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Hello, from Kelly Hotwife married to Wesley.

It never ceases to amaze me when I tell my husband another man has asked me out how enthusiastic and inquisitive he gets!

He is immediately happy and hopeful for the man who has asked me out that I accept his offer.

Typical questions my husband asks me:

Are you attracted to him?
Is he tall, handsome, muscular?
Is he white or better yet black?
Any idea if he is well hung?
Did you give him your phone number?
Is he younger than you ?
What are the chances of you having sex with him?
Divorced, married, or single?
Did you flirt back with him?

If I turn down the man’s date offer my husband bums out about it, kinda funny

How do you or your spouse respond after being asked out?

My husband loves when it happens to me. Kelly

I am always excited when my wife is hit on, approached, asked out, or just asked for sex. She on the other hand tempers her enthusiasm depending on the man asking.

Normal react of a cuckold, isn´t it?

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Normal react of a cuckold, isn´t it?

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Always hot to hear about the interaction if I wasn't around to see it...but if I can see and hear it live...wow!

Kelly, your husband sounds more enthusiastic than you are to find a new lover

Do you let him get involved when you play with another or is he not involved and loves hearing you tell him all the details afterwards?

I know from a guy’s perspective there’s a fear of losing her or jealousy that sits in immediately but there’s also pride in knowing others find your wife attractive when they ask her out or flirt with her

If my wife finds him attractive she'll usually find a way to grab his crotch and see if he's "worthy"

We were at a wedding of a couple we had known for 3 years, second marriage for both. Groom is dancing with my wife, leans in and says, now that I am married, we can have an affair. Still excites me 20 years later.

Haha I ask basically the same questions...and I get super excited

My husband gets exceptionally excited if I tell him the man who asked me out is a handsome well hung black man and I accepted his date offer. Kelly

I always enjoy when my wife shows even a remote interest in another guy. I get just as excited when guys flirt with her especially when I am with her or close by. Each time this happens she seems to get more comfortable with other men. I enjoy seeing her happiness when this happens.

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Mon Jul 28, 2025 10:30 am

Hello, from Kelly Hotwife married to Wesley.

It never ceases to amaze me when I tell my husband another man has asked me out how enthusiastic and inquisitive he gets!

He is immediately happy and hopeful for the man who has asked me out that I accept his offer.

Typical questions my husband asks me:

Are you attracted to him?
Is he tall, handsome, muscular?
Is he white or better yet black?
Any idea if he is well hung?
Did you give him your phone number?
Is he younger than you ?
What are the chances of you having sex with him?
Divorced, married, or single?
Did you flirt back with him?

If I turn down the man’s date offer my husband bums out about it, kinda funny

How do you or your spouse respond after being asked out?

My husband loves when it happens to me. Kelly

Yes, I love it when my wife gets any kind of attention from other men. It turns me on to know how much other men desire her. I love it when I see her flirt.
I get excited about the thought of her receiving pleasure from another man.

I enjoy seeing my wife being checked out by another man. The race doesn't matter. I'm glad that other men find her attractive. If it goes further, that's even better.

I remember when my ex told me that she was going to a naturist club with a colleague of hers that was a member, I was hoping she'd give him more than the single blowjob she'd given him before. With that in mind, I told her I would drive the 10 miles to a large supermarket and buy a pack of condoms. I'd previously noticed our local shop didn't appear to sell the larger size that I'd heard he'd need and our local pharmacy was closed.

She told me not to bother because she didn't know if she'd fuck him at that point and wouldn't use them anyway (She hated the smell). I didn't want anything to stop them fucking so just in case he insisted on using one, I made the journey and bought a pack of 12 and put them in her handbag. They did fuck at the club, once in the jacuzzi and once in a massage room but never used the condoms.

Once they started fucking regularly I used the condoms to masturbate in and part of me was excited to see how the condom was too big for my 6.5 inches.

Thrilled, excited, and TOTALLY turned on

Even a few years after Cressida had given up sex because menopause crushed her libido, she once told me about a customer at work who asked her out to dinner for a date...he knew she was married, but asked anyway. No expectations...he just liked her. She thanked him but declined.

When she told me, Kelley, I told her she should say, "Yes" the next time she saw him and they could develop a non-sexual relationship. No, I wasn't expecting/hoping her libido would change; I just always enjoyed her being in love with other men. And I knew that was the best I could hope for.

Well she wasn't completely against a love affair but she said, "There's no way he isn't going to eventually want sex...especially if we fall in love. And I'm DONE with that! And I'd feel like I was "teasing" him if we dated and I never fucked him. So no. It's never going to happen." Ah well.

Troilus

Totally get this. I often wish my wife was in a workplace that have more males in it. I get aroused when I see her phone light up and it is one of her FWB or better yet, a certain one she used to date. Always hopeful.

I laughed, when a good friend of mine, told me he had two tickets to see a singer that I'm pretty sure he knew I wasn't interested in seeing in concert - particularly as it was a two hour drive to the venue. My friend was besotted with my wife and so when he asked if maybe she would like to go, once I'd turned down the offer (I think he would have been miffed if I'd accepted!), it would have been churlish of mee to stand in his way. My wife really liked him as a good friend but did not have any actual feelings for him, which would have made the experience that much more interesting! (For all three of us), he did take her to another concert the same year and it would have been interesting to see where things went but he ended up moving a long way from us. We still meet up but it's not the same anymore.

I always have mixed feelings about it. Always turned on by it but a bit saddened by it too, deep down.