Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

[Tank Turner]

Replying to Tank Turner. I suspect most prostitutes don’t have too much control over who uses their services. The majority are not super beautiful and sexy like porn actresses and they have to accept the customers they get. Porn actresses are usually paired with studs, who may not be especially likeable but get the job done. I have read that it’s a myth that porn actresses never enjoy the sex, although I guess it’s very hard to relax when the director is controlling how the action progresses. Incidentally, when I had my liaison with Mike, he told me that there was an abundance of Thai women practising in London - maybe something about Buddhism not being too prescriptive about sex?

When my wife considered experiencing her prostitute fantasy, we did a lot of 'net research. For lack of a more descriptive term, women whom I considered to be elite prostitutes were far above average looking and were in excellent physical condition. Most appeared to be into healthy lifestyles. Many were middle-aged. Judging by their written profiles, they appeared to be educated beyond secondary school. I'm sure some or many were college graduates. They appeared to have the advantage of determining when they'd work and whom they would agree to take as clients.

I could see why women were attracted to that profession. They could earn hundreds of thousands of dollars per year and determine their schedules and clients.

When you find time, do a 'net search of, "Los Angeles female escorts." You'll find many beautiful women in that profession. Many have a $1000+ per hour fee. I don't know what that fee included.

Women who rely on street corners for clients undoubtedly lack discretionary ability. They probably go with men flashing cash.

Years ago, I read an article about Rachel Ryan, a huge porn star from the 1980s. She was exceptionally beautiful. She dated Mickey Rourke, an 1980s "A" List actor. Ryan was quoted in the article that she loved sex, so porn was a natural profession for her. I didn't know who she was until I read that biographical article about her. From memory alone, I believe Ryan was married for a while during her porn career.

I wonder how many porn stars are married.

Women porn stars would appear to have elevated libidos. They might be required to film eight scenes a day with male co-stars they just met at porn studios. I'm sure they go through bottles of lubricant every day.

Porn is entertainment. I'm sure many porn stars enjoy sex while performing their profession. I'm just as sure that as actresses, many act as though they're enjoying sex. I'd guess that by the end of a filming day, they're close to exhausted and want to finish their last scene as quickly as possible.

My wife and I used to watch porn. It was too predictable and obviously poorly scripted. I could probably tell you every act in order in every porn scene without watching it.

Many porn production studios exploited actress. They kept copious amounts of cocaine on hand to ensure actresses were always ready to perform. Many actresses became addicted to cocaine and, tragically, died at young ages.

As an aside, when I was around 13, a friend raided his dad's porn library. We watched many of his dad's porn videos. They were older porn movies. From memory alone, some were European, probably of German production. I do remember women had full bushes. Memories of watching those porn videos stayed with me throughout high school and my initial college years. I was enamored of porn stars' sexual confidence. I used to tell my friends that I was going to marry a porn star. After I married my wife, she asked me about my fantasies. I told her that during my puerile youth, I wanted to marry a porn star. My wife's response was immediate, "You did." She was right. My wife is my private porn star.

[Very Hot Wife]

Becky has been paid for sex on many occasions, never on the streets. We've written on here but think the posts drop off the end after a while.

She has paid hoteliers for accommodation by having sex with them and she's gone to hotel rooms for prearranged sex with a guy.

We were regulars at a monthly swingers party, two girls were always paid as there was a high proportion on single guys. We were aware of this before we attended our first party and had no problem with it.

One evening the organiser told us that one of the paid girls couldn't make it at the last minute, so Becky stepped in. She was paid quite well, the organiser was very happy and that led to some regular work. She only did what she would have done anyway, having sex with several guys during the evening.

The only difference being that if a guy asked to play with her, she had to agree. As 'normal' guests at the party, she always had to right to say no of course.

But that in itself created an erotic buzz for us, knowing that any guy in the room could have her, regardless of how she felt about them.

If they asked, she HAD to suck their cock, lick their balls, lick their asshole, let them fuck her, cum on her face her even though she didn't fancy them at all. That was her job for the evening. Quite degrading, but equally it actually enhanced our experience.

It made our fantasy real but in a safe environment. They guys who fucked her may have viewed her as a slut who was desperate or any manner of things. We knew the truth and that made it all the more enjoyable.

Luckily, the guys were always vetted by the organisers and were known for their consideration for the ladies so it worked very well. We'd do it again if the situation arose.

All of this was done for the thrill factor, never for financial reasons.

We have utmost respect for women who have to do that job in order to pay the bills.

