Adding Benefits to a Frienship
Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2025 1:46 pm
I've written about our marriage a few times before - but I've been mostly off the forum for a while - so perhaps a brief recap in is order. Almost 10 years ago, my wife, Ann, a dozen years younger than me and in her mid thirties at time, asked me to consent to opening our marriage to polyamory so she could renew a relationship with an old college boyfriend, Larry, in an honest manner. I struggled with the decision - because I found the idea of her having sex with another man very objectionable. Nevertheless, I finally agreed as a concession to me being older. And, of course, having a causal FWB myself also helped soften the blow.
As time went along, I went from being very troubled over the idea of her having sex with another man to finding that I enjoyed her telling me about the hot sex that she had with Larry, and then reclaiming her cum-filled pussy afterward, and eventually to listening to them have sex in our bedroom while I worked in the home office (and even quietly going and standing by the closed door, listening to their moans as they fucked). Larry was not at all open to the idea of an MFM threesome or even me watching however.
After a couple of years of them fucking a couple of times a week, Larry and his wife closed their marriage when she got pregnant. At that point, we decided to set up a MFM threesome using a swinger website. We were successful - and our guest for that threesome, Bill, ended up becoming her next poly boyfriend - and has been with her for over five years now, generally fucking her at least twice a week - with me frequently either joining in to various degrees, or just watching. (Although recently his job is requiring him to spend more time out of town - so they are necessarily spending less time together).
They initially agreed to be polyfidelitous - and only fuck each other (and her with me, of course.) Bill is single but is happy to just have sex with Ann as long as he can do so a couple of times a week. He and I have become (non-sexual) friends as well. However, after a couple of years, Larry (her first poly bf) stopped by to visit - and they ended up fucking - which led to a renewed relationship - but just as casual fuck-buddies this time, and so in addition to her regular sex with Bill and I, she "cheats" and also fucks Larry once a month or so as well now.
Then, a couple of years back now, while at a professional convention, Ann ran into a former work associate, Craig, with whom she had an office fling shortly before she met me. Craig was "happily married" and they both understood that their relationship was just for fun. It ended when he was transferred to a different city. They agreed to have a drink at the bar that evening, and Ann (after checking to make sure I was ok with it) took him back to her room - where they renewed their carnal relationship. Craig fucked her twice that evening, and again the next morning - before the left for the airport to head home. Craig has been back in town twice since then on business. Since he had a hotel room, she spent the night with him on both occasions - getting boned multiple times on each of those two occasions.
That brings us to current day - where, just this past weekend, Ann added another notch to her belt.
Jim and Linda were the parents of a friend of our kiddo - that we first met back when they were both in pre-k (and we've all been friends ever since). However, just a few years after we all first met, Jim and Linda divorced (and we remained friends with both of them - and whatever partner they each might have). Jim got caught on the rebound, moved his girlfriend in with him, only to see the relationship go to pieces within a year. Now Ann has always thought Jim was a fairly hot dude - and once told me that she would not mind taking a roll in the hay with him if the opportunity ever came along. So, after Jim's last breakup, I told Ann that Jim probably needed some company right about now and that she should make it a point to invite him over for dinner or such once a week or so - and who knows what might happen.... In the meantime, in a guy conversation, I "admitted" to Jim that due to our age difference, I had told Ann that if she ever felt the need for additional male companionship, that I would be open to the possibility, as long as it did not affect our marriage. Jim at first seemed a little bit shocked - but also interested. I could almost see the wheels turning in his head over the possibility of him getting to bang my wife.
Jim, I believe, was genuinely lonely and took us up on our invitations to go out to dinner with us - or come over for dinner and hang out. The conversations sometimes ventured into the sexual arena - and Ann told him that she understood that he was not up for another relationship after getting burned twice in the last few years, and that he needed a fuck buddy - and Jim completely agreed. And, as time went along, Ann became increasingly friendly with him - lightly touching his arm or lower back - touching legs under the table - while also making it a point to wear low cut tops - or a t-shirt with no bra and tight jeans or yoga pants when he visited. I noticed him more than once checking her out when he did not realize that I was watching him.
Then, this past weekend, our kiddo was gone for the evening, spending the night with a friend. We invited Jim over for dinner, and then had a few drinks on the deck. As it began to get a bit dark out, Ann suggested that we all get in the pool and enjoy the water. Jim protested that he did not have a swim suit - and before I could offer to loan him one - Ann smiled and said "no kids around - who needs a suit?" and continued - "I'm going in - feel free to join me". At which point, Ann pulled off her t-shirt and stepped out of her shorts (she was not wearing panties or a bra) - and stepped into the pool completely nude. Jim's mouth dropped open - but shortly thereafter we both joined her, also nude as well. We all did a little swimming around in the pool, but mostly talked, leaning against the side of the pool.
