Our Hotwives

Posted: **Thu Nov 06, 2025 2:58 pm**

Hi all,

I love browsing and reading stories here and have been a member for many enjoyable years. As I search through the forums (mainly Hotwife Forum, Cuckold Forum and Poly Forum), I look out for titles that pique my interest and also for fellow contributors that I regularly follow. Once selecting a thread, I quickly as possible decide if it's a subject that I am interested in. I have my own personal likes and dislikes, just like everyone else here. Some subjects I absoloutely love! and some subjects are a big turn-off. Sometimes I will start reading a thread I think I will enjoy and then it goes in a direction I do not care for and sometimes I read a thread with luke-warm or little interest and then it becomes totally compelling reading.

I'd just like to add there is absoloutely no judgement from me whatsoever, I have hardly ever read anything that I think is unsuitable here and the moderators do a brilliant job, the posts are from people with a wide-range of tastes and I totally support that!

- I am very curious though and have been meaning to ask for quite some time, what others here personally like and dislike. What themes, subjects, scenarios do you dislike, find a turn-off, like or love? You can simply list them, or give detailed explanations - I would really like to hear your thoughts.

It goes without saying that I don't want individual contributors or their thread titles named and shamed if the subjects covered are not your cup of tea (which obviously wouldn't be kind!) but would like to hear about particular writers and their threads that you have really enjoyed and why.

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 4:49 am**

HWC
- For me, 'origin' stories, how it started.
- If things have evolved to a HW/BF type of thing, how that happened. How involved or not the BF might be in the couples life. How public the HW/BF are and are any F&F aware and how that is handled. And of course social media.
- Other things too, but these are what I find of most interest.

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 4:55 am**

I love intergenerational hotwife stories, a young man with a mature wife

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 5:26 am**

For my wife and I it would be interracial adventures.
We are a white couple and my wife who was incredibly active with many partners when we first got together never really played with many black guys.
After we married and had kids she became totally committed but we often discussed her playing around still. She then told me her only real interest in playing around again would be with black guys as she found them way more attractive. This was absolutely nothing to do with the taboo side of things just a genuine attraction. She has now had a few sex dates with 2 different guys and the last date resulted in her lover cumming inside her 3 times that night.
On a slightly side note side we have been together (14 years) I have never been near another woman as i love to stay true to my wife and do nothing but encourage her wild side as she is naturally sexually promiscuous and always returns from a date very happy and stays that way for a good while afterwards.

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 12:31 pm**

I too like origin stories and how things develop into full blown cuckold relationships. Long term boyfriends, FLRs, overnights, weekends, even trips and vacations intrigue me-the whole development of cuckold psychology. Interracial is a plus, plus I have a foot fetish! LOL! Anything else? Haha. One turn off is the seemingly constant obsession with some members on whether the hotwife gets or does anal.

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 1:29 pm**

Long Lurker 34:

Yep,really like the writer who 'sets out the stall', with back-story - and really love reading about the dynamics of a reltionship with a boyfriend involved. Stories about the public nature of an extra-marital affair and public cuckolding can send the temparature soaring!
emca753, I really like boyfriend girlfriend type relationships - not so much where the lover is described as a 'bull'. I think I prefer a story where the boyfriend is slightly older, but not a huge age gap but having said that, I have read stories with the scenario you described, that are well written and have really enjoyed them.

foxylcfc, there is something really captivating with a white wife/black boyfriend story - for me these become really interesting if pregnancy risk comes into the mix! and I do look out for these stories.

Jujube, you said:

full blown cuckold relationships. Long term boyfriends, FLRs, overnights, weekends, even trips and vacations intrigue me-the whole development of cuckold psychology

Absoloutely! These stories are harder to find but are well worth searching for - I'm sure you were probably an xleglover (Pete Andrews) fan like me, and I loved all of his stories as they were so well written and he really knew how to ratchet up the angst and jealousy - an element that I love in a story. But for a real 10/10 score, I prefer if the story presented is real-life rather than fiction - but i will take the fictional stories if I can't find the real thing!

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 1:48 pm**

I prefer content from wives/gfs, and not just their reciting of sexual activities, but content involving details surrounding relationships and life. Emotional depth is much more compelling, and has educational value to me. Content from men can often be too wank-fodder centric, so I tend to be more discriminating there. I often prefer threads where the author shares the emotional and relationship impacts as the events unfold.

