
Potentially the Start
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cuckoldtipp
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DDW I love your story. You and your wife are made fore each other and for this lifestyle. Ignore the nay sayers. I LOVE reading both of your posts. My wife is divorcing me for different reasons, she is a cold fish. I would Love to try this lifestyle. I hope to find someone who Loves Sex and is adventurous. I can't wait to hear more. Thank you both. I've ordered an electronic cock cage and want to explore this with someone new. It can be controlled remotely, locked unlocked. Time locked and 3 settings of stimulation
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Thank, I hope you will share with us once Your Wonderful Wife has shared this surprise with you.Deepdownwannabe wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 10:55 amI saw your list and am aware that all those things could happen. That has not left my mind.
This week has been quiet. She asked for another date with me Saturday night. Of course I would not say no to that, only she added "I have a surprise for you cuck". She said it with that smile that concerned me.
But actually, I sort of think that the only thing that would be really surprising by now was if She took you for a Saturday date and actually had NO surprise to tell you!!!
I love the style of your Superior Wife and hope She will continue to enjoy Herself and stretch your expectations in the process.
Sincere regards
elina
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Thank you so much for continuing to post.
I don’t make a lot of posts but yours have been amazingly hot to read so I thought I would take a few minutes to highlight some of the strengths I see in your new relationship with your amazing hotwife. I could be way off on all this and am sure I am wrong about some of it, if I am please forgive me. But like many people I have found myself waiting eagerly for each post and I wanted to post about why I found it so fascinating and exciting.
It seems to me that both of you are sexually excited by true power exchange. You had a chastity cage before she became a hotwife, so you have likely brought up dominance and submission before. I could be wrong but maybe it stopped, at least in part, because it felt like a game, and your wife did not get anywhere near as much from it as she does now.
Now though, it is real and your wife gets to enjoy being a switch. Submitting to her boyfriend and dominating you. I am guessing the sexual pleasure she gets from things like the lust filled gazes of other men and the frequent and amazing sex with her boyfriend is amplified by the sexual pleasure that comes from denying and teasing you. Looking back through the thread there were many times she brought up stopping her relationship. She didn’t in part because it is exciting, makes her happy, has given her amazing orgasms, and has allowed her to explore parts of herself she never could without him. But she also didn’t end it because time after time you chose to submit and asked her to do what SHE wanted.
It seems like she has taken that to heart and the more she has dominated and denied you, the deeper your sexual submission to her has grown. I am sure you had fantasies about what having a hotwife might be like. But if she had done exactly what you wanted her to, then the power elements would be missing and it would have felt like a game or fake to you two. By taking things further and making you uncomfortable over and over, she has made it real and is giving you what you kept asking for when given the choice, true sexual submission to an amazing cuckoldress.
No doubt the nights alone and the constant waiting for her next surprise or to hear details about her latest adventure are sometimes hard. But that is the price for both of you to experience this constant roller coaster of sexual excitement and intensity. Not for you are lives filled only with humdrum and talking about chores, Netflix, and social media (though you might be doing more chores).
You don’t talk about it in your posts (and that’s okay) but I imagine your days are filled with constant horniness, nervous excitement, and squirming in sexual submission, especially as she keeps you in chastity longer. There might be moments of angst I would guess, but if you didn’t have occasional regrets, it would not be a real power exchange and it would not turn you on as much. With her boyfriend, your wife gets to feel romantic attention, more orgasmic pleasure than she thought possible, and the joy of a transformative life. With you, she gets love and stability as well as new pleasures like feeling worshipped and powerful and excited as she gives you true sexual submission. And of course, her boyfriend gets to feel powerful as he lightly dominates her, helps in her domination of you, and enjoys the fabulous sex created by the dynamic between you three.
It's a pretty amazing and very hot situation and thank you for sharing it with us. Again, I am sure I am wrong about some of this because I only see a tiny portion of your relationship. And please if any of this somehow seems critical, I am very sorry, definitely not at all my intention. This whole post might just be all be me imagining what it would be like. But sincerely this is how I think about the journey you two soulmates are on right now and why I am so glad you have continued to post.
