Our Hotwives

I can’t believe I’m posting this but Shirley might actually become a hotwife again. My original post seems to have dropped off due to inactivity I guess. I never got a whole lot of response to it but if there’s enough interest I will explain what’s going on now. There were a few guys that pm’d me now and then to see how we were doing so maybe there’s some interest.

Not having had the privileg of reading the story of your journey or Shirley's photos, I for one would be interested to hear a Cliff's notes version of your story and the circumstances leading to the new activities. Thank you

It's a damn shame your thread is no longer part of OHW history because it was an exceptional story until an unlucky thing caused Shirley to reconsider her adventure.

I'd love to hear an update.

Looking forward to Shirley's new journey

Some things have happened since I posted earlier. She is definitely coming back and it looks like sooner than either of us expected. If things work out right, she will be fucking Todd tomorrow night. I’ll try to post more later tonight or tomorrow.

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Sun Jan 19, 2025 11:09 am

Not having had the privileg of reading the story of your journey or Shirley's photos, I for one would be interested to hear a Cliff's notes version of your story and the circumstances leading to the new activities. Thank you

I’ll try to give some back story to you and anyone else interested who wasn’t following us before, without going into every detail. That would take too long.

I will 55 in a few weeks. She will be 53 in a few months. Been married 27 1/2 years. I can’t remember if we were still dating or if it was early in our marriage but we were in a hotel. She woke up crying. She had a dream that she had a threesome with her ex boyfriend and his best friend. She was upset because how could she have such a dream when she was so in love with me and he had treated her bad? Up till that moment I never imagined my girl with another man. That would not be ok. Another girl? Yeah, not another man. For some reason I found that incredibly hot but didn’t tell her at that moment. I calmed her down and we went about our day. That night, when we had sex, I asked her to tell me the details of the dream. I came very quickly and it was very intense. From that point on, it became a regular part of our sex. Once she had enough orgasms, she would usually make up some story about her fucking a coworker, a friend of ours, some random guy she saw at the grocery store etc. She did this to please me but would frequently remind me that she didn’t really think that way and would never actually do something like that. I would assure her it was just a fantasy and I meant it for many years.

Years go by, kids come along, we go through the typical problems couple tend to go through. Kids got older, we had moments we thought we wouldn’t stay together. We got to where we almost split up we went to counseling 2 or 3 times and realized we didn’t need that. We knew we still loved each other. We just had to figure it out. We both made an effort to start to do little things we knew the other needed/wanted and that fairly quickly led to everything getting back on track and we were truly as happy as we’ve ever been. That’s when this idea of her having sec with another man became something I started to want to become real but I didn’t think I could ever convince her to do it. Until I found OHW approximately 4 years ago. I discovered a lot guys want this and people actually did it and had very happy marriages doing it. I learned here how to approach it the right way.

One day shortly thereafter we had sex on a Saturday or Sunday morning. That’s rare for us but both kids had spent the night elsewhere so we took advantage. She told me another story. After we finished we were eating breakfast and she again reminded that she would never do that and didnt even think that way. I finally got up the courage and said “well, if you ever change your mind, I’d actually love to watch you have sex with an another man.” She said “oh you couldn’t handle that.” I said “actually I could handle it and i think it would be the hottest thing ever.” She said it was never happening and that no one would want a 49 year old mother of 2 anyway. I assured her that there be guys lined up for miles for a chance if she decided to to do it. She still said she had no interest but over next days snd weeks she kept bringing it up and asking me all the typical questions about it being a ploy for me to fuck other women etc. once she understood what it was about for me, she agreed to let me post some sexy pics in the hotties section without her face of course. When she saw the reaction she became very interested but still concerned about what it could do to us and very concerned about STD’s.

6 months and many conversations later she finally did it with a guy I found on SLS. He happened to be black but he was chosen because of his many certs and the way he seduced her through text before we ever met him. She played with him several times throughout our year and half of the LS. I was always present except once and usually joined in to some extent. One time he also brought a friend, with her approval of course, and she became air tight for first and only time.

Once she did it the first time she was hooked and sort of jumped in head first. She fucked around 10-12 guys in 6 months. I never expected that. She had always been the naive, innocent rule follower her whole life. I figured it would be 1 guy she would fuck once in a while. After that first 6 months she went through some guilt that she had become too slutty. We took a couple short breaks here and there and age decided she wanted to try tii on find 1 or 2 guys she could play with as an ongoing thing. D, the first guy, was an obvious choice. Only issue was he lives 2 hours away.

Then we found Chris. He was 32. Nearly 20 years younger, very good looking. She was having the time of her life with him and so was I. Then in July of 2023 we were devastated to find out she was diagnosed with HPV. Her biggest fear had come true. An STD.