My most disliked threads will have a dude that is clearly obsessed and addicted to hotwife/cuckold stuff and has started making poor and inappropriate decisions regarding his wife/gf, disregarding her wishes and wellbeing.

Posted: **Fri Nov 07, 2025 9:57 pm**

It would be hard to list the specific topics, but I think I can distil it down to anything that is educational and insightful into what turns people on sexually, how and why. Even the surveys.

Learning about all the interesting things that turn people on.

Given that, I only enjoy true stories and true information. I find no enjoyment in fiction but I understand how others do. However, I dislike, intensely, ones that are fake but pretend to be true. I have a special disdain for the ones who use AI to write the stories but they try to pass off as real by adding their own short responses to questions while resorting back to AI to write the narratives. They think they aren't obvious, but they are

I wish there were separate sections for true stories and fiction.

While I enjoy all the different question and answer type threads, the Hotties section etc, I particularly enjoy origin and evolution stories. Especially ones that provide all the trials and tribulations of the emotional and sexual evolution of all parties involved, the internal and interpersonal dynamics, experiences, motivations etc

One of the best stories I read (I can't remember exactly who the author was because I think the thread no longer exists) was written by the husband, but he describes the thoughts and emotions of his wife, from the time that she was his girlfriend, then his wife, throughout all the years and experiences. The detail and honesty was exquisite. Even things that she told him that most people would not tell their partners. But she did. Total honesty.

So that author wrote their story as if both of them were writing it, because he knew everything she felt, thought, experienced as well as what he did.

Obviously the sexual details of the encounters are enjoyable to read. But for me, mostly only enjoyable if accompanied by the thoughts and feelings and experiences of the people involved.

Posted: **Sat Nov 08, 2025 8:37 am**

The most exciting subject for me is the BF's sharing the wife with his buddies. This happened on two occasions to my wife (same BF) and it was a hell of a turn on when she told me about it.

Posted: **Sat Nov 08, 2025 11:56 am**

Mix it up! Try every thing! Then go back and savor the ones you both enjoy! I cock. 2 cocks… BBC…MFM..MFF,,, gang bangs… it’s all fun!

Posted: **Sat Nov 08, 2025 3:19 pm**

Obviously the sexual details of the encounters are enjoyable to read. But for me, mostly only enjoyable if accompanied by the thoughts and feelings and experiences of the people involved.

Absoloutely. Additionally, I really get into stories where whole conversations are written out, it puts you right in the middle of the action.
Talking about "thoughts, feelings, experiences" - my absoloute favurite centre around the husband's angst and jealousy - particularly when he has persuaded and encouraged his wife to spend more time with and grow ever closer to her boyfriend and so is the main cause of those feelings. Fear of losing the wife, as a consequence, (which I believe is a subject the majority here are uncomfortable with), developing in the story, really gets me interested.

Posted: **Sun Nov 09, 2025 6:54 am**

hwc wrote: ↑
Sat Nov 08, 2025 3:19 pm

Obviously the sexual details of the encounters are enjoyable to read. But for me, mostly only enjoyable if accompanied by the thoughts and feelings and experiences of the people involved.
Absoloutely. Additionally, I really get into stories where whole conversations are written out, it puts you right in the middle of the action.
Talking about "thoughts, feelings, experiences" - my absoloute favurite centre around the husband's angst and jealousy - particularly when he has persuaded and encouraged his wife to spend more time with and grow ever closer to her boyfriend and so is the main cause of those feelings. Fear of losing the wife, as a consequence, (which I believe is a subject the majority here are uncomfortable with), developing in the story, really gets me interested.

I enjoy the detailed conversation and mixed emotions of this as well. Encouraging your wife to be open to falling in love with another man is scary, exciting, and makes my cock ACHE with arousal. I also find it a very natural progression of the relationship she has with a Lover.

Posted: **Sun Nov 09, 2025 1:26 pm**

I enjoy the detailed conversation and mixed emotions of this as well. Encouraging your wife to be open to falling in love with another man is scary, exciting, and makes my cock ACHE with arousal. I also find it a very natural progression of the relationship she has with a Lover.

Absoulutely. I often see people here in make long, detailed posts, sometimes on the above scenarios - and the aplogise for their 'long post'.
DThey don't seem to realise that for many of us reading here, we crave the details and the more details, the better! This is ten times better when you have a good writer, who can really set the scene well! - Another one of my top likes...

