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I think so. As a pussyfree cocksucker my experience has been that most men, especially chubby bears, are below average.

I’m a little less than 4” hard and around 1” diameter.

When we were dating I held off on any sexual contact for nearly 6 months because I really wanted a chance with her and was afraid if she found out how small and how lousy I was at giving a woman pleasure that would kill our relationship. At this point in our relationship we weren’t exclusive but she told me later that she made the other guy she was dating wait for sex until after she had it with me because she really wanted an exclusive relationship with me. As you might imagine it drove him crazy but he was patient because she truly is an amazing woman with a body built for sex.

Well long story short we ended up having sex on an overnight trip out of town and it was as I expected, awful for her, but she was kind and told me not to worry about it. I had cum before I fully penetrated her. I told her to give me a few minutes and I could get hard again. She gave me a kiss and said not to worry about it and rolled over to go to sleep.

We got home the next day and I dropped her off at her home around lunch time and then I went to my home. I called her later in the evening but got no answer. I called the next day several times with no answer. I thought that my performance had did me in and was bummed. After about 48hrs of not being able to reach her she finely answered. I apologized again for my poor performance and asked if everything was ok. She said it was. I didn’t come right and ask her where’d she been but got her to at least tell me that she had been with the other guy she had been dating. I asked if she had been with him the whole time and she said yes that they had been boating. She said they had spent both nights on the boat. I asked her if she had slept with him and she said yes but nothing happened because it was a tight fit with two other couples on board.

I was naive and believed her but later in our relationship she confessed that they had sex virtually the whole time. I asked if she had sex in front of the other couples and she said no that the other couples didn’t spend the night on the boat. I knew of the other couples and they of me but we were acquaintances more than friends. I asked her if they were discreet and she told me she didn’t think they were as naive as I was.

As it turned out she continued to have sex with him with my encouragement for another year or so before she decided she wanted to settle down and gave me an ultimatum either marry her or she was moving on. We were married 8 months later….

I have a small dick, but also very very thin, I am just under 4 inches rock hard and thin enough to fit inside an empty toilet roll with 2 pencils inside also.

I guess deep down I always knew I was smaller than other guys from PE in school, we would hit the shower and it was obvious, but I overrode that and told myself that, it was just a couple of guys and I’m a good size.

2 different girlfriends cheated on me (and one specifically asked my roommate and best friend to fuck her).

But the thing that really hit it home, was when I met my now wife……….she is beautiful and I couldn’t believe I was with this gorgeous girl, our second night together, we made love, and I was impressed with myself to say the least, so as we lay there, holding each other, sweat soaked and heart pounding, I asked, “how was it “……..she looked at me, and said “Jeff is Bigger “ (he was her ex/fiance)
I was hurt, but so hard again, and I won’t lie, I imagined Jeff fucking her and making her cum, and I continued imagining it for the next 36 years.

How it made her react, well she has reminded me that I am small, at times she will remind me that I have never made her cum, sometimes she tells me how she can’t feel me while I’m inside of her, she asks how I can enjoy it when she knows I cannot feel a thing, and she has told me that sex with me does absolutely nothing for her.

She did have a lover for about 8 months

Back in the early 2000's my wife had a fling with a guy that had been hitting on her so hard. She thought he was cute and so decided to give him a chance.

She came back later that evening and just laughed, held up her pinky and said "Ya, about this big. I should have figured that based on his height [he was short]. I can't do that again. Size matters... a lot."

I asked if he had any redeeming qualities and she said "Oh, I put his tongue to good use. He was fantastic at that, but ya, I need to be filled."

No.

According to the wife, about average length but much fatter.

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?

1st post I think from me so hi

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.

sconesy73 wrote: Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?

1st post I think from me so hi

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.

Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.

My wife's clit' is about the same size when erect.

namitha157 wrote: Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am

sconesy73 wrote: Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?

1st post I think from me so hi

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.

Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.

My partner has pointed out something very similar on several occasions
And the same to you- it's a pleasure

BT2 wrote: Sat May 31, 2025 9:18 am My wife's clit' is about the same size when erect.

But probably harder - and certainly more useful 🫣

Sounds cute.
I actually don't mind sucking little ones.
Never seen such a small one though.

 

sconesy73 wrote: Sat May 31, 2025 1:02 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am

sconesy73 wrote: Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?

1st post I think from me so hi

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.

Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.

My partner has pointed out something very similar on several occasions
And the same to you- it's a pleasure

namitha157 wrote: Sun Jun 01, 2025 5:27 am Sounds cute.
I actually don't mind sucking little ones.
Never seen such a small one though.

 

sconesy73 wrote: Sat May 31, 2025 1:02 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat May 31, 2025 6:29 am

sconesy73 wrote: Fri May 30, 2025 3:16 pm

1st post I think from me so hi

To answer the question- yes, extremely small..
No more than 1" long, doesn't get erect - consistency of a marshmallow! Mainly due to prostate cancer surgery but was never particularly big before that. My partner has had a regular "bull" for over 20 years, has played with others on occasion and has recently hooked up with an ex- colleague.

Its really tiny. My clit might be longer than that lol!
But nice to meet you.

My partner has pointed out something very similar on several occasions
And the same to you- it's a pleasure

I've posted a pic in the pictures forum if you want a laugh! My wife has tried sucking it - she said it reminded her of soft piece of candy- or a big clit

sana9889 wrote: Sun Apr 20, 2025 4:34 am My husband is really short. Less than 2" long I'd say. And another 2" round.
Sadly, it is the smallest I've had.
This may sound funny, but I'm almost the same length as him. A bit longer if I pump.

