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My wife brought me lunch and her clit for me to work. She's committed to helping her sister with her newborn for the first month. The fiance has a six week leave to help with his baby daughter. My wife and the fiance take baby duty turns while mom rests.

My sister-in-law is 43. When she and her fiance decided to try for a baby, her physician told her (from my not always precise memory) that at her age, she had a 10% of conceiving. He told her genetics is the dominant criterion in determining whether women in their 40s can conceive. She has always been healthy. Their mom didn't hit menopause until her late 50s. She did think it was a miracle that she conceived. She made her fiance fuck her 24/7.

She was miserable during the last month of her pregnancy. She could never get comfortable. She stopped fucking her fiancee around Christmas because she couldn't get comfortable. She said she wanted to try for another child. After seeing how miserable she was during the last month of her pregnancy, my bet is she's changed her mind.

My wife told me she's more bored doing baby duty than I am working from home. Other than her baby duty shifts, she and the fiance play cards, watch movies, play board games, clean the house, dote on her sister, read, go shopping together, cook, and listen to her sister's fiance bitch about not getting laid in two months. I asked her if he's hit on her. She immediately replied, "No way." They have a brother-sister relationship. If the kids aren't home, she'll not give a second thought to walking completely naked from her bedroom to the kitchen for a drink. The fiance has seen my naked wife hundreds of times, and she's seen him naked hundreds of times. Neither one has ever remotely thought about hitting on the other.

Before my wife actually experienced extramarital sport fucking, we agreed that we'd never, ever fuck family. She views her sister's fiance as her brother, not her future brother-in-law. They talk, squabble, and bicker like brother & sister, but they get along perfectly. They have explicitly talked sex in detail. He probably knows her sexual fantasies. He knows she's fucking Brad. He knows she does extramarital sport fucking, which is an Olympic sport, I believe ;-)

She's reassured him many times that her sister won't be fuckable for 6 weeks after giving birth, but six weeks will fly by. Knowing her sister like I know her sister, when she's back to normal and her hormones straighten out, she'll fuck him long before six weeks. She's as horny as my wife. She's more horny than her fiance. But she's getting a lot more sex and sex she loves than she ever got from her ex-husband.

He's complained to me that if he doesn't get pussy soon, his nuts might remain permanently blue. I have empathy for him. Since the date they met until around Christmas, they fucked all the time. He went from getting pussy anytime he wanted it to jacking off. But they'll be back at it sooner that he thinks.

Even though the fiance has six weeks off, my wife spends the night at her sister's. She told her she would right after she found out she was knocked up. My wife and her sister are extremely close. Sisters are usually closer than brothers. She wants her sister to get rest and not stress about taking care of her newborn. An hour ago, the sister looked normal with baby fat. In fact, her face was as beautiful as I've ever seen her. My wife said she tires easily, which is normal for the first couple weeks after delivery for women in their 40s.

My wife will just about always come home every day for a few hours. On the date we agreed to become committed and exclusive, she told me she needed sex every day. Orgasms put her in a happy and blissful mood. She's more horny now that she's ever been. She comes home for a few hours to see me and talk with me and get her clit worked by my mouth and tongue. By a massive margin, she's the best sex I've ever had.

Another three weeks and she'll be back living at home. Both of us miss not sleeping together. I go over to her sister's house a lot. But after a couple hours of noisy teenagers, I'm ready to bail. I was there this evening for dinner.

I see my wife every day. Sometimes she'll skip a day depending on what's on her sister's schedule. While I completely support her helping her sister, I miss the hell out of her. We're best friends. It's not just the best sex I have ever had that I miss. I miss her not being home. I miss her giving me orders that don't sound like orders.

Help me out here. The fiance will go three months before he can fuck his future bride. What's the longest length of time married couples have gone without having sex? My wife can't go three hours without having sex. That's an exaggeration, but not by much. Her sister is as horny as she is, but her hormones are out of whack. Is three months a long time for married couples to not have sex?

While I don't have any experience with the hotwife lifestyle I do have experience with denial. It's not the kind of denial that has the wife enjoying sex while the husband is denied. It's the regular ambivalent no desire for sex on her part kind of denial. This is the reason for my "tag line", I get my denial the old fashion way, I married vanilla! We've gone three months several times without sex and it is the absolute worst for me. It has caused me to become resentful and emotionally disinterested.

I finally had a talk with her about it. She said she just doesn't need sex that much or doesn't need it as much as I do. That hurt! Hearing that was hard to take. I want her to want it, and apparently I haven't done enough to help create that desire. That felt like one more straw on the camel's back.

Fortunately, she admitted that she could see how her attitude was affecting mine and it wasn't going in a direction she liked. She promised to make a better effort towards being more receptive and available and interested. I was skeptical but to her credit she has made a verifiable effort that has been wonderful. She maybe acting that way but it has certainly been a convincing act if she has.

Any of our long droughts of sex has taken us to dark places in our marriage. For my part I say with certainty that it has never been productive. It always raised more doubt and resentment in me. Those long stretches of no sex always felt like a punishment and an all too familiar routine that lead to ambivalence. Not good! I'm so glad things are better now.

Hi costalkid,

I have sincere empathy for you. Sexual deprivation can cause psychological and physical problems, and usually divorce. At your convenience, you might want to consider doing a 'net search of, "Women hysteria treatment." Through the early 20th century, husbands took their wives to physicians for treatment of what was assumed were symptoms of hysteria. Physicians massaged wives' clit to orgasm which resulted in termination of symptoms of hysteria. That was before medicine began studying human sexuality. If you were to locate copies of Sears Roebuck catalogs from the early 20th century, you'd find in them advertisements for hysteria cures. They were vibrators.

