Wife became sexually exclusive with her lover .. Is it normal ?

[CuckHusband11]

Unfortunately when they get addicted to that outside dick... The only thing you can do is let it be or walk away.

Life is so much easier just letting it be. As my wife has pointed out jerking off is so much simpler and no one gets disappointed

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

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[ucaneffher]

Test

Certainly easier than the BAR exam... Am I right?

[Maddie_Hippychick]

After two decades of a dead bedroom, I can’t understand why anyone would agree to celibacy. It was such a soul destroying experience for me. I will NEVER, for ANYONE, EVER be celibate again.

What I don’t get is, if your hotwife wants sexual exclusivity with a lover, why not go out and find your own side piece? Or at the very least, engage with a professional sex worker that’s willing to indulge in your fantasies or kinks.

Without physical intimacy, how does your hotwife make you feel wanted, loved, cared for? Does she do anything to make you feel good about yourself, to make you feel you are important to her, to make you feel special?

I realize this is a cuckold forum. I hope I don’t offend anyone. Obviously, I bring my own baggage to the party. It just makes me sad hearing about these wonderful men being so dedicated to their life partner, and not having a complete sex life.

[Wooster]

What I don’t get is, if your hotwife wants sexual exclusivity with a lover, why not go out and find your own side piece? Or at the very least, engage with a professional sex worker that’s willing to indulge in your fantasies or kinks.

My wife would be fine (more like psyched, honestly) if I started dating someone. I have blanket permission from her to do whatever I want sexually.

Here’s the thing, though: I *am* doing what I want sexually. I have a very happy marriage, and it doesn’t include sex with my wife. The reason we got together in the first place was that she was the only woman I ever met who accepted me completely as I am and appreciated all of me, including my sexual weirdness. That’s a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

Please don’t feel sorry for me. This is the way I want it to be.

[Maddie_Hippychick]

Thanks, Wooster. It does make me feel a little better knowing that you’re happy with it. Even if I don’t understand it, I AM fascinated by it.

Does she share her sexuality with you in any way, like telling you all about it? Are there not times when you feel like you’re missing out?

[Cuck4Life]

My exwife openly screwed many of my friends and coworkers. My best friend was her primary sexual partner during our most of our marriage but she was not exclusive to him. The last few years of our marriage she had a relationship with a coworker and cut everyone else off. He was the only guy that she lied about and it caused alot of problems.

[CuckHusband11]

My exwife openly screwed many of my friends and coworkers. My best friend was her primary sexual partner during our most of our marriage but she was not exclusive to him. The last few years of our marriage she had a relationship with a coworker and cut everyone else off. He was the only guy that she lied about and it caused alot of problems.

How did you deal with her lying to you and why did she lie if you are a cuckold and she was ok to sleep with other men?

[Cuck4Life]

We had always been open about our sexual relationship and I believe that being honest and open and is why it worked for us. I always knew where she was and who she was with. Once she hooked up with this guy that all stopped, she began coming home at odd hours and lying about where she had been. She also became distant with best friend James had always been her primary sex partner. I found out later that he was freaked about about his wife finding out and had sworn her to secretly and she followed his request.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

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Certainly easier than the BAR exam... Am I right?

LMAO!

GAWD....pardon my language, but that was just the summer from hell.....

June and July of that year....six days a week, 8-10 hours a day in studying or prep courses.....the last ten days before the exam, I didn't take a single day off..at that point, the days are blending together. It is Tuesday? Or Sunday? Does it matter.

But, like most people, passed on my first try. Happy Camper!

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

My wife started to cuckold me few years ago . She prefers to have a long term lover not multiple lovers . With the first 3 lovers that she had years ago , I was allowed to have sex with her . Not frequently , but once a month or once every 3 weeks .

Few months ago , she found a new lover and he became her new long term bull . But since she started fucking him , things changed between us concerning sex .

She told me that she wants to be exclusive with this new lover . I'm now totally denied sex . I'm not allowed to fuck my wife . She doesn't allow me to touch her , lick her or even kiss her . Not only that , but she doesn't allow me to see her naked .
She spends the weekends with her new lover in his place , and sleeps over in his place sometimes during the regular week days .

I still share bed with her when we sleep , but I can't touch her or cuddle with her when we are in bed together .

So , is such behavior from my wife common in cuckold lifestyle ? I mean total sexual denial , and not allowing me to kiss her or touch her or even to see her naked . Are there other cuckoldresses who behave in the same way ? Or does my wife's behavior show that there is something wrong ?

Please let me know your opinions ...

NYC Cuckold,


Even though I'm not even in this lifestyle, I look at it this way ---------->

Cuckoldry or no cuckoldry; there are certain things that take place in a marriage, that are not taking place in yours. You can't touch your wife. You can't cuddle with your wife. You can't kiss your wife.

IMHO, she has completely checked out of the marriage. The normal indicia of affection between two people that love each other- has completely left your marriage.

I think you have become nothing but a roommate,

It strikes me that this marriage is all-but-dead. It exists in name only.

I could be wrong, but my feeling is, is that if you served her with divorce papers tomorrow, she'd have no problem with it.

I think it's time for you to move on. She already has.

FWIW,

LWBC

[unclecuck]

After two decades of a dead bedroom, I can’t understand why anyone would agree to celibacy. It was such a soul destroying experience for me. I will NEVER, for ANYONE, EVER be celibate again.

What I don’t get is, if your hotwife wants sexual exclusivity with a lover, why not go out and find your own side piece? Or at the very least, engage with a professional sex worker that’s willing to indulge in your fantasies or kinks.

Without physical intimacy, how does your hotwife make you feel wanted, loved, cared for? Does she do anything to make you feel good about yourself, to make you feel you are important to her, to make you feel special?

I realize this is a cuckold forum. I hope I don’t offend anyone. Obviously, I bring my own baggage to the party. It just makes me sad hearing about these wonderful men being so dedicated to their life partner, and not having a complete sex life.

what he said

[Wooster]

Thanks, Wooster. It does make me feel a little better knowing that you’re happy with it. Even if I don’t understand it, I AM fascinated by it.

Does she share her sexuality with you in any way, like telling you all about it? Are there not times when you feel like you’re missing out?

She’s generally willing to talk about her sex life with me when I ask about it. Honestly, though, it’s not all that interesting. She’s super-vanilla and so is her boyfriend, so there’s not much to say about it after a while.

Over time, I’ve become much more interested in the romantic part of their relationship than the sexual part. She’s got a lot more to say about her feelings than she ever did about sex, and I really like hearing about them as a couple.