Our Hotwives

As many of you know, I frequently provide help and advice to those contemplating the hotwife 'journey', and sometimes also on stages along the way. I recently received a comment from a woman who has just started to practice, and has enjoyed sex with both a colleague of her husband and also someone she met in a supermarket(!). She said that she had previously masturbated rarely and had not got much out of it. However, since having sex several times with her two FBs, she indulges regularly, almost every day and sometimes multiple times a day.

This was interesting to me, as I had not heard about this effect before. If she was frequently being satisfied by her lovers, maybe she didn't need to masturbate so much. On the other hand, as she was sexually not fully 'awakened' previously, maybe she now craved regular orgasms, using a vibrator often while at work. I wondered about other hotwives, and in the spirit of the surveys published here occasionally, I thought it would be interesting to learn of other hotwife practices:

1) did you masturbate regularly before becoming a hotwife? If so, how often?

2) has the frequency increased/decreased since you began?

3) do you prefer fingers, a clit buzzer or a dildo to make you come?

4) do you allow your partner(s) to watch you get off?

I realise these questions could equally apply to non hotwives, and I suppose if a husband is aware of his wife's increased self pleasuring, it may indicate that she is sexually unsatisfied, which could open up the discussion about her 'spreading her wings'.

I don’t know if it’s really about masterbation itself per se, but I think many would agree, sex begets more sex and sexual thoughts.

The more sex my wife has, the more sex she wants…. From me, her FWBs or even herself. Then when she hits a dry spell, it’s like the fountain turns off and maybe sex happens 1x a month and never alone (masterbating).

1 - rarely…. She can go a year without being “master of her domaine”

2 - when she’s actively being a hotwife, she wants more orgasms but doesn’t need to be from self pleasure, but it certainly occurs more often

3 - to orgasm, she needs direct clot stimulation so fingers or vibes it is…. She has dildos but those are probably more for partner play

4 - I rarely get to see or watch…. I have seen her but it’s usually a solo thing g. If I’m around, she’d prefer my tongue over fingers or vibe