Exchange of energy

[Simonesman]

I have crashed and burned a few times with women and this lifestyle.
But now I believe I have met my match.
I decided to put open-mindedness and attraction at the forefront of my next girlfriend.
I finally found her.
I’m aware the journey will be long, but it is promising.
We have only known each other for a few months.
But we have already discussed a wide array of fantasies, and of course for me the hotwife is at the top.
She says, she is open to anything but that having sex with another man for her is a huge exchange of energy and she wants something in return: Eventually she would like to be married
Now I didn’t think I was gonna get married again, but I’m open.
Marriage is a contract. And if we do some negotiating, it can get very kinky.
Has anyone experienced this or something similar and wants to chime in?

[Roketman77]

To truly have the Hot wife /Hot Girlfriend there need to be a form of commitment in the relationship. If you are just dating it is just that you are both still searching. The Hot part come from there is some risk the the primary think they can live with. Your Girlfriend is telling you that she would take the step for your excitement. She wants to know you will still be there when it becomes more than a one night stand.

[Roketman77]

To truly have the Hot wife /Hot Girlfriend there need to be a form of commitment in the relationship. If you are just dating it is just that you are both still searching. The Hot part come from there is some risk the the primary think they can live with. Your Girlfriend is telling you that she would take the step for your excitement. She wants to know you will still be there when it becomes more than a one night stand.

[Tryagain]

Does not seem like a good reason to get married. It's like i need an infusion of cash but i need marriage in return. Energy exchange sounds like a BS.

[Long Lurker 34]

Does not seem like a good reason to get married. It's like i need an infusion of cash but i need marriage in return. Energy exchange sounds like a BS.

SM
- With TA on this.

[Cdncuck]

I have crashed and burned a few times with women and this lifestyle.
But now I believe I have met my match.
I decided to put open-mindedness and attraction at the forefront of my next girlfriend.
I finally found her.
I’m aware the journey will be long, but it is promising.
We have only known each other for a few months.
But we have already discussed a wide array of fantasies, and of course for me the hotwife is at the top.
She says, she is open to anything but that having sex with another man for her is a huge exchange of energy and she wants something in return: Marriage
Now I didn’t think I was gonna get married again, but I’m open.
Marriage is a contract. And if we do some negotiating, it can get very kinky.
Has anyone experienced this or something similar and wants to chime in?

Seems like she wants more from you than she is willing to put on the table. That you have only known each other for a few months and she's talking marriage is a huge red flag to me. Hotwifing and cuckolding are great but it's not worth maybe screwing up your finances for years to come.

My wife got into fucking other guys before we were married. She was game to try it and we both wanted to try it on to see how it fit before committing to marriage. Both parties have to be willing to take emotional risks. There are no guarantees of success. At the end of our trial run, either party could call it off

[rm_andromeda694]

Does not seem like a good reason to get married. It's like i need an infusion of cash but i need marriage in return. Energy exchange sounds like a BS.

Also agree.

[Her number1]

Does not seem like a good reason to get married. It's like i need an infusion of cash but i need marriage in return. Energy exchange sounds like a BS.

SM
- With TA on this.

[Parsifal]

Marriage is a contract.

Before we were married, my wife and I worked together as as lawyers doing contract litigation, so we did see the contractual dimension of our marriage agreement, the mutually binding and obligatory nature of it, as well as the terms of agreement, which are the rules, customs and expectations that govern the relationship. For hotwifing arrangements that come after traditional vows are exchanged, as mine was with G, the couple must agree to modify one of the essential terms or vows of the marriage contract - which is the wife’s vow of "Foresaking All Others," relaxed in connection with the "Having and Holding" Clause. We speak openly today in legalese of having done a restructuring of our Vows in the sense of a contract modification. The Whereas Clauses can be very hot if skillfully drafted. Needless to say, we have enough trust not to need to reduce any of it to writing or that kind of nonsense, and we have no pre-nup papers either.

[sana9889]

I do believe the exchange of energy is a thing.
It is one of the reasons I do it, and it is addictive.

[sana9889]

Another reason to decide to use or not to use protection.
I don't use protection. But that is a personal choice.

[sana9889]

You can worry about this effect less if there is no exchange of body fluids, and less physical touch.

This is based on my own research. I'm by no means a specialist in the occult or an expert, but I have spoke to some people regarding my own appetite for sex and intimacy.
The penis is like a positive charged structure. The vagina is negatively charged.
The penis releases energy, the vagina receives it. Anus is like the vagina, but it absorbs stronger- this is why it makes bonding deeper.
Men penis also absorb energy, but its not as much as they give out.

Skin and mouth also exchange, but not as much as compared to sex organs.
It is one of the reasons why some cultures avoid physical touch- even a handshake.

[Simonesman]

Seems like she wants more from you than she is willing to put on the table. That you have only known each other for a few months and she's talking marriage is a huge red flag to me. Hotwifing and cuckolding are great but it's not worth maybe screwing up your finances for years to come.

