Our Hotwives

My wife and I have been blissfully married for many years. From the very start of our relationship, and even well before we were married, we have had an ethically non-monogamous relationship. We were always free to date other people and we did. This means that long before the term “hotwife” even existed, my wife was one and over the years she has enjoyed sex with many different men.

What’s happening right now, however, is feeling very different because over the next ten days my wife will be having sex with three different men and that has never happened before.

A few weeks ago, my wife was contacted online by a single guy seeking a no strings attached affair with a married woman. They chatted, met for drinks last week, and exchanged phone numbers. Two days ago he called and suggested they get together tonight for drinks and play at a classy hotel not far from us. She happily agreed.

Five days after that, she will be meeting up with her steady boyfriend for an evening of fun. He is someone she has grown close to as they have been seeing each other regularly for the past year. He’s married, also in a ENM relationship.

Five days later, she will be getting together with another new guy, one who will be dominating her as his sex slave.

This whirlwind of sex all begins tonight when I drop her off at a hotel and pick her up whenever her evening with the first guy ends. In the meantime, I’ll be eagerly, and anxiously, waiting at home wondering how well my wife satisfies this man and vice versa. Stay tuned.

sounds like she is in for an erotically charged few days. Would love to hear some background story on how you guys got started with her steady bf and your role in the marriage

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 03, 2025 6:35 am

sounds like she is in for an erotically charged few days. Would love to hear some background story on how you guys got started with her steady bf and your role in the marriage

Sure. First off, my wife is a very attractive, petite, physically fit woman who attracts men easily. Whenever she walks down the street or enters a room she does so with confidence and thus commands attention. It's like she can have anyone she wants so she's learned how to be very selective. She has set up profiles on some online dating sites. That's how she met her current boyfriend. For him, the timing was right as she was looking to move on from her previous relationship as a sex slave to something more personable and fulfilling. She was ready to have a boyfriend, someone she could easily connect with and enjoy spending quality time with. They chatted online, met in person a few times and then hit it off. It's lasted for about a year now. I should add that this was also a first as she mostly dated guys who were just short term fuck buddies.

As for my role in the marriage, it's pretty simple. I am very supportive of her sexual trysts with other men. I want her to enjoy her life, have fun, and just be her sexy self whenever she wants. I have no role in selecting the guys she gets together with. That's totally up to her. I do not know them, never meet them and never speak or chat with them. The only exception to this occurred last month on a trip abroad. I learned from the International Personals Forum on here about some libertine clubs in Europe. Since we were traveling abroad we decided to take a chance on one of them. And that's when I saw her having sex with another guy for the very first time in our relationship.

The journey has been very hot for both of us and the anticipation of what's in store in the near future, especially tonight's new experience, is more exciting than either of us could ever imagine. We will soon find out where this journey takes us.

As far as your situation, do you currently date other women? It sounds like that was the case in the beginning, but I was wondering if that has changed.

hotmetalman wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 03, 2025 12:12 pm

As far as your situation, do you currently date other women? It sounds like that was the case in the beginning, but I was wondering if that has changed.

No, I’m not currently dating other women but I’m free to do so should the right one come along. And you’re right, that was the case in the beginning. Right now it’s all about her and we’re both loving it.

wifelver wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 03, 2025 10:01 am

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 03, 2025 6:35 am

sounds like she is in for an erotically charged few days. Would love to hear some background story on how you guys got started with her steady bf and your role in the marriage

Sure. First off, my wife is a very attractive, petite, physically fit woman who attracts men easily. Whenever she walks down the street or enters a room she does so with confidence and thus commands attention. It's like she can have anyone she wants so she's learned how to be very selective. She has set up profiles on some online dating sites. That's how she met her current boyfriend. For him, the timing was right as she was looking to move on from her previous relationship as a sex slave to something more personable and fulfilling. She was ready to have a boyfriend, someone she could easily connect with and enjoy spending quality time with. They chatted online, met in person a few times and then hit it off. It's lasted for about a year now. I should add that this was also a first as she mostly dated guys who were just short term fuck buddies.

As for my role in the marriage, it's pretty simple. I am very supportive of her sexual trysts with other men. I want her to enjoy her life, have fun, and just be her sexy self whenever she wants. I have no role in selecting the guys she gets together with. That's totally up to her. I do not know them, never meet them and never speak or chat with them. The only exception to this occurred last month on a trip abroad. I learned from the International Personals Forum on here about some libertine clubs in Europe. Since we were traveling abroad we decided to take a chance on one of them. And that's when I saw her having sex with another guy for the very first time in our relationship.

The journey has been very hot for both of us and the anticipation of what's in store in the near future, especially tonight's new experience, is more exciting than either of us could ever imagine. We will soon find out where this journey takes us.

WL
- Do they have public vanilla dates too?

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 04, 2025 4:58 am

wifelver wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 03, 2025 10:01 am

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 03, 2025 6:35 am

sounds like she is in for an erotically charged few days. Would love to hear some background story on how you guys got started with her steady bf and your role in the marriage

Sure. First off, my wife is a very attractive, petite, physically fit woman who attracts men easily. Whenever she walks down the street or enters a room she does so with confidence and thus commands attention. It's like she can have anyone she wants so she's learned how to be very selective. She has set up profiles on some online dating sites. That's how she met her current boyfriend. For him, the timing was right as she was looking to move on from her previous relationship as a sex slave to something more personable and fulfilling. She was ready to have a boyfriend, someone she could easily connect with and enjoy spending quality time with. They chatted online, met in person a few times and then hit it off. It's lasted for about a year now. I should add that this was also a first as she mostly dated guys who were just short term fuck buddies.