I don’t make a lot of posts but yours have been amazingly hot to read so I thought I would take a few minutes to highlight some of the strengths I see in your new relationship with your amazing hotwife. I could be way off on all this and am sure I am wrong about some of it, if I am please forgive me. But like many people I have found myself waiting eagerly for each post and I wanted to post about why I found it so fascinating and exciting.
It seems to me that both of you are sexually excited by true power exchange. You had a chastity cage before she became a hotwife, so you have likely brought up dominance and submission before. I could be wrong but maybe it stopped, at least in part, because it felt like a game, and your wife did not get anywhere near as much from it as she does now.
Now though, it is real and your wife gets to enjoy being a switch. Submitting to her boyfriend and dominating you. I am guessing the sexual pleasure she gets from things like the lust filled gazes of other men and the frequent and amazing sex with her boyfriend is amplified by the sexual pleasure that comes from denying and teasing you. Looking back through the thread there were many times she brought up stopping her relationship. She didn’t in part because it is exciting, makes her happy, has given her amazing orgasms, and has allowed her to explore parts of herself she never could without him. But she also didn’t end it because time after time you chose to submit and asked her to do what SHE wanted.
It seems like she has taken that to heart and the more she has dominated and denied you, the deeper your sexual submission to her has grown. I am sure you had fantasies about what having a hotwife might be like. But if she had done exactly what you wanted her to, then the power elements would be missing and it would have felt like a game or fake to you two. By taking things further and making you uncomfortable over and over, she has made it real and is giving you what you kept asking for when given the choice, true sexual submission to an amazing cuckoldress.
No doubt the nights alone and the constant waiting for her next surprise or to hear details about her latest adventure are sometimes hard. But that is the price for both of you to experience this constant roller coaster of sexual excitement and intensity. Not for you are lives filled only with humdrum and talking about chores, Netflix, and social media (though you might be doing more chores).
You don’t talk about it in your posts (and that’s okay) but I imagine your days are filled with constant horniness, nervous excitement, and squirming in sexual submission, especially as she keeps you in chastity longer. There might be moments of angst I would guess, but if you didn’t have occasional regrets, it would not be a real power exchange and it would not turn you on as much. With her boyfriend, your wife gets to feel romantic attention, more orgasmic pleasure than she thought possible, and the joy of a transformative life. With you, she gets love and stability as well as new pleasures like feeling worshipped and powerful and excited as she gives you true sexual submission. And of course, her boyfriend gets to feel powerful as he lightly dominates her, helps in her domination of you, and enjoys the fabulous sex created by the dynamic between you three.
It's a pretty amazing and very hot situation and thank you for sharing it with us. Again, I am sure I am wrong about some of this because I only see a tiny portion of your relationship. And please if any of this somehow seems critical, I am very sorry, definitely not at all my intention. This whole post might just be all be me imagining what it would be like. But sincerely this is how I think about the journey you two soulmates are on right now and why I am so glad you have continued to post.
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Deepdownwannabe
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While I can't fully define what this actually is, that may be the best summation of it right there.
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I agree with SusAno's post, but I won't quote it, takes up too much space on the pages. It is very concise and detailed and a very good analysis of your situation from an outside view.
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I don’t want to be accused of trolling b/c I don’t think I am. I have three guesses for the surprise:Deepdownwannabe wrote: ↑Thu Mar 14, 2024 10:55 amI saw your list and am aware that all those things could happen. That has not left my mind.
This week has been quiet. She asked for another date with me Saturday night. Of course I would not say no to that, only she added "I have a surprise for you cuck". She said it with that smile that concerned me.
1) a change in his chastity status, either longer or with a more restrictive chastity cage. Maybe a flat cage?,
2) a change in her living status with him as she decides to live with her boyfriend on a designated days or day each week,
3) or an extended European vacation over the summer, maybe even with a group of other couples,or
4) she will be attending a sex club or swinger party with her boyfriend and intends to “see how it goes” in terms of partaking in activities with other people.
OK,I’m know. That was 4, but that last one popped into my head as I was typing the other three.
Can’t wait to hear how this weekend goes.
Good luck!!