Eventually, we all ended up sitting on the steps of the pool with drinks, with Ann in between Jim and I. Soon, their bare legs were closely touching with Ann's hand resting lightly just above his knee, and Jim was sporting a hard cock, and a quite respectable one at that. Momentarily, Ann slipped her hand under the water and around his cock, and began to slowly stroke. Jim sighed and closed his eyes (I suspected that he was hesitant to touch her in return with me sitting next to them). A minute or so later, Ann slipped down between his legs, moved him up to the top step so his cock was now out of the water, and then took him into her mouth.
I sensed that he was a bit nervous with me there, so I smiled and said "Enjoy her, my friend. I love watching her in action". At which point, I eased down a step, and reached up between her legs to rub her clit while she moved her lips up and down on Jim's very hard cock. She came in short order, coming off Jim's cock moaning loudly.
After she recovered, she stood up and took Jim by the hand and led him further out into the pool, where she draped her legs and arms around his body and lowered herself onto him - as she leaned into him for the first of many passionate kisses that evening. He moved his arms to support her and then backed her up against the edge of the pool - and then proceeded to fuck her well indeed. She came again just as he buried his load inside her.
Another round of drinks followed - I thought Jim might need one, given that he'd just fucked his friend's wife right in front of him. But Jim recovered nicely - very nicely, in fact. He was soon hard again, and this time Ann took him to our bedroom (leaving the door open, so I could watch) - where Jim first ate her quite nicely to yet another orgasm before fucking her senseless - and finally pumping a second load deep inside her - after at least a half hour of solid fucking first on top of her and then from behind her.
Afterward, I took one side of the bed, and Jim the other, with Ann in the middle - allowing them to cuddle as a movie played in the background on the bedroom tv. Later, Jim spent the night in the guest room, and Ann went with him to say goodnight - and shortly thereafter I heard them fucking yet again. She returned to our bedroom a couple of hours later - around 2AM - where I reclaimed her.
The next morning, Ann went to check on him in the guest room - and it was only minutes before I once again heard the sounds of passion. The door was open, and I paused at the doorway to watch the incredible hotness of my sexy hotwife riding Jim's hardness first to her own screaming orgasm - and then followed closely by Jim's deep masculine grunts as he once again pumped his semen deep into my wife's pussy.
Afterward, we whipped up some breakfast and Jim had to leave to meet other obligations. He has fucked her a few more times since then (a couple of times at his place as well after our kiddo returned) - but he has been told that her poly boyfriend will be back in town at the end of the week - and she won't be as available. Jim was a bit surprised there was a poly boyfriend also (and we didn't even tell him about the occasional lovers - Larry and Craig), and maybe even a little disappointed - but Ann promised him that he could still have her also - that she would make the time - even if not as often. And, of course, Jim is just happy to be getting laid by a hot lady who likes him, but with no strings attached and no setup for another heartbreak.
As time went along, I went from being very troubled over the idea of her having sex with another man to finding that I enjoyed her telling me about the hot sex that she had with Larry, and then reclaiming her cum-filled pussy afterward, and eventually to listening to them have sex in our bedroom while I worked in the home office (and even quietly going and standing by the closed door, listening to their moans as they fucked). Larry was not at all open to the idea of an MFM threesome or even me watching however.
After a couple of years of them fucking a couple of times a week, Larry and his wife closed their marriage when she got pregnant. At that point, we decided to set up a MFM threesome using a swinger website. We were successful - and our guest for that threesome, Bill, ended up becoming her next poly boyfriend - and has been with her for over five years now, generally fucking her at least twice a week - with me frequently either joining in to various degrees, or just watching. (Although recently his job is requiring him to spend more time out of town - so they are necessarily spending less time together).
They initially agreed to be polyfidelitous - and only fuck each other (and her with me, of course.) Bill is single but is happy to just have sex with Ann as long as he can do so a couple of times a week. He and I have become (non-sexual) friends as well. However, after a couple of years, Larry (her first poly bf) stopped by to visit - and they ended up fucking - which led to a renewed relationship - but just as casual fuck-buddies this time, and so in addition to her regular sex with Bill and I, she "cheats" and also fucks Larry once a month or so as well now.
Then, a couple of years back now, while at a professional convention, Ann ran into a former work associate, Craig, with whom she had an office fling shortly before she met me. Craig was "happily married" and they both understood that their relationship was just for fun. It ended when he was transferred to a different city. They agreed to have a drink at the bar that evening, and Ann (after checking to make sure I was ok with it) took him back to her room - where they renewed their carnal relationship. Craig fucked her twice that evening, and again the next morning - before the left for the airport to head home. Craig has been back in town twice since then on business. Since he had a hotel room, she spent the night with him on both occasions - getting boned multiple times on each of those two occasions.
That brings us to current day - where, just this past weekend, Ann added another notch to her belt.
Jim and Linda were the parents of a friend of our kiddo - that we first met back when they were both in pre-k (and we've all been friends ever since). However, just a few years after we all first met, Jim and Linda divorced (and we remained friends with both of them - and whatever partner they each might have). Jim got caught on the rebound, moved his girlfriend in with him, only to see the relationship go to pieces within a year. Now Ann has always thought Jim was a fairly hot dude - and once told me that she would not mind taking a roll in the hay with him if the opportunity ever came along. So, after Jim's last breakup, I told Ann that Jim probably needed some company right about now and that she should make it a point to invite him over for dinner or such once a week or so - and who knows what might happen.... In the meantime, in a guy conversation, I "admitted" to Jim that due to our age difference, I had told Ann that if she ever felt the need for additional male companionship, that I would be open to the possibility, as long as it did not affect our marriage. Jim at first seemed a little bit shocked - but also interested. I could almost see the wheels turning in his head over the possibility of him getting to bang my wife.
Jim, I believe, was genuinely lonely and took us up on our invitations to go out to dinner with us - or come over for dinner and hang out. The conversations sometimes ventured into the sexual arena - and Ann told him that she understood that he was not up for another relationship after getting burned twice in the last few years, and that he needed a fuck buddy - and Jim completely agreed. And, as time went along, Ann became increasingly friendly with him - lightly touching his arm or lower back - touching legs under the table - while also making it a point to wear low cut tops - or a t-shirt with no bra and tight jeans or yoga pants when he visited. I noticed him more than once checking her out when he did not realize that I was watching him.
Then, this past weekend, our kiddo was gone for the evening, spending the night with a friend. We invited Jim over for dinner, and then had a few drinks on the deck. As it began to get a bit dark out, Ann suggested that we all get in the pool and enjoy the water. Jim protested that he did not have a swim suit - and before I could offer to loan him one - Ann smiled and said "no kids around - who needs a suit?" and continued - "I'm going in - feel free to join me". At which point, Ann pulled off her t-shirt and stepped out of her shorts (she was not wearing panties or a bra) - and stepped into the pool completely nude. Jim's mouth dropped open - but shortly thereafter we both joined her, also nude as well. We all did a little swimming around in the pool, but mostly talked, leaning against the side of the pool.
Eventually, we all ended up sitting on the steps of the pool with drinks, with Ann in between Jim and I. Soon, their bare legs were closely touching with Ann's hand resting lightly just above his knee, and Jim was sporting a hard cock, and a quite respectable one at that. Momentarily, Ann slipped her hand under the water and around his cock, and began to slowly stroke. Jim sighed and closed his eyes (I suspected that he was hesitant to touch her in return with me sitting next to them). A minute or so later, Ann slipped down between his legs, moved him up to the top step so his cock was now out of the water, and then took him into her mouth.
I sensed that he was a bit nervous with me there, so I smiled and said "Enjoy her, my friend. I love watching her in action". At which point, I eased down a step, and reached up between her legs to rub her clit while she moved her lips up and down on Jim's very hard cock. She came in short order, coming off Jim's cock moaning loudly.
After she recovered, she stood up and took Jim by the hand and led him further out into the pool, where she draped her legs and arms around his body and lowered herself onto him - as she leaned into him for the first of many passionate kisses that evening. He moved his arms to support her and then backed her up against the edge of the pool - and then proceeded to fuck her well indeed. She came again just as he buried his load inside her.
Another round of drinks followed - I thought Jim might need one, given that he'd just fucked his friend's wife right in front of him. But Jim recovered nicely - very nicely, in fact. He was soon hard again, and this time Ann took him to our bedroom (leaving the door open, so I could watch) - where Jim first ate her quite nicely to yet another orgasm before fucking her senseless - and finally pumping a second load deep inside her - after at least a half hour of solid fucking first on top of her and then from behind her.
Afterward, I took one side of the bed, and Jim the other, with Ann in the middle - allowing them to cuddle as a movie played in the background on the bedroom tv. Later, Jim spent the night in the guest room, and Ann went with him to say goodnight - and shortly thereafter I heard them fucking yet again. She returned to our bedroom a couple of hours later - around 2AM - where I reclaimed her.
The next morning, Ann went to check on him in the guest room - and it was only minutes before I once again heard the sounds of passion. The door was open, and I paused at the doorway to watch the incredible hotness of my sexy hotwife riding Jim's hardness first to her own screaming orgasm - and then followed closely by Jim's deep masculine grunts as he once again pumped his semen deep into my wife's pussy.
Afterward, we whipped up some breakfast and Jim had to leave to meet other obligations. He has fucked her a few more times since then (a couple of times at his place as well after our kiddo returned) - but he has been told that her poly boyfriend will be back in town at the end of the week - and she won't be as available. Jim was a bit surprised there was a poly boyfriend also (and we didn't even tell him about the occasional lovers - Larry and Craig), and maybe even a little disappointed - but Ann promised him that he could still have her also - that she would make the time - even if not as often. And, of course, Jim is just happy to be getting laid by a hot lady who likes him, but with no strings attached and no setup for another heartbreak.
