Our Hotwives

So, my wife and I were at the park last weekend. She was wearing these tight yoga pants and a crop top—nothing crazy, but she’s got an amazing ass and always turns heads. We were just walking when this guy, mid-40s, salt-and-pepper beard, confident vibe, stops us.

Him: "Hey, sorry to bother you, but I’m a photographer working on a personal project. Your wife has an incredible look—would she be open to a quick test shoot?"

Now, she was shy but flattered, and I can tell she’s blushing. The guy (let’s call him Mark) hands her his card—legit portfolio, high-end fashion stuff. He says he’d love to shoot her "natural, candid, maybe a little edgy."

She hesitated, but I jumped in: "Yeah, babe, you’d look amazing!" She agrees to exchange numbers, and Mark texted her later that night with some "inspiration" pics (all tasteful, but some lingerie/boudoir mixed in).

No nudity, no explicit talk… yet. But I’m hard just thinking about where this could go.

I’ve had hotwife fantasies for years, but she is vanilla as hell. She’s never cheated, never even flirted hard with other guys. But this? This feels like a perfect slow-burn setup. Mark’s smooth. Not some creep—a pro who knows how to make women comfortable. she's intrigued. She keeps bringing it up like "Do you really think I’m model material?" I’m pushing gently. I told her "You’d look so sexy in a professional shoot… maybe even something a little daring?"

But I don’t want to fuck this up.

She agreed to a test shoot next weekend (outfits: jeans + tank top, sundress, "maybe something sexier if I’m comfortable").
Mark’s studio is private but professional (not some dude’s apartment).
She asked if I’d come, and I said "Only if you want me there." (Did I mess up? Should I have insisted?)

How do I encourage this without scaring her off? She’s not a cuckoldress (yet), but I feel like Mark could unlock something.
Should I be there for the shoot? Part of me wants to watch, but would that kill the vibe?
How do photographers usually escalate? I’ve heard stories of "Oh, let’s try this topless shot…" but is that a real thing?
What if she gets cold feet? I don’t want her to feel pressured, but I need this to happen.
Anyone else’s wife start like this? How did it progress?

My wife did sum modeling for a couple of amateur photographers; I was overseas at the time. loved the ones she sent me.

She is already excited about the test shoot, you don't need to do anything, let it happen. If it goes well she will be more comfortable next time, and the next, and you can begin crafting sexy pillow stories and seduce this sophisticated, urbane photographer. Then, check her gauge .... you'll find she is thoroughly wet.

It sounds like you provided the right encouragement. This encounter has already boosted her confidence and even if nothing develops past photography, it's an example you can continue to cite as evidence of how hot she is. Our wives discount our compliments about their looks with comments like "you have to say that". Getting comments from a third party is an entirely different thing. It can only make her feel good about herself (an important factor for any woman that might contemplate taking the plunge).

Congratulations to her and you! I suspect you'll look back at this as a milestone in your journey.
Just keep reminding her how awesome it was that he picked her out. I'm sure I'm not alone in anticipating how the shoot goes.

Restarting wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 15, 2025 3:04 pm

It sounds like you provided the right encouragement. This encounter has already boosted her confidence and even if nothing develops past photography, it's an example you can continue to cite as evidence of how hot she is. Our wives discount our compliments about their looks with comments like "you have to say that". Getting comments from a third party is an entirely different thing. It can only make her feel good about herself (an important factor for any woman that might contemplate taking the plunge).

Congratulations to her and you! I suspect you'll look back at this as a milestone in your journey.
Just keep reminding her how awesome it was that he picked her out. I'm sure I'm not alone in anticipating how the shoot goes.

Really appreciate the insight! You’re spot-on—the fact that a pro photographer saw something ‘special’ in her hit differently than my compliments ever could. She’s been glowing since it happened, and I’m leaning into that.I’m treating this as a win either way: if it’s just a confidence boost, great. If it becomes more… even better. I’m staying hands-off. She asked if I’d come, but I told her it’s her call—didn’t want to loom over the vibe.