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I definitely would not consider that trolling at all. In fact, it is suggestions like those that fit the true meaning of what this forum she be about. I'll even add on to those suggestions:
1. I think that will happen eventually. Longer periods for sure.
2. That would be upping the ante a fair bit. Living with him would definitely add more of a relationship status to this, but I think would be a little surprising as she hasn't even offered her true inner feelings for him yet.
3. Not sure it would have to be a European trip but yes an extended trip would definitely add some angst to cuck's mindset.
4. That is definitely a possibility, if the bf is the fellow we think he is, I am sure he plans to introduce her at some point to this side of the hotwife/cuckoldress side of things.
Lots of options, we will see.
1. I think that will happen eventually. Longer periods for sure.
2. That would be upping the ante a fair bit. Living with him would definitely add more of a relationship status to this, but I think would be a little surprising as she hasn't even offered her true inner feelings for him yet.
3. Not sure it would have to be a European trip but yes an extended trip would definitely add some angst to cuck's mindset.
4. That is definitely a possibility, if the bf is the fellow we think he is, I am sure he plans to introduce her at some point to this side of the hotwife/cuckoldress side of things.
Lots of options, we will see.
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Personally I think you guys are off the mark a little bit. From the way DDWHW has been playing this "giving DDW a true cuckold experience," and considering her last escalation was to make him watch, I believe it's more likely the escalation will be something more like making him clean up her creampies.
I believe she wants to involve him more, not less. So while I don't doubt that some of those suggestions may happen in the future, I think it's still far too early yet.
I believe she wants to involve him more, not less. So while I don't doubt that some of those suggestions may happen in the future, I think it's still far too early yet.
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Deepdownwannabe
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And last night's surprise?
The routine for getting ready for her dinner date with me did not change. I watched her get ready, her key hanging off a necklace, highly visible. She looked gorgeous. She always looks gorgeous these days. Another nice restaurant that she has been to with him. And once the drinks came the surprise followed. "He is going on a few-day business trip next week. He asked me to go with him. I accepted. A nice resort in the desert." That shot through me. "He said the only thing I have to do is look nice, relax, enjoy myself and be his girlfriend". The rest of dinner all I could think of was them away. "It certainly sounds like a cuck thing to do doesn't it?"
We got home and she unlocked me. Her hand made me cum quickly, over her breasts. Then I fell asleep in her arms.
The routine for getting ready for her dinner date with me did not change. I watched her get ready, her key hanging off a necklace, highly visible. She looked gorgeous. She always looks gorgeous these days. Another nice restaurant that she has been to with him. And once the drinks came the surprise followed. "He is going on a few-day business trip next week. He asked me to go with him. I accepted. A nice resort in the desert." That shot through me. "He said the only thing I have to do is look nice, relax, enjoy myself and be his girlfriend". The rest of dinner all I could think of was them away. "It certainly sounds like a cuck thing to do doesn't it?"
We got home and she unlocked me. Her hand made me cum quickly, over her breasts. Then I fell asleep in her arms.
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Wow, I think you will love this. My wife and I found that when she traveled with her lover (her boss - a brief but hot year for us) it was extremely sexy for all three of us. Just like yourself, it shot a bolt of horniness through me and it was hard to focus on anything else. They bonded (in many ways) on that first five day trip.
Deepdownwannabe wrote: ↑Sun Mar 17, 2024 6:03 amAnd last night's surprise?
"He is going on a few-day business trip next week. He asked me to go with him. I accepted. A nice resort in the desert." That shot through me. "He said the only thing I have to do is look nice, relax, enjoy myself and be his girlfriend". The rest of dinner all I could think of was them away. "It certainly sounds like a cuck thing to do doesn't it?"
We got home and she unlocked me. Her hand made me cum quickly, over her breasts. Then I fell asleep in her arms.
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venus-can99
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Thanks for the update DDW. Looking forward to reading about HW's desert adventures with her boyfriend and your feelings. Love the way she is moving forward in your FLR marriage while enjoying her new found sexuality. Thanks for being such a supportive husband in her explorations and sharing the experiences in this thread.
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Well that wasn't the big bomb you expected and angst over, more of a little firecracker. Another trip was expected at some point and will be again with summer approaching all in all steady as we go.
