Bareback

[namitha157]

I do love being dominated.

Hi namitha,

You're a sexually normal and healthy woman.

It's natural and normal for women to be sexually submissive. Women expect and rely on men to be sexually dominant.

I have never been with a sexually dominant woman. I've heard rumors that they exist, but I've yet to meet one.

If you were to meet my wife, you might confuse her for being sexually dominant. She exudes self-confidence and she's naturally gregarious (required components of her former profession), yet she's practiced at concealing her insecurities and vulnerabilities. All women have insecurities and vulnerabilities. She loves sex more than any women I have ever known. She can have sex virtually 24/7/365. She's almost always the first one naked. After she's naked, she expects men to dominate during sex. Like most women, she's naturally sexually submissive. She has never done well with timid dudes and dudes lacking sexual aggression.

Its funny I had always had the upper hand when dating.
I wouldn't let my bfs see me naked or touch me.

I wanted to do more sexu al things but often shut the guy down before letting him to too far.

Its not the same when I have sex. Its the opposite.

[Tank Turner]

Hi namitha157,

I sounds like you were timid and shy, both of which are normal for young women. As women gain confidence, they'll do anything asked of them.

My wife learned when she was in high school that guys were turned on and often intimidated by her naked body. She learned that guys were visual. She loved to be naked. She has always had sex with a light on because she knew that guys wanted to see her naked body and sex acts, especially blowjobs, she performed on them. She knew it turned on guys to watch their cocks disappear inside of her mouth.

Assuming you're comfortable with a dude who knows what he's doing, surrender your naked body for him to enjoy. You'll experience far more enjoyment than he will.

Since the first time I had sex with my wife, which was on the evening of our first date, she has always talked during sex. She expected me to respond and converse with her about what we were doing. If you want a dude to lick and suck orgasms out of your clit, tell him to go down on you. Always express your desires to dudes you're having sex with.

[Bryce 69]

TT
Hannah is very submissive good or great sex for her requires the men to be very Dominate
Many men think they are Dominate but really are not
The memorizable sex for her have been absolute Fuckings by true Dom Bulls

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello from Kelly, Hotwife married to Wesley

Obviously telling another man you can have bareback sex with you without a condom is a huge turn on for them.

Go one step further and tell a man you are not on birth control will be the biggest turn on ever and have them begging to cum inside your pussy. I would have say from my experience the number turn on for many men is to cum inside another man’s wife when she is not on birth control. Kelly

[stonemtncouple]

When she started Hotwifing I required the men to show STI test results before fucking her bare.
She’s never required condoms and orgasms with her men as they fill her pussy.

Hi stonemtncouple,

I completely agree that with you. A very recent STD blood test is the only way of knowing as factual that anyone is STD free, assuming, of course, that that person abstained from sexual contact with others before you vetted him.

There probably are phlebotomy laboratories that provide faster than 24 hour turnaround. I believe Quest Diagnostics turnaround is 24 hours.

My wife's college physician explained to her at great length that the only way of eliminating risk of STD contamination short of abstinence, which was not reasonable for coeds, was to limit her sexual activity to one partner whom she knew was STD free and could be trusted to not engage in sexual activities with other women.

I would not rely on condoms for pregnancy and STD protection/prevention.

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[Tank Turner]

Hello from Kelly, Hotwife married to Wesley

Obviously telling another man you can have bareback sex with you without a condom is a huge turn on for them.

Go one step further and tell a man you are not on birth control will be the biggest turn on ever and have them begging to cum inside your pussy. I would have say from my experience the number turn on for many men is to cum inside another man’s wife when she is not on birth control. Kelly

Hi Kelly,

Because you can conceive a child, does your husband have a say in who cums inside of you? Is he good with the possibility of raising another man's child?

From experience, except for my wife, I never came inside a woman who wasn't on birth control and could conceive. I did not want to sweat bullets waiting for her period to arrive.

I had a scare when a condom broke inside of a college girl I was seeing. That scared the shit outta me. Fortunately for both of us, her period arrived right on schedule.

[Barti]

It is si hot and cruel. Locked 24/7 and pussy free, while other man are creaming deep in her pussy.....

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, Tank Turner from Kelly

Wesley is a wonderful hotwife husband he is he good with the possibility of raising another man's child? Kelly

[Tank Turner]

Hi Kelly,

You're right. Wesley is what I'd refer to as a man's man.

