her I already knew, but I did tell it turned me on that another man had fucked her.

A few subtle changes that men will pickup as signals she is sexually available -

Sexier heels.
Significantly more cleavage than usual.
Red Lips.
SMILE.
tighter/shorter skirts.

Success rate of 100% if all are implemented.

Just my experience fwiw.

Restarting wrote: ↑

Sun Jan 05, 2025 7:20 pm

Video the experience!

She doesn't take video or pics.

Grande Lakes… Ritz Carlton and JW Marriott. They’re connected, both have amazing lounges. She won’t leave disappointed

Have her go to Secrets Resort for a safer, sex positive environment with a 99% chance of having sex.

She is only in town a couple days and her employer picked the hotel.

We have had the best success on her business trips when we make contact with potential lovers in the area prior to her arrival. it gives her time to develop a bit of a rapport with the person ahead of time.

We have had the best success on her business trips when we make contact with potential lovers in the area prior to her arrival. it gives her time to develop a bit of a rapport with the person ahead of time. One in time particular she was texting with a guy in the city where the conference was, when she arrived they had dinner and hit it off. He banged her everyday that week usually twice a day. At then of the week she found out her full-time fuck buddy was going to be in a nearby city, so she extended her stay. After he was done with her, he had her fly home wearing only a tiny dress and nothing under it. TSA pulled her aside for a pat down, she said the agent must have felt how hot and wet she was.

lwhubby wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:19 am

We have had the best success on her business trips when we make contact with potential lovers in the area prior to her arrival. it gives her time to develop a bit of a rapport with the person ahead of time. One in time particular she was texting with a guy in the city where the conference was, when she arrived they had dinner and hit it off. He banged her everyday that week usually twice a day. At then of the week she found out her full-time fuck buddy was going to be in a nearby city, so she extended her stay. After he was done with her, he had her fly home wearing only a tiny dress and nothing under it. TSA pulled her aside for a pat down, she said the agent must have felt how hot and wet she was.

That’s all hot but the pat down is the winner! How did she feel about that?

lwhubby wrote: ↑

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:19 am

We have had the best success on her business trips when we make contact with potential lovers in the area prior to her arrival. it gives her time to develop a bit of a rapport with the person ahead of time. One in time particular she was texting with a guy in the city where the conference was, when she arrived they had dinner and hit it off. He banged her everyday that week usually twice a day. At then of the week she found out her full-time fuck buddy was going to be in a nearby city, so she extended her stay. After he was done with her, he had her fly home wearing only a tiny dress and nothing under it. TSA pulled her aside for a pat down, she said the agent must have felt how hot and wet she was.

Knowing she was on a week long business trip getting her brains fucked out twice a day would be an amazing experience! Jealous of the husbands and wives who get to enjoy that! That’s for telling!

There are a lot of things that can go wrong when you are counting on a work trip to give you play time. Your best chances of success are going to be, for the random hookup, to simply be open to conversations where ever she may be - the conference, an end of day drink at the bar, grabbing the morning coffee. For something with a little more chance of sustained success, since you know the cities she will be traveling to, is to put in the work and effort ahead of time. For whatever site or app you use, get verified. Proving you are real up front will attract the people who are less likely to flake (i.e who have experience doing "this"). Be very clear about your type, your wants and needs. Insist they verify up front (if not already verified). There are obvious advantages to this method as lwhubby said above - you can build some chemistry, talk about how you want the night to go, etc - all so that when you do meet, you can have a drink to do a vibe/nerves check and then be able to more comfortably transition to playtime.

Remember that a good potential partner is going to also ask about what YOU want out of this. Look for the guys that are going to put a little skin in the game too - like showing up early to verify that they are where you agreed to meet before she puts her limited free time into getting ready just to be flaked on. Safe and Happy (hopefully) travels!

Is this any different to regular dating?
It's easy to try too hard and come over as desperate.
At the conference, be open to every conversation, make eye contact,
have fun and you are more likely to meet someone nice
directly or through other nice people.

Alternatively, there is the other poster's suggestion that you visit a swing club.
There, you are in a protected environment where everybody understands
what is expected.

Whatever, have a lovely time whether you have a hotwife adventure or not.

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