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Hello from Kelly, (Hotwife married to Wesley)

Yes the chances are low yet bumping into a former boyfriend, sex partner, ex, lifestyle partner however you want to label them does happen.

About a month ago I was out shopping with a good friend of mine who happens to be vanilla and a bit naive at times, yet a wonderful friend of mine. She is so sweet.

I hear from a few feet oh my gosh, “Blonde Beauty” is that you, with Blonde Beauty being my given nickname from my vacations to Hedo Ii with my husband years ago.

The man calling out my name was overwhelmed by his excitement to see me and therefore obvious to my friend standing next to me,

He let a few facts slip in front of my friend before I could get him to realize I had someone with me, such as our dates together at Hedo. Yes I was also excited to see him, but was trying to keep my enthusiasm to see him under control,

Two years in a row him and I had a lot of great sex all over the resort and kept in touch for a few years after the fact.

Him and I talked for about 15 minutes and exchanged phones numbers before he hugged and kissed me goodbye. He did point out the fact he is divorced now which my friend wondered why he had to mention that.

After that my female vanilla friend had numerous questions for me which I tried to deflect. She admitted my friend was very handsome and when did I date him.

Not sure if she believed me but I said I dated him before marriage and yes I did get back in touch with him.

Please share your stories of bumping into an ex, feel free to ask questions. Thanks Kelly

Maybe this fits...

After a long hiatus from hotwifing (maybe 3-4 years), my wife Shelley was with our daughter when she ran into her favorite bull in the parking lot of a Walgreens a few blocks from our house. They were both very surprised by the coincidence (he lives about 80 miles from us).

She was quite excited (giddy, even) when I saw her that evening after coming home from work. Fast forward, she contacted him that night and they scheduled a play date for the following week when he was back in town.

It happens to Farmgirl and myself often, it's just normal.

Many times we'd bump into one of Mary's lovers in a vanilla situation, but there was one time that really stands out.

We were at a farmer’s market when I caught a guy checking her out. That wasn’t odd, many men like to look at her. But this guy sort of followed us around the booths. After perhaps fifteen minutes I pointed him out to my wife and she said, “Oh my god, that’s Doug!”

“Doug?”

“Yeah, when we were at the club a few times and it was getting late, I’d invite him into a room. Come on, you remember!”

I can’t say I did. By this time, Mary had had well over 150 men, I couldn’t catalogue them all, could I? Mary left me and approached him, they stood together chatting for a few minutes then the three of us went to a nearby coffee shop.

Mary and Doug figured out that it had been ten or eleven years since he’d left the club scene. He’d gotten married and divorced in that time, and at the moment wasn’t seeing anyone. I noticed that as we talked, Doug was checking Mary’s legs out. And Mary had that look on her face . . .

It turned out that Doug lived just a couple of blocks away, and the three of us went up to his place and had a wonderful afternoon.

This happens to us frequently because most of our relationships were with good friends.