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We were talking about anklets, especially anklets with some lifestyle design such as HW or related symbols, and whether people in ordinary life really see and recognise what it symbolises? Women who wear them, have you ever noticed getting reactions from people if you go out wearing one?

Curious about this as well. Wife and I have talked about this briefly but haven’t gone as far as to buy one for her to wear while on vacation yet.

Anklets are a super turn on for men the husband! I love the idea of her going out wearing an anklet and people who know know that she enjoyes sex with other men. Plus they just so very sexy on a woman’s leg!

The reality is somewhat different from what I have read. Lots of people wear anklets these days. Most people don’t even notice. Most women say they have never been hit on because of their anklet.

Still it’s super hot visually and mentally for the Husband and wife in my opinion.

Yes as the husband it turns me on when she wears one.
It’s never been noticed or resulted in any reaction as far as I know from anyone else. She’s been wearing anklets for 10 years now.

This is a very common question on here and Reddit. They work for a husband and hotwife, but my wife has worn anklets for decades and nobody has ever approached her as a result. Nonetheless I love it when she puts on her hotwife anklet.

If you want her to get attention, having her dress sexy and having a big smile with eye contact IMO is a very reliable method.

Wearing an anklet as an affirmation of that lifestyle does heighten my wife's awareness of her availability, which turns her on, and also my assent to it. But because anklets are worn by so many women and even young girls for entirely different reasons, we believe the reaction of others depends on the meaning others may be knowledgeable enough to ascribe to it. And even then, for men in the know (such as I) there is a mixed meaning that leaves the viewer wondering, is she, or not? For my wife, leaving onlooking men in such state of wonderment is also arousing, for in some settings, such as the neighborhood pool, where judgmental, churchgoing moms abound in their frumpy one-pieces, she actually prefers maintaining plausible deniability by sending mixed signals to their frustrated husbands, along with flashing that flirty, fetching smile many of you know from her Hotties posts.

I love an anklet on a beautiful woman - lifestyle signal or not. So yes, they get a reaction from some of us. I just personally find them sexy. It enhances the look of a bare leg (or with stockings for that matter). I am currently toying with the idea of buying my wife a diamond anklet (Think tennis bracelet). My hesitation is the fear she would never wear it out in public. Although I will enjoy it on her while she spreads her legs in bed, I really want to have it turn heads out in public. Anyone ever see one on a woman's ankle?

Similarly, I go crazy over the look of a woman wearing a collar or choker around their neck. Probably has something to do with my desire to be dominant with women.

My wife used to wear anklets but, like others have said, only we knew what they meant. She didn’t wear anything that declared she was a hot wife but if someone had inquired it would’ve been interesting to see how she reacted. As fate would have it she became disabled several years ago and just today as I was going through some things in our bedroom what did I came across? You guess it, her anklets.
And, quite honestly, even though I know what they can possibly mean most times I forget to even look to notice them on women.

My wife wore an anklet for a few days. Her Vasque hiking boots turned it to random pieces of metal in her sock. I ended up using the car wash vacuum to get rid of it from the carpet in the Jeep.

Farmgirl wears a diamond tennis anklet every day.
She and I both know she is 'proclaiming' her identity as a hotwife. Most don't get it, but some do. It's the naughty idea that is shared by the husband and wife that really matters. It makes her feel sexier and more full of life knowing she is wearing/showing it.

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Mon Jan 13, 2025 6:04 pm

Farmgirl wears a diamond tennis anklet every day.
She and I both know she is 'proclaiming' her identity as a hotwife. Most don't get it, but some do. It's the naughty idea that is shared by the husband and wife that really matters. It makes her feel sexier and more full of life knowing she is wearing/showing it.

Thx. Bet it looks great on Farmgirl.

I think i'm going to do it even if I'm the only one who gets to enjoy it. As you said, that's what it is for - the two of us.

