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So you have a small penis?

Unread post by namitha157 » Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm

Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Her number1 » Sat Apr 19, 2025 6:30 pm

No, my dick is not small. A bit above average in fact.
My partner's is so small that it hides under her hood, and doesn't come out to play. Sooo, she requires deeper massage. Penetration hitting her g-spot, and anal hits that spot very well.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Dream Weaver » Sun Apr 20, 2025 12:00 am

Almost 6 inches. The guys my wife had the best sex with is smaller than me.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by carolinacuck » Sun Apr 20, 2025 3:19 am

I am 5 x 3.5" Squarely in the bottom 20% of male endowment. My wife's preference for well endowed men is what led us into a cuckold/hotwife open marriage arrangement.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by sana9889 » Sun Apr 20, 2025 4:34 am

My husband is really short. Less than 2" long I'd say. And another 2" round.
Sadly, it is the smallest I've had.
This may sound funny, but I'm almost the same length as him. A bit longer if I pump.

He is aware that he is on the small size. We don't talk about it too much. Its fun to masturbate through our panties the same way.
I doubt he would ever be able to cheat on me with a penis like that.
I think most Indian men and Asian men are small like this.
One of the reasons why they are not really highly desired.
I've had others when I was younger. I'd say they were mostly in the 3-4" length range. Some of the bigger ones were closer to 5"
Don't really spend time with them anymore for this reason.

My bf on the other hand is a nice 8" and a good handful.
And it feels even better inside.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by hattersfan » Mon Apr 21, 2025 3:59 am

carolinacuck wrote:
Sun Apr 20, 2025 3:19 am
I am 5 x 3.5" Squarely in the bottom 20% of male endowment. My wife's preference for well endowed men is what led us into a cuckold/hotwife open marriage arrangement.
My (Cialis) assisted penis is 4 inches x 2.5 inches. Like this poster, it’s my small cocklet that led my wife to see sexual pleasure elsewhere.

To be honest though I think I’m a natural cuck and I think I would still have been the way that I am even if my penis had been larger.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by hattersfan » Mon Apr 21, 2025 4:00 am

carolinacuck wrote:
Sun Apr 20, 2025 3:19 am
I am 5 x 3.5" Squarely in the bottom 20% of male endowment. My wife's preference for well endowed men is what led us into a cuckold/hotwife open marriage arrangement.
My (Cialis) assisted penis is 4 inches x 2.5 inches. Like this poster, it’s my small cocklet that led my wife to seek sexual pleasure elsewhere with Alpha males with cocks twice my size.

To be honest though I think I’m a natural cuck and I think I would still have been the way that I am even if my penis had been larger.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by hornedhubby » Mon Apr 21, 2025 12:59 pm

No. I'm bigger than average, maybe 80th percentile.

Doesn't matter. I've written this before on the SPH threads. The fetish isn't necessarily small penis humiliation. It can be smaller penis envy with compersion making you want your wife to enjoy a much bigger one.

What feeds this?

Could be that my honest wife-to-be in the early days declined to acknowledge whether mine was the largest she had. The best she would do is smile and say they all feel the same.

She acknowledged three previous partners - her 6-yr long term BF, a short, nice guy ONS (she said he was very small) and a bad boy bartender ONS. The latter two were her cheating on the BF.

Doing the math and including her veracity in the formula, I concluded that either the bad boy or the BF with his Greek DNA was probably bigger than me.

Thank you, ma'am, would you like another?

YMMV.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Tank Turner » Mon Apr 21, 2025 2:06 pm

Honest women will tell you that dick size matters.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by leggysman » Mon Apr 21, 2025 4:41 pm

No, 6+
Dream Weaver wrote:
Sun Apr 20, 2025 12:00 am
The guy my wife had the best sex with is smaller than me.
Same

But she does like the big ones

And I like that
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by oregoncpl » Tue Apr 22, 2025 2:02 pm

Mine is currently maybe 4", but only gets semi hard. It used to maybe reach 5" when I was younger, but 5 years ago I had to start taking prostate meds at a fairly young age (49) which severely limits my erections and atrophy seems to have begun. Not a big deal for us, since she has neither sucked or fucked me in almost four years. We're quite content with her getting dick from her bf.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by PlzFuckMyHotwife » Tue Apr 22, 2025 3:09 pm

Dream Weaver wrote:
Sun Apr 20, 2025 12:00 am
The guy my wife had the best sex with is smaller than me.
The guy my wife had the best sex with is exactly my size. ;)
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Tank Turner » Tue Apr 22, 2025 4:52 pm