A few really good examples are posts made by Troilusand, Ucaneffher, Surry and rypmar7 These don't all write about angst and jealousy but all make posts that are addictive reading!

Posted: **Sun Nov 09, 2025 6:18 pm**

Thanks for including me in the writing kudos, HWC! I appreciate it!

For me, I like just about anything...but what I DON'T like is fiction. It does zero for me. If the tale doesn't have real emotions on the line...who cares?

But what I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY don't like are judgmental replies!!! Why are you reading the fucking thread if you don't like: impregnation...whoring...risk sex...non-consensual...losing your wife...et-fucking-cetera!! If there's a topic I don't like/agree with, I DON'T OPEN IT! Like cock and ball tort ure. I don't go in there and tell the boys posting that they're NUTS (even though they are, hee hee), I just don't open the thread. Why piss in their punch-bowl? Not good form!

Sorry for the rant...but it felt good to say it! hee hee

Troilus

Posted: **Mon Nov 10, 2025 5:57 am**

I enjoy the stories that include the ups as well as the downs. My wife had a fwb about 6 years ago and it was a bumpy ride. Extremely exciting, but not all of it. So the stories of the wife having random unannounced hook ups and the husband seems indifferent tend to be less interesting for me.

Posted: **Mon Nov 10, 2025 7:56 am**

For myself I enjoy the threads that mirror my own experience. A beautiful wife/gf who has a chance to take a lover with her man's permission. She eventually branches out and begins sleeping with her stud. My tale was a slow burn. Looking back there was and is of course plenty of jealousy and angst but was also extremely enjoyable and arousing. Something about seeing her with another guy that never seems to get old. She also has a much better life now that she has a side piece who takes better care of her in bed than I ever could. She's living a more healthy and happy life too.

Posted: **Mon Nov 10, 2025 2:29 pm**

So the stories of the wife having random unannounced hook ups and the husband seems indifferent tend to be less interesting for me.

Yep, agree. the indifference must be infectous - because I am indifferent to those stories, but obviously there are lots who enjoy the stories that centre on sex rather than the emotional side of things.

Looking back there was and is of course plenty of jealousy and angst but was also extremely enjoyable and arousing

I'll have to check your posts out! Is this something you have written about?

Troy, you said:

For me, I like just about anything...but what I DON'T like is fiction. It does zero for me. If the tale doesn't have real emotions on the line...who cares?

I much, much prefer real life stories - for the reasons you said, but they are so few and far between, that I turn to very well written fiction - and there are some very good writers out there! But I fully understand why it doesn't hit the spot for you. There is NOTHING to compare to the real thing.

Posted: **Tue Nov 11, 2025 12:17 pm**

hwc wrote: ↑
Mon Nov 10, 2025 2:29 pm

So the stories of the wife having random unannounced hook ups and the husband seems indifferent tend to be less interesting for me.
Yep, agree. the indifference must be infectous - because I am indifferent to those stories, but obviously there are lots who enjoy the stories that centre on sex rather than the emotional side of things.

Looking back there was and is of course plenty of jealousy and angst but was also extremely enjoyable and arousing
I'll have to check your posts out! Is this something you have written about?

Troy, you said:

For me, I like just about anything...but what I DON'T like is fiction. It does zero for me. If the tale doesn't have real emotions on the line...who cares?
I much, much prefer real life stories - for the reasons you said, but they are so few and far between, that I turn to very well written fiction - and there are some very good writers out there! But I fully understand why it doesn't hit the spot for you. There is NOTHING to compare to the real thing.

And don't get me wrong...it's not that something I read has to have happened...I very much enjoy reading about wishes and fantasies of couples. What I don't like is fiction. To me, it is about as arousing as reading, "Predator and Alien are trying to get my wife PG". No thanks, not for me.

I got my hand slapped for calling out some 14-year-old posing as a couple. He was writing pure bullshit and I said so. So now I make discreet implications about posers. Happily, there are few...but there's currently one popular thread about an employer that I and another guy made our comments and I moved on.

Troy

Posted: **Tue Nov 11, 2025 1:12 pm**

As we have mentioned 'dislikes', here are few of mine, that turn me off reading stories and I must stress - I know that there a many people on this forum who enjoy some or all of these subjects and these have a very legitimate place here, for those who enjoy them - just not my personal preference...