I’ve heard photographers sometimes escalate organically. Not banking on it, but the fact she packed a ‘maybe something sexier’ outfit tells me she’s open to pushing her own limits.

Either way, I’ll report back. And yeah—if this becomes a milestone, you guys will be the first to know."

My wife always says, "Once you do something like that it gets easier every time after." Let it happen organically. Next photoshoot will be easier, and so on. It will happen if you let it.

luxwife wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 15, 2025 3:31 pm

Restarting wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 15, 2025 3:04 pm

It sounds like you provided the right encouragement. This encounter has already boosted her confidence and even if nothing develops past photography, it's an example you can continue to cite as evidence of how hot she is. Our wives discount our compliments about their looks with comments like "you have to say that". Getting comments from a third party is an entirely different thing. It can only make her feel good about herself (an important factor for any woman that might contemplate taking the plunge).

Congratulations to her and you! I suspect you'll look back at this as a milestone in your journey.
Just keep reminding her how awesome it was that he picked her out. I'm sure I'm not alone in anticipating how the shoot goes.

Really appreciate the insight! You’re spot-on—the fact that a pro photographer saw something ‘special’ in her hit differently than my compliments ever could. She’s been glowing since it happened, and I’m leaning into that.I’m treating this as a win either way: if it’s just a confidence boost, great. If it becomes more… even better. I’m staying hands-off. She asked if I’d come, but I told her it’s her call—didn’t want to loom over the vibe.

I’ve heard photographers sometimes escalate organically. Not banking on it, but the fact she packed a ‘maybe something sexier’ outfit tells me she’s open to pushing her own limits.

Either way, I’ll report back. And yeah—if this becomes a milestone, you guys will be the first to know."

LW
- Pretty sure that's how Pamela Anderson was 'found'.

Hah! If my wife ends up on a yacht with a rockstar, I’ll know I fucked up.
Now I’m wondering if Mark keeps a black satin robe in his studio… just in case

Update: Elena just asked if she should get a spray tan ‘for the lighting.’…Progress

What’s the “something sexier” composed of? If I was in your shoes, I’d be hard all the time and completely unable to concentrate on anything! Lol

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You can always plant ideas in her head- at the pre-conscious level if you will- by saying things like:
If it turns out to be something sexy or erotic, it would greatly spice up our sex life.

Then that discussion would naturally lead to your fantasies..
It's game on from that point onwards..

Tight shorts without panties to give the camel toe effect.
Tight tops without bra for the nip effect..

Nude with a towel held tastefully in front to cover up.

And do put the idea in her head that pro photographers see a lot more than the pics reveal. They see semi nude women I'm the raw while the costumes are being fixed or poses being tried..
All in all - give "permission".

Amen.

Tryn wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 12:28 am

What’s the “something sexier” composed of? If I was in your shoes, I’d be hard all the time and completely unable to concentrate on anything! Lol

Haha, right?! I’ve been walking around half-hard since this whole thing started. The ‘something sexier’ is still vague, she mentioned maybe a lace bodysuit or a bralette with high-waisted panties which for her is wild because she usually sleeps in oversized T-shirts. But here’s the kicker: Mark ‘accidentally’ texted her another ‘inspo’ pic last night—a model in a sheer robe, nipples just visible. My wife acted flustered but didn’t shut it down. Just said wow, that’s… bold.

Worst/best part? She’s started trying on outfits in the mirror when she thinks I’m not looking. Vanilla wife suddenly obsessed with her own ass in a thong? Yeah, Mark’s about to ruin my life (in the best way)

sandy691196 wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 5:44 am

You can always plant ideas in her head- at the ore conscious level if you will- by saying things like:
If it turns out to be something sexy or erotic, it would greatly spice up our sex life.

Then that discussion would naturally lead to your fantasies..
It's game on from that point onwards..

Tight shorts without panties to give the camel toe effect.
Tight tops without bra for the nip effect..

Nude with a towel held tastefully in front to cover up.

