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For starters I should say that my question has NOTHING to do with incest or anything creepy like that. What I’m curious about is whether anyone else’s wife has encouraged their daughter to see guys other than their boyfriend. My daughter is in her 20s and in a long term relationship with a man she’ll probably get married to. She was outraged when my wife casually mentioned to her that she should feel free to see other guys. My wife didn’t say anything our marriage, only that when she was my daughter’s age she dated different guys at the same time. There was nothing lurid about it, my wife thought of it as sensible advice.
Has anyone else’s wife done this?
Note: I don’t have a son, but if I did I would probably tell him to avoid being possessive and leave it at that.

My wife put her daughters on birth control as soon as they started menstruating.
She was quite frank about explaining the birds and bees to them and said that we got married as teenagers and she regretted that somewhat.
She didn't tell them that she was a bit on the slut side, just that they should have options and the chance to have a career.
She did exactly tell them to go out and be sexual active but did say that they shouldn't be ashamed to have more than a couple of partners

I was married prior to my current wife. I found out recently that my first wife's parents were not happy with their eldest daughter's choice of a heart throb (me), and talking didn't help. They thought a better match would be B.... so they invited him for coffee, dinner, etc. Since I was away in the Armed Services at the time, the parents hoped something would catch on. It did, but not in the way they hoped. Their youngest daughter and B... fell in love, married, and are still together.

MillStMan wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 24, 2025 2:42 pm

My wife put her daughters on birth control as soon as they started menstruating.
She was quite frank about explaining the birds and bees to them and said that we got married as teenagers and she regretted that somewhat.
She didn't tell them that she was a bit on the slut side, just that they should have options and the chance to have a career.
She did exactly tell them to go out and be sexual active but did say that they shouldn't be ashamed to have more than a couple of partners

Did you mean to write that she DIDN’T exactly tell them to go out and be sexually active?

My wife didn’t encourage our daughters to have multiple lovers but she told them that the old adage of the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach was a lot of bull and the way to control a man was through their pussy. That’s how she had controlled me. (and still does)

BCiym wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 25, 2025 4:57 am

MillStMan wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 24, 2025 2:42 pm

My wife put her daughters on birth control as soon as they started menstruating.
She was quite frank about explaining the birds and bees to them and said that we got married as teenagers and she regretted that somewhat.
She didn't tell them that she was a bit on the slut side, just that they should have options and the chance to have a career.
She did exactly tell them to go out and be sexual active but did say that they shouldn't be ashamed to have more than a couple of partners

Did you mean to write that she DIDN’T exactly tell them to go out and be sexually active?

Yes, that what I said. she didn't say that oh by the way go out and have sex with everyone you see, what I guess that I was trying to convey was that it's alright if you want to have sex, now your protected. which when I asked her isn't that like saying go out and screw anyone, and she replied No, not exactly

Growing up, my ex wife found her feelings were confusing her. She would get aroused watching her sister getting dressed in their bedroom and whilst looking at some of the other girls in the school changing rooms. At the same time, she had a crush on one of the boys in her class and knew she liked men. She had never heard of bi-sexuality at this point.

She was in a local operatic society and after one of their post show parties she began to be seduced by a couple in their mid 30's. The wife, in particular kept touching her as they danced and then encouraged her husband to dance with her. Eventually, the wife asked if she wanted to go home with them and immediately kissed her. She ended up being bought off by the wife during the drive to their home and then the husband took her virginity and by the time they drove her home, she'd had three orgasms.

As the husband was recovering after he'd been with her, he and his wife explained that they had an open marriage and that she was bi and always enjoyed spending time with other women as well as men. They enjoyed having sex with other people as it made their marriage seem extra thrilling. They had one rule; they had to be completely honest with each other. Building up that level of trust made them feel extra loving towards each other and whenever they got to watch one or the other of them with someone else, they found that extra exciting.

A few days later she told her mum what had happened and asked for her thoughts about open marriages. Sex had never been a taboo subject in their family. Her mum said that such a marriage could work so long as they did both trust each other not to cheat or become jealous. It wouldn't be something that would work for most couples but for some, she could see how it could bring a couple closer, especially if one of the couple was bi.

That was nearly 50 years ago and it was only after her mum died last year that she found out her parents had, at least experimented in the lifestyle.

