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My post got vaporized because I took a break for a couple of years and didn't update it. Luckily I found the drafts in my inbox. I believe it is current up until 2022 or 2023. Here it is.


What I'm about to write is the story of my life with during my time with Jay my husband. It is my journey, my adventures, and how it all unfolded over the course of 20+ years.
Some it is painful to write but some of it still brings a smile to my face. And through the good and bad times, the mistakes and successes it is after all my story and I've decided to tell it.

I'll start in 2002 just before I met Jay. I was 30 years old with two kids. I had recently left my 1st husband who was a very controlling and distant man. I had been married to him for 7 years and tried my best to try and make it work for the sake of my children. Two years prior to me leaving him I started to realize that the marriage was doomed. I had only married him because I became pregnant with my daughter. But though I tried to love him I never did no matter how much I tried. Nor did he ever love me, rather he loved the idea of me, a wife, a mom, someone to clean and watch the kids. Outside of the children we had no common interests or bond.

When I left him I moved in with my parents with the kids. Being a single mom was challenging but with the support of my friends and parents I was able to start and rebuild. I was on a journey of rediscovery. Trying to adjust to being single, raising two children, finding a job and being happy. I was free to go out and do what I wanted and when I wanted. My friend Beth and I reconnected and started to hang out and do things together. Beth was married to Rob and I would hang out over there house sometimes or go out with Beth alone. Beth and Rob were swingers. I didn't even know what to think of that at the time but she would always try and convince me to have a threesome with them. Spoiler alert, I never did.

Beth was good for introducing me to guys. Several of whom I had ended up hooking up with. Two of these guys would be responsible for me becoming a hotwife. I also started to date guys I met online. In this period of rediscovery I was a bit promiscuous. I would chat with a guy, agree to meet after the kids went to bed and hook up. If I had a good time I would meet them again. I was making up for lost time and having sex on a regular basis with several different guys.

One of the guys I had sex with was Pete. I met Pete at a party that Beth took me too. Pete was unhappily married and we hit it off right away. This was around December 2002. We would chat via text and meet when he could get out of the house. I believed him when he talked about leaving his wife and part of me wanted something more with him besides sex.

I met Jay in February of 2003. We went out on a date and hooked up the first night. I still remember that night. We had good sex and I left to go home. Jay wanted to date me which was something new to me at the time. I was used to meeting and hooking up with guys and that would be it. But Jay was different. So I started dating Jay and we seen each other on a weekly basis. Jay cared about my day, my kids, he would ask me how my date went and seemed to genuinely care.
I was still seeing Pete to hook up once and a while but I started to realize Pete was never leaving his wife and it was just sex. And at that time I was ok with that.

I was dating Jay, hooking up with Pete and still going out with Beth. This went on for at least 6 months. In that time one of my old boyfriends Dave heard I was back in town and stopped by to visit on night. Dave and I talked on the porch and when everyone was asleep we ended up having sex in the back yard of my parents house. I didn't intend to hook up with Dave but it was one of those things that just happened. It also happened again a few weeks later.

Around September of that year I left my Yahoo messenger signed in at Jay's house. I was at my parents taking a shower and after went down to check my email. I opened messenger and to my horror found Pete chatting to Jay who was pretending to be me. I typed in the chat that Pete wasn't talking to me and then signed it out kicking Jay off. I called Jay who was pissed and started asking questions. At the time I was also pissed at Jay for snooping on my Yahoo. But I was caught. Jay and I broke up for a little bit. I felt bad and was upset with myself. For the first time in my life I had a nice guy who really cared about me and I screwed it up. I got back together with Jay and started to work things out. I broke things off with Pete but he would still text me now and again. He said if I was going to break up with him I had to do it in person. So I stupidly agreed to meet him and ended up having sex with him one last time. Afterwards I felt really shitty about it. I remember going to Jay's house and taking a shower and cleaning my clothes to try and get ride of the evidence.

2004:
Time passed and me and Jay grew closer. I ended up moving in with him and everything seemed good. Sex was good with Jay. We had the weekends to ourselves and would sometimes spend the day making love.
But I was always a flirt and would sometimes take it too far and put myself into situations and get myself in trouble.
I ended up doing this in the spring. My office was under construction at the time and this one electrician would always go out of his way to walk by my office and flirt with me. This went on for a few weeks and one day he asked for my number, for some reason I gave it to him. We texted a few times and would go have a smoke break together. (I smoked at the time). One day we decided to go to lunch together. We ended up parking around the corner and started making out. One thing led to another and we had sex in his truck. This went on for a month or so. I would drive to the WaWa and park, get into his truck and we would go to this empty office complex and have sex. After the work was done at my office I never seen or heard from him again and that was fine with me. I don't even remember his name.