My wife and I got into sport fucking after her tubes were tied. I've thought about sport fucking if pregnancy were a possibility. I concluded that I would not want to know whether I were the father. I'd raise the child as if I were the child's father.

We decided to participate in sport fucking as a team. If her tubes weren't tied and she conceived, we'd be equal partners in conception. I would never remotely think about blaming her.

My wife used to always ask my opinion about her sport fucking partners. I always replied the same way. She was a mature woman who was capable of deciding who she wanted to sport fuck.

She's been fucking only Brad since New Year's Eve '24. All three of us are friends. Brad is best friends with my wife's sister's fiancé. We completely trust him. She's sexually submissive by nature. She has given his carte blanche to cum anywhere he desires. If not in her mouth or pussy, she prefers cum on her tits. She's told me that after I bailed to go home to sleep, he pulled out of her mouth and covered her face with just one huge money shot. That's the only facial he's given her that I know about. I should have asked her whose idea a facial was. My wife has a wild, kinky side of her sexuality.

Brad is 15 years younger than my wife. He can easily fuck her five times over the course of an evening and early morning. After they awaken, he'll usually fuck her two more times before taking her to breakfast or lunch and then home. My ability to fuck her like that ended not long after I turned thirty. Our libidos went in opposite directions. She's told me more than a few times that she's more horny now than when she was a fuck-a-holic college coed. I'm not exaggerating. When her endocrine system abnormality flares, she can fuck endlessly and want more. Having her tubes tied eliminates worrying about her conceiving. At her age, I believe probability of conception is less than 5%. He sister is close to three years younger than her. She had no problem conceiving. But then again, when she had her fiancé decided to try for a child, they fucked every chance they had.

[Tank Turner]

BTW, Kelly, Wesley and you have a beautiful relationship. You're the woman that all honest men wish they could marry. Wesley is extremely fortunate to be able to call you his wife. He's the envy of all other men.

Self-confident, self-assured, chivalrous men want to marry sexually experienced and sexually confident women. They do not want to marry women who view sex as a marital obligation. Men love and cherish wild, kinky, and naughty women who love sex at least as much as they do.

I've listened to too many men crying in their beers because their wives did not like sex and very infrequently fucked them in darkness, under covers, and on their backs. I'd rather marry a porn star that a woman who infrequently fucked me like that.

There's a reason rock stars, movie stars, and sports stars marry porn stars.

[Tank Turner]

Another BTW, Kelly,

My wife has known and knows women who have a delusional, almost hatred for men's cum. My wife thought that they had/have psychological issues because cum is the natural product of successful sex.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Another BTW, Kelly,

My wife has known and knows women who have a delusional, almost hatred for men's cum. My wife thought that they had/have psychological issues because cum is the natural product of successful sex.

My wife’s current boyfriend just left his longtime (8 years) girlfriend who was like this. He and my wife had been hooking up for about a year before they split. (He realized that my wife’s “availability” was a far better relationship than the tormented relationship he was in…….so, when his girlfriend came home one day and said she’s considering a job in another state, he said, “See ya!”)

Anyways, his ex was absolutely turned off when it came to sex between the two of them. He thought it might have been his fault, but he didn’t know how to fix it. She hated cum, and she insisted that the lights be turned off. She absolutely INSISTED on condoms at all times. (You would figure that a couple that’s been together for eight years would figure out a way to compromise……maybe condomless foreplay……maybe a blowjob……but no. She wasn’t having a moment of the possibility that he might cum, and she might have to touch it.)

By the time he and my wife hooked up, he was getting a piece from his partner about once every three months. So, when my wife came along and gave him bareback about once a week, he thought he’d died and gone to heaven. He realized how a great sex life changes EVERYTHING.

Naturally, he couldn’t get enough of it. (And my wife was having a blast, too!…….As was I!) He has always been aware that I’m okay with her extramarital fun. At first he was freaked out by our openness, but he has certainly settled in now.

But back to his prudish ex…..He occasionally tells us stories about what sex was like with a prude partner for so long. We often can’t believe he lived that way for eight years. Some of his stories are mind-boggling. (“Do people really live that way???”). It was like sex, for her, was a loathed “chore” that she had to do, like, once every three (or four?) months. She hated it so much and built these really strict conditions around how it would happen. Everything was planned. No spontaneity. Condom on AT ALL TIMES.