The big bomb would of been. "Well we talked it over (her and the bf) and we think it best on a sex standpoint that i live with him for a month or until our anniversary/ your birthday ect and just visit you for midweek meetings or bring my laundry over for you to do then maybe a sleep over on Sunday night with you to tease you maybe a HJ and cleanup check your chastity cage and no PIV sex and leave for work from our house to return to him."
The big bomb would of been. "Well we talked it over (her and the bf) and we think it best on a sex standpoint that i live with him for a month or until our anniversary/ your birthday ect and just visit you for midweek meetings or bring my laundry over for you to do then maybe a sleep over on Sunday night with you to tease you maybe a HJ and cleanup check your chastity cage and no PIV sex and leave for work from our house to return to him."
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When is this trip?
Could she be part of business, or at least looking the part of her boyfriend’s trophy girlfriend and eye candy during casual business dinners?
Could she be part of business, or at least looking the part of her boyfriend’s trophy girlfriend and eye candy during casual business dinners?
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DDW and DDWHW,
I tip my hat to you both !
DDWHW you are a "World Class Cuckoldress" and DDW your fortitude is beyond the best of husbands. I would have tapped-out following the chair tying and ball gag! More power to you both!
I tip my hat to you both !
DDWHW you are a "World Class Cuckoldress" and DDW your fortitude is beyond the best of husbands. I would have tapped-out following the chair tying and ball gag! More power to you both!
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thanks for the update! super hot as always
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Yesterday after a flurry of texts, she said they are going to stay one extra day, taking the last day as a day off. "You don't mind do you?" I couldn't say anything. That led to a busy night of her packing, asking me not to come to the room while she was doing that.
She finished the night by putting her key in the safe, so it was right in front of me. "How long cuck?" I didn't answer so she typed in an even 100 hrs, until she got back. "Oh, can you drop me at the airport tomorrow?" She saw the look of surprise. For that she gave me a deep hug and whispered her love. I took her to the drop-off and just like that she left the car for the trip. A big hug and kiss came with it. And she was gone only to shoot me a text a few hours later when they arrived.
She finished the night by putting her key in the safe, so it was right in front of me. "How long cuck?" I didn't answer so she typed in an even 100 hrs, until she got back. "Oh, can you drop me at the airport tomorrow?" She saw the look of surprise. For that she gave me a deep hug and whispered her love. I took her to the drop-off and just like that she left the car for the trip. A big hug and kiss came with it. And she was gone only to shoot me a text a few hours later when they arrived.
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Thank you for the update, DDW, and I hope you enjoy the next 100 hours in your own way 
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The desert? Awesome. I just checked Phoenix and it is nearly 80F every day this week, so if it is there they are going, well then they have beautiful weather to do whatever couples there could do. Just a prediction but I bet something from my list happens.
Damn she is good. I've said it before but hats off to DDWHW. I almost feel as if I'd let her cage me too....
Damn she is good. I've said it before but hats off to DDWHW. I almost feel as if I'd let her cage me too....
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Glad your happy with your new life 🫵

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Looking
forward to the next 100 hours where DDWHW enjoys her just desserts in the desert with her bf. Thanks for keeping us updated on your wild ride…
forward to the next 100 hours where DDWHW enjoys her just desserts in the desert with her bf. Thanks for keeping us updated on your wild ride…Something new viewtopic.php?f=13&t=75158
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You know the saying;
Happy Wife, happy life
So I guess DDW should be extra happy now then.
And of course, DDWHW should then be back for Saturday and maybe invite DDW for another dinner where there might be new information on how the BF is about to make DDWHW even happier.....
Sounds like you are living a very interesting life
Sincerely
elina
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Any contact from the wife, listen on phone to them, pics, vids, sexting? Or you get Ron popeil'd set it and forget it.
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DDW is using his inside the egg egg scrambler for his dinner omelet... wifey is living her best life after she hugs DDW right before she heads out to make new memory's in our; One take only life... and great life you gave her!
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Comms have been very few and not detailed at all. Until earlier today when she said she was saving it all for when she got home. But there were numerous happy emojis on that note.