I can vividly remember my wife saying in front of friends and me that small dicks were only good for blowjobs and anal sex.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by coastalkid » Tue Apr 22, 2025 8:17 pm

So, I just measured. I'm right at 6 inches in length (or 15.24 cm sounds more impressive) and surprisingly, 6 inches in circumference. I guess I'm pretty thick but not so long.
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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Tryagain » Wed Apr 23, 2025 8:12 am

coastalkid wrote:
Tue Apr 22, 2025 8:17 pm
So, I just measured. I'm right at 6 inches in length (or 15.24 cm sounds more impressive) and surprisingly, 6 inches in circumference. I guess I'm pretty thick but not so long.
That is pretty darn thick! And with 6 in in length, I have read that it is a perfect size for most women. Lucky guy.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by hotfreaks » Wed Apr 23, 2025 5:06 pm

I have a small cock. My wife admitted to me about a year after dating that she was surprised and a lil let down by my size. She said I don't carry myself as a man with a small cock. But she does truly love me, and in her words...I get the best of both worlds, a loving husband who also loves sharing me, and I get to have the bigger thicker men I need to cum hard
Married to HotfreaksHotwife.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by MartasBoy » Wed Apr 23, 2025 5:28 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?


I figured it out in college, when three different girls I slept with in a row, got frustrated with me when I had trouble staying in, and they didn't seem to get very turned on.
Each one of these girls, seemed very frustrated and annoyed, and eventually said, "You know what, let's just forget it. I'll finish you off with my hand."

In all three cases, they ended up giving me a sympathy hand job. One of the girls let me stay the night to snuggle, but sent me off first thing in the morning, saying that she had a lot to do that day. The other two told me that they wanted me to leave that night, because they just remembered something they had to do early in the morning. I never got more dates with either of these three girls.

A few years later, I met a girl who told me that she really didn't like sex, at least not penetrative sex, because it never felt good to her, and it always hurt. But she said, "So I'm not willing to have intercourse, but there are other things we can do."

She liked how I used my mouth on her, and could bring her to orgasm that way. Then she would give me a hand job in return. She told me once, that every time she tried having penetrative sex with a guy, it just hurt, and she found it gross and disgusting to have a guy lying on top of her, thrusting, and grunting like some wild animal.
She also told me that she found penises, particularly erect ones, gross to look at, and intimidating, and a little scary, because of the discomfort they always caused her.

We dated for about a year. She told me that our relationship worked, because my penis was small enough that she didn't find it scary or intimidating at all, and she was happy to not feel pressured to have intercourse.

And, as small as my penis is, when I get morning erections, it is still hard, even though it's small. One morning I slid over to snuggle with her, with my morning erection, hoping she might give me a morning hand job.

She rolled over and was upset. She said, "Don't ever do that again! Don't push your erection up against my back! I hate that! If you ever do that again, I will not invite you over to sleep with me anymore! Do you understand?"

I told her I understood, and I was very careful to never do that again, and roll over away from her, until my morning erection would subside. She also didn't like it when I grounded or moaned when she gave me a handjob. She told me it sounded like some wild animal, and it grossed her out. So I learned to receive my hand job in silence.
She was very pretty, and she always gave me very nice handjobs.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by namitha157 » Thu Apr 24, 2025 12:34 am

How small are you?
It sounds like she was happy with you to some extent.
Why did you break up? Did she enjoy having sex with you?
MartasBoy wrote:
Wed Apr 23, 2025 5:28 pm
namitha157 wrote:
Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm
Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?


I figured it out in college, when three different girls I slept with in a row, got frustrated with me when I had trouble staying in, and they didn't seem to get very turned on.
Each one of these girls, seemed very frustrated and annoyed, and eventually said, "You know what, let's just forget it. I'll finish you off with my hand."

In all three cases, they ended up giving me a sympathy hand job. One of the girls let me stay the night to snuggle, but sent me off first thing in the morning, saying that she had a lot to do that day. The other two told me that they wanted me to leave that night, because they just remembered something they had to do early in the morning. I never got more dates with either of these three girls.

A few years later, I met a girl who told me that she really didn't like sex, at least not penetrative sex, because it never felt good to her, and it always hurt. But she said, "So I'm not willing to have intercourse, but there are other things we can do."