Later that year I went out with Beth and these three black guys. Beth always had a thing for black guys and was married to one. We went to a bar and got the "look" from the other guys which made me feel uncomfortable. So we left and went to a motel to hang out. We smoked a joint together and Beth ended up hooking up with two of the guys. It really wasn't my scene so me and the other guy Ray went outside and sat in his car and talked. I remember being high as hell and wanting to get out of there. Nothing happened that night with me and the other guy but Beth got in huge trouble when she got home and Rob got mad at me. I didn't even know the guys it was all Beth. After that me and Beth hung out less and less.

About a month later I get a text on a Saturday as I was cleaning, it was Ray. Jay worked every other Saturday and the kids were with my first husband. Ray had been asking Beth for my number and she gave it to him. He called me and we chatted for a bit and he was able to convince me to meet him at a motel. When I hung up the phone I kept thinking to myself "Don't go, don't do it ". On the way there I thought about turning around the whole drive, but I didn't . I was nervous when I got out of the car. I really wanted to be good and not do it. Ray and I went into the room and he must've thought I was the most fridged girl he ever meet. He took the lead, kissed me and started to undress me. I laid on the bed and he just took me. The sex was mind-blowing and he took his time. We had sex for 2 hours and I hopped into the shower and left. Ray and I would consistently see each other almost every other week for about 6 months.

This came to a crashing halt one day when I came home and Jay was home. He accused me of cheating on him again. I gave him some excuse as to why I was out but he wasn't buying it. I usually took a shower after I met Ray but I had become complacent. The proof was there, I was flushed and sweaty. I still had Ray's cum inside me. There was no more lying, I came clean. I told Jay I met a guy while I was out with Beth and it was a one time thing. There was tears, anger, threats. It was very emotional. I didn't think we could survive or that Jay could get past it. That next week we didn't talk at all. I slept on the couch after the kids went to bed. We didn't have sex for a long time after that either. I changed my phone number, I had to home at a certain time. He stopped working Saturdays. I was walking on eggshells. He treated me like shit and called me names but I felt like I deserved it for breaking his trust not only once but twice. This was the dark time for us. It took a while to start talking again and getting back to a somewhat normal relationship.

After this the questions started. Who was he?, was there more? etc. Then he wanted to know about the sex. I found this all very weird like he wanted to torture himself with these details. I couldn't understand why someone would want to know these things. I felt numb and exposed.

What was really strange to me was the more I told him the more turned on he would get. One day I caught him on a site called SLS. I was mortified and mad. I thought he was looking to find someone else and wanted to cheat on me. This turned out not to be the case. He told me he wanted to find someone for me to be with. I didn't believe him, how could someone "want" their SO to be with someone else. I thought it was a trap and he wanted to see if I would be faithful. I refused every time he brought it up.

2005:
Eventually I gave in. I was tired of hearing him ask. I was tired of fighting about it and if it was a trap I was prepared to move on. So one Saturday night we were browsing SLS and started chatting with this one guy Dave. (Another Dave). We all met at a bar had some drinks and went back to Dave's house. Dave and I had sex, which was pretty unremarkable and Jay passed out and feel asleep. The next day we talked about it and we were both weird towards each other. Not mad just weird. The following week we had sex every night. I guess this was reclaiming sex before I knew what that was.

A few months later Jay had to work on a Saturday and he told me to find a guy. So I found this guy on SLS and made plans to meet at a hotel and Jay would come straight from work to watch. This guy's name was also Dave. Dave and I were having sex when hubby got there and Dave really sucked in bed. I also think he was nervous about hubby being there so I rode him hard until he came to get it over with.

Jay and I both agreed this wasn't what either one of us wanted. In the meantime we were trying to repair our relationship and make a vanilla life together. Jay would still be angry at me for cheating at times and take everything out on me. I could tell he was struggling getting past my indiscretions. We would fight about nothing and he would say things just to be mean. I was having 2nd thoughts if we would make it at this point. I didn't know if I could ever convince him I loved him and I just made some mistakes.

Eddie: Jay and I met Eddie on SLS and went to met during a snow storm. Eddie was a tall Latin guy who was sexy as hell, well built and well hung. I've always had a thing for Latin guys. Eddie couldn't perform in front of Jay so Jay had to wait in the truck while me and Eddie fucked. That first night Eddie didn't last long and left me hanging. Jay suggested Eddie and I see each other alone so I made a date with Eddie for the next weekend. This time Eddie put in the work and made me cum multiple times. He also didn't wear a condom. I came home and Jay could tell I had a good time.

Eddie and I would meet a few times a month. Sometimes he would stop by my work and I'd give him a blowjob in his car or ride him. One of my hottest times with Eddie was when he told me to dress up and come to his work on a Saturday. He walked me back to his office and closed the door. He leaned down to kiss me, turned me around and bent me over his desk and pounded me.

I have to admit I ended up wanting more from Eddie. I secretly hoped he would take me away from Jay even though I knew Eddie could never be a good boyfriend. But Eddie had a power over me. When he would look at me with those dark eyes I would melt. Eddie was the only guy I ever let do anal and he was very thick. I was sitting at my desk one day thinking about him and I came. As time went on it became clear Eddie was a player. But for 5 years I had my fun with him.