My wife, of course, is proud that she managed to “save” him from the scrap heap. He’s a keeper. He’s a good man! (And I agree. He’s a pretty cool dude!) He’s like a new man, he now says. Getting bareback sex (and more….lights on, loud, back-arching, laughing/smiling, happy-to-be-with-you sex….PIV and oral) about once a week with my wife has given him a much more positive outlook on the future, and it’s obvious that there’s a new spring in his step since his ex has left. He can’t believe that he’d forgotten how good sex can be. We’re all able to laugh about it now, when we occasionally talk about it. But I often wonder how many other men are living a shitty sex life…..and we just have no idea.

He says he’s a better worker in his job. He’s optimistic about his goals. He’s just generally happier and far less stressed. People have noticed, too. They make comments now and then, wondering where his newfound optimism has come from.

(He and my wife work together. If they only knew!)

I can’t emphasize enough how good and important a healthy sex life is for every other part of our lives.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, Tank Turner. You are absolutely 100 % correct

As you stated, “ We decided to participate in sport fucking as a team. If her tubes weren't tied and she conceived, we'd be equal partners in conception. I would never remotely think about blaming her.”

If a husband and wife are in this lifestyle and the wife gets pregnant by another man, both hubby and wife take equal share and responsibility. No blame game at that point. Kelly

[Tank Turner]

Hi Kelly,

I completely agree with you.

For our lifestyle to work successfully and for it to be equally enjoyable and euphoric, husbands and wives have to enter it and remain throughout it best friends and each other's primary support. There must never be blame or shame attached to it. Possibility of pregnancy should be discussed before entering our lifestyle. If pregnancy is a real possibility, and if an unplanned pregnancy were to occur, and if the wife were uncertain who the father is, the husband must raise the child as if he were the father and love and accept the baby as his.

The same applies if the husband were fucking a hotwife who becomes pregnant. If a husband were the possible father, he and his wife must do everything they can to assist and support the pregnant woman.

Our lifestyle gives us incredible exciting, euphoric ecstasy, yet as a team, husband and wife must confront and resolve unplanned consequences as a united team.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, Tank from Kelly

As you stated, “ There must never be blame or shame attached to it, possibly of pregnancy, (by another man and not the husband).

Typically I take the mini birth control pills due to headaches if I take the regular ones.

The progestogen-only pill is a daily pill you swallow at the same time each day to prevent pregnancy. It’s also called the mini pill.

In real life use about 9 in 100 people will get pregnant in a year because they forget to take it (91% effective).

So in the course of the year I usually have sex with my boyfriend more than my husband so if I do fall into that 9% category and become pregnant more than likely it would be by my husband and my husband, boyfriend, and myself accept this risk.

I also admit I can be forgetful in taking the pill on a daily basis which increases my pregnancy risk.

To my point in this lifestyle there is a chance another man may get a hotwife pregnant and all parties involved should agree on that prior to getting into this lifestyle. My final point by no means in a loving marriage it is not the end of the world if another man gets a hotwife pregnant, raise and love the child as if the husband is the biological father. Thanks Kelly

[Tank Turner]

Hi Kelly,

You're the essence of intellectual and analytical. You've approached our lifestyle with reason, logic, and reality. My guess is many people take advantage of spontaneous opportunities without considering consequences. As you've written, husbands and wives should thoroughly discuss our lifestyle before entering it.

I dated a college chick who was on the pill. Relying on my memory, she forgot to take it at least 25% of the time. We were lucky.

My wife was prescribed the pill during puberty as medicine to treat her endocrine system abnormality. She is not sure whether it worked. She is sure it kept her out of maternity wards. If fucking was an academic discipline when she was in college, she would have graduated magna cum laude with a BS (bachelorette of sex).

In California, divorce is more common than marriage. It's extremely common for men to marry mothers with kids. Their new husbands often adopt her kids, and raise them as their own in a united family.

A hotwife who conceives without knowledge of the father and her husband raises the baby as his own would be differentiated from a man marrying a mother and raising her kids as his insignificantly nuanced by reasoning of a fool, and it would not be anyone's business other than the husband and wife involved.

