Our Hotwives

so im bummed. we have been doing the hotwife thing for two years. started off with her taking a camera and doing solos with guys i found for her while i watched from home. eventually we started the "party" scenerio where we get a airbnb and invite like 6 or 7 guys. she would fuck them all one at a time, often i scheduled them to show up in one hour intervals so there was no waiting. she seemed to really enjoy herself. she hasnt lost her appetite for sex, she wants me to fuck her daily. we are very much in love, the relationship is good. she just seems out on the hotwifing. she doesnt say she's done with it, but if i bring up scheduling something, she makes excuses and puts it off. I'm not pushy, i dont mention it more than once or twice a month, IDK kind of don't want to mention it again you know but I just don't get it. I guess I should ask her directly if she does not want to do it anymore but she really loves me and hates disapointing me so i would have to really reassure her that its all good I just want to be on the same page. or maybe she just wants a break. any thoughts?

It’s like anything else. Once the new wears off, it’s not as much fun. For some, it wears off sooner. We’ve been at it for almost 30 years and it’s not as exciting as it used to be. The ebb and flow of life.

Im sure you are right. weird though, its not any less exciting to me. maybe a break is what is in order. sucks though, just been talking to a guy i know she would enjoy.

Maybe she’s looking for something different..,. Maybe a single guy and not a train of guys would suit her better…. Maybe she just wants a break. Not uncommon.

The only way is to inquire. Lack of communication doesn’t mean you’re avoiding being pushy, it means you’re not asking the right questions. Find out where her head is at. Maybe she’s come not to enjoy being with 6 or 7 guys right now…. You just never know until you start asking better questions tha the one that keeps getting shot down or put off,

She may be getting bored with it. How often was she seeing someone? May need to make it a little less frequent to suit her. Basically I would give her some space and let her decide. She may just need a break or some sort of change to the situation that she will communicate in time.