Post Eddie:
2010

After Eddie, Jay and I took a break from the lifestyle. But after a while we both got the itch. So we went back on SLS and found Drew, affectionately known as "No" because he was the flakiest no-show we've ever met. But Drew did show up once. Drew was 6'5" and had a massive cock. I would have to guess 9"+ it was bigger than a beer bottle or cable remote. Drew was good in bed. He went multiple times and what was weird was he would go down on me afterwards. He also smelled really nice and I remember grabbing his shirt and pulling it to my nose to smell it and I would cum. I wanted more of Drew but he always flaked out. I didn't get my period for almost 3 months after Drew and I started to think I might be pregnant. Jay and I discussed it and I told Jay if I was pregnant I was keeping it. This caused some drama between me and Jay but I was adamant. I didn't want to have a baby because it was Drew's, it was more to do with my beliefs. Eventually Drew became so predictable that I would agree to meet him and then wait until 30 minutes before he was to show up and wait for the text "I can't make it".

2013:
Brandon. I met Brandon on SLS and we met at a hotel. I was dressed up and had lingerie underneath my clothes. Brandon was cute, younger, and had a nice cock but he would drip sweat all over me when he was on top. Brandon was a one and done for me.

John: John was recently separated. We met at a bar and his first comment was "You don't look like your pictures". I was a little upset by that but we ended up going back to his house and having good sex. John could recover quickly and go a few times. I ended up coming home at 3 am that first night.
The next day I had to go to Tractor Supply and stopped by to see John for a quickie. The problem was John's quickies were an hour.
I seen John one more time the next week but it was apparent John wanted a girlfriend. He would call in the morning, text all day, call me on the way home. I had to break it off with John.

Cougar finds her cub:

2014. .
My vanilla life is very busy and play time is hard to come by so when I get the urge to play and start looking I usually get easily frustrated during the search process. There is a lot of flakes who either just want to chat or get cold feet at the last minute.

One Saturday night in 2014 I was in the living room having a drink and decided to sign on to SLS to just browse. As I was browsing and doing my normal "Nope, Nope, Too far, He's nice, Maybe, Nope" game I received a message from a much younger guy named Rob. Rob was 20 years old (I was 42 at the time). He was cute with a nice body and persistently asked if we could meet that night.

It was about 8 or 9 at night and usually by that time I'm getting ready for bed. But for some reason, and I don't know whether it was his age or the fact he seemed so innocent and nice I decided to give in. To be honest I've always liked younger guys and being 42 it was quite the ego boost knowing a young 20 year old wanted to be with me.
So I threw some make up on, put on a cute top and jeans and hopped in my Jeep to meet him. Normally I would never meet a strange guy in the middle of the night at a hotel but something just clicked that night.

When I got to the room Rob was there anxiously waiting. He immediately kissed me and couldn't keep his hands off me as he awkwardly tried to get my clothes off. I had to give him some help getting undressed and within 2 minutes he was on top of me and rapidly pounding away. I think he may have lasted 2 or 3 minutes but it was thrilling and animalistic. After he finished he removed his condom and after a few strokes he was rock hard and ready to go again. This time we did it doggy and he gave it all he had for maybe 10 minutes. I faked an orgasm to boost his ego and we both got dressed and left.

I figured Rob was a one and done fling and I was ok with that. I remember coming home and gleefully telling Jay "I banged a 20 year old! ". Rob was a trophy for me, a conquest. I was over twice his age and it was flattering that a 20 year old would want to be with me.

A few weeks later Rob texted me and wanted to meet again, so I agreed and we met at a hotel. I dressed up for my little cub this time, wearing a short skirt, some thigh highs and a teddy under a very revealing top. Rob was a little more settled. We made out for a bit and he bent me over the table in the room and pounded me hard. We then went to the bed and started going at it missionary. After a few minutes of that I decided to roll him over and ride him because I was making sure I got a nut this time. As I was riding him I leaned down to kiss him and that little shit bit my tongue, so I slapped him. This seemed to turn him on more and soon after he exploded.

I met Rob on and off up until 2017. But each time he would get weirder and would ask to be slapped or have his balls squeezed.
When he started getting weird that was when I decided to call it quits. Beside by that time I was seeing Big D which you all haven't met yet so it wasn't a difficult decision.

Rob still messages me to this day but once I'm done with a guy that's it.

2005:
I forgot about Alex. Sorry, from time to time I may remember an adventure out of sequence so I will add it as I go.

I forget where I met Alex, it was either craigslist or SLS. He was a tall, young, and a very well hung man. Our first face to face meeting was at a bar where we had a few drinks. As the evening wound down we decided to leave and made out by my car in the parking lot. I was wearing a skirt at the time and sat in my car as he went down on me in the busy parking lot. We were both too nervous to take it any further so we said goodnight with a kiss. The next day or so we chatted some more and made a date for the weekend. We met at a really cheap motel and had sex. He had a difficult time getting it up but I got my nut and so did he. I never saw or heard from him again.