For our lifestyle to work successfully with mystical, orgasmic euphoria and excitement, honesty is an absolute. If approached correctly, there would be no regret, blame, or shame. When husbands and wives cheat, which implies lying, marriages are in process of dissolution. I've read that 10% of men are raising children they believe they fathered but were fathered by their wives paramours. Wives live the rest of their lives protecting lies. I would rather know the truth than lies. And if the truth were she'd didn't know whose baby she were carrying, I could live with that, and no blame would be involved.

If my wife engaged in a drunken act of indiscretion and conceived another man's child, I could resolve it if she were honest. I'd probably be pissed over her mistake, but I'd get over it and move forward with our marriage.

BTW, I'm sure you've had condoms break. I have. I know men and women who have had condoms break. Hence, condoms are not reliable protection against pregnancy and STDs.

[BeNatural]

We have discussed the risks associated with disease. She discusses a guy's sexual history and attitude about sexual health before they fuck. That possibly makes it somewhat less risky but only marginally and sometimes people lie.

After much discussion, she went ahead with the bareback. She has contracted infections 8 times over the years but thank God nothing that couldn't be cured.

She was on the pill for the first 15 years of our relationship but no method of birth control is perfect. After that she had her had her tubes tied.

So after the second time she tried condoms, she has taken them all bareback.

That's the kind of partner I hope to end up with, one that knows the actual risks and still chooses to usually go bare, even with the occasional bar hookup stranger.

My current girlfriend is strict on condoms, but she has diagnosed ocd AND works in a state laboratory retesting positive test results for non-sexual diseases all day. So, infections are really on her mind a lot. I guess it's a given she'd not be a risk taker.

I like he metaphor of choosing to ride motorcycles as similar to bare sex with new sex partners. We know the risks, but some still choose to ride motorcycles, or have bare sex. It's a risk/reward equation (without pregnancy possibilities).

I'm rather fascinated with women that don't use condoms with new guys, since in my polyamory dating life they're such sticklers for condoms.

It was different back in my 20's when I was the extra guy for hotwives. 6 of 10 wanted bare sex from the start. One of the condom users chose bare on the 2nd play date. That lines up with national health surveys I've read that ~33% of women (over age 30) are strict on condoms, while the rest never or sometimes use them.

I'd want my partner to have the HPV vaccine and talk about testing with most new guys, but I wouldn't be mad if she fucked without a discussion, once in a while. I think a woman's intuition is better than 50/50 odds by a little, as the subconscious is calculating risks.

Also, having the personality to handle having sti's psychologically is important. I dated one woman that was so mad to have had trich in her past.

I didn't catch an sti with the hotwives, but did catch a minor sti from receiving oral with a poly woman 2 years ago.

I've had sex with 2 women that had HSV2, an outer labia location (in their past), and I didn't catch it. It can be in their introitus, but it's more often where a condom does not cover.

A podcast with a researcher broke down the actual HSV2 numbers to be about 13% of the population, but I'll have to listen to it again.

I have HSV1, the oral type, and as far as I know, it hasn't passed on.

I'm really hoping to find that bareback loving partner as the future unfolds.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I have HSV1, the oral type, and as far as I know, it hasn't passed on.

Apparently, you can get it from something as simple as drinking out of someone else’s glass.

Something like 50 to 80 percent of the American population has HSV1.
………….
The percentage of the American population with HSV2 is more than 10 percent, but less than 20 percent.
………….
I wonder if these statistics carry over to worldwide populations.

[sana9889]

Been wearing a diaphragm.
I would recommend it over condoms or pills.
Taking cum in my pussy during fertile times are wild.
I love asking men to try and get me pregnant. Most of them panic slightly. The ones that don't know about the diaphragm. My regular guys know. But almost all of them cum very quickly hearing those words.

[Filou]

You can not prevent HSV1 with a condom, but a lot of other things so in our opinion it is only reasonable to use a condom with people who you met only 1-2 times.

When it's time to let go of them is on her discretion only, but usually not less than a month and never without everyone beeing tested.