[Bryce 69]

about a decade into swinging / Vixen lifestyle
We had a motel room the place had a bar and restaurant
We were in the bar Hannah was dressed very slutty her 36 DD trying to fall out of her blouse that tied below her breasts miniskirt with her tall leather riding boots on
She went to the room twice with guys
they were pretty quick and it covered our motel , bar bill and fuel for the bike for the 5 day ride

[safado]

A rhetorical question: how would a husband know whether his wife was a prostitute before he met her? How many coeds put themselves through college while working as prostitutes?

My guess is a husband would never know whether his wife was a prostitute before he met her unless she admitted it or someone told him.

But then again, if a husband is in love with his wife and she's his best friend, her working as a prostitute before he met her would not affect their marriage.

Everyone has skeletons in their closets, some larger than others.

There seem to be a lot of hotwives on these pages and other cuckolding sites that were bar girls in Southeast Asia. You have to be a complete fool not to catch on to a woman's background in those countries, but some are unsuspecting. For those who walk into those relationships with women 30 years younger than them, it's not surprising. Many of these bar girls end up with older divorced guys with cuckold fantasies and it's not too hard for them to take another cock because they have already taken hundreds of cocks. I recommend that guys with strong cuck desires seek out such women because they will agree to cuck you, but take care of their finances and learn when to say no.

I was in a chatroom today and had a chat with an American in his 30s whose wife had an escort fantasy. He said that one time he had a visiting client who asked him about "action," and he referred him to his wife, without telling him she was his wife. The next day he asked the client about the escort and he said he had a great time, fucked the woman several times. But that was a one-time experience.

I posted another thread related to this one asking: what about paying your wife to hotwife or cuck you?

[LouiseQ]

Relating to the comments about porn actresses. It seems logical that whether or not an actress enjoyed the sex would be very situation and co-star dependant. My husband, who had waay more before marriage experience than me, was in touch with a porn producer (and got invited to some parties as a result). Porn actors tended to have a reputation amongst actresses - some good, some not so. Back in the 80's, a performer called TT Boy was not liked by his co-stars as he was seen as very pushy. Some were seen as neutral - get in, get the job done. Ron Jeremy, one of the most prolific porn actors from this period, has been accused of assault. By contrast, an actor performing as Paul Thomas was extremely popular amongst his co-stars, and was valued for his sexual attractiveness.

Also, I suppose it depends a great deal on the director. In a plot dependent movie, there would be little opportunity for performers to relax and enjoy. In some cases (Alex was present on set for one such movie) the director just said - oral sex, missionary, doggie cowgirl and then just let the performers get on with it, saying he would just let it develop in the edit.

[Bogdan]

My question is, have any other of the wives out there spent parts of their life as a prostitute, and if so, how was it?

My wife is 49 now, but when she was 19 and went to Poland escaping a poor life in Ukraine/Russia she ended up, like many young girls in prostitution. Not needed to say it wasn't great. Lot's of violence, hardly any pay and lots of abuse, it was a brutal period. She managed to escape that life (how, that is perhaps another story) and even managed to enjoy sex and becoming a beautiful hotwife, although that took a few years.

[BrunetteLover]

Like many endeavors in life, you can only pursue this from 100% position of strength. You cannot be dependent on the money. Or alcohol, or drugs, or any particular client. You have to be 99% alcohol free, 100% drug free and have your bills paid with day-job money before you ever leave the house.

Screen ruthlessly. It is possible to fill a schedule with nice, decent men.

And the male assistant who is the security man CANNOT consider this part of a sexual fantasy until everyone is home safe.

Then, it becomes a lucrative adventure, kind of like getting paid to go on vacation. No other scenario works.

[StockingHubby]

Replying to Tank Turner. I suspect most prostitutes don’t have too much control over who uses their services. The majority are not super beautiful and sexy like porn actresses and they have to accept the customers they get. Porn actresses are usually paired with studs, who may not be especially likeable but get the job done. I have read that it’s a myth that porn actresses never enjoy the sex, although I guess it’s very hard to relax when the director is controlling how the action progresses. Incidentally, when I had my liaison with Mike, he told me that there was an abundance of Thai women practising in London - maybe something about Buddhism not being too prescriptive about sex?

When my wife considered experiencing her prostitute fantasy, we did a lot of 'net research. For lack of a more descriptive term, women whom I considered to be elite prostitutes were far above average looking and were in excellent physical condition. Most appeared to be into healthy lifestyles. Many were middle-aged. Judging by their written profiles, they appeared to be educated beyond secondary school. I'm sure some or many were college graduates. They appeared to have the advantage of determining when they'd work and whom they would agree to take as clients.