2016:
Metamorphosis

At this point in my life I had been with Jay for 13 years. We had a stable marriage and home life. Our careers had taken off, the children were grown and all but one were out on their own. We were by all accounts a normal happily married and successful couple. My extracurricular activities were just a part of us and who we were. Jay accepted the fact I desired more and understood that me being intimate with other men didn't interfere or diminish how I felt about him. In fact it enhanced our relationship because it was something we partook in together to some degree. He would help screen for guys and knew my type (Mostly). He would buy me outfits to wear, help me pick out what to wear for dates, and would view my communications with men to look for red flags. If it was a new guy I would text him the details and he would wait up, often times late to make sure I got home safely. But rarely was he involved or there to watch. In fact up until this point he had only seen me with another man 3 times and all of those times the guy was a dud.

Later in 2016 I met Dereck online and decided to meet for the first time at a hotel. I wanted Jay to go with me mainly for safety reasons. Dereck was slightly older and married. He was 6'8" with a very large cock. He was also a former NBA player in the late 80's.
When we got to the room we sat down on the bed and talked for a little bit to break the ice and and then he leaned over to kiss me.
I was a little nervous with Jay being there, he had never seen me with a black guy before and though he said he didn't care I was still unsure how he would look at me afterwards. I was also worried that Dereck would be uncomfortable with Jay being there. And lastly I was unsure how I would react with Jay watching.

Dereck was confident and experienced as we made out and kissed. It was clear he had no issues with any of the above. He wasn't hurried or eager and took his time. He moved over me like it was our 100th time together and not our first. As he entered me I felt his cock spread me open and fill me. I instantly came. Like I said Dereck was huge but he knew how to use it and go deep. He made me squirt within a few minutes and soon after I felt him stiffen inside me and explode. But Dereck only paused for a moment and kept going. I have no idea how many times he made me cum but he instinctively knew all of my spots and hit them every time.

After a good while we had soaked the entire bed to the point we had to move to the other bed. We ended up soaking that one too. When we got done I was entirely drained and had to lay there to collect myself. When it was all said and done we ended up having sex for 2 hours and it was amazing. I did have a hard time letting loose with Jay being there but Dereck's abilities overcame my inhibitions. Before this day I had never experienced a guy who was multi orgasmic. I had experienced guys who could recover quickly but nothing like Dereck. He would cum and just keep going.

The next day after Dereck, Jay and I discussed what had happened. He had expressed that he had never seen me like that, and while he was supportive I gathered he was a little insecure about Dereck's prowess and what he could do to me. I reassured him it was just amazing sex and nothing more. I told him that I had a hard time letting go in front of him. Truth be told I can only recall one other guy who could fuck me like Dereck, and he was an old boyfriend when I was in my 20's.That day we agreed that I could see Dereck again.

The following week Dereck reached out to me and wanted to hook up again. We agreed to meet on a Saturday afternoon at the same hotel. But this time I was going solo. I like to wear something sexy for my men and dressed up in a short skirt and nice top. When I got to the room Dereck greeted me at the door wearing nothing but boxers. I could see his giant bulge pointing down his leg. He took me to the bed and immediately undressed me. I came to find out it turned him on to see his dark skin on my naked pale body. After he undressed me he sat me down on the edge of the bed and stood in front of me with his cock at my eye level, but still behind his boxers. I then slid his boxers down to uncover his massive cock. There is something about pulling a guys boxers down and having their cock do this little pop motion as it's revealed. It's like opening a Christmas present. I grabbed his cock and started to stroke it and felt it getting harder. I gripped the base of it and took him in my mouth. Even with my hand wrapped around him and his cock in my mouth as much as I could take there was still a good amount of cock between my hand and my mouth.
After his cock was nice and wet he pushed me up on the bed and got on top of me. As he started to fill me I instantly came.

Dereck and I had an amazing session that again lasted about 2 hours. And just like last time he came multiple times. Except this time he didn't wear a condom. I loved feeling him cum inside me and as he would stiffen to cum I would orgasm immediately.

I had finally found someone who could leave me completely satisfied. When Dereck and I were done there was nothing left to give. We were both drained would just lay there afterwards naked together until we could muster the strength to get up and get dressed.

When I got home I sheepishly told Jay I had broken one of our rules which was condoms are a must. I don't remember if Jay was mad about it or not as I was in such a state of bliss. Dereck and I never used condoms after that 1st time. I think in the time that me and Dereck were together he came inside me more than my own husband.

In time I learned Dereck was a bit of an exhibitionist. The next time we met it was at the same hotel and our room was on the ground level. After we started getting into it I looked and noticed the curtains were wide open. I told him "The curtains are open" and responded "I know" and just kept fucking me.

Here I was, a married women being taken by someone other than my husband, exposed for anyone who walked by to see. This turned me on and I discovered I was also a bit of an exhibitionist.