She swore off the LS for good and I couldn’t blame her. Even though over 80% of all people will get it some time in their life and most never even know it. Even though it’s extremely unlikely to ever cause any kind of issue, she still felt dirty, like she had lost control and got reckless.

As time went by we would talk about everything. She would say that she was having the time of her life, why did this have to happen. We’d talk about trying to find 1 guy to be exclusive with her. She would say she would do it if she could find that. Then she’d turn around literally the same day and say she just wasn’t interested anymore. It got to the point it was driving me insane dealing with the constant back and forth. Even as recently as last week. I would find a guy interested in this type of arrangement. She would text with him for a while. Then if it got the point of a meet and greet and she would freak out and back out. Then came R last week. She same thing happened. We were supposed to do a meet and greet last night with him. She decided yesterday morning she couldn’t go though with it and canceled with him. I was just telling her that it’s just dinner. He knows there would be no sex, when he texts her and says “I understand. If you are willing, I’d love to still meet and just be friends. I’m divorced and just the company of a female friend would be nice, even if it goes no further.” That changed everything for her. It took all the pressure off. We went to dinner. Super nice guy. Checked all the boxes except she just was physically attracted to him. But it still changed everything. She realized, finally after me telling her since before we even stopped, that she could be in control and do it her way. She is a pleaser by nature when it comes to sex so some of the guys she fucked early on, she did just because she thought it was expected. She finally understands that she is in control.

She told me to try to find another guy so I got on SLS this morning. Todd saw I was on there and reached out to her. She fucked Todd 2 or 3 times early on and had a really good connection with him. He’s in a sexless marriage and she enjoyed giving him what she won’t. It wasn’t perfect, he drinks a lot and likes to stop in the middle of sex a lot and talk. She’d rather keep going but she still likes him. Turns out his wife is out of town and he invited us over for tonight. That was just not going to work but assume both of our days go ok tomorrow we will be there tomorrow night for her official return to being a hotwife. I don’t know if I’ll be able to sleep tonight but I need to try. Sorry, this got way longer than I intended.


I guess I should mention. The HPV has passed. Don’t want anyone to think we’re doing this intentionally risking spreading it.

Thanks fox for the detailed background info and plans for tonight. Hope everything went well…

Thank you, Fox. The stories of real people 'warts and all' make this such a great site.
I hope this new foray goes well.

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Well life is getting in the way of our plans tonight. Over the past couple years Shirley has developed a pelvic floor disfunction issue that causes her pain at times. It is a problem today. It seems to be worse due to her going through menapause so no sex tonight. It will only make her issue worse and we don’t want that. But she is definitely all in on being a hotwife again and I couldn’t be happier. She talking to D again about getting together.

This time things will be different. She is such a pleaser that she often did things she did really want to to please the guy. Particularly D. She loved sex with him but he had this way of seducing her into things like anal and DP when she really didn’t want it. She is now taking full control and doing it her way or it doesn’t happen. Very very sexy.

Shirley sent me this text a little while ago from work.

Is it normal to feel a little restless and excited cuz I want this to start and have fun???

Hope Shirley’s pain is more manageable now

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Tue Jan 21, 2025 11:13 am

Hope Shirley’s pain is more manageable now

Thanks for asking. It is better. It typically doesn’t last too long. Just has to get on it as soon as it pops up.

She has now made a second meet and greet date with Tom for Saturday. We did a meet and greet with him when we were still active. I think he’s a few years older if I remember correctly. The dinner was great. They had a great connection, a lot of kissing at the table, which I think is super hot. Sitting across from them, while they’re making out in a restaurant where we frequently run into people we know. Circumstances prevented a play date and then everything came to a stop.

She has kept in touch occasionally. I’m not sure if she’s planning for this to just be dinner or if she is thinking she will go farther Saturday. We’ll see how it goes.

She’s also talking to 2 potential new guys. 1 50 years old white guy that lives close to us. Within 30 minutes at least. 1 33 year old black guy the lives a little farther but close enough. She still has a preference for black guys but not ruling anything out.

Good luck with all 3 - hopefully all of them work out - Tom is likely familiar while the other sound more adventurous.

Those are exciting developments and it is a great to know she is considering jumping back into the pool. Thanks very much for sharing the news and I look forward to updates in the days ahead. If you attend as well, I hope they both encourage you to take photos for us.

Joe Pilot wrote: ↑

Wed Jan 22, 2025 12:09 pm

Those are exciting developments and it is a great to know she is considering jumping back into the pool. Thanks very much for sharing the news and I look forward to updates in the days ahead. If you attend as well, I hope they both encourage you to take photos for us.

