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Hello, from Kelly, Hotwife married to Wesley

In general do you accept FWB, boyfriend(s), exes, or long term sex partners as friends on social media?

I myself have several men on my social media as friends that I have had sex with in the past or currently having sex with and no issues have occurred because of this.

My hotwife style is based on a connection / friendship to the men I have sex with, therefore having them as friends on social media is just a natural extension of my personality

Your thoughts or experiences. Thank you Kelly

I have read on here that good friends seldom make good hotwife partners, but good hotwife partners can become good friends.

My wife and I are consensual non monogamous and I have women friends that I had sex with and she has male friends she has had sex with and they are on our social media.

Having said that, almost all of our FWB’s were our good friends first and then the chemistry developed into us having sex.

I do it. I’ve had to remove/block a couple though. And I never post or share anything that indicates there’s anything more than a friendship.

MarknSusan wrote: ↑

Mon Jan 20, 2025 10:39 am

My wife and I are consensual non monogamous and I have women friends that I had sex with and she has male friends she has had sex with and they are on our social media.

Having said that, almost all of our FWB’s were our good friends first and then the chemistry developed into us having sex.

Exactly the same for us.

Wife has a FB from her past who she is friends with on social media. Can’t explain why but it’s a super turn on for me.

Hello BT2 from Kelly:

You are 100% correct…. good hotwife partners can become good friends.

Also, both my husband and I are turned by having males on my social media that I have had sex with listed as friends is erotic and naughty hiding something in plain sight that most will not figure out.

Aussiem wrote: ↑

Tue Jan 21, 2025 9:03 am

MarknSusan wrote: ↑

Mon Jan 20, 2025 10:39 am

My wife and I are consensual non monogamous and I have women friends that I had sex with and she has male friends she has had sex with and they are on our social media.

Having said that, almost all of our FWB’s were our good friends first and then the chemistry developed into us having sex.

Exactly the same for us.

Massage4Wife72 wrote: ↑

Tue Jan 21, 2025 9:08 am

Wife has a FB from her past who she is friends with on social media. Can’t explain why but it’s a super turn on for me.

Several of my wife's lovers, past and present are her friends on social media. She started on social media a long time ago, before I was even aware that people our age did it.
I found out about it a lot later.

My wifey nearly has all of her bulls on social media!

artsybull wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 04, 2025 12:18 pm

My wifey nearly has all of her bulls on social media!

AB
- As friends or more than friends?

Generally, we don't mix our private and personal lives but there's bound to be an overlap at times.

Becky has a couple of guys on social media that she has slept with many times but they are also good friends of many years.

We also have our neighbours as FB friends. We've always said we'd never play with immediate neighbours or work colleagues but it happened. And as mentioned earlier, it's quite erotic to know that we have regular sex with some friends, and other friends don't suspect a thing.

Many years ago my ex and I played with a guy I worked with and they also lived next door. That continued for a long time but we recognised the risks involved and I suppose we were lucky. But that was before social media had been invented...!

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 04, 2025 5:16 pm

artsybull wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 04, 2025 12:18 pm

My wifey nearly has all of her bulls on social media!

AB
- As friends or more than friends?

Both. I know they still sext sometimes!