[john41+1]

Adding to the comments on the bareback question, its some time since my wife has been active in the lifestyle, we started before the internet through to the earlier days of the internet, so she had to work a lot harder back then to find the right guy. She is a bareback girl and during this time she never had a guy ask if she was on birth control or if she wanted him to use a condom. She actually found this surprising, but it was also a big turn on for her as well, as she likes her men to be confident and in a nice way take more of a lead role. The first couple of times she did the hot wife thing, when she got home she would tell me how it went, and she was shocked that a guy wouldnt atleast ask if she is on the pill. Best part was that she found this such a huge turn on that a guy would pump her full of cum and obviously not care if she gets pregnant.

Many of my wifes fantasies have an element of being used by men in them, but in a nice way, she said from her first HW experience - she did not expect to get so much excitement from the whole experience. She loved a man taking control and giving it to her without any regard to her getting pregnant. ( she only ever did any HW when on the pill, if she was having a break off the pill she never looked for this as she knew with the right foreplay she wont be able to resist him.) The whole HW thing was my idea and it took some time to convince her to try it. She was very nervous about the whole thing. Luckily her first guy was a great experience for her and she realized she could let go with a guy she just met and really enjoy being worked over by him and filled with his cum. So bareback was very important to her and was to me as well, she loved showing off any cum left in and around her when she got home. We both loved the sloppy wet sex we had soon as she got home. So it was a big deal for both of us.

She wasnt doing this all the time, it was just every now and then over the years. Things may be somewhat different now with the younger generation, but back then she didn't have even one guy even mention the word condom. She is a sexy lady and knows how to subtly let a guy know he is going to be lucky so that he is not so cautious or slow to move, this way she knew likely once the foreplay starts he is not going to be asking any questions, and will confidently take her and give her exactly what she wants, great sex, deep climaxes, and filled with cum from a guy she hardly knows.

This all started way back very early in our marriage, we already had a great sex life, my wife tried the HW thing more to please me in the start, but she soon found the excitement being with a new guy filling her with cum took her climaxes to an even deeper level. So for both of us it was all about the guy cumming in her. Over the years naturally we did consider the risks, but still occasionally things happened. She had my permission to take an opportunity if one came along. Life got busy in the later years when she was active, by then she was less interested in meeting new guys, she ended up continuing on with 2 guys. One of them she met several times a week for about 6 months, the other she continued with him for over 10 years. She would have kept it going with him, but in that time he got divorced and in the end he met a lady he got engaged to and at that point he told my wife he didnt want to risk his new marriage, so he had to end it after 10 years of regular sex. My wife was very disappointed the day he gave her the its over - this is the last time news. Disappointed would be an understatement. The other lady was known about for over a year so she thought he would keep it going regardless. So it was a fairly safe situation for a long time that I doubt my wife would have ended if it was up to her. Since then life was busy and things just didnt happen in that area.

On the bareback side of things, this was really important for my wife, without this she would have lost a lot of the appeal for her. Of late I have tried to get her interested again as we are at a different stage of life, havent got a yes as yet, but she has said she would prefer the right guy for a longer term type of situation. So this is how we thought way back all those years ago, we are early to mid 60"s now. Pregnancy is no longer an issue, and she always enjoys bareback.

[MarknSusan]

John41+1, thank you for sharing that well written story. Susan and I are in the same age group and still at this lifestyle. Hope things stay exciting for both of you!

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, Tank from Kelly hotwife married to Wesley.

Your statement is very true, “ In California, divorce is more common than marriage. It's extremely common for men to marry mothers with kids. Their new husbands often adopt her kids, and raise them as their own in a united family.”

Some men find it more appealing to forgo fathering their own children, and skipping the baby / diaper changing stage by marrying a divorced mother with older children. Works well for the divorced mothers and the single men looking for love and marriage.

So men are extremely turned on by the possibility of getting me pregnant which turns me on while me husband on the other hand is not really into getting me pregnant which I find amusing. Kelly

[Tank Turner]

Hi Kelly,

I gotta agree. There are men who prefer marrying an instant family: a woman with kids. I know/knew men who went the instant family route.