When Dereck would walk me to my car he would often have his hand on my ass and kiss me goodbye as I got into my car. One time there was a bunch of construction workers staying at the hotel and we had to walk by them to get to our cars. Dereck's hand was on my ass, my wedding ring felt like a beacon. As we passed by them they all got quiet. I felt exposed and a little embarrassed but also turned on. I'm sure they knew what I was just doing but there was nowhere to hide, there was no pretending anything else had just happened. I was at a hotel having sex with someone else besides my husband. And it made me feel empowered. I was taking control of my sexuality and embracing who I was and who I've become.

Fun fact. The hotel we would meet at became familiar with our tryst and always put us in the same room, right next to the laundry. I suspect it was because we always left the sheets soaked.

Dereck and I saw each other as time allowed. Sometimes it would be every few weeks and sometime months would pass. But every time with Dereck was better than the last. We were sexually compatible and knew what we wanted and what to expect from one another. Dereck and I drifted apart in 2022 but I still cherish our time together and so far he was the best lover I ever had.

2022:
Wanting more.

After Dereck I was on the prowl for someone to fill the void in my life sexually. I wanted to find someone who could fuck like Dereck but was more available. Enter Gio.
I found Gio in March of 2022. Gio was a tall Latin man about my age. He had a great build and lots of Tat's which is a turn on for me. He was also nicely hung at about 7.5" inches and thick. He was my type of guy in every measure.
We chatted via text and a couple of times on the phone and we seemed to hit it off. So we made a date for after work.

This was a real date at a restaurant and I got there before him and got us a table. I told the waitress I was meeting someone there and ordered a drink. Gio walked in and seen me and sat down. The waitress came by to take his drink order and asked " Is this a blind date?". My wedding ring was clearly visible and it was clear he didn't have one on. Gio blushed and I answered "Yes". She said something like "Lucky guy" and walked away to get him his drink.

As the night went on we had dinner and a few more drinks. We talked about work, kids, the lifestyle, basically everything. I was starting to wonder if he was into me because he wasn't really making a move and it was getting late, especially for a week night.

He asked if we could meet on the weekend and we made plans. After he paid we walked out to the parking lot and he walked me to my car and asked if we could talk some more. So we got into my SUV and our talking led to making out. I was rubbing his cock as we kissed and he had his hand under my bra. He then asked if we could go into the back seat where there was more room, so we did.

Here I am, a grown woman making out with a guy in a parking lot. I felt like I was a kid again. Gio slid his pants down and I went down on him. For the record I'm not into giving guys oral. I'll do it but once he's hard I want it inside me. Sensing Gio thought I was just going to give him a blow job I got him nice and hard, then stopped and asked him "Do you want to fuck me?" He did, so once again we got out of my SUV, put the seats down and got in the very back. To say it was a bit awkward would be an understatement. I pulled my pants down but left them on one leg and Gio got on top of me and we started to fuck. My feet were pressed against the roof of my SUV and we went at it like two teenagers. I came a bunch of times and when Gio came he collapsed on top of me with his cock still pulsing inside me. As we climbed out of the back I noticed the cars that had been parked next to us had left and seen the staff walking across the parking lot to leave for the night.

To this day it was one of the hottest moments I've had doing this. It was just so spontaneous and unplanned. It was truly night to remember.

3 days later:

Gio and I made plans to meet at his house which was about 30 minutes from mine. It was a Saturday and we were to meet in the afternoon. I wore my gray flannel skirt, crotch less pantyhose, a button down blouse and a really cute pair of heels.
I arrived at Gio's house and knocked on the door and he greeted me with his cute ear to ear smile and those hungry dark chestnut eyes. We sat at his kitchen table and just talked. Gio told me about his ex-wife and how she cheated him while he was at work. We talked about his job, my job and everything under the sun. This became the norm for us. We didn't just jump into sex rather when we would meet we would catch up on each others lives. I'll talk more in depth about this later in another post.

After talking for a bit Gio took my hand and led me to his bedroom. Gio was a self-described Alpha male and in the beginning I resented this but in time accepted it and understood why he had to be in control. When we got into his bedroom we started to kiss and he got undressed down to his boxers. He ran his hand up my thigh and when he realized I wasn't wearing panties got this smirk on his face and told me what a naughty girl I was. I submissively got on my knees and pulled down his boxers to see his gorgeous cock flop out and took him in my mouth. Not only did Gio have a nice cock but he had a beefy set of balls.
I love a nice set of balls and would take his cock out my mouth and suck on them. After he was nice and hard he pulled me to my feet and bent me over and fucked me hard.

Gio was not only sexy he knew how to fuck me. He would grab my hips and pound me until I came then slow down. He would slowly slide in and then pull out to tease me. This drove me nuts but in a good way. We had sex 2 or 3 times that day and I went home a happy girl. He had an aggression that I loved.

I didn't see Gio again for about a month but we talked almost daily. Sometimes it was about sex, sometimes it was just about our day. But Gio was becoming a friend.