I did not know how fortunate I was when I met the woman who's now my wife. We had hardcore porn star sex on the evening of our first date. I assumed she would be another booty call chick I could rely on. She later told me that she intuitively knew we were more than sex partners, yet she relied on me as her booty call. We were both seeing other people. At the time, I didn't care who she was seeing as long as I was included. I'm sure it was the best sex I ever had that caused me to subconsciously call her before other chicks. A month later, we were committed and exclusive.

A lot of factors influence a person's personality that's usually developed during late childhood/early adolescence. My wife's parents were strict about there daughters' social interactions (sex), yet they encouraged them to be curious, learn and explore.

Since my wife and her sisters were children, after their nightly baths, they didn't put on pajamas until their mom forced them to sleep. Her and her sister did everything naked after their nightly baths in one of their bedrooms. They thought it was completely normal. To this day, both prefer to be naked when they can.

My wife has a very high IQ. I think her elevated intelligence was developed by her parents' encouraging the sisters to learn, be curious, and explore. I'm positive that her intellect created her beliefs about sex.

My wife and I are best friends. I rely on her intelligence when I'm confronted with complex problems. She can blow me away by the speed she can find the right answer to problems that baffled the shit out of me. We're each other's best friend. To this day, we enjoy each other's company. We're completely sexually compatible. We can destroy a bedroom during sex. She has never liked tender loving she. She loves to be manhandled during rough, hard, porn star sex. Before and after sex, she loves tender loving. She's naturally sexually submissive. Based on my experience, most women are. She thinks men should be in control during sex. I've always taken care of her before thinking of me. In fact, she told me that I was the first dude she fucked who showed concern for her sexual desires. I was the first dude who licked and sucked orgasms out of her clit. I won't work her like a porn star until she's exhausted from orgasms. After she rests, she'll willing submit to any sex act I desire. However, after she cums, she loves to be fucked hard and rough.

We're lucky that we found each other, discovered our many commonalities other than sex, and married. We know that routine sex causes boring sex that causes lost interest in sex. When couples lose interest in sex, their marriages become vulnerable to termination. My wife has exciting sex wired. We were equally sexually experienced when we met. She had the sexually adventurous advantage. I was an excellent student. When she suggested an exciting sexual activity, I complied without hesitation.

Sexual compatibility is a crucial factor in keeping marriages together.

coastalkid, I'm happy that your wife has responded positively to your requests for regular sex. It might help if you were to incorporate exciting sex into your sex lives. Take her to a romantic spot during an evening to check our stars. Bring wine and a blanket to sit on. Then fuck her like a porn star under the stars. She'll probably love it. Think of other ways you guys can keep sex exciting. Fuck her in a Nordstrom dressing room. They're secure and large enough to fuck in. Within a month she'll realize that you guys are creating memories that you guys will always be able to share together.

I can vividly remember the first time I fucked my wife in public like it was yesterday. We still relive that cherished memory. She was experienced at public sex. She loved the thrill of getting caught while making sure she wasn't caught. She knew about a secluded spot in a public park that was sparsely populated at night during weekdays. She wore workout shorts, no panties, tennis shoes, and a t-shirt. She got me almost cumming in my shorts. She wanted to make sure I'd cum quickly when she was in position to fuck. She pulled me into the spot she probably was fucked in many times, looked at me while she pulled her shorts off, told me to hurry up, turned around, bent over, and it was over within a minute. After I came she told me to turn around to make sure no one was around and to shield her from view while she pulled her shorts on. She got me hooked on exciting outdoor sex. If you guys try it, you guys could create memories that you guys could share forever.

I wish you the best and success.

Your story is hot and I love how slutty your wife sounds. Allowing her brother in law to watch you fuck? And her sister knows? hot af

Tank Turner in his post alluded to a number of points.

I had two daughters from my first wife. We had no sexual hang ups, but three months after the birth of a child doesn't seem an unreasonable time to go without sexual intercourse. There are other means available if a husband "needs" release.

Several decades ago an author with the name Clarke Kent (no, not that one) wrote an article on how to have a good hotwife experience. Among the things he wrote were never involve friends, relatives, nor coworkers in hotwife activities.

BT2 wrote: ↑

Fri Feb 21, 2025 3:10 pm

Tank Turner in his post alluded to a number of points.

I had two daughters from my first wife. We had no sexual hang ups, but three months after the birth of a child doesn't seem an unreasonable time to go without sexual intercourse. There are other means available if a husband "needs" release.

Several decades ago an author with the name Clarke Kent (no, not that one) wrote an article on how to have a good hotwife experience. Among the things he wrote were never involve friends, relatives, nor coworkers in hotwife activities.

Hi BT2,

I agree with everything you've written.

It was taxing enough for my sister-in-law to pregnant at 43. Around Christmas of last year, she was unable to get comfortable. Her fiancé was having sex with her many times every day that he wasn't at work. He went from getting more that he could service to not getting any. She'll resume having sex when she's ready. My wife merely thinks he's bitching too much about an unchangeable situation.

I completely agree about not involving people within our inner circles in our sex lives. My wife has never wanted another man to become attached to her. Our primary objective was and remains preventing our kid finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star. None of our friends know what we do in our other life.

Brad is an exception. When she met him, she did not know that he was best friends with her sister's fiancé. He's 15 years younger than my wife. They have grown to become good friends who have sex. Both know that the sexual facet of their relationship has a finite lifespan. She wants him to find a woman his age, get married, and start a family.