My wife got into fucking other guys before we were married. She was game to try it and we both wanted to try it on to see how it fit before committing to marriage. Both parties have to be willing to take emotional risks. There are no guarantees of success. At the end of our trial run, either party could call it off

I have not had time to put the backstory.
I will correct.
We have been dating for a few months, but have known each other for seven years.
We were both in other relationships but had a massive attraction. She is one in 100,000!
These things take time and I’m sure she will be open to it eventually and while some of you might think this is easy, for some women like her, there is a sacrificial element. We all know that eventually they realize there’s a lot in it for them
That being said, I take your comment seriously and will do more inner research.

[Simonesman]

Marriage is a contract.

Before we were married, my wife and I worked together as as lawyers doing contract litigation, so we did see the contractual dimension of our marriage agreement, the mutually binding and obligatory nature of it, as well as the terms of agreement, which are the rules, customs and expectations that govern the relationship. For hotwifing arrangements that come after traditional vows are exchanged, as mine was with G, the couple must agree to modify one of the essential terms or vows of the marriage contract - which is the wife’s vow of "Foresaking All Others," relaxed in connection with the "Having and Holding" Clause. We speak openly today in legalese of having done a restructuring of our Vows in the sense of a contract modification. The Whereas Clauses can be very hot if skillfully drafted. Needless to say, we have enough trust not to need to reduce any of it to writing or that kind of nonsense, and we have no pre-nup papers either.

No prenup? That hadn’t even crossed my mind yet.
As for the vows, it would be fascinating to see if we could slip in a few lines that only she and I would truly understand. Adding that kind of secret, kinky layer would make it all the more exciting.

[Simonesman]

You can worry about this effect less if there is no exchange of body fluids, and less physical touch.

This is based on my own research. I'm by no means a specialist in the occult or an expert, but I have spoke to some people regarding my own appetite for sex and intimacy.
The penis is like a positive charged structure. The vagina is negatively charged.
The penis releases energy, the vagina receives it. Anus is like the vagina, but it absorbs stronger- this is why it makes bonding deeper.
Men penis also absorb energy, but its not as much as they give out.

Skin and mouth also exchange, but not as much as compared to sex organs.
It is one of the reasons why some cultures avoid physical touch- even a handshake.

I love what you say about positive and negative charges.
As a matter of fact, we are still in the beginning stages where everything that is said is raw and wonderful.
After giving me so much pleasure the other night and swallowing it all, she said “I feel so grounded”.
To some degree, it feels as though my penis and it’s release balanced her.

[Simonesman]

To truly have the Hot wife /Hot Girlfriend there need to be a form of commitment in the relationship. If you are just dating it is just that you are both still searching. The Hot part come from there is some risk the the primary think they can live with. Your Girlfriend is telling you that she would take the step for your excitement. She wants to know you will still be there when it becomes more than a one night stand.

Well said.
She did not say she would not try it if we were not married.
She just makes it clear that she would expect that sort of commitment from me over time.

I enjoy having skin in the game of anything that’s worthwhile.

[sana9889]

You can worry about this effect less if there is no exchange of body fluids, and less physical touch.

This is based on my own research. I'm by no means a specialist in the occult or an expert, but I have spoke to some people regarding my own appetite for sex and intimacy.
The penis is like a positive charged structure. The vagina is negatively charged.
The penis releases energy, the vagina receives it. Anus is like the vagina, but it absorbs stronger- this is why it makes bonding deeper.
Men penis also absorb energy, but its not as much as they give out.

Skin and mouth also exchange, but not as much as compared to sex organs.
It is one of the reasons why some cultures avoid physical touch- even a handshake.

I love what you say about positive and negative charges.
As a matter of fact, we are still in the beginning stages where everything that is said is raw and wonderful.
After giving me so much pleasure the other night and swallowing it all, she said “I feel so grounded”.
To some degree, it feels as though my penis and it’s release balanced her.

Look up sexual polarity for men and women.
It is simple but interesting concept about the heart being negative for men and penis being positive. It is the opposite for women.
Unfortunately most source online make it look like both have equal and opposite effects. My therapists and shamans showed me a different model.

A woman is designed to accept and absorb. A man is designed to emit and give.
Similarly a womans organs are designed to give pleasure. A mans organs are designed to take it.
A women will ultimately accept from the man - penetrative, penis, sperm, semen but emit less back. A man will ultimately emit but only absorb a little.
Very simple.

There is actually a lot of things going on for women especially.
I was explaining to some younger women. Some of them have not had sex before.

Pregnancy and feel good are only textbook concepts.
Semen has been shown to promote gene expression in women. The semen is more important than her orgasm to get the sexual benifits.

Sadly, I have come to accept, that a womens clitoral orgasm is a biproduct of still having man parts. And the deep penetrative orgasm is not the equavalent. And is actually not necessary. Most women get this wrong.

There are also studies about genetic and dna changes in women after absorbing sperm. Anal is the most aggressive, followed by vaginal, then mouth and a marginal amount by skin.

So its not just shamanism and occult. There is a lot of science about the bonding effects and energy changes. Its just the research is new. The occult and religious stuff has been around for thousands of years.

More reasons why they wanted girls to stay virgins before marriage.