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Not so long ago I posted about my partner who is also my submissive. I had told her of my desire to share her but she wasn't interested at first, turns out she wasn't very confident that someone else would be attracted to her. I posted on various forums asking if anyone had a partner/submissive who lacked confidence and what did they do about it.
Now I knew what I was going to do as her Dom but just wanted to hear other peoples experiences with this. I got a few replies saying "You are her Dom, make her do what you want" but that's not how I work I like to build peoples confidence. I did get some very well thought out replies as well though.
I decided to take pics of her and share them on various sites to show her the compliments she would get and it did help, other guys saying how they loved her pics. I got her on BDSM dating sites and she spoke to a couple of guys that turned out to be a waste of time but it did help her come out of her shell a bit.
I found a guy on a swinger sites that had a little experience joining a cuckold couple and we chatted for a bit and he seemed a good fit for us. He was out of the age range we would like as he is 65 and we are 52 and 51, however he looks after himself and is in good shape. I set up a three way chat on Kik but I hardly talk and let them get to know each other which they have been doing for a couple of month now. I gave her the task of taking pics and sending them to him but I would not tell her what to take. She sent him topless pics and one he loved of herself naked sat on the edge of the bed with her legs open, which he loved. We decided to book a hotel for us all even though they hadn't met in person yet. I would have her blindfolded anyway
Whenever he asked if she would like him to go down on her she said yes she would love that or when he asked if she would like to suck his cock again she said yes she would. She never told him what she would like to do just said yes to what he was asking. We had a chat about this and although they communicate via messages and have had a phone call she said it was still difficult to think of herself with someone other than me. I asked if she would like to meet him in person as I had met him a couple of times to see if he was a decent guy. She said yes and they are both currently in the pub near where we live getting to know each other.
I told her I would love him to drive her somewhere and they touch each other, him playing with her tits and pussy and her stroking his cock but I know she might find that too big of a leap as we have been taking baby steps but I gave her the task of stroking his leg as the talk and told him in a private message that her could feel her legs but only once she touched him first. Sat here waiting to see how it goes so keep your fingers crossed for me that it goes well. I have told her I am training her to be my little slut and while we are in no rush and are taking our time she is going in the right direction

She has just messaged me while he was at the bar and she said it's going well, lovely a guy and really easy to get on with

SandSweetP wrote: ↑

Tue Apr 01, 2025 9:14 am

She has just messaged me while he was at the bar and she said it's going well, lovely a guy and really easy to get on with

Wonderful to hear that all is going well! Definitely let us know what happens in the future!

They had another social meeting. This time he picked her up and drove them to a pub where they chatted for a couple of hours. While they were chatting he had his hand on her back and her arse. She put her hand on his leg too while taking, even though she said she was not sure she was even ready to do that. They had a short kiss, not a french kiss.
He messaged me afterwards to say his much her enjoyed himself and was hard when they kissed in his car and that he should have placed her hand on his cock. I told him yes he should. She told me after that even though she wasn't sure about this she felt relaxed with him. They are looking at another social meet, I think he wants to try to take it a bit further this time. Although I am obviously turned on by the thought of them fucking I am loving the slow build up and seeing her grow on confidence.

SandSweetP wrote: ↑

Sun Apr 06, 2025 9:08 am

They had another social meeting. This time he picked her up and drove them to a pub where they chatted for a couple of hours. While they were chatting he had his hand on her back and her arse. She put her hand on his leg too while taking, even though she said she was not sure she was even ready to do that. They had a short kiss, not a french kiss.
He messaged me afterwards to say his much her enjoyed himself and was hard when they kissed in his car and that he should have placed her hand on his cock. I told him yes he should. She told me after that even though she wasn't sure about this she felt relaxed with him. They are looking at another social meet, I think he wants to try to take it a bit further this time. Although I am obviously turned on by the thought of them fucking I am loving the slow build up and seeing her grow on confidence.

SSP
- So clearly they are vanilla dating in public. Is this in your local area, where all or some of you are known?
- If so how do you feel about this?
- In a previous post you referred to her as "partner", exactly what might she be? GF, wife, something else? Just make it easier to understand your dynamic.

Yes they have a had a couple of vanilla dates in public. They meet where no one knows either of them.
I have felt food about this, no jealousy or anything and loving that she has come out of her shell.
she is my fiancee and sub.
M is coming to our house next Tuesday and I have something planned for then