Our Hotwives

After reading a post by HWC on Likes and dislikes I responded with the below and wondered how many of couples out there are in a similar relationship? Thought it might deserve a post of it's own.

For my wife and I it would be interracial adventures.
We are a white couple and my wife who was incredibly active with many partners when we first got together never really played with many black guys.
After we married and had kids she became totally committed but we often discussed her playing around still. She then told me her only real interest in playing around again would be with black guys as she found them way more attractive. This was absolutely nothing to do with the taboo side of things just a genuine attraction. She has now had a few sex dates with 2 different guys and the last date resulted in her lover cumming inside her 3 times that night.
On a slightly side note side we have been together (14 years) I have never been near another woman as i love to stay true to my wife and do nothing but encourage her wild side as she is naturally sexually promiscuous and always returns from a date very happy and stays that way for a good while afterwards.

Hello, from Wesley very happily married to my Hotwife Kelly.

Just like everything else in life we our have our own individual preferences from food, hobbies, entertainment, music, clothing.

It is just a natural extension our preferences extend to characteristics we are attracted to in the opposite sex. My wife Kelly is a natural blonde with blue eyes and she has always been drawn to black men. As her white husband I am very fortunate she married me regardless that I am not black, love did prevail in my case.

I love the fact my wife prefers black men in our Hotwife lifestyle and could not be more content and turned on by it.

Back when Kelly and I were using and online lifestyle “dating” site, Kelly’s listing clearly stated….This blonde prefers her men, black, tall, handsome, and well hung, which she very proudly stated !!!

So to sum up my point of view a white wife with a preference for black men in the Hotwife lifestyle is very much a beneficial preference. Wesley

My wife also has a very strong preference for black men. She is not black only, but black men definitely get to skip the line. Lol

Whatever causes it, it seems to be extremely common.

Angsty Cuck wrote: ↑

Fri Nov 07, 2025 8:44 am

Whatever causes it, it seems to be extremely common.

That is a huge understatement, very common for a white Hotwife to prefer black men. Grateful they do !!!

I would say from my observations over the years my wife has a sexual preference Attraction to black men.

My wife definitely went through a phase of wondering about this, mostly because a friend did it. I would have been fine if she did it, but no opportunity happened and she became pregnant with out first and she pretty much forgot about it, funnily enough.

Over the 10 years of our experiences, she mostly played with black men. She ended up with two long term partners and one was a 42 year old divorced black man and the other was a 27 year old single white man. Her black partner was a practicing bull who actually had several wives that he was playing with. All long term. He was a great partner.

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Fri Nov 07, 2025 7:08 am

Hello, from Wesley very happily married to my Hotwife Kelly.

Just like everything else in life we our have our own individual preferences from food, hobbies, entertainment, music, clothing.

It is just a natural extension our preferences extend to characteristics we are attracted to in the opposite sex. My wife Kelly is a natural blonde with blue eyes and she has always been drawn to black men. As her white husband I am very fortunate she married me regardless that I am not black, love did prevail in my case.

I love the fact my wife prefers black men in our Hotwife lifestyle and could not be more content and turned on by it.

Back when Kelly and I were using and online lifestyle “dating” site, Kelly’s listing clearly stated….This blonde prefers her men, black, tall, handsome, and well hung, which she very proudly stated !!!

So to sum up my point of view a white wife with a preference for black men in the Hotwife lifestyle is very much a beneficial preference. Wesley

Thanks for the great reply Wesley.

Curious to know if it was just your wife Kelly that played or did you get to have some fun as well?

My wife doesn't admit to any racial preference. But she does like interracial sex and is conscious of certain race specific aspects of the attraction, hers and his. She has what I call an eclectic diet.

Parsifal wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 08, 2025 7:26 pm

My wife doesn't admit to any racial preference. But she does like interracial sex and is conscious of certain race-specific aspects of the attraction, hers and his. She has what I call an eclectic diet.

I like that.

My girl had interracial activities in college (Black and Latino), and married a Latino, a brief marriage for just a year after college. She is 63 and only white since. Including another white marriage before me. Fortunately, she is open to the idea of interracial, black specifically.

She is from a white-bread kind of Connecticut family.

My girlfriend Kelley's side piece is black, but it's more about size, stamina, and skill (both bedroom and all around social) than just skin color. He's a perfect fit for her. Pun intended.

Parsifal wrote: ↑

Sat Nov 08, 2025 7:26 pm

My wife doesn't admit to any racial preference. But she does like interracial sex and is conscious of certain race specific aspects of the attraction, hers and his. She has what I call an eclectic diet.

This here my Wife doesn't claim she has a preference and she is not exclusive to any one type. I think her attraction is purely physical and that Black men to her more often have the traits that turn her on I don't think it is just about being black, plenty of black men that she has not been attracted to as well.

All that said I keep tract of stats and since her first encounter with a black man 83.2% of the men she has choosen on the 10 years since have been black so the numbers don;t lie.

Also the part that tells for me if we watch a show before bed with a lot of Black men she comes to bed much more aroused. Also is say a tall sexy black man is standing near her I can promise you her pussy will be dripping wet just being close. So while she doesn't say it or admit it is clear to me.

we have been in the lifestyle for over 21yrs ,the last 10yrs of that was hotwife lifestyle, black men have always been my wife's desire, she had been with a few before me and cheated with black when we were
dating and married,when we started the lifestyle black was always her 1st choice, even now as we have slowed to almost nothing ,if she sees a good looking black man ,she spoons and makes lil pur moans,prefers
the stamina ,size ,colour and swagger of a Blackman,and love that they crave her booty,and of course the lil submissive part in me loves the fact she wants a hung Blackman over me

Me and my wife are an interracial couple. I’m black and she’s Hispanic. After a year of me trying to convince her to become a HW, my wife told me a shocking confession. She told me she was curious about white guys. WTF??
I reminded her of the old saying “once you go black…..”.
I used that confession to nudge her into becoming a HW.

The first three guys were fucking terrible. And I mean that literally. I felt sorry for my wife. I thought she had given up on becoming a HW. Thankfully the fourth guy more than redeemed all the white guys in the world. He had a short but super thick cock that drove my wife crazy. He more than fulfilled me and my wife’s fantasy. After that night my wife started dating guys of different races. She jokingly refer to guys as vanilla, caramel or chocolate when she talk about the race of the guy she dated.

My wife was raised by a racist Baptist preacher and was taught to stay away from black men. After we were married and in the lifestyle, she revealed that it was a fantasy of hers to be with a black man. The first black man she was with was amazing and definitely set the scale moving forward. Since then, she has been with 38 different black men and all but one of them has fucked her multiple times. She says that not only are they very sexy & masculine, but that they are confident and animalistic in how they fuck her. She loves being "taken" and she says they do it like none other.