He is aware that he is on the small size. We don't talk about it too much. Its fun to masturbate through our panties the same way.
I doubt he would ever be able to cheat on me with a penis like that.
I think most Indian men and Asian men are small like this.
One of the reasons why they are not really highly desired.
I've had others when I was younger. I'd say they were mostly in the 3-4" length range. Some of the bigger ones were closer to 5"
Don't really spend time with them anymore for this reason.

My bf on the other hand is a nice 8" and a good handful.
And it feels even better inside.

Yup I am an Indian with 3.8 inches, my girlfriends lovers are all above 7 inches mostly black but her favourite bulls have been white

I'm just under 5" Hannah admitted I am smallest she's had
She honestly doesn't seem to mind hut is slowly trying to get more into the sph for me.

My MIL measured me for a jail bird cage and when was measuring me she commented she has never seen a penis as small as mine. She measured 1 1/2 inch’s x 2 inches. The when she finished MIL said it’s no wonder her daughter has a lover.

I got the jail bird because my wife’s lover didn’t want me to have sex with her. The one he bought was too big. My MIL paid for both jail birds.

pauline

I realized it very early, when I was still a teenager.
I was in the dressing room with some friends after swimming and I saw one of them naked and he was much bigger than me, I got really impressed.
I thought that was the normal size and since them I always avoid situations that people could see me naked, including casual sex.
Later I found out that, in fact, my friend was big and that was not a normal size.
Now living the cuckold lifestyle, I can say I finally got proud of being small.

D+D wrote: Sun Aug 03, 2025 6:26 amEven though it grows when aroused, I still feel very unmasculine when it’s viewed flaccid.

One of my mates had a similar 'grow not show' situation. His willy was absolutely tiny when flaccid, so tiny none of us guys even cared to make fun of him at the gyms, as was customary among us back then. However, the rumor somehow got around, and one of the girl students decided to seduce him for the sake of a guffaw, purely to ridicule him, as was said.

The next day she came with eyes like saucers and a stupid smile. Turned out the lad's willy grew very big when erect (can't tell the inches, but it was the biggest one she had tried at that time, allegedly). They graduated as a couple and got married soon after.

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?

In my prime I'd guess a bit smaller than average. About 5 3/4 inches, slightly less than average thickness. As a young man I did have much concern at times about how I measured up but never got the notion that any lovers or ons were disappointed. I did get a laugh out of it the few times a young woman said "It's so big!"

My wife and I got together when she was 18 and I was 25. I'd experienced many women by then. She admitted to having been with 10, but I suspect there may have been a few more. Nonetheless she was very tight. Other than one sometimes high school girlfriend who had given me her virginity my future wife was by far the tightest. Funny thing about that HS girlfriend. I was 18, she 19 when she gave me her cherry. We drifted apart but got reacquainted 3 years later. When I took her to bed then I was amazed at how much her pussy had been opened up and wondered what kind of monster cock she'd been taking since I last saw her. But I digress.

My wife remained tight, and I believe faithful for many years. When at age 40 she entered the hotwife lifestyle that began to change.

Penis size largely doesn't matter. Remember, any vagina can fit half an entire arm up to elbow.

5 and quarter....wish it was smaller. Like embarrassingly small.

I was 5 3/4 inches long, 4 1/2 around, but since getting Peyronie's I'm more like 4 1/2 long. Lost some girth also, but I haven't measured.

5.5

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?

I was a virgin till after high school. When I got to college, I was able to get with a couple of girls. When I wasn't able to stay inside of them, and would keep falling out, they would just get frustrated, give me a sympathy handjob, and send me home, saying that they had to get up early the next day and had a lot of things to do.

MartasBoy wrote: Sat Aug 09, 2025 2:20 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?

I was a virgin till after high school. When I got to college, I was able to get with a couple of girls. When I wasn't able to stay inside of them, and would keep falling out, they would just get frustrated, give me a sympathy handjob, and send me home, saying that they had to get up early the next day and had a lot of things to do.

Ya I always wondered how you would have sex with a small penis.
It must be hard to be like that.

namitha157 wrote: Sat Aug 09, 2025 6:20 pm

MartasBoy wrote: Sat Aug 09, 2025 2:20 pm

namitha157 wrote: Sat Apr 19, 2025 5:44 pm Is your penis small?
Or is your partner's penis small?

When and how did you find out?
How did it make you feel when you found out?

Did things change when you realized?
How about when your partner found out?
How did she feel/deal with it?

I was a virgin till after high school. When I got to college, I was able to get with a couple of girls. When I wasn't able to stay inside of them, and would keep falling out, they would just get frustrated, give me a sympathy handjob, and send me home, saying that they had to get up early the next day and had a lot of things to do.

Ya I always wondered how you would have sex with a small penis.
It must be hard to be like that.

I had a girlfriend once that found intercourse painful. She got tired of having sex with her boyfriend and she let me move in with her for nearly a year. She gave me regular handjobs and that was really exciting.
I can get pretty hard when I've been kept in Chastity for a couple of weeks, and kept from touching myself for a while. When she finally lets me out of my chastity device, I get pretty hard and come really big when I masturbate then.