As for my role in the marriage, it's pretty simple. I am very supportive of her sexual trysts with other men. I want her to enjoy her life, have fun, and just be her sexy self whenever she wants. I have no role in selecting the guys she gets together with. That's totally up to her. I do not know them, never meet them and never speak or chat with them. The only exception to this occurred last month on a trip abroad. I learned from the International Personals Forum on here about some libertine clubs in Europe. Since we were traveling abroad we decided to take a chance on one of them. And that's when I saw her having sex with another guy for the very first time in our relationship.

The journey has been very hot for both of us and the anticipation of what's in store in the near future, especially tonight's new experience, is more exciting than either of us could ever imagine. We will soon find out where this journey takes us.

WL
- Do they have public vanilla dates too?

Yes, public dinner dates.

How did Friday night go?

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 04, 2025 2:51 pm

How did Friday night go?

I realize this reply from me is long overdue. My apologies. It seems she was still assessing which of these guys, if any, she still wanted to see. As you recall there were three different guys she was going to be with inside of ten days.

The first one, the Friday night date you asked about, didn't go all that well. She sat back and reflected upon it for some time before deciding a few days ago to opt out with him altogether. He's a nice guy and she liked him but the sex just wasn't what she had hoped for.

Next up was her steady boyfriend. That continues to be THE highlight of her extra-marital sexual adventures and a lot more because they have developed strong feelings for one another. That went extremely well and they have gotten together a couple times since then. In fact, this week she told me that she will be spending the night (or nights) with him. Their relationship continues to grow in several different ways even though they are both married.

The third guy was the Dominant one who wants her as his sex slave whenever she's in his company. That, too, went well and she's eager to do it again. So we'll see what happens when he gets back in touch with her.

In the meantime, she met yet another guy, another Dominant guy in fact. He wants to take her to a swingers club and she's excited about doing that with him. That might happen soon.

On all fronts things are moving quickly and she's in hot pursuit, open to a variety of new and different experiences.

Thanks for the update... What is the level of your involvement in these meetings or is she flying solo?

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 02, 2025 6:47 pm

Thanks for the update... What is the level of your involvement in these meetings or is she flying solo?

I have no involvement. She’s on her own. I am not a cuckold. We are not into that. We have an ENM relationship and she does whatever she wants. My bottom line concern is for her health and safety.

Novelty and diversity make for great enhancements for a woman's erotic. She sounds like she is getting a lot of yumminess with each of her quite different partners. I am extremely happy for her, especially since she has a husband who has the bandwidth to support her becoming all she can be and discovering what works for her.
She is most fortunate to have you.

zorro wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 04, 2025 8:59 pm

Novelty and diversity make for great enhancements for a woman's erotic. She sounds like she is getting a lot of yumminess with each of her quite different partners. I am extremely happy for her, especially since she has a husband who has the bandwidth to support her becoming all she can be and discovering what works for her.
She is most fortunate to have you.

Thank you. That is very kind of you.

As an update to what I last wrote, she has abruptly ended any potential relationship with the dominant guy who wanted to take her to a swingers club. She has determined that he simply doesn't measure up to what she would be seeking in this sort of arrangement.

She now has two suitors, one a dominant man who she has had good communication and experiences with thus far, and the other being her boyfriend who she is with as I write.

Im curious if she her ethical non-monogamy extends to her partners? Do they know about each other and that’s she’s adding others from time to time that have become more one and done partners?

No judgement, just curious. My wife has had sex with three guys in a week (although I was one of them). Like you, I’ve never been involved in anyway but I also know that while she and I had that understanding of ENM, neither of her suitors (both long term relationships) knew about the other. Well, one might have known about the other guy it not that she was actively seeing him as well. I believe they both thought they were her exclusive cheating partner (neither of them knew I was aware of her extra fun). It’s funny, because at one point, she limited her time with one of them because it felt too much like she was cheating on ghe other…. Hahaha.

parklife wrote: ↑

Thu Nov 06, 2025 5:38 am

Im curious if she her ethical non-monogamy extends to her partners? Do they know about each other and that’s she’s adding others from time to time that have become more one and done partners?

No judgement, just curious. My wife has had sex with three guys in a week (although I was one of them). Like you, I’ve never been involved in anyway but I also know that while she and I had that understanding of ENM, neither of her suitors (both long term relationships) knew about the other. Well, one might have known about the other guy it not that she was actively seeing him as well. I believe they both thought they were her exclusive cheating partner (neither of them knew I was aware of her extra fun). It’s funny, because at one point, she limited her time with one of them because it felt too much like she was cheating on ghe other…. Hahaha.

That is a really good question. The short answer is that it can vary.

Like you, my wife currently has three sexual partners including myself. She, too, could at any point in time be having sex with all three of us in one week.

All three are in ENM relationships. I am not going to say that each person specifically knows about the others, that’s really none of their business, but each knows that others might exist.

The other two obviously know that I exist and that she has sex with me.

As I noted, that could vary should she decide to have sex with someone not in an ENM relationship and is cheating on his wife. In that case that person might not even know about me! She feels no obligation to extend her ethical standards to those who have none.

Have I fully answered your question? If not, ask away!