Our Hotwives

Those of you familiar with our story know that my wife is not obligated to get my permission to play with other guys or even to tell me about it after. Her choice. In practice, she prefers to tell me, but it turns her that she doesn't have to. If I'm not joining my wife then I prefer that she tells me, but it turns me on that she might not.

It took years for us to get to where we are now. The "getting there" phase was at least as exciting, as I'm sure others can relate. Shortly after we started dating we both discovered that we liked the idea of me sharing her, though we didn't know what it was called. She'd go out with her friends and then call to tell me about naughty things she had done with other guys, or she'd come to my place to tell me about her night. Making out with other guys, a hand cupping her tits, her feeling some guy's cock.

After college we were unmarried and living together while I was in the service. When I got deployed I encouraged her to fool around with other guys and then write to me about it. She wrote me often, and many of those letters included sordid confessions. My stomach would tighten as I turned the pages while also somehow hoping that I was about to read that she got carried away and let things go too far, but her stories always stopped short of actual sex. As she always reminded me, she was doing this stuff to excite me but she could never go all the way.

In one particular letter she wrote about how she and her girlfriend were playing pool with a couple of surfers (we lived in SoCal at the time). She described her sexually charged conversation with one of the guys, how he placed his hand on her hip when he'd lean in to talk, how she could feel his "massive erection" pressed against her ass as she was bent over for a shot. That he was a great kisser, had a great body. She raved about his giant cock, that she had felt it with both of her hands. It made my heart hurt to read the story, but it left me wishing she had gone even further. I probably jerked off a couple of dozen times while re-reading her cursive handwriting in that letter. When I returned home I initiated sex talk about her various adventures, including the surfer guy. She indulged me with the sex talk but we found new things to fantasize about and we forgot about the events of her letters.

Fast forward to this past weekend. My wife and I were relaxing together on our patio. The weather was perfect, the tiki torches were lit, and we were sharing some cocktails and talking. Our conversation turned to that time of our lives and we reminisced about her adventures while I was away. My wife loses track of what stories she's already told me, and from time to time she'll make an unintended confession. I cherish those confessions and am always careful not to react. We were in a great mood that night and she had a few drinks and she was sharing titillating new clues about that half-year.

Our conversation had turned to a party that happened a few weeks before I got home, with other military guys who either knew me or knew of me. At some point she went up to a bedroom with another military guy, a sorta friend of a sorta friend. She had told me about that party when I returned home, and I had heard rumors of it from others. At the time I was pissed at her because it was careless to fuck around within our social circle, and I was livid with the guy for trying to fuck my girlfriend. Almost got into a fistfight about it. She was humiliated by the rumors. We stopped talking about that party back then because my questions sounded more like an interrogation and it wasn't sexy at all. I've always wondered if she hadn't told me the whole story about that party. So last weekend when she mentioned that night I cautiously fished for details, pretending to recall things she had already told me. I risked ruining the mood. It was a gamble and the drinks were flowing. I prompted nonchalantly, "Oh yeah, I think that was the guy who fucked you in his bed?"

She corrected me, "No, that was the surfer guy."

My heart skipped. Fuuuuuuck. It had been years since I even thought of that letter, but I remembered it instantly. I caught my breath and nodded along, "Oh yeah, that's right". My dick got hard and stayed hard for the rest of the night. I casually kept the conversation going for a few minutes to learn what I could of the rest of the story while maintaining the pretense that she had already told me. She had been kinda drunk and doesn't remember much about the night. She and her girlfriend left the bar with the two surfer guys. The four of them went back to the guys' place. The guy with the massive cock fucked my then-girlfriend in his bed. She didn't say if she stayed overnight, whether he wore a condom, and I didn't press for explicit details. She insisted that it was forgettable, which means she just wants to forget about it, and I'm going to let her. We changed topics and moved on.

I know this pales in comparison to actual hotwife play, but for some reason this has pushed all of my buttons. Thought I'd share here.

Great story.

Maybe one of these days you can find out more. Perhaps he gave her the fuck of her life with that giant cock multiple times and left her with a pussy overflowing with cum.

You'd like that, no?



Best wishes and thanks for sharing it.

Excellent! That was a very enjoyable read

A hot revelation, lucky guy! I can sure relate.

like you say retellings can add details. I kind of blundered on that myself. I get her to tell a story I knew and because of memory or mood, or maybe she was embarrassed the first time (makes it hotter if so), she'll add something, which I'm all in for every little detail. The more she remembers, I can tell the hotter it was for her also. Really super boner material when a new man is mentioned.

iloanmywife wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 23, 2025 4:51 pm

My wife loses track of what stories she's already told me, and from time to time she'll make an unintended confession. I cherish those confessions and am always careful not to react. We were in a great mood that night and she had a few drinks and she was sharing titillating new clues about that half-year.

no , definitely does not pale. hotwifing isn't a movie, and that sounds pretty hot anyway.

