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Has anyone been in a situation where wife/gf did it.with a close friend. Also what was dynamics like. How far did they take it? Did they have a full blown relationship etc?

Yes, this has happened to us. A friend of ours confided in us that he was not happy with his relationship and had been having affairs. My wife and him got on well before this but once this was mentioned she wanted to open up to him that she was interested. A few months later and she was asking me if he could come over as they had been messaging together.

My GF and I had watched some MFM porn, read some "Letters" and shared some pillow talk .. . . She knew of my fantasy and enjoyed it a bit herself.

One day she confided in me that there was a guy relentlessly hitting on her at work. It was clear that she was looking for permission. She didn't want to lose me, and she didn't want to cheat either.

The guy was kind of a slime. He had his own GF, and we knew them socially. It was guaranteed to be awkward and end badly. He had no idea she would bring me the truth either. I pointed all this out. It bought me some time, but she was a very sexy horny girl.

I talked to a friend I could trust with my life. I had just asked if he was interested in getting together with us when She came home from shopping. We didn't get to discuss it further, but I knew he would be down for it. He was hiding his crotch as she entered the room.

Later in bed, I mentioned him to her. That pussy could not lie! I only needed to get us together.

Our A/C was out. So under the guise of watching a NASCAR race at my buddy's place, we grabbed a bottle of rum and headed over. She was wearing a little black dress and some wedgie shoes. As it turned out, there were no panties.

My buddy went to the bathroom and I slid my hand under her skirt to find her soaking wet. She said, "I want to do it". I told her we could slip into the other bathroom. She said, "No. I mean all three of us. Together."

Hot. As. Fuck.

We curled that girl's toes many times thereafter. Everything between her and I was great, and visiting with him was just another dimension of a very good friendship that lasted for many years.

They never 'dated'. It was always the three of us. I did begin to think of what it would be like to send her to him as a surprise, but it never transpired. When she left, it was not because of the sex. It can work with friends. I think you have to be very careful who you pick. In our case, it worked very well.

Almost all of Susan’s hotwifing experiences have been with old boyfriends, past FWB, neighbors and good friends and they were all wonderful experiences that created a “special bond” even after the sexual encounters ended.

A few decades ago, an author by the name of Clarke Kent (No, not that one) wrote an article on how to have a good hotwife experience. He wrote, among other things, that you should never involve friends, coworkers nor relatives. I have also read on this forum that good hotwife partners can become good friends, but good friends seldom become good hotwife partners.

You may have read posts that contradict the above points, and that there have been good hotwife experiences involving close friends, and no doubt it has happened and it has worked out. In other cases, where it has not worked out, these people have left hotwifing so you may not read about their not-so-good experiences on this forum.

In our case, both my wife as a hotwife, and I as a former fb, have made a couple of good friends from our hotwife experiences. We have involved friends twice, and it cost us the friendships both times.