Updated blog

[BritishCuckCpl]

We revamped and relaunched our blog at https://medium.com/@uklovingcouple

We're thinking about changing the pictures to ones of us rather than stock photos, but we're not sure.
Feedback welcome on the blog including the choice of images and new posts to make.

[Long Lurker 34]

We revamped and relaunched our blog at https://medium.com/@uklovingcouple

We're thinking about changing the pictures to ones of us rather than stock photos, but we're not sure.
Feedback welcome on the blog including the choice of images and new posts to make.

BCC
- While it's nice you have blog the whole point of having a thread here is to post here and not direct traffic to somewhere else, otherwise rather it's self defeating and self serving.

[BritishCuckCpl]

We revamped and relaunched our blog at https://medium.com/@uklovingcouple

We're thinking about changing the pictures to ones of us rather than stock photos, but we're not sure.
Feedback welcome on the blog including the choice of images and new posts to make.

BCC
- While it's nice you have blog the whole point of having a thread here is to post here and not direct traffic to somewhere else, otherwise rather it's self defeating and self serving.

Well we had several people message about why our old blog was no longer available and so as a courtesy I posted the link here as its own thread for anyone interested. Anyone not interested doesn't have to open the thread or visit the blog.

A blog is also different to a forum, it's a place to post long form static content with embedded images, often used for stories, news and articles while a forum is for short form content to start an interactive conversation.

In our case, this blog doesn't contain stories or erotica but is entirely on the subject of starting out into the lifestyle, the benefits and the lessons we learned. A man with a desire to be cuckolded may find it easier to present a blog of this type to his wife to read at her own leisure than to direct her to a forum containing a mix of content ranging from pornography to BDSM. I know when we started out we found blog's and books much more helpful than forums until we felt more confident and able to go onto forums together.

And so I don't believe our blog conflicts with the forum or takes traffic away from the forum since it's a different form factor and exists for a specific purpose. If anything, when people read the blog and express that they want to learn more about the scene we would direct them here and so it would increase traffic to the forum.

But we're interested in what other people think and if people feel that we shouldn't present links to blogs or other types of content then we will delete this thread.

[Hawks6364]

I think it’s fantastic. Like a quick guide for all of us who want to explore this concept. Wish I had the stones to send it to my wife, to read, explore and process. It truly explains so much, and answers all the hot topics that are needed to start such a journey.

[BritishCuckCpl]

I think it’s fantastic. Like a quick guide for all of us who want to explore this concept. Wish I had the stones to send it to my wife, to read, explore and process. It truly explains so much, and answers all the hot topics that are needed to start such a journey.

Thank you, that's really kind of you. We've tried to make it approachable and helpful for people who are very early to the lifestyle. So we've avoided adding any pictures that are too raunchy and we've focused on the practical benefits.

We've been asked to write more stories and perhaps some specific subjects such as male chastity. Male chastity would be a good one since we have a lot of experience there but I think we'd struggle with story telling.

[venus-can99]

I am pretty neutral on the subject of posting links to your blog. In this forum folks typically post their lived experiences. Many folks also post photos in the Hotties forum to further share the joy. The moderators do insist that the photos have the consent of everyone involved.

[BritishCuckCpl]

I am pretty neutral on the subject of posting links to your blog. In this forum folks typically post their lived experiences. Many folks also post photos in the Hotties forum to further share the joy. The moderators do insist that the photos have the consent of everyone involved.

Good, that is important. Consent for photos in public forums is important.

[CuriousHusband91941]

Your blog is beautiful. It shows respect for your marriage while also sharing the sexy stories of how you began. Thank you for updating it, hopefully with your own pictures later.

[BritishCuckCpl]

Your blog is beautiful. It shows respect for your marriage while also sharing the sexy stories of how you began. Thank you for updating it, hopefully with your own pictures later.

Thank you. I think we will add improved photos to make it more personal.

[sherulestherooster]

I’ve skimmed through your blog and like what I see so far. I’d encourage you to keep going. I’m definitely curious about how you incorporate chastity in your play and from other threads here it sounds like you do some humiliation play. Would love to hear more on that. If I can figure out how to comment on It, I will.

[BritishCuckCpl]

I’ve skimmed through your blog and like what I see so far. I’d encourage you to keep going. I’m definitely curious about how you incorporate chastity in your play and from other threads here it sounds like you do some humiliation play. Would love to hear more on that. If I can figure out how to comment on It, I will.

Thank you, we will definitely we writing and posting more.
Chastity is an important part of play for us, its been a learning experience working out how it works, sizing, different types of device, wearing long term etc.
It's gradually becoming a permanent fixture, something we've both found highly addictive so we'll definitely write more about it.

Humiliation play as well. Originally it was quite awkward but over time we've both found it can be very enjoyable.

[BritishBull2k25]

I'm loving the blog; you both write incredibly well and there's an openness and honesty which is breathtaking (especially for Medium) - It's incredibly arousing.

You can tell you're writing for people not in the lifestyle as well as those in the know. I'm sure it's going to get popular!

[BritishCuckCpl]

I'm loving the blog; you both write incredibly well and there's an openness and honesty which is breathtaking (especially for Medium) - It's incredibly arousing.

You can tell you're writing for people not in the lifestyle as well as those in the know. I'm sure it's going to get popular!

Yes, it's very much for those not in the lifestyle as well but may have heard about it and are curious or are just looking at alternative ways to improve their marriage and happiness. So a friendly introduction without all the porn and graphic content, a friendly way into the lifestyle.

Also there's still an imbalance in the ratio with too many bulls and not enough couples I think so hopefully it helps to liberate more couples to try the lifestyle and improve that ratio.

And maybe of help to new bulls to the lifestyle. Too many newbies think hotwives are just horny wives looking to get laid and the bulls role is to just shag the wife. Actually it's a whole lot more than that, there's a lot of psychology and often power dynamics and the cuck is an important part of the dynamic to with his own needs. A good bull who really understands what it means to be a good bull to the couple is a diamond to hold onto and enjoy.

[BritishBull2k25]

I'm loving the blog; you both write incredibly well and there's an openness and honesty which is breathtaking (especially for Medium) - It's incredibly arousing.

You can tell you're writing for people not in the lifestyle as well as those in the know. I'm sure it's going to get popular!

Yes, it's very much for those not in the lifestyle as well but may have heard about it and are curious or are just looking at alternative ways to improve their marriage and happiness. So a friendly introduction without all the porn and graphic content, a friendly way into the lifestyle.

Also there's still an imbalance in the ratio with too many bulls and not enough couples I think so hopefully it helps to liberate more couples to try the lifestyle and improve that ratio.

And maybe of help to new bulls to the lifestyle. Too many newbies think hotwives are just horny wives looking to get laid and the bulls role is to just shag the wife. Actually it's a whole lot more than that, there's a lot of psychology and often power dynamics and the cuck is an important part of the dynamic to with his own needs. A good bull who really understands what it means to be a good bull to the couple is a diamond to hold onto and enjoy.

Yes, Bulls definitely have a lower barrier to entry. I actually found far more couples like that when I was first getting in to the lifestyle; couples who wanted an indiscriminate cock and barely cared who or what it was attached to. That wasn't for me.

Exactly, it worked against me at first trying to communicate with the cuck and get to know their needs and wants, but I definitely had a better connection with people for it.

I think it's a great idea whenever anyone can break down perceived barriers and concerns. I'm looking forward to reading more!