Several weeks before my wife, then my dating friend, and I got serious and became a "couple", she told me that a guy she'd gone out with had gone under a table at a dark bar and ate her to a climax. I always thought the story was a bit odd but I had other things to focus on then. Much later she confessed that she and the guy had actually done that but then went back to his apartment to finish the deal. That part she had inexplicably left out, since so many other things had been revealed on both sides of the relationship. I've never quite understood why, but now that you mention it, maybe I'll probe some more...

When my now ex wife and I got engaged it was on the understanding that we could have an open marriage but we weren't to cheat on each other. She's bi and knew she would want to continue sleeping with other women but told me that what she did with them was none of my business and I wasn't to ask any details, although she would let me know if she was going to meet another woman.
When she went with a man I was always keen to know everything about what they did and over time, she grew to get fed up with answering all my questions and so we started to grow apart and she started cheating (although I didn't know to what degree until after we split up). She also hid a lot of the details from me so as not to get me too turned on.
We've been in touch again for the past few years and have met up quite a few times now behind her partner's back and she tells me things that she either didn't want to tell me back then or was too embarrassed to admit. It still turns me on to hear what she did but nowadays she gets excited reliving those days too.

hornedhubby wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 23, 2025 8:54 pm

Great story.

Maybe one of these days you can find out more. Perhaps he gave her the fuck of her life with that giant cock multiple times and left her with a pussy overflowing with cum.

You'd like that, no?

Honestly, I don't need to hear anything over-the-top story. The most vanilla scenario, which I know at a minimum actually happened, blows my mind. Some random guy slid his big cock inside my drunk 22 year-old girlfriend (and future bride) a few hours after meeting her. She was naked in another man's bed, letting another man enjoy her tight body. My girlfriend had a slut one-night-stand while I was deployed. You know what? Leaving aside the kink, I'm actually happy for her. I was gone for a while and I'm glad she had that thrill.

If she ever tells me details I'd love to hear them. Did she suck his cock, what positions, did he cum inside her, did she get off, did she ever see him around after that? With her alone dates I usually let her have her privacy. I'm perfectly happy never knowing anything more than I do now, but I'll always listen for more.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 24, 2025 2:34 am

Excellent! That was a very enjoyable read

jane wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 24, 2025 6:54 am

no , definitely does not pale. hotwifing isn't a movie, and that sounds pretty hot anyway.

Thank you! This is really the only place I could share. It's funny that this story put my stomach in knots even after all of our more "advanced" experiences.

gnt4fun wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 24, 2025 9:17 am

...she told me that a guy she'd gone out with had gone under a table at a dark bar and ate her to a climax...Much later she confessed that she and the guy had actually done that but then went back to his apartment to finish the deal.

I feel like she already told you the best part initially! That's next-level! After that, getting laid seems pretty standard fare! "And then we went to his place and had sex." Like...who cares? Tell me more about getting head to orgasm in a dark bar!!

Seriously though, I hope your'e able to get more naughty details from her.

iloanmywife wrote: ↑

Tue Jun 24, 2025 2:41 pm

If she ever tells me details I'd love to hear them. Did she suck his cock, what positions, did he cum inside her, did she get off, did she ever see him around after that?

oh man yes that is a big part of the anticipation of hearing a retelling of a story. When she includes something she didn't the first time, even small details make it all the more real. I think I now know my wife's stories better than her haha.

Over wine and cheese for my wife and I fifth wedding anniversary we were paging through wedding photos. She said in a sexy voice maybe I should tell you now but I did have sex with your best friend and best man of our wedding.

I assumed it was maybe a couple of years before the wedding, when I asked her, she grinned um more like a couple of hours before the wedding and he came inside me twice. Made looking at the wedding photos more interesting knowing why she had such a radiant just fucked look to her. Along with standing at the altar exchanging wedding vows with the best man’s cum inside her.

Her revelation led to us having intense sex and me forgiving her for fucking the best man right before our wedding

Everyone agree I did the right thing in forgiving her?

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 25, 2025 8:06 am

Over wine and cheese for my wife and I fifth wedding anniversary we were paging through wedding photos. She said in a sexy voice maybe I should tell you now but I did have sex with your best friend and best man of our wedding.