I could see why women were attracted to that profession. They could earn hundreds of thousands of dollars per year and determine their schedules and clients.

When you find time, do a 'net search of, "Los Angeles female escorts." You'll find many beautiful women in that profession. Many have a $1000+ per hour fee. I don't know what that fee included.

Women who rely on street corners for clients undoubtedly lack discretionary ability. They probably go with men flashing cash.

Years ago, I read an article about Rachel Ryan, a huge porn star from the 1980s. She was exceptionally beautiful. She dated Mickey Rourke, an 1980s "A" List actor. Ryan was quoted in the article that she loved sex, so porn was a natural profession for her. I didn't know who she was until I read that biographical article about her. From memory alone, I believe Ryan was married for a while during her porn career.

I wonder how many porn stars are married.

Women porn stars would appear to have elevated libidos. They might be required to film eight scenes a day with male co-stars they just met at porn studios. I'm sure they go through bottles of lubricant every day.

Porn is entertainment. I'm sure many porn stars enjoy sex while performing their profession. I'm just as sure that as actresses, many act as though they're enjoying sex. I'd guess that by the end of a filming day, they're close to exhausted and want to finish their last scene as quickly as possible.

My wife and I used to watch porn. It was too predictable and obviously poorly scripted. I could probably tell you every act in order in every porn scene without watching it.

Many porn production studios exploited actress. They kept copious amounts of cocaine on hand to ensure actresses were always ready to perform. Many actresses became addicted to cocaine and, tragically, died at young ages.

As an aside, when I was around 13, a friend raided his dad's porn library. We watched many of his dad's porn videos. They were older porn movies. From memory alone, some were European, probably of German production. I do remember women had full bushes. Memories of watching those porn videos stayed with me throughout high school and my initial college years. I was enamored of porn stars' sexual confidence. I used to tell my friends that I was going to marry a porn star. After I married my wife, she asked me about my fantasies. I told her that during my puerile youth, I wanted to marry a porn star. My wife's response was immediate, "You did." She was right. My wife is my private porn star.

This is an amazing reply/response. Wow! Learned a lot.

[frank12]

The discussions here bring to mind two of my playmates over the years who became close enough to confide in me their earlier experiences within and around the edges of prostitution. Their backgrounds clearly shaped their later lives and in both cases were connected to their sexualities.

The first was a sadder story of youth and coercion, drugs and gaslighting that lead her to walk the streets to help a “boyfriend” get money for their drug habit. Mostly blowjobs, some vaginal no anal, and a couple of “regular” customers who only jerked off as they directed her lewd poses. She recognized there was some power she had but was unable to effectively use it. Her escape from the “boyfriend” and the situation of some years was thanks to a vice cop and a magistrate who was able to arrange to get her back with her mom and stepdad in Florida, escaping the street as well as the drugs.

She enjoyed the gradients of D/s in her sexuality, was very highly aroused by being bound particularly in very exposing positions or situations. She would enter a “subspace” that was, she understood, connected to her earlier separation of “self” from what she was doing when on the streets, but with time and introspection had become a much more pleasurable state that she relished and truly enjoyed. She felt she thrived with an assertive male who naturally held control and could tell her what to do, but had her own strengths that allowed her to enjoy a successful life keeping her kinks on the side.

The second woman enjoyed reminiscing to me how her financial situation as a coed paying for college lead to her joining at first with another girl to perform as strippers for private parties, then on her own. In an area with a large military male population there were many opportunities and she had a teasing personality that emerged and gave her a feeling of power over the men drooling over her exposures. The offers for something more were there from the beginning but she didn’t take any of those for a while out of caution and concern.

The change was a small party and a large stack of bills. She sucked the five or so cocks taking several loads in her mouth and on her breasts. Immediately afterwards she had conflicting thoughts of excitement, shame and fear with an emerging thrill of giving up control to cock. She only rarely accepted the offers that followed but chose situations where she was comfortable and with guys who were smoothly assertive, self-assured and well endowed, all things that contributed to her arousal and willingness to perform oral and on occasion more. Yes, she really liked big cocks.

When college graduation brought career and good income she set her sexy entertainer self aside for vanilla life, marriage and raising children, but as those “mid-life crisis” years arrived she found she wanted to again feel the thrill of being the playtoy entertainment for a man. Her husband did not know that she was carefully seeking out playmates who appreciated a leggy MILF who liked to exhibit herself rather submissively as the lewd harem dancer or compliant yoga instructor as foreplay to sex, mostly sucking cock.