My wife has worn an anklet 24/7 since I bought her one 29 years ago. We both love how sexy it looks, especially as she always heels. She is a teacher and I love seeing her going to work wearing her anklet. It is like, "There is Mrs ### - @@@@@ sexy ankket which marks her as a hotwife.
If she is going out at night and is open to play she will wear what we call her "play" anklet. She has a variety of symbols that she can put on it to advertise her wants. Sometimes is will have "HW" charms on it or "SLUT" if we are going to a swinger party. When we have been on holiday in the US, she will wear "BBC" and the spade symbol on her anklet.

We have been approached when we have been out by some couples who noticed her symbols and were also in the lifestyle. A few guys over the years have also used her anklet as a conversation starter.

Our adult daughter now wears a gold anklet 24/7 as well.

I love the anklet I got Sara and think it's so hot when she wears it. It's like our little secret at this point.

I just ordered her a gold Queen of Hearts pendant to add to her necklace for the same reason.

That reaffirms what I thought. I didn't expect it to really have an effect in public, it's more of a fun affirmation for the couple.
My wife has been recognised twice in public for being connected to the lifestyle but never as a result of an anklet (never worn one), but just from past posts and one was because of a local dating post. In that case, the guy recognised us and messaged me later to ask if I was at a particular event which we were. He should have said hello but it did strike up a conversation. I think anklets though are too common these days for the general public to spot and see as anything more than decoration.

Anklets, toe rings and CFM heels are a slam dunk. I can not begin to tell you how many guys walk up to Lisa and start flirting when she is wearing that combo. She has a foot tattoo too.

I think it is because conservative, inhibited women are less likely to adorn their feet and show off like that, so guys just assume if she is then she is more open to advances and flirting.

W has had various anklets in the past, can’t say they made a discernible difference. It’s the eye contact that has the effect.

Anklets, toe rings and CFM heels are a slam dunk.

Absolutely true. The combination is SO sexy but beyond that...

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What I, as a bloke willing to be involved with couples would like to know is, whether there is a male equivalent? To let couples who play know that here is a man who is not scared away at the idea of joining them.

I have seen dozens of anklet posts here and on Reddit asking and discussing this question before, but rarely has there been such on-point response.

I completely concur. My wife’s anklet was given to her by her first bull. She doesnt wear it just anytime as she prefers to have a tan and be dressed for a night out as opposed to just everyday wear.

The important thing that many have already stated is, what it means to the two of us. It is definitely a tease, thinking that some may recognize it as an overt acknowledgement of our participation in the lifestyle, but more than that, she wears my ring and his anklet and its very meaningful to the two of us. The “statement” is what the anklet is saying to me.

Hopefully some day someone will recognize the charms and surprise us by acknowledging it for what it is, but until then, we still enjoy the anklet ourselves.

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Wed Jan 15, 2025 6:33 am

What I, as a bloke willing to be involved with couples would like to know is, whether there is a male equivalent? To let couples who play know that here is a man who is not scared away at the idea of joining them.

The best way, I believe based on what my wife says, is to watch for her smile and her then holding eye contact. If you can't smile back and return the eye contact, she's not interested.

Here's the thing. For the vast majority of women you see wearing an anklet it will simply mean they like wearing anklets.

Now if the wearer intends them to mean something else then they do. But if it's just a regular anklet , there's no way to tell for sure just by seeing it.

If the anklet contains charms such as a vixen, two make symbols and one female, a queen of spades, the letters HW (hot wife) , those are good signs the wearer is sending a message. Though they also might mean something else (h and w could be hers or her kids initials, she might just think she is foxy or likes foxes, etc).

Short version: an anklet can mean many things

I agree with the majority. Many women wear anklets. Also, I don't imagine even the majority on this forum think anything other than the woman likes to wear an anklet.

Hubby makes me wear one. Turns both of us on

I’ve worn anklets for years not knowing the hidden meaning. Hubby told me about it when we started exploring. I still wear them. Very few people ever made a comment. I’d say the majority of people have no idea. Like the upside down pineapple

TheRealMrs has been wearing an anklet for a while now. I don’t think either of us anticipate that it will get any real attention. She ordered a couple on her own, which I found kind of hot. I think it’s just a symbol of our openness with each other and her desire to make the occasional person wonder. All in good fun and a little sexiness between us.

I can’t deny it’s affect on me seeing it on her ankle.