The next time Gio and I met it was again at his house. We sat on his couch just just talking. His arm around me and my head on his shoulder. I ran my hands over his chest until it was time to go to the bedroom. Gio was very passionate and though he pretended to be dominate I could tell he genuinely liked me, and I liked him. He asked if he could go bare because he wanted to feel me better and I let him. To be honest I wanted to feel him better too. I wanted to feel him fill me with his load. We started out making love and once he realized he was letting his guard down out would come the dominate alpha he wanted to portray.

When he would become dominate he would talk dirty which is something I have a hard time doing. He would say to me "Who's pussy is this?" or "Do you want me to cum in your married pussy?" and more. I had a hard time responding but if I didn't answer him he would stop, so I learned to play along and talk dirty to him, telling him to "Fuck me!" "Make this pussy yours!" and "I need your cock!".

I went home that day with two of his loads inside me. Again I wasn't wearing panties and I could feel him running out of me as I drove home.

I met Gio on and off the next year and was able to get a couple videos. But the more I met with him the more I realized I wanted more than just sex from him. But every time he would start to open up he would disappear for a while. I think he was afraid of falling for a married woman. I discussed my feelings for Gio with Jay and he was supportive of me taking my relationship to the next step. I wanted Jay to know how I felt and didn't want hide it from him. I think a part of it was I wanted Jay to catch me if I fell too hard. I also think a part of it was I wanted Jay to accept my feelings and be prepared.

I did a lot of thinking during this time. I wanted to be sure I was able to have these feelings for another man and still be able to love my husband. I didn't want to lose Jay or sacrifice our relationship but I wanted to explore these emotions with Gio and see where they would go. I also thought of Gio's feelings and if he would be happy with this arrangement. I didn't want him to get hurt. But I wanted to be his and give a piece of me. I wanted to fall in love with him and wanted him to love me as much as I loved him.

I talked with Jay and asked him if he would be ok if I spent the night at Gio's, which he was ok with. I ran through all the scenarios and possibilities I could think of to make sure no one was going to get hurt. I finally worked up the nerve to tell Gio I had feelings for him but that was a mistake because he ghosted me. I was devastated to say the least. I know in my heart he had feelings for me but for some reason when it came out it scared him away. My heart was broken.

A few months went by and I didn't hear from Gio at all. I was moving on and focusing on my regular life. I gave him a piece of myself and got hurt. I felt a little foolish but Jay stood by me and helped me through this hard time.

About four months after Gio disappeared I received a text from him. We started talking and he explained to me he couldn't see himself having the kind of relationship I wanted being I was married. He told me he really missed me and wanted to see me again.
So we started back hooking up and I kept my emotions in check. The next time we hooked up was very passionate and we made love for hours at his house.

This went on for a few months and then cooled off. One day he asked to see me but wanted to meet at a hotel. We met and it was a very hot session. I walked into the room and he just took me. He pulled my pants down a little bit and bent me over on the edge of the bed, slide my panties to the side and pounded me until I could feel his warm cum fill me. He was in a rush because he said he had to get his kid and left. Little did I know this would be the last time we met. About a week later he texted me " I found another girl who I want to try and be serious with so I can't see you anymore". Again I was crushed but I wished him good luck and that was the end of me and Gio.

During this reconciliation I did something fun. I got back from a business trip and met Gio during the day before I seen Jay. I didn't tell Jay I was meeting Gio and we made a video. I wanted to keep it a secret from Jay but I ended up telling him later that night. How I told him was I texted a picture of the creampie Gio left in me and then told him to check the camera. Jay loved it.

August 2023:

I was on vacation with hubby and I decided to post a few photos on my tinder after a few drinks. Playing the swipe left and swipe right game I ended up chatting with a few guys but nothing came out of it. So I changed my age range to include some younger guys. One of the guys I matched with was this 31 yo man who was a seasonal worker from Jamaica. We chatted back and forth and I figured out where he worked so I strolled by to check him out in person. I messaged him "Not trying to stalk you, but are you wearing a burgundy sport coat?" he replied "yes", and then told me it was unfair that I seen him but he didn't see me. Later that night while walking back to the room I got a message from him saying "Green shirt carrying a takeout container?". Touche, we were playing a game of cat and mouse, which at first made me feel a little uneasy but it was also exciting at the same time.

That night as we chatted he asked if I could come see him at his place which I told him no. I kept picturing myself ending up on Forensic files and thinking how would hubby explain this to the kids and family. He understood and said I could stop in to his work the next day and show me his merchandise. So the next day I stopped in and introduced myself. We chatted for a bit, mostly small talk and I told him to hit me up later if he was still interested. I don't think I made it across the street before he messaged "Very interested". I didn't respond for a few hours just to make him wait and see if the moment would wear off.

Later that night he hit me up again saying he was free after work. I told him to meet me in an hour on the corner across from my hotel which happened to be the same street he lived on. I brought some lingerie with me which I put on under my jeans with some cute heels and went up to meet him. He was waiting patiently when I showed up and we walked back to his place. I'll tell you this, it's no fun wearing heels and walking up a steep road.