Maybe a couple years after I graduated from college, I dated a chick who had a kid. I might have been in love with her. She was extremely pretty and had an excellent body. She loved sex. A dude she dated before I met her took her to a "Playboy" photo shoot. He may have been her kid's father. It was too long ago to remember, and it didn't matter. She showed me the photos. I've always loved, admired, and respected chicks who had sexual confidence and were confident naked. She was very confident naked. The photos were obviously taken by a professional photographer and tastefully done. Her boyfriend was not allowed in the studio. While she posed completely naked, she did not pose seductively. She was selected for a follow-up photo shoot. She missed being a Playmate because of a younger blonde. She was brunette. Her parents lived in the Midwest. They constantly pressured her to move back to the Midwest so they could see their grandson more often. If she hadn't of moved, I might not have met my wife. She was a couple years older than me. We got along perfectly. I always welcomed her kid to accompany us. I would have rather skipped Chuck-e-Cheese, but it made her son happy which made her happy so I endured a bunch of yelling kids.

All sexually active people have kinky facets of their sexuality. My wife told me about a few of her former boyfriends who got off cumming on her body and admiring it. One who was more of a college booty call than boyfriend got off on cumming on her tits and using his hands to rub it into her tits. She said it made her crazy horny. Hence, I get your thrill and excitement of flirting with the possibility to conceiving another man's child. Sex should be thrilling and exciting.

I could write a book about my wife's kinky sexuality. I love it. She has keeping sex fun and exciting wired.

Probably up until the time I met my wife, I always asked chicks if it was safe to cum inside them. I did have a few close calls after cumming inside of chicks. My wife told me while we were headed toward her bedroom on the evening of our first date that she was on the pill. Since we became exclusive, which was about a month after we met, my wife is the only woman I've fucked and the only woman I want to fuck.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Kelly,

What's your take on a married woman who conceives but is unsure who the father is? Should she be honest with her husband. Or should she go with, "What he doesn't know won't hurt him?"

Dudes learn at a young age that drunk chicks have a propensity to get naked and engage in indiscriminate sex. My guess is most college coeds have experienced it and assuredly most party girls, too. Rock star and sports star groupies don't have to get drunk to bang rock and sports stars.

I know that regrettable mistakes are more likely when wives do girls nights out and get hammered. A handsome, suave dude plays a plastered housewife, especially if he's younger. Next thing she knows, he's banging her lights out and she's loving it until sobriety returns. That's when lucid wheels turn in her head. She misses her period. She buys an EPT that shows positive for a baby 9 months away. What should she do?

I know it happens because I know white collar, professional husbands who experienced it. One is a prestigiously educated lawyer who graduated from one of the top five law schools in the country. His wife was a white collar scientist. It could happen to men who believe their marriages are rock solid secure. Drunk women are prone to making mistakes. All of us have made and will make mistakes. Drunken indiscriminate sex is common. Ask honest college coeds and party girls.

Depending on environments, I have to keep an eye on my wife when she's shitfaced drunk. She prefers nudity to clothing when she's sober. When she's drunk, it's hot, a pool is in a backyard, and no kids are around, she'll get naked and jump in with other swimmers. When other swimmers were naked, I didn't care. But if she were shitfaced drunk and a dude asked her to show him her tits, I'd have to prevent it.

Getting naked is one thing. Sex is entirely different. My wife is pretty damned cautious about who she has sex with. However, I do know she could make a mistake during a girls night out if she were drunk and a Casanova charmed her out of her clothes.

I can resolve a mistake. I've made enough of them to have mistake resolution wired. If my wife were honest, I could resolve and forgive her mistake. What I can't resolve is lying. If she lied about her mistake, what else has she lied to me about? Lying indicates a marriage unraveling.

After my wife and I became exclusive, we promised each other to never lie to each other. Lying destroys trust. Without trust, there is no relationship. My wife and I were in agreement that with honesty, we could resolve any mistake. If she did a girls night out and got shitfaced and fucked the bartender on top of the bar, I'd resolve it and put it behind us if she were honest and told me about her reckless indiscretion. I know what plastered women are prone to doing. As long as she were honest, I would not consider dissolving our marriage over a drunken mistake. If she got knocked up and didn't know who the father was, I'm certain she'd tell me the truth. With honesty, together we can resolve any mistake and put it behind us even if I'm not sure I'm the father of the child I'm raising. I wouldn't want to know.

Kelly, what do you think? Is lying worse than a drunken, indiscriminate mistake?

That lawyer friend of ours divorced his wife not because of her indiscriminate sex. She continued to lie about it after being confronted with irrefutable proof. After he accumulated stacks of proof, she finally admitted it. He divorced her for lying, not for a mistake of indiscriminate sex. He could no longer trust her.