I assumed it was maybe a couple of years before the wedding, when I asked her, she grinned um more like a couple of hours before the wedding and he came inside me twice. Made looking at the wedding photos more interesting knowing why she had such a radiant just fucked look to her. Along with standing at the altar exchanging wedding vows with the best man’s cum inside her.

Her revelation led to us having intense sex and me forgiving her for fucking the best man right before our wedding

Everyone agree I did the right thing in forgiving her?

I'm not going to lie, that would sting. My wife knows how much I fantasized about her as a slut bride, either before or after our ceremony. We didn't start full hotwife play until a couple of years after we were married, so that ship sailed. [To her credit, she helped me live out this fantasy later.] If she just straight up cheated on me in my dream kink scenario but then kept it from me, that would piss me off. Not the cheating, mind you, but living out my dream fantasy without telling me. It would be like if she snuck off to go see my favorite band alone and then never mentioned it.

However, if she then handed me picture/video evidence of her wedding day infidelity -- especially in her wedding dress -- I would consider it my most valuable physical possession on this earth. Not only would I forgive her, I'd literally get down on my knees and thank her profusely.

I'm curious if you ever mentioned this to your best man.

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 25, 2025 8:06 am

Over wine and cheese for my wife and I fifth wedding anniversary we were paging through wedding photos. She said in a sexy voice maybe I should tell you now but I did have sex with your best friend and best man of our wedding.

I assumed it was maybe a couple of years before the wedding, when I asked her, she grinned um more like a couple of hours before the wedding and he came inside me twice. Made looking at the wedding photos more interesting knowing why she had such a radiant just fucked look to her. Along with standing at the altar exchanging wedding vows with the best man’s cum inside her.

Her revelation led to us having intense sex and me forgiving her for fucking the best man right before our wedding

Everyone agree I did the right thing in forgiving her?

WHW
- Puts a whole new spin on "blushing bride."

Finding out or re-remembering new details is awesome. My wife normally tells me but her ability or desire to recall details has always been suspect. Like you i try and act like I've heard it all before while the flame is burning hot inside learning new details about old adventures.

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 25, 2025 8:06 am

Over wine and cheese for my wife and I fifth wedding anniversary we were paging through wedding photos. She said in a sexy voice maybe I should tell you now but I did have sex with your best friend and best man of our wedding.

I assumed it was maybe a couple of years before the wedding, when I asked her, she grinned um more like a couple of hours before the wedding and he came inside me twice. Made looking at the wedding photos more interesting knowing why she had such a radiant just fucked look to her. Along with standing at the altar exchanging wedding vows with the best man’s cum inside her.

Her revelation led to us having intense sex and me forgiving her for fucking the best man right before our wedding

Everyone agree I did the right thing in forgiving her?

Wow, did that really happen? Super hot in my opinion. I for one would have forgiven her too, although I would wonder why she didn't tell you at the time, or at least earlier. I would have preferred to find out right away.

I assume your wife is a hotwife now? When did she become one?

I'd also be interested in hearing how this came about, as it's a kind of unusual scenario, albeit a very fucking hot one! I assume they knew each other well if he was/is your best friend, and perhaps there was some chemistry between them already?

All the best,

Alex

Thanks for the kind words and compliments pertaining to my bride to be having sex with the best man just a short time before we exchanged wedding vows. (Kelly is my wife’s name)

Here are some more details.

Kelly knew the best man quite well before the wedding and had dated briefly, he is a graduate of West Point Military Academy and is an officer in the Army.

Where we got married the reception venue has a church as part of their facility, all in one a church for the actual wedding attached to the reception hall.

The venue has a bride’s quarters that typically serves a suite for the bride to get her hair and makeup done, to become a beautiful bride while having some peace and tranquility before the big event.

Kelly had sex with the best man in the bride’s quarters and the two went at for nearly two hours with him riding Kelly to multiple orgasms while he came deep in her pussy twice.

Due to their sexual romp there was a mad dash for Kelly to get ready for the wedding. Originally Kelly had panties on for the wedding then removed them due to the panties being wet from leaking his cum, so yes she was pantiless during the wedding and reception.

She looked extremely radiant and beautiful for the wedding and I am confident her having orgasms up to 90 minutes before the wedding was a huge contributing factor.

The best man had as Kelly described the thickest penis she has ever had the pleasure of having fuck and satisfy her pussy.

The best man fucked Kelly so well and a flowing stream of orgasms for her, everyone at the wedding noticed how radiant she looked with a smile on her face that would not end. Knowing what caused that gets hard anytime I seeing her smiling face in a wedding photo!!