When we got to his place he took me to his 2nd floor room. Luckily no one else was there or I would've felt weird. We got into the room and talked for a few minutes when I lifted my finger in a "shushing" motion and told him to close his eyes and turn around. I quickly got undressed and fixed my stockings which always seem to roll down, walked up behind him and told him to keep his eyes closed and if he could find find my lips and kiss me he could have me.

He turned around, cheated and opened his eyes. But he found me and it was game on. We were on the bed within a minute. He had told me it had been a few months since he was with someone and by the way he ravaged me I believe him. He was so passionate and eager I could barely catch my breath. We got it on for about an hour before he finally exploded (In a condom) and fell on the bed. We laid there for a few minutes and he asked if I could stay a little longer. I told him "no", I had to get back to the room before hubby noticed I was missing. FYI I told him hubby didn't know, it seems to turn guys on more if they think they're with a cheating wife.

I went back to the room to find an eagerly waiting hubby and told him the story and got ravaged again by the love of my life. My new Tinder friend wanted to meet again before I left to come home but I was on vacation and I had gotten my fill.

October 2023:

I just had another new encounter that was spontaneous and a few firsts for me. Last weekend hubby and I went away overnight to a casino. I was feeling a little naughty so I posted a "hot date" on SLS. It read "We're at _______ for the night, looking to see if we can find a cute hung guy to play with in front of hubby". I was almost immediately bombarded with messages. I ignored the young guys and way too old guys and settled on one that was just right. He was close to my age, decently sized, and seemed interesting.

I left hubby in the room and went down wearing a nice blouse and skirt and my long boots. I met him at the bar and we hit it off, or so I thought. When it came time to go to the room he paused and said he can't do the deed in front of hubby. He apologized and then said he'd be in touch and left. I was mortified. I felt dejected and almost cried. I called hubby and told him to come down and get me. Little did I know hubby had a plan B.

He was chatting with a guy that I was interested in and had been talking to a few weeks prior. Hubby got me a drink and he told me the T was on his way but he was bringing his wife. I was a little nervous about meeting the wife. She is very pretty and half my age (26) In my prior chats with T, I told him I'm not really interested in girls but he assured me that she was ok with just watching.

When T & A got there all 4 of us really hit it off. We talked for 2 hours but it felt like we were old friends catching up. A & I went to the bathroom and when we came back the boys were standing up and ready to go. So we walked back to the room and when we got in T and I sat on one bed and hubby and A sat on the other. T leaned in and started kissing me. Before I knew it we were going at it. In what seemed like only a few minutes T exploded and got up and went to the bathroom. Hubby came over to kiss me and whispered in my ear and asked if it was ok if A played with me. I never would have thought in a million years I would've yes but I did. Before I knew it A was kissing me and T came to the edge of the bed and started to fuck my face. He was very well hug but I somehow was able to take him all. T moved his wife out of the way and bent me over and pounded me again.

After it was all said and done I just laid there for a few minutes recovering while they both got dressed. I kissed them both goodnight and thanked them for a wonderful evening. As the door closed around 3am so did my eyes and I fell out. Too tired for hubby, but I made it up to him in the morning before we left.

I was in bliss all week and wondered why I shunned couples before. It was so nice having hubby there and all 4 of us just hanging out. I can't wait to do it again.

Thank you for taking the time to share your life history in the life style. I can’t wait to read of your continuing adventures. If you’re willing to answer, what part of the country are you from? And I am assuming you’re located in the U.S.

mundyman wrote: ↑

Sat Sep 27, 2025 6:12 am

Thank you for taking the time to share your life history in the life style. I can’t wait to read of your continuing adventures. If you’re willing to answer, what part of the country are you from? And I am assuming you’re located in the U.S.

I'm in the North East

Thank you for sharing your journey. It is good to read about the things that still make you smile, but also about the parts that where not so easy for you.
I am looking forward to reading more of your adventures.

February 2024:

After meeting T & A life went on and the holidays came and went. I didn't really have time for any new adventures. I was tasked with a new project at work that had me working closer with one of the other managers, Nick. Nick and I got along quite well and spent a lot of time together at work. Nick was separated from his wife and we ended up developing a friendship and often had lunch together. I could tell Nick found me attractive and often caught him checking me out. We would make playful remarks to one another, some of them being sexual in nature. He was a boob guy and I am very well endowed. He would often playfully ask me if he could see them.
One night I got a text message from him about work and we ended up chatting. The conversation turned away from work and became personal. I forget what he said but it had something to do about boobs. I love sex, but I love being a tease almost as much. So I sent him a pic of my boobs...........Well that opened up the floodgates to more conversations about them and also an unsolicited dick pic, which I could tell he happened to be nicely endowed himself. A few weeks later we went out for lunch in his truck and as we were driving back to the office he asked me if he could see them in person. I figured why not and pulled my blouse down revealing my bra. He then asked if he could touch them and I let him get his kicks and excitedly reach inside my bra to play with them. I could see his cock was straining against his jeans and I asked if he wanted some help with that. I recall him stuttering something and saying "Let me find a place to pull over" . He found an empty parking lot and pulled in and parked his truck. I always told myself " Don't crap where you eat" meaning don't mess with people at work. But somehow I didn't care and felt close enough to Nick that he would be able to keep his mouth shut. He put his truck in park and unzipped his pants and pulled out his cock. It was fairly long with a large head like a mushroom. I stroked him for a bit while and he put his seat back. He asked me if I would give him a blow job, which normally don't or wouldn't do but I knew we didn't have time for anything else nor was it the place. So I leaned over and started to give him a blow job. He didn't take very long and came in my mouth. After that we drove the few minutes back to work in mostly silence. I got a text message from him an hour later " Oh my God, that was awesome".