Use of the word 'Bull' - and I can't even fully or easily describe why this is a BIG turn - off for me, but I would be very interested to hear how others feel around stories that revolve around a bull taking a wife. I pretty much won't read stories that revolve around a bull. I think it might be because these stories tend to be more centred around sex than say, relationships, bonds, budding romance and love - my favourite subjects! That's why the wife having a 'lover'- or even better, 'boyfriend' are the ones I will gravitate towards. A story about a wife falling for a boyfriend is more likely to result in the hubby feeling angst, jealousy and that he's taking a risk of losing his wife - the golden ticket for me!

Sissification - Absoloutely just not my bag. Even if the hubby is a cuckold and the wife is 'forcing' the sub to wear ladies underwear and clothing or a maids outfit. If I'm looking for that, I will personally watch an English 1960's 'romp' comedy film or an episode of Benny Hill. If I'm reading a story that is getting interesting and is hotting up with perhaps cuckolding, then the wife has the hubby donning her knickers - it's like having a bucket of cold water thrown on me. I wouldn't say I'm particularly disappointed, I simply move on and leave the story for those that enjoy the subject...

Incest - No judgement on people who enjoy those stories as a fantasy - (I can understand the titilation of the forbidden!) but I simply don't - and not on any 'moral' grounds either - just because the subect doesn't do it for me!

Gang-bangs, prostitution, and the wife sleeping with many lovers. All for the same reasons as stories about bulls - it's the wife/grirlfriend being in an actual relationship I'm looking for - which greatly and sadly narrows down the stories I enjoy!

I'd love to hear what others think of the list and definitely hear why you DO enjoy these themes. I'm also intending to make post soon on my favourite themes!

Posted: **Mon Nov 17, 2025 10:13 am**

hwc wrote: ↑
Tue Nov 11, 2025 1:12 pm
As we have mentioned 'dislikes', here are few of mine, that turn me off reading stories and I must stress - I know that there a many people on this forum who enjoy some or all of these subjects and these have a very legitimate place here, for those who enjoy them - just not my personal preference...

Use of the word 'Bull' - and I can't even fully or easily describe why this is a BIG turn - off for me, but I would be very interested to hear how others feel around stories that revolve around a bull taking a wife. I pretty much won't read stories that revolve around a bull. I think it might be because these stories tend to be more centred around sex than say, relationships, bonds, budding romance and love - my favourite subjects! That's why the wife having a 'lover'- or even better, 'boyfriend' are the ones I will gravitate towards. A story about a wife falling for a boyfriend is more likely to result in the hubby feeling angst, jealousy and that he's taking a risk of losing his wife - the golden ticket for me!

Sissification - Absoloutely just not my bag. Even if the hubby is a cuckold and the wife is 'forcing' the sub to wear ladies underwear and clothing or a maids outfit. If I'm looking for that, I will personally watch an English 1960's 'romp' comedy film or an episode of Benny Hill. If I'm reading a story that is getting interesting and is hotting up with perhaps cuckolding, then the wife has the hubby donning her knickers - it's like having a bucket of cold water thrown on me. I wouldn't say I'm particularly disappointed, I simply move on and leave the story for those that enjoy the subject...

Incest - No judgement on people who enjoy those stories as a fantasy - (I can understand the titilation of the forbidden!) but I simply don't - and not on any 'moral' grounds either - just because the subect doesn't do it for me!

Gang-bangs, prostitution, and the wife sleeping with many lovers. All for the same reasons as stories about bulls - it's the wife/grirlfriend being in an actual relationship I'm looking for - which greatly and sadly narrows down the stories I enjoy!

I'd love to hear what others think of the list and definitely hear why you DO enjoy these themes. I'm also intending to make post soon on my favourite themes!

100% on all of these. To me it’s about two “normal” people pushing boundaries. Not formula made up lifestyle terms, slutting out or involving close family (I find that horrifying, really.)

If it’s fiction, I can suspend disbelief and relax for something that’s a long burn and well written like a xLeglover story, but for the “real” stories here, it’s all about the anguish and the thrill of a guy setting his wife spread her wings and fly.

Posted: **Tue Nov 18, 2025 3:15 am**

I like all forms of cuckold hotwife stories, especially those with a submissive hubbie.

I get turned off by manipulations, forcing or pushing others to do shit they do not like.