Yes Kelly is a hotwife and I am grateful to be her husband

Any other questions feel free to ask

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Sat Jun 28, 2025 6:03 am

Thanks for the kind words and compliments pertaining to my bride to be having sex with the best man just a short time before we exchanged wedding vows. (Kelly is my wife’s name)

Here are some more details.

Kelly knew the best man quite well before the wedding and had dated briefly, he is a graduate of West Point Military Academy and is an officer in the Army.

Where we got married the reception venue has a church as part of their facility, all in one a church for the actual wedding attached to the reception hall.

The venue has a bride’s quarters that typically serves a suite for the bride to get her hair and makeup done, to become a beautiful bride while having some peace and tranquility before the big event.

Kelly had sex with the best man in the bride’s quarters and the two went at for nearly two hours with him riding Kelly to multiple orgasms while he came deep in her pussy twice.

Due to their sexual romp there was a mad dash for Kelly to get ready for the wedding. Originally Kelly had panties on for the wedding then removed them due to the panties being wet from leaking his cum, so yes she was pantiless during the wedding and reception.

She looked extremely radiant and beautiful for the wedding and I am confident her having orgasms up to 90 minutes before the wedding was a huge contributing factor.

The best man had as Kelly described the thickest penis she has ever had the pleasure of having fuck and satisfy her pussy.

The best man fucked Kelly so well and a flowing stream of orgasms for her, everyone at the wedding noticed how radiant she looked with a smile on her face that would not end. Knowing what caused that gets hard anytime I seeing her smiling face in a wedding photo!!

Yes Kelly is a hotwife and I am grateful to be her husband

Any other questions feel free to ask

WHW
- I recall mention was made of him on some long past post.
- Just imagining ongoing leakage during the walk up the aisle, milling around the reception. Drip, drip drip.
- Ah yes, a rather 'blissed out' radiance I'm sure.
- Did they get together further times?

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Sat Jun 28, 2025 6:03 am

Thanks for the kind words and compliments pertaining to my bride to be having sex with the best man just a short time before we exchanged wedding vows. (Kelly is my wife’s name)

Here are some more details.

Kelly knew the best man quite well before the wedding and had dated briefly, he is a graduate of West Point Military Academy and is an officer in the Army.

Where we got married the reception venue has a church as part of their facility, all in one a church for the actual wedding attached to the reception hall.

The venue has a bride’s quarters that typically serves a suite for the bride to get her hair and makeup done, to become a beautiful bride while having some peace and tranquility before the big event.

Kelly had sex with the best man in the bride’s quarters and the two went at for nearly two hours with him riding Kelly to multiple orgasms while he came deep in her pussy twice.

Due to their sexual romp there was a mad dash for Kelly to get ready for the wedding. Originally Kelly had panties on for the wedding then removed them due to the panties being wet from leaking his cum, so yes she was pantiless during the wedding and reception.

She looked extremely radiant and beautiful for the wedding and I am confident her having orgasms up to 90 minutes before the wedding was a huge contributing factor.

The best man had as Kelly described the thickest penis she has ever had the pleasure of having fuck and satisfy her pussy.

The best man fucked Kelly so well and a flowing stream of orgasms for her, everyone at the wedding noticed how radiant she looked with a smile on her face that would not end. Knowing what caused that gets hard anytime I seeing her smiling face in a wedding photo!!

Yes Kelly is a hotwife and I am grateful to be her husband

Any other questions feel free to ask

Thanks for you answers!

Such a hot situation. I can imagine you get hard seeing any wedding photos displaying her radiance, etc.

I do have a few more questions. Had you already opened up your relationship when she did this?

How did they get away with not getting caught? You'd think someone could have heard them or come in to the bride's quarters to bring something, etc.

Did she initially resist or protest against the best man's advances, or was she totally on board from the get go?

I think this experience that we’re all talking about in this thread, hearing her retell how she got laid, is an underestimated joy of being part of this lifestyle.

From someone who has been privileged enough to (often) watch his wife get thoroughly fucked, I can say that there is a whole different (and in many ways BETTER) perspective of letting her tell her own story…..how he seduced her, made her cum, and ultimately held her down and fucked her to his own orgasm.

Hearing her tell me what she wants me to know has been a different kind of thrill.

I used to think I would miss watching her moan with him balls-deep in her, but I’m surprised to find it’s not the case with her new boyfriend.

Even though she used to like when I would watch, we have grown beyond that experience.

We’re both (all three?) loving it this way.