She paused for several years after one guy threatened to expose her but the thrill pulled her back in and somewhere in there was when I met her through one of the kink-friendly sites. Her skills as a stripper had not been lost, and her submissive nature when pleasuring cock had blossomed. A pleasure to have known her those years ago.

[htwfluver_4]

In the beginning we had discussed our past in great detail which at times led to very intense sex and we knew there was no need for us to place restrictions on each other as far as having or even acting on our fantasies. Mine were all targeted toward her and her very blatant need for more than one man in her life for sexual gratification. She didn’t need someone other than me to love, she needed strangers to take her the way she loved and needed to be used. We both realized she would never be satisfied by just one man. She needed variety and the best way for her to achieve that would be with a variety of men. Usually, the more decadent the sex the better she liked it. She loved it when they took complete charge of her and made her into what they wanted at the time. Sometimes she loved it rough. The rougher the better. Sometimes she wanted to be exposed to others. At times she goes to great lengths to expose herself to an audience. She even did stripping on stage and followed up with lap dances and even private dances which ended up with her being well fucked as I sat nearby waiting on her. The life of a hotwife’s husband is anything but boring. I have felt the excitement for a couple of decades now and I wouldn’t take anything for the best of life between us.

She had told me of a time in her life just out of school when she was just eighteen. She had flown the coop to get away from her family to start her exploration of who she was and who she wanted to be.
As it turned out, being a bartender in a New Orleans bar would be her first stop. The bar was very popular with the locals and tourists both. She had found a constant supply of new men to seduce especially as the tourists would frequent the place. She became friendly with the girls that hung out there to find out they were actually working girls. Since she had been very active sexually since very early in her life the thought intrigued her to the extent she eagerly learned from them how it worked. She then decided to charge for the sex she already enjoyed and kill two birds with one stone. She was now a full-fledged prostitute. She referred to herself not as an escort or prostitute, but she used the term whore. She told me something about the word made her tingle from her throat to her cunt as she referred to it. The dirtiness of it turned her on to a great extent. She told me that being bought and paid for was as hot as it could get. She liked knowing that she was attractive enough for men to spend money for a short time with her. She enjoyed her work. She let me know that she was also very popular.
She lived this lifestyle for about a year before she decided that she needed to do something different with her life and joined the Army. Being the very attractive girl she was, made this a very interesting life for her time there. Other stories will come from that period of time.
Now back to the present. We are married and in love. She has been very active in being a hotwife. We both embrace it as a great lifestyle. She would go out hunting and searching for another thrill with strange men. Sometimes more than one. As she would tell me of her hotwife adventures when she would return to me afterwards, she would refer to herself as being a whore for them. I’m not sure she even realized she was using the term that she seemed to enjoy using.