Posted: **Tue Nov 18, 2025 4:10 pm**

subbieCuck,

I get turned off by manipulations, forcing or pushing others to do shit they do not like.

Unless it is the wife forcing or pushing the sub - usually at his own request for her to be more dismissive or even cold or crueler to him!

Posted: **Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:00 am**

Thank you HWC for this thread.

Likes
* That this place has a wide variety of people in it, young, old, different nationalities, and different levels of implementation.
* When threads are about satisfied couples that make their spouses/so's their primary concern, bottom line.
* When threads are about the WHOLE experience, in and out of the bedroom, the successes, the emotions, the mistakes, the after effects.
* Posts from women, even if I don't personally agree with them. It's still good and helps build a bigger picture. I especially enjoy posts from women that realize their position of power and responsibility (or even reading it second hand in post from the husband).
* Posts and threads that discuss making it work, sustainability, and keeping the sexual thrill alive for both.
* People that respond through posts or PM's that give honest answers to honest questions.
* Posts that are believable.

Dislikes
* Posts and threads that leave no room for discussion, as in "I'm right and you're wrong". Why bother?
* Posts and threads that take as much pleasure in the humiliation and disrespect than they do the actual sex.
* Posts and threads that evolve into a permanent denial.
* Posts and threads that have wives/gfs that act uncharacteristically for someone that TRULY and deeply loves their husband/bf.
* Posts and threads that give intentionally disrespectful responses to honest questions, the kind that are meant to antagonize.
* Posts and threads that are either hard to believe or blatantly unbelievable.

I have no disrespect for anyone here. People are unique and complex and interesting. Throw in people having a wide variety of personal influences and events and there will be a wide variety of outcomes in personality. Sure, I have my personal likes and dislikes. It doesn't make me feel superior or inferior. It's just me. I want to learn more about what interests me and enough about the other stuff that I'm able to decide it doesn't interest me.

Posted: **Sat Nov 22, 2025 8:16 pm**

Great and detailed comments coastalkid!

Lots to agree with there from both lists.

personally speaking, I do enjoy posts that centre on permanent denial but when the cuck has a craving for this and the wife is happy (or convinced) to go along with it. also form the dislikes list, I particularly agree with:
Posts and threads that leave no room for discussion, as in "I'm right and you're wrong".
Posts and threads that give intentionally disrespectful responses to honest questions, the kind that are meant to antagonize.
Posts and threads that are either hard to believe or blatantly unbelievable.

From your likes list, I particularly agree with:
People that respond through posts or PM's that give honest answers to honest questions.
Posts that are believable.

Posted: **Mon Nov 24, 2025 11:12 am**

coastalkid wrote: ↑
Thu Nov 20, 2025 10:00 am
Thank you HWC for this thread.

Likes
* That this place has a wide variety of people in it, young, old, different nationalities, and different levels of implementation.
* When threads are about satisfied couples that make their spouses/so's their primary concern, bottom line.
* When threads are about the WHOLE experience, in and out of the bedroom, the successes, the emotions, the mistakes, the after effects.
* Posts from women, even if I don't personally agree with them. It's still good and helps build a bigger picture. I especially enjoy posts from women that realize their position of power and responsibility (or even reading it second hand in post from the husband).
* Posts and threads that discuss making it work, sustainability, and keeping the sexual thrill alive for both.
* People that respond through posts or PM's that give honest answers to honest questions.
* Posts that are believable.

Dislikes
* Posts and threads that leave no room for discussion, as in "I'm right and you're wrong". Why bother?
* Posts and threads that take as much pleasure in the humiliation and disrespect than they do the actual sex.
* Posts and threads that evolve into a permanent denial.
* Posts and threads that have wives/gfs that act uncharacteristically for someone that TRULY and deeply loves their husband/bf.
* Posts and threads that give intentionally disrespectful responses to honest questions, the kind that are meant to antagonize.
* Posts and threads that are either hard to believe or blatantly unbelievable.

I have no disrespect for anyone here. People are unique and complex and interesting. Throw in people having a wide variety of personal influences and events and there will be a wide variety of outcomes in personality. Sure, I have my personal likes and dislikes. It doesn't make me feel superior or inferior. It's just me. I want to learn more about what interests me and enough about the other stuff that I'm able to decide it doesn't interest me.

As I read your post I was thinking I agree with each of your points. Then I realized I was frowning while reading your dislikes. Full agreement confirmed.

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