She liked how I used my mouth on her, and could bring her to orgasm that way. Then she would give me a hand job in return. She told me once, that every time she tried having penetrative sex with a guy, it just hurt, and she found it gross and disgusting to have a guy lying on top of her, thrusting, and grunting like some wild animal.
She also told me that she found penises, particularly erect ones, gross to look at, and intimidating, and a little scary, because of the discomfort they always caused her.

We dated for about a year. She told me that our relationship worked, because my penis was small enough that she didn't find it scary or intimidating at all, and she was happy to not feel pressured to have intercourse.

And, as small as my penis is, when I get morning erections, it is still hard, even though it's small. One morning I slid over to snuggle with her, with my morning erection, hoping she might give me a morning hand job.

She rolled over and was upset. She said, "Don't ever do that again! Don't push your erection up against my back! I hate that! If you ever do that again, I will not invite you over to sleep with me anymore! Do you understand?"

I told her I understood, and I was very careful to never do that again, and roll over away from her, until my morning erection would subside. She also didn't like it when I grounded or moaned when she gave me a handjob. She told me it sounded like some wild animal, and it grossed her out. So I learned to receive my hand job in silence.
She was very pretty, and she always gave me very nice handjobs.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by MartasBoy » Thu Apr 24, 2025 4:15 pm

namitha157 wrote:
Thu Apr 24, 2025 12:34 am
How small are you?
It sounds like she was happy with you to some extent.
Why did you break up? Did she enjoy having sex with you?
I am small enough that I have difficulty staying inside, and staying hard. Erectile dysfunction medications help a little bit, but not much.

The girl ended our relationship because she said she had concluded that she would be happier in life being alone. She said she felt very conflicted about relationships with men, and never really liked sex. She said she got tired of feeling pressured to meet my needs with regular hand jobs. She also found my masturbation distasteful, with cum stains on the sheets, and icky tissues in the waste basket. And she hated how much time I wasted doing it.

She said that she might be willing to stay in a relationship with me, if we could look into medication that would achieve chemical castration, so I would no longer feel the need to masturbate, and she could finally be free of feeling pressure to meet my needs by giving me handjobs. She said that she thought she could be happiest with a man, if she was guaranteed that she would never have to touch or see an erect penis ever again.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Cdncuck » Sun Apr 27, 2025 11:33 am

Tank Turner wrote:
Mon Apr 21, 2025 2:06 pm
Honest women will tell you that dick size matters.
In my experience, it depends on the woman. Some are indeed size queens and some aren't all that particular about size.

My wife for example feels there's more to it than dick size. She does consider a nice thick one an added bonus when she finds one but length isn't important.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Curious77 » Tue May 20, 2025 4:42 am

sana9889 wrote:
Sun Apr 20, 2025 4:34 am
My husband is really short. Less than 2" long I'd say. And another 2" round.
Sadly, it is the smallest I've had.
This may sound funny, but I'm almost the same length as him. A bit longer if I pump.

He is aware that he is on the small size. We don't talk about it too much. Its fun to masturbate through our panties the same way.
I doubt he would ever be able to cheat on me with a penis like that.
I think most Indian men and Asian men are small like this.
One of the reasons why they are not really highly desired.
I've had others when I was younger. I'd say they were mostly in the 3-4" length range. Some of the bigger ones were closer to 5"
Don't really spend time with them anymore for this reason.

My bf on the other hand is a nice 8" and a good handful.
And it feels even better inside.
Love reading your comments and would love to see your 2 inches. Would you please share pics?

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Teensy1 » Tue May 20, 2025 5:31 am

Yes. Two inches soft, three inches hard. Thus the name Teensy. The entire neighborhood knows and teases me.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by BT2 » Tue May 20, 2025 3:32 pm

Women who are experienced sexually, and/or men who are experienced sexually, will have certain preferences, that is only natural, but that doesn't mean they dislike every penis, lips, breasts, vaginas, etc. that doesn't fit that preference.

I once heard a person say quite convincingly that their only REAL criteria is "breathing".

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by Cuck4Life » Wed May 21, 2025 2:41 am

I had no issue with length but I lacked girth. I am well below average in that department.

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Re: So you have a small penis?

Unread post by namitha157 » Wed May 21, 2025 8:04 am

Teensy1 wrote:
Tue May 20, 2025 5:31 am
Yes. Two inches soft, three inches hard. Thus the name Teensy. The entire neighborhood knows and teases me.
Oh wow!
That's like my boyfriend!
Maybe its more common?

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