Our Hotwives

We started off 26 years ago getting together after a passionate affair. When we were found out we moved in together and started to share fantasies of which we had several between us.

A straight MFM was one fantasy that we both had and this overlap seemed like a good one to start with and we attended a swingers club. After 4 years we found the hit and miss nature of the mainly ONS MFM hookups lacking in intimacy and we approached a very old friend of mine who was married but in a dead bedroom relationship.

First time was an MFM but every time since has been one on one in our marital bed. I get to clean her up afterwards. My friend has had my wife 2 to 4 times per year for 18 years but he always avoids talking directly about it which we find frustrating.

I was just reading about V relationship structures and wondered if that's really what we are, rather than Hotwifers?

That all depends on how your wife and your friend feel towards each other. If they're in love with each other, and she and you remain in love with each other, then yes you're in a V relationship.

It may be a V relationship. But, I don't see the importance of labelling. Would it not be much more important how you feel in that situation, whether you are happy in it or not? You seem at least a bit unhappy and the way you put it gives me the impression this is true for your wife and you.

You have done it this way for 18 years now. Is this a compromise you can live with or is it time for a change?

Flavius