At one point in time as she was picking her men from a long line up at the casinos, she found a favorite fuckbuddy that was a manager of the hosts at our favorite casino.
We both found him to be a lot of fun and maybe even a little kinkier than me. He loved having her for a fuckbuddy with no strings sex. He even got off on watching her as she enjoyed the smorgasbord of men floating through the casino. He told me once that sometimes he would watch the security cameras in the hotel hallways to get a glimpse of the men and women going to the rooms for obvious sex. He included her in that group and would let me know how much he enjoyed watching her as she would walk with her men and a few times he even got to watch her as she made her walk of shame back to our room. I’m not sure about him but the conversations about her would make me hard as diamonds and just want to hear more.
He told me about several times when he would even share her with a couple of his colleagues which I knew about already but he didn’t know just how much she and I shared with each other even though the first time they decided to fuck, she had him call me on the phone as they were fucking and tell me the details of what they were doing right then.
He encouraged her to let him know what she fantasized about and would go to great lengths to make her fantasies come to life for her. She of course couldn’t help but let him know how much it turned her on to be physically exposed to strange men, or especially crowds. He told her she had already been doing that as the security cameras had caught her many times in the elevators and hallways as she was sometimes making out with her new men. This was something she found to be extremely hot. They also knew what she looked like mostly undressed as she would inevitably be partially nude on the way to hers or their rooms. This lit a spark in her even I was surprised by. When we found ourselves alone on an elevator, she would go crazy making out with me or whomever she was with getting her clothes removed for her private audience in the security room sometimes on the big screen. More times than not she would end up on her knees with someone's cock in her mouth. Sometimes it would be me and sometimes it would be her man or men of the evening. This was making her crazy hot.
She started enjoying the walks of shame even more now. On the nights when there was no walk of shame to take, she would wait until the wee hours of the morning and find a reason to walk nearly naked from the room to the ice machine and strut her stuff for the cameras.
When she finally revealed her fantasy to him about being paid for sex or as she would so blatantly express it the way it sounded best for her “It would be so hot to be bought and paid for and be just a whore for them”, he took the ball and ran with it. It was good for his business, and she would reward him with some great sex afterwards. The first time he whored her out was an evening she had gone to the casino leaving me at home working in my home office. He had shared her with a couple of his colleagues, and he told her they had paid for her services. She thought he was just role playing but as it turned out he was telling the truth. He had gotten so excited about her being his personal whore that he took her right after they finished and then sent her home to me. It was extremely hot hearing her tell me the details of her first night as his personal whore and the way she was bought and paid for. After they had been so well rewarded, she would then come back to me for even hotter sex as she would recall to me the details of her evening of prostitution with the wealthy, demanding and sometimes very dominant men she had serviced that evening. She would be thrilled by the way she was controlled and taken. She told me of all the filthy things they would say and do to her as she was servicing them however they liked it. She also found that being a married whore was very popular. They continued this for about a year or maybe a little longer. During this time she had found a few favorites that she would continue to see even after her days as a prostitute were over. She had been paid for a huge variety of desires.
It would usually happen once a week and rarely more than that. It could be anything from one on one to performing for parties in the private rooms. Some of the suites were large enough to accommodate small groups. The men were always vetted by him and most of them were well known by him previously.
She was particularly fond of the parties as she was passed from one to the other until she had pleased them all. Most of them paid for the sex from her but occasionally there would be some that just wanted to watch as she was used by their buddies. There were a very few that would watch and then just wanted to eat her out after the others were finished. They all paid for her services, and it thrilled her.
There are quite a few stories that come from that period when even more of her fantasies were realized excitedly by her.
It was always exciting and the hours waiting for her to come back to our room were excruciating but well worth the wait. It really turned her on knowing that she was desirable enough to entice so many to pay for her short-term services. Her biggest issue when she was at the casino was that she didn’t have the freedom to pick her boy toys for the night. We did find other places to find her new playmates so now she had the best of both worlds.
Of course, one of the major parts of our incredible sex was when she would bring me her stories after she had been with her strangers for the night. One of her needs was to be with strangers. She let me know how that made it even dirtier and hotter for her. It was also a thrill for me to watch any of the scenes that played out to make up her nights.
Her nights to play the whore were fast and dirty. We would sometimes be playing a game and then her pimp (John) would show up.
“You have someone waiting for you in room number so and so.”
I would immediately grow hard and get excited as much for her as for my expectations for when she would return to me. John would let her know if they had clean cards so she could have them the way she loved so much. She wanted to be filled and running over when she had taken all they could give.
One of her incidents that sticks out and I think it probably is one that comes back up more often than others is this next short excerpt from a longer story.
John called and told her to get a fresh wax and pampered at the spa for a day on his ticket. He told her he had a special guest that spent a lot of dough with them and needed to be taken care of all night long. She was the choice he made as he had noticed her before when she was on John’s arm. He loved the wedding rings and the long hair and big boobs and the way she was so submissive to John.
We arrived and went to the room John had reserved for us. One of the perks of her profession. She had the day for her spa treatment which she loved and was also a perk. She got dressed for the night and it was only a few minutes when she got the message to immediately head for the room where her newest client was waiting for her.
The story she told me when she returned the next morning completely used up but glowing and so turned on it was unbelievable.

What started her night with him:
As she knocked on his door it started opening from her knock. She peered in to find a man that looked like a professional athlete standing about six and a half tall. Broad shoulders and a suit that had to be fitted by a tailor to show his physique so well.
As she started to stroll over to him, he told her, "Stop and don’t come another inch.
You have ten seconds to be out of everything but your shoes and stockings and on your knees with my cock in your mouth.”
She took particular notice that neither of them had closed the door. She could very well be showing the whole world what a submissive whore she was.
She said she almost climaxed at that command, and it continued the rest of the night with him being just as demanding as the first sentence he addressed her with.
This was a dream come true for her. She loved having no choice and being under his total control.
He ended up being one of her favorite clients and even as she left the whore role behind, she kept going back to him when he would ask.
There were so many men and so many different situations, so the stories are plentiful.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Damn....her body count must be in the thousands.