Spouse wants a Threesome

[Sharing One]

The wife has expressed a desire to have sex with another man and myself at the same time. I would like to know if anyone would share how they went about having a successful threesome with their mate and another man. I would be most interested in reading your plan and the actual words exchanged with the new man to get him to participate.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Sharing One,

Without deviation, every time I read or hear a dude talking about his wife wanting to "try" a threesome or MFM sex, my first though is she'd probably done MFM sex before she met her husband.

All women have secrets. If they don't, they've lived boring lives. Normal, sexually healthy women love sex at least as much as men. When they hit their sexual primes, they'll want it every day more than once-a-day. Most if not all normal and sexually healthy women have sexual fantasies. Most women who married in their 20s or later were far from virginal on their wedding nights. BFD. If you're in love with your wife, you'd love her just as deeply if she revealed on her wedding night that she did porn or prostitution for college expenses.

Women are far more astute at reading men than men are at reading women. Women instinctively know secrets they should keep from their husbands. My wife thinks keeping sexual secrets from husbands and wives is silly and immature. If a woman can't trust her husband with her secrets, who could she trust? The reverse is also true.

My wife and I agreed to never keep secrets from each other. We believe that keeping secrets is lying by omission. Lying will destroy relationships. My wife knows she can tell me anything without fear of judgment. The opposite is true.

Depending on the relationship you have with your wife, my advice is when the time and circumstances are conducive, ask her if she did MFM sex before you met her. If she is in love with you and trusts you, she'll give you and honest answer. Never, ever judge her for telling you the truth. If you do, she'll never trust you again. A relationship without trust and honesty is an association with a terminus.

[BBCuck]

The wife has expressed a desire to have sex with another man and myself at the same time. I would like to know if anyone would share how they went about having a successful threesome with their mate and another man. I would be most interested in reading your plan and the actual words exchanged with the new man to get him to participate.

we put an ad in an online forum. we described what we were looking for and chatted with the best candidates. we then met 2 in person for non sex meeting and clicked with one of them.

things like STD and pregnancy were addressed and then we met in a hotel

[luvwives999]

The wife has expressed a desire to have sex with another man and myself at the same time. I would like to know if anyone would share how they went about having a successful threesome with their mate and another man. I would be most interested in reading your plan and the actual words exchanged with the new man to get him to participate.

Before we were married, I asked my fiancé, if I wasn't around which of my friends do you think you'd be fucking, and she didn't hesitate to tell me who. From there pillow talk always included having him join us. She really wanted it, so one night in his apartment, he went into the bedroom to take a phone call, pre cell phones, and she grabbed me and said let's start, I want this tonight. I was too nervous for that, so I went into the bedroom and told him, my fiancé's biggest fantasy is to do 2 guys, and she wants it tonight. He was shocked, said why me, I told him she liked and trusted him. He turned us down, said he would need a few drinks to even consider that. Knowing that she was willing, made him much closer to her, and after we were married, he came to dinner and we all ended up in bed. So, that is the short version of our first time.

[Cdncuck]

We've never had a plan. Once my wife decided she wanted a guy, she would flirt with him. If he was over for coffee during the day she would make a few racy remarks. She might make a joke about needing a boyfriend or something like that. Depending on his response she would decide to follow up with him at another time or she would drop it if there was a negative response.

With other guys, maybe with a few drinks, she would be a bit more aggressive in her approach. On one occasion that stands out, a neighbor came over to help me dig out a tree stump. It was a hot day, we were pretty sweaty by the time we were done.

My wife brought cold beers out to us as we sat in the shade. After the first beer we moved to the picnic table and drank a few more beers. Then we decided to order Chinese food.

My wife was wearing a loose summer dress and had given him little flashes here and there. Rather than have the food delivered, my wife suggested I go pick it up. I took the hint

While I was away she flirted some more, they made out a bit and she explained we enjoyed three way sex. He went along immediately.

I got back, we ate, my wife told me what went on when I was away and we all went into the bedroom and a great time. She became very fond of him and they had a relationship for 30 years until he died.

But every time was a little different. I don't think we ever approached any potential new friends the same way.

[BT2]

We've had both MFM and FMF threesomes. With the exception of one person with whom we've had FMF threesomes, we have found everybody else, male or female, through classified ads either in print or on an internet adult dating site.

Fucking friends is a bad idea. I've read on this forum that hotwife partners can become good friends, but good friends seldom become good hotwife partners. I can vouch for that (see FMF threesome above).

A number of decades ago an author with an unusual name (Clarke Kent - no, not that one) wrote on how to have a good hotwife experience. He wrote that you should never involve friends, coworkers nor relatives.

You will no doubt read that fucking friends has worked out fine for some people. Maybe.....

[Thebestdays1]

We've had both MFM and FMF threesomes. With the exception of one person with whom we've had FMF threesomes, we have found everybody else, male or female, through classified ads either in print or on an internet adult dating site.

Fucking friends is a bad idea. I've read on this forum that hotwife partners can become good friends, but good friends seldom become good hotwife partners. I can vouch for that (see FMF threesome above).

A number of decades ago an author with an unusual name (Clarke Kent - no, not that one) wrote on how to have a good hotwife experience. He wrote that you should never involve friends, coworkers nor relatives.

You will no doubt read that fucking friends has worked out fine for some people. Maybe.....

My ex obviously didn't read his book.

Virtually ever lover she had during our marriage was either a work colleague or relative of hers.

She did have a few relationships with neighbours of ours or her mum's when she stayed with her and also used to fuck her sister's married lover during those periods.

[sconesy73]

My ex obviously didn't read his book.

Virtually ever lover she had during our marriage was either a work colleague or relative of hers.

She did have a few relationships with neighbours of ours or her mum's when she stayed with her and also used to fuck her sister's married lover during those periods.

My partner hasn't read that book either. Vast majority of her lovers have been friends or colleagues- including her current guy. Never had any problems!

[Aussiem]

LOL well always been friends, relatives and an odd co-worker for us. Never been an issue.

[MarknSusan]

Add us to the list of a non monogamous couple that has had most of our relationships with good friends, Susan’s old boyfriends, including her first love (that relationship was on and off for more than 30 years) coworkers, friends with the same hobbies and a few neighbors.

All were wonderful experiences and even after the sex stopped we created a special bond with them.

[Bryce 69]

The question was “ how to get a MfM play date “
Join Life Style groups in your area
We have never had any problem finding a third to join us ?

[cuckhus715]

We had a a few threesomes with friends of mine. It just happened naturally and was amazing

[Anotherbrownguy]

My wife and I have talked about it. We’re in the processing of finding a guy. Mostly using online personal sites. I’m
Screening the guys then sending a couple over to the wife to check out.