Shirley, unexpectedly had the day off today. While I was helping her get dinner ready she said she wanted to talk to me about something after dinner when we had some privacy from our son. I was concerned she was having second thoughts after all the back and forth the last year and a half. There was no need to worry. She did a lot of thinking today and decided that if we can make it work, she wants her first time back to be essentially a repeat of the very first time ever. So she started texting D today. She wants to meet him at the same restaurant for dinner and go to the same hotel and have the same BBC that officially made her a hotwife a little over 3 years ago. I already knew she was texting him again because she texted me this afternoon. This is how that went:

Her-Damn… so ready to see Dave again!! Such a great connection with him.

Me-WOW! Wasn’t expecting that after last night.(she had a flashback of an experience she still regrets.)

Her-He and I both agree that we have a great connection!

Me- I coulda told you that! All you have to do watch how the 2 of you are when you have sex! Insanely hot to watch!!! I get that you don’t like how he seduced you into certain things but at the same time, it’s hot in a way that you like him so much you were willing(more like wanted) to try new things you never thought you’d ever try. So you’re texting him today?

Her: Yeah, he and I just connect in a way that I cannot explain. Different than anyone else

Me-You don’t have to explain. It’s very obvious and I love it. 🥰

Her-I enjoy his cock

Me-I know you do. Yet you still claim size doesn’t matter

Her-In my mouth and my pussy… fills me in ways that are unbelievable

Me-It would be awesome if you just gave me little details like that randomly more often. I love it.

Her-I’m finding that I’m enjoying being in control and saying what I like and don’t like. It took me time to gain that confidence. But I have it now.

Me-Damn that is soooo hot. That’s what I’ve been trying to get you to grasp about so much of this.

Her-I’ve got it now.


I expect I will be videoing and taking pics. Shame the old pic thread is gone along with the original story thread.

It's blazing hot to hear about Shirley talking and feeling this way in anticipation of her comeback adventure.

I remember the backstory. You told the story so well. Anyway, I appreciate it and celebrate it with you, Fox.

Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to your next update.

That sounds like great news Fox. When is Shirley planning to recreate her date with Dave ?
If you still have some of the pictures from the earlier thread perhaps you can repost a few in a new thread?

hornedhubby wrote: ↑

Wed Jan 22, 2025 6:35 pm

It's blazing hot to hear about Shirley talking and feeling this way in anticipation of her comeback adventure.

I remember the backstory. You told the story so well. Anyway, I appreciate it and celebrate it with you, Fox.

Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to your next update.

When we got in bed last night we were both exhausted but she started telling me how excited she is to fuck him again. It got me instantly hard and I couldn’t help but jerk off. Didnt take very long. Don’t know when it’s gonna happen yet but I can’t wait.

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Wed Jan 22, 2025 8:19 pm

That sounds like great news Fox. When is Shirley planning to recreate her date with Dave ?
If you still have some of the pictures from the earlier thread perhaps you can repost a few in a new thread?

Unfortunately all those pics are gone. I have a few that I took shortly before everything stopped that I don’t think I ever posted. Might try to put those up. Gotta figure out that process again.

Fox wrote: ↑

Thu Jan 23, 2025 5:19 am

Unfortunately all those pics are gone. I have a few that I took shortly before everything stopped that I don’t think I ever posted. Might try to put those up. Gotta figure out that process again.

Thank you for taking the time.

I posted the few pics I have right now in the hotties forum. Hope you enjoy

Thanks Fox. You may want to update the links in your signature to point to the new entries?

Thanks for the background on what happened to you and Shirley. It now sounds quite positive with multiple friends on the horizon.
I’m sure we are all awaiting the developments.
PS the links in your footer are wrong.

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Thu Jan 23, 2025 8:32 pm

Thanks Fox. You may want to update the links in your signature to point to the new entries?

Yeah, that’s another I’m gonna have to figure out. I’m not great with this kinda stuff. Can you or someone direct me how to fix that? Been quite a while since I did that.

The 2nd meet and greet didnt happen tonight. Something delayed him and he wanted to push it back 2 hours. That just wasn’t going to work for Shirley. She said if she’s gonna do this it’s gonna be on her terms this time. She’s not gonna give any to every little thing the guy wants. She was disappointed. We were getting ready to go when he texted. Then she tells me she was actually planning to fuck him tonight. She got all excited about it this afternoon and didnt tell me until it got canceled. She wanted to surprise me and him.

Good thing is this gives her the chance to have D be her first in her return like she really wanted anyway. She just booked a hotel for next Saturday and she and D are both crazy excited and texting about how amazing it’s going to be. She was so worked up about we had some great sex.

An added bonus for next week is my birthday is a few days after. We would’ve gone out to dinner or something but I can’t think of a better present than getting to watch her fuck her favorite fwb.