Girlfriend started her hotwife journey, now she can't stop

[tankholder]

We are a couple, together for about 10 years now. Just last year I started to talk about cuckolding with her. At first she was very shy about it, I didn't want to push it too hard, then i figured out I kind of did.

After small fight and cooldown, she started to meet other guys. At first, online, then later in person (at nudist beaches mostly). Couple of times I was present, mostly in hotels on vacations, now lately, she is doing it without me. I don't even know if she tells me everything.

The thing is, I wanted this. I still want this, but it's like a part of me that didn't realize this is the new normal. She told me that she won't back down ever and i was fine with that. There is a lot more going on, but let's leave it here, for this topic.

What do you think? Is this a dream? Is this going to backfire somehow?

[wannabecUKold]

What a lovely position to have arrived at. So nice to have a girl who loves plenty of sex.
Nudist beaches were a good place to start. They make it clear that the deal is sex, not relationship.
I assume that she is just meeting numerous fuck-buddies, perhaps on an anonymous basis. She has got the appetite now and, for her, third party sex now has to be a continuing feature of her sex life. It is good that she has involved you watching at times, which she fels comfortable with.

As you comment, there is a lot more going on, so we cannot comment whether this is all going to backfire. But it won't necessarily: she is hungry for sex and is getting it. Then she comes back home to you. But ideally she would tell you about all the events she has.
The real concern would be if she found herself getting into a relationship impacting on your relationship with her. Tell us more about her and you and what she does. And how you react to it.

[Cdncuck]

Nobody has a crystal ball. There's no way to know what direction this may take. The thing is you have to communicate clearly and often. That isn't just talking to her about the sex. You need to discuss your feelings about each other and the relationship and where each of you would like to see it go. You said in your post you didn't want to push...and then you did. In the future, try to avoid pushing and let her decide what she wants to do. It's difficult but if you put yourself in the position of screen director rather than caring partner it likely won't go well.

[Coolcalm]

Already backfired…

We are a couple, together for about 10 years now. Just last year I started to talk about cuckolding with her. At first she was very shy about it, I didn't want to push it too hard, then i figured out I kind of did.

After small fight and cooldown, she started to meet other guys. At first, online, then later in person (at nudist beaches mostly). Couple of times I was present, mostly in hotels on vacations, now lately, she is doing it without me. I don't even know if she tells me everything.

The thing is, I wanted this. I still want this, but it's like a part of me that didn't realize this is the new normal. She told me that she won't back down ever and i was fine with that. There is a lot more going on, but let's leave it here, for this topic.

What do you think? Is this a dream? Is this going to backfire somehow?

[Shiphead]

It sounds like you didn't realize the type of FLR or hotwife relationship you had envisioned and fantasized about.
It seems that you two had not talked clearly about your expectations and boundries.
It's always interesting to me that a hotwife, in whatever situation, will so quickly throw away her husband, marriage and relationship over sex. I guess if things weren't communicated completely, that this is what happens.
I guess now she just expects you to financial support her and her BF or FB's for the rest of his life. Sorry to say it but I think you got what you asked for but didn't want. You can only try to fix this by sitting down with your wife and having a heart to heart conversation. Find out if there is any common ground in this new relationship dynamic. Then find out what role she will have for you in her life going forward. Then you can decide what you need to do.

[ucaneffher]

That's one risk we take when we ask our women to start seeing other men. In our head we envision it one way but it can be interpreted another, especially if we didn't set rules and boundaries from the start. Even when such measures are taken, things can go wrong.

I did a lot of pushing myself when I