Nick and I had made plans to hang out, and he was supposed to come over my house for a bon fire. The day he was supposed to come over he got cold feet and bailed. After that he had tried to set something up with me but I wasn't interested, the moment had passed.

Very interesting to read about your adventures HwBabs. You have a wonderful way of narrating them,

Thank you. I have some catching up to do. I'm about a year and a half behind.

Great retelling of your adventures, I appreciate you taking the time! Can't wait to hear more!

pixmangurn wrote: ↑

Tue Oct 07, 2025 7:23 am

Great retelling of your adventures, I appreciate you taking the time! Can't wait to hear more!

Thank you, It took many years to make them happen and I hope to have many years of having fun. In the meantime I have an update ready to post.
I still have a few more stories to tell until we are in the present time.

Spring 2024:

All of a sudden my world was turned on it's side. The company that I worked for was bought out and my position eliminated. I was offered a 12 month severance package and used the initial time off to catch up on things I had put off over the years. I visited family all over the country, I went to museums, and aquariums. But after running out of things to do I was starting to feel a little defeated and lost. I freshened up my resume and started the search for a new job. This usually only took up a few hours each morning, leaving me with the rest of the day to myself.

I remembered that T, from the T&A story above worked in a similar industry so I reached out to him to see if he knew of any openings. If I'm honest, it was really a ploy to reach out and see what he was up to, I try to not mix business with pleasure. He had Fridays off and we agreed to meet for coffee the next week. I dressed to impress in business casual but still showing my assets. He didn't know of any openings but had a suggestion about how I could spend my free time of Fridays. I told him I wouldn't do that unless A was onboard with it. He called A, who was at work and put her on the phone. A assured me she had no issues with the arrangement. So it was then up to me to decide whether or not I wanted to follow through. So we went back to their place and he gave me a tour of their house, introduced me to their dogs and we sat on the couch next to each other and talked.

T put his arm behind me and turned to me to listen as I went on about what I've done, what I'm trying to find, etc. Yada, yada, yada, one thing lead to another and he leaned in to kiss me and we started making out. We got undressed and I straddled him on the couch as he played with my breasts, I could feel he was hard and reached behind me to help him slide his large cock inside me, first gently rubbing it on me to get it wet and then slowly sliding down until he was completely inside me. I rode him for a bit and I came a few times. He rolled me onto the couch on my back and pounded me for quite awhile before releasing inside me. We just laid there for a bit catching our breath. I was a bit stunned and didn't realize how much I needed to have that. I can sometimes go for months without sex and not realize that I am in need.

We sat on the couch naked and he turned on the tv. I laid there with my head on his chest and his arm around me as we talked about nothing in particular. I was rubbing my hand down his thigh and across his balls listening to him and would sometimes stroke his soft cock which was still impressive even limp. I eventually lowered my head down to take him in to my mouth, running my tongue around his head and slide down his shaft. I could feel him getting hard again and he let out a huge moan as I did my thing. When he got hard he pulled me off of him and said "Let's go into the bedroom". As we walked into the room, him holding my hand guiding me to the bed. he stood behind me and told me to bend over the edge of the bed, which I willingly did. He slowly entered me and was holding my hips and pulled me back as far as I could go. I could feel him swell and then he slowly stroked back until he was about to come out. This went on for a while and I told him he was a tease which must've stuck a chord with his Latin temper and he started to really fuck me hard. I grabbed on to the sheets to brace myself so he wouldn't pound me through the wall and felt the desire build in him until he once again flooded me with his warm cum. He went to get a tissue for me and I just collapsed on the bed holding my legs together until he returned.

We got dressed, chatted for a few minutes and I left, filled with his seed. I don't know about the other wives but I love the feeling of being filled and feeling it leak into my panties on the ride home, it just gives me that extra naughty bliss.

Really loving your story and can’t wait to hear more. I know how much time and thought it takes to write these, so thank you.

Wantsomefunto wrote: ↑

Tue Oct 14, 2025 4:35 am

Really loving your story and can’t wait to hear more. I know how much time and thought it takes to write these, so thank you.

Thanks for the nice words. The first time I posted it I seemed to have more interest. Luckily I had all the drafts in my ho email account so I could repost them. Btw, the ho email is an inside joke. It's my private email for the lifestyle. I also have a ho phone that I use to talk to other guys on so they aren't bothering me on my regular phone and I can maintain anonymity.