BCiym wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 24, 2025 5:41 am

For starters I should say that my question has NOTHING to do with incest or anything creepy like that. What I’m curious about is whether anyone else’s wife has encouraged their daughter to see guys other than their boyfriend. My daughter is in her 20s and in a long term relationship with a man she’ll probably get married to. She was outraged when my wife casually mentioned to her that she should feel free to see other guys. My wife didn’t say anything our marriage, only that when she was my daughter’s age she dated different guys at the same time. There was nothing lurid about it, my wife thought of it as sensible advice.
Has anyone else’s wife done this?
Note: I don’t have a son, but if I did I would probably tell him to avoid being possessive and leave it at that.

My interpretation? Your daughter saw it as an opinion of her relationship choices. Every comment my ex-MIL ever made was assumed to be judgement by my ex-wife. Quite frankly, most the time it was.

D+D wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 25, 2025 6:21 am

My wife didn’t encourage our daughters to have multiple lovers but she told them that the old adage of the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach was a lot of bull and the way to control a man was through their pussy. That’s how she had controlled me. (and still does)

Pussy control didnt work for me. All it did was cause a great deal of trouble in our marriage, something which was sometimes not the best situation for the kids. If there is to be anything like that in a marriage then it should be with the agreement of both partners. I also think that the kids should be considered before the adults fun. However, this is not to say that D+D was in a situation even similar to mine and I think consenting adults should be able to get some fun out of life.

Double post

BCiym wrote: ↑

Wed Sep 24, 2025 5:41 am

For starters I should say that my question has NOTHING to do with incest or anything creepy like that. What I’m curious about is whether anyone else’s wife has encouraged their daughter to see guys other than their boyfriend. My daughter is in her 20s and in a long term relationship with a man she’ll probably get married to. She was outraged when my wife casually mentioned to her that she should feel free to see other guys. My wife didn’t say anything our marriage, only that when she was my daughter’s age she dated different guys at the same time. There was nothing lurid about it, my wife thought of it as sensible advice.
Has anyone else’s wife done this?
Note: I don’t have a son, but if I did I would probably tell him to avoid being possessive and leave it at that.

Well I told my son not to date just one girl. He just graduated college and now has a good paying job. Women can sniff out a guy with money and I told him to be careful.

IMO tell your kids to date around is always good advice. I didn't when I was younger, and ended up marrying my first and only girlfriend and I look back on that as a big mistake.

OZCPL wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 25, 2025 10:09 pm

D+D wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 25, 2025 6:21 am

My wife didn’t encourage our daughters to have multiple lovers but she told them that the old adage of the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach was a lot of bull and the way to control a man was through their pussy. That’s how she had controlled me. (and still does)

Pussy control didnt work for me. All it did was cause a great deal of trouble in our marriage, something which was sometimes not the best situation for the kids. If there is to be anything like that in a marriage then it should be with the agreement of both partners. I also think that the kids should be considered before the adults fun. However, this is not to say that D+D was in a situation even similar to mine and I think consenting adults should be able to get some fun out of life.

We were not into the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle then and my wife never denied me her sex. She was totally monogamous in our marriage at that time but she loved sex so anytime I was ready she was. I guess I am pretty weak when it comes to her sex and always have been but when I heard other guys complain about their wives not wanting to have sex I figured I must be one lucky bastard cause my wife never complained or said no, she was always ready for sex anytime of the day or night. I Kind of wanted to treat her like the queen bee she was so I made sure she had everything she needed and much much more.

Every woman should have the right for sexual satisfaction, and if her husband/boyfriend cannot give it to her, it should be her full right to look for it with other men (or women). In that case, it is the duty of the husband or boyfriend to fully support her with that.

I haven't said anything to our daughter yet, she's much to young. But, I have told my niece not to limit herself. I didn't have to tell my nephew's wife as she already cucks him.

D+D wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 25, 2025 6:21 am

My wife didn’t encourage our daughters to have multiple lovers but she told them that the old adage of the way to a man’s heart was through his stomach was a lot of bull and the way to control a man was through their pussy. That’s how she had controlled me. (and still does)

My (ex) mother-in-law told her daughters that the way to control a man was ‘keep their belly full and their balls empty’

milf9902 wrote: ↑

Sat Sep 27, 2025 8:04 pm

I haven't said anything to our daughter yet, she's much to young. But, I have told my niece not to limit herself. I didn't have to tell my nephew's wife as she already cucks him.

How did you find out your nephew’s cuck?

BCiym wrote: ↑

Sun Sep 28, 2025 3:49 am

How did you find out your nephew’s cuck?

An Instagram post led us to suspect and then did some digging and found her profile.