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Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2025 10:57 am
by Tank Turner
I love everything about sex with my wife. All aspects of it are great. But I can't decide what I most like. What I might like most could be situational specific.

She was exquisitely sexually experienced before I met her. We fucked each other into trances on the evening of our first date. I can vividly remember her leading me into her dimly lighted bedroom, closing the door, standing in front of me, and seductively removing her clothes. Her confidence was enthralling. I followed her lead. After we were completely naked, we passionately kissed as her hand stroked my solid wood. She slid to her knees and gave me the best blowjob I ever had. But that was merely the prelude to euphoric ecstasy.

I fell on her bed with the left side of my face resting on her pillow. She gently laid on her right side with her face inches from mine with her head rested on the same pillow. We made eye contract. I can distinctly remember her coy smile. She confidently told me in a soft voice above a whisper that doggie was her favorite position. She probably owned me then.

I booty called her for about a month before I admitted to myself that I had fallen in love with her. After she was comfortable with me and knew she could trust me, she opened up about her sexuality. She has an much above average intellect and innate curiosity. She nonchalantly told me that college was easy for her. Her intelligence formed her sexual beliefs. She'll instinctively assess concepts that affect her for validity. She rejected conventional sexual ethos for lack of intellectual validity. She assured me that sex was as normal a human function as any other. She's loved being naked since she was a child. She's convinced that nudity -where appropriate- is normal and natural, a belief that is consistent with European cultures.

I've watched and marveled at her getting naked a million times. She has a natural confidence when she sheds her clothes. She has two modalities of getting naked: functional and seductive. Last Saturday evening, she shed her clothes to go swimming.

We were at her sister's home. It was just the four of us. Her sister, her husband, my wife, and I chilled in their den. All of us except her sister were drinking. My wife queried her brother-in-law about his best friend. It was a hot Southern California evening. All of us were in shorts and t-shirts. After about an hour of conversation, my wife stood up and announced she was going swimming. She pulled off her t-shirt and kicked off her shorts. The rest of us remained seated. Incredulous, she stood completely naked in front of her brother-in-law and implored to the effect, "C'mom. Get up. Let's go swimming."

My wife and I will not remotely consider sex with family members. After her sister and brother-in-law were in a committed relationship, it was not unusual for them to be naked. She assured me that her sister's husband was a brother to her. It was normal for siblings to be naked. During hot, summer days, the three of them are usually naked in their pool. Her feelings for her brother-in-law are familial. She loves him as a sister would love a brother. He considers her to be his baby sister. They'll argue like brother and sister. Since the marriage, they have moderated arguing but not stopped it. They can still get into it when one pisses of the other.

Shortly after I met her, she told me that she preferred to be naked. Until our first child was a toddler, she was almost always naked inside of our home. When she was 19, her then boyfriend took her to a nude beach many times during the summer. It was normal and natural for her to be naked on a beach. She got me in to naked weekends after she told me about naked weekends with her former boyfriend.

I closely watched her getting naked last Saturday evening. Since the first time she got naked for me, I've always been turned on watching her get naked. It's her confidence of revealing her naked body that's alluring. So is her scorching hot and sexy naked body. Her sexual confidence and her naked confidence are huge turn ons for me. She has an excellent body for her age. She has received too many compliments to remember on her body. She looks at least five years younger than her chronological age. It's genetic. Her sister is ten years older than her husband. When they're side-by-side, they appear to be the same age.

After she hit 40, she appreciated receiving compliments on her naked body. She'll always thank men for their compliments on her naked body.

I can't isolate what I love most about my wife's sexuality and femininity. I loved watching her seductively getting naked before we did MFM sex. After she's sheds her clothes, I love admiring her sexy naked body. It's the same paradox with sex. Am I turned on watching her porn starring a dude, or is it her sexual confidence that turns me on?

A woman's sexual confidence should be acknowledged, appreciated, and cherished.

What excites hot wife husbands most: watching your wives getting naked, admiring their naked bodies, or porn starring other dudes?

Re: Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2025 2:07 pm
by BrunetteLover
The journey. My wife was quite inexperienced when we met, and that was in her mid-20s. Medical school will do that to you.

In today's (actually the 1990s) society, I considered her a very rare find. All she is really doing now is spending down the interest accrued by being so sexually conservative all through her young years.

Marrying a woman at age 27 who only had two other partners is what enables me to be at peace with what she does now.

Re: Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2025 7:45 pm
by zorro
I think I most desire and enjoy my wife's feeling a desire for another man and then acting on it (sometimes passively, sometimes assertively). All this followed by watching her entering an ecstatic zone and staying there, orgasm after orgasm, man after man. She is gifted to be multiply orgasmic, something a sexologist once told us occurs in only 11% of women. And with each orgasm, the plateau gets higher and higher until she eventually is satiated. One lover called her "insatiable," but she is not. She simply can use a lot of sex.

Re: Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2025 8:37 pm
by Tank Turner
Hi zorro,

I'm delighted that your wife is multi-orgasmic. Some women have difficulty reaching orgasm.

My wife is beyond multi-orgasmic. Her record is 12 over an afternoon of sexual debauchery with only me. However, only her first one is explosive and her second is slightly less so. I have a video of her gasping for air and almost delirious after her first orgasms. She can be clearly heard gasping for air, and her eyes were glazed. It took her two minutes to recover.

While I can't opine definitively, we believe that her endocrine system abnormality enables her to orgasm many times. It's normal for her to orgasm 3 times before I bend her over our bed.

Before she met me, she rarely had orgasms with her former boyfriends. Masturbation was her preferred method of orgasm. My mouth and tongue worked magic on her clit on the first night we had sex. Since then, oral sex is her favorite way to orgasm.

Re: Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2025 8:45 pm
by Tank Turner
Hi BrunetteLover,

My wife's brunette, too.

My wife was sexually enlightened when I met her. She carefully analyzes anything that might affect her. She used the smae process to flesh out supposition that was used to support prevailing sexual decorum. She'll reject societal dictates that lack intellectual foundation. She's loved sex since that first time she experienced it. She believed that it was puerile to deny herself of what she loved because of prevailing and imposed social norms that were really opinions.

Re: Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2025 6:21 am
by Tryagain
My wife has always been an exceptionally beautiful women. She does her very best to halt any weight gain, exercises 5 x a week, looks 10 years younger, and maintains a positive outlook on life (me...no so much :-)) Most of all she she is a very giving, caring person and guys who are with her acknowledge that.

It is hard to believe that after 50 fucking years - yes 50 - I love looking at her standing naked with her voluptuous body which drives me crazy ! all she had done cosmetically is to have a breast lift, which has leaved her D cup tits looking like a 30 yo! She is my Mona Lisa. It thrills me to show her off to other men. Why keep a treasure all to your self?

Re: Can't Decide. Can You?

Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2025 2:00 pm
by Tank Turner
Hi Tryagain,

Thank you for your post. I admire you for your love for your wife. She's very lucky to have you, and you're a very luck man to have her.

After 2 kids and into her 45th year, my wife's scorching hot naked body can get me hard. She's knew that men were visual since she began having sex. Men would risk death to check out naked women. She always obliged her boyfriends...and her self. She loved being naked more than her boyfriends wanted her naked. She learned how to use and position her naked body for maximum effect. I have a million photos of her sitting naked on our bed with her legs open to give me an unobstructed view of her pussy. If she's showing it, I'm looking at it.

Because my wife has loved being naked since she was a child, and because she's convinced that Americans have unsophisticated beliefs about nudity, and because she's iconoclastic by nature, she'll get naked when she wants to get naked as long as it's appropriate for her to be naked.