And do put the idea in her head that pro photographers see a lot more than the pics reveal. They see semi nude women I'm the raw while the costumes are being fixed or poses being tried..
All in all - give "permission".

Amen.

Oh, I’ve already started the permission seeding; subtly, of course. Last night, I casually mentioned how crazy-hot it is when women own their sexuality in photos. She got quiet, then whispered you’d really like it if I did somethin. Cue me nodding like a bobblehead.

Maybe buy her some crotchless lingerie to take along? What about sex toys? Would she photo shoot with some toys? If you have his number, text him on the side and tell him how much she is enjoying the risky pics he sends her and they are encouraging her to be bad

She is excited.
All you need to do is subtly expand the boundaries of her permissions, so by the time the next session comes she will feel free and uninhibited.
BTW, not sure if you are taking votes, but I would definitely have her go on her own, without a husband waiting for her outside the door.

Wantsomefunto wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 6:25 am

Maybe buy her some crotchless lingerie to take along? What about sex toys? Would she photo shoot with some toys? If you have his number, text him on the side and tell him how much she is enjoying the risky pics he sends her and they are encouraging her to be bad

Oh man, I love where your head’s at. The crotchless lingerie idea is might "accidentally" leave something like that in her suitcase and see if she finds it last minute. As for toys? She’s never even used one with me (vanilla queen, remember?), but if Mark suggests it during the shoot? I bet she’d melt. She’s already blushing at his bold inspo pics, and now she’s sneaking mirror selfies in her tiniest thongs when she thinks I’m not looking. Dude’s unlocking something in her I’ve never seen.

I’ve thought about texting Mark privately, but I don’t want to derail whatever vibe he’s building with her. He’s a pro, he knows she’s loving this, and the slower he takes it, the further she’ll go. But if she shows up in that lace bodysuit and he murmurs, let’s try something more… editorial all bets are off.

I’ll keep you posted. Pray for me and my useless, permanently half-hard dick

BallSpanking wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 6:25 am

She is excited.
All you need to do is subtly expand the boundaries of her permissions, so by the time the next session comes she will feel free and uninhibited.
BTW, not sure if you are taking votes, but I would definitely have her go on her own, without a husband waiting for her outside the door.

Oh, she’s way more than excited. And you’re 100% right about boundaries. I’m not pushing, just… leaving doors unlocked, you know? Like "forgetting" to ask if she wants me there . As for the vote? Noted. Loud and clear. If she asks, I’ll play it cool "Whatever makes you comfortable, babe" but yeah, the thought of her walking into that studio alone, Mark’s voice dropping an octave when he says "Let’s try something more intimate"… fuck. Just typing that got me twitching.

Uh, so… how common are "tasteful" nude shots in test shoots? Asking for a friend

I think she would do a lot more alone.

If you have time, tell her your will get her a manicure and pedicure to prep for her shoot, maybe a waxing if she does that. And i would definitely let him know what he is doing texting her is turning her on

Wantsomefunto wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 6:48 am

I think she would do a lot more alone.

If you have time, tell her your will get her a manicure and pedicure to prep for her shoot, maybe a waxing if she does that. And i would definitely let him know what he is doing texting her is turning her on

Oh, she’s already buzzing from the attention, last night she casually asked if I thought Mark would prefer her hair up or down. Translation: she’s already imagining his hands in it.

Love the prep idea. I’ll book her a mani/pedi to match the studio lighting (bullshit, but she’ll blush)Wax? Subtly dropped that one too you know, just in case the outfit rides up. Her silence was very telling.

And yeah, you’re right she’d do more alone. If she asks again if I’m coming? Babe, I’ll just distract you. This is your moment. Then I’ll kiss her neck and whisper…but I want every detail after.

I'll text Mark today. See how this goes and I'll post you update.

If this photo session develops to a nude photo session, she definitely will want ALL her body hair properly groomed, looking fresh for the sexy photo shoot. This should be mentioned casually, above board, as one of the possibilities from the shoot, so, it is best for her to be prepared and confident for when that happens.

BallSpanking wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 7:31 am

If this photo session develops to a nude photo session, she definitely will want ALL her body hair properly groomed, looking fresh for the sexy photo shoot. This should be mentioned casually, above board, as one of the possibilities from the shoot, so, it is best for her to be prepared and confident for when that happens.

Great advice! You’re absolutely right, confidence is everything in a shoot like this. If things do escalate to something more daring she’ll want to feel her best. I can casually bring this up and frame it as prep for her benefit

Best of Luck and Enjoy the New Wife.

luxwife wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 15, 2025 1:49 pm

How do I encourage this without scaring her off? She’s not a cuckoldress (yet), but I feel like Mark could unlock something.
Should I be there for the shoot? Part of me wants to watch, but would that kill the vibe?
How do photographers usually escalate? I’ve heard stories of "Oh, let’s try this topless shot…" but is that a real thing?
What if she gets cold feet? I don’t want her to feel pressured, but I need this to happen.
Anyone else’s wife start like this? How did it progress?

I have had a fair amount of experience with this kind of thing so I thought I'd offer my two cents.

First off, photographers are all different and so are their approaches. The good ones have experience and are adept at helping the model relax and feel comfortable in front of the camera.

Sure, you can and should encourage her, but do it as her supporter/lover and not as a horny hubby who is using her to get his rocks off. That means no suggestions of crotchless panties, etc... As I understand it, this is not a porn shoot so my advice to you is to back off from that.

The last thing she needs here is for her husband to pressure her and create false sexualized expectations that could very well backfire on you and lead to a bad first experience for her. If that happens she may never do another.

If you allow this to proceed organically, and allow the chemistry between photographer and model to grow, then you may very well reap major dividends down the road.

Best of luck to you both.

wifelver wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 16, 2025 3:36 pm

luxwife wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 15, 2025 1:49 pm

How do I encourage this without scaring her off? She’s not a cuckoldress (yet), but I feel like Mark could unlock something.
Should I be there for the shoot? Part of me wants to watch, but would that kill the vibe?
How do photographers usually escalate? I’ve heard stories of "Oh, let’s try this topless shot…" but is that a real thing?
What if she gets cold feet? I don’t want her to feel pressured, but I need this to happen.
Anyone else’s wife start like this? How did it progress?

I have had a fair amount of experience with this kind of thing so I thought I'd offer my two cents.

First off, photographers are all different and so are their approaches. The good ones have experience and are adept at helping the model relax and feel comfortable in front of the camera.

Sure, you can and should encourage her, but do it as her supporter/lover and not as a horny hubby who is using her to get his rocks off. That means no suggestions of crotchless panties, etc... As I understand it, this is not a porn shoot so my advice to you is to back off from that.

The last thing she needs here is for her husband to pressure her and create false sexualized expectations that could very well backfire on you and lead to a bad first experience for her. If that happens she may never do another.

If you allow this to proceed organically, and allow the chemistry between photographer and model to grow, then you may very well reap major dividends down the road.

Best of luck to you both.

Really appreciate the advice and definitely don’t want to push too hard or make this feel transactional. You’re right, the organic chemistry is what makes it exciting. I’ve been careful to frame it as her opportunity—telling her how confident she looks, how Mark clearly has an eye for beauty, etc. Zero mention of my kinks. But last night, she surprised me: tried on a few "test outfits" in front of the mirror and asked, "Would this look good for the shoot?" A silky camisole with lace trim. Not outright lingerie, but the closest thing she’s ever worn outside the bedroom

If this goes well, I owe you a beer. This forum’s advice is gold

Any subtle ways to help her feel empowered not pressured to take the next step?

Positive reinforcement is the way to go.
If you think it would help, I suggest something that I heard a long time ago about boudoir photography. Some photographers insist that a model not wear any foundation garments before a shoot. It seems the marks that are left from wearing a bra, or tight panties take quite a while to go away. Something that can ruin the fine lines of a beautiful woman's body.
Maybe you can suggest she go commando, sans bra and panties, when she goes for the appointment with the explanation I've given. Maybe she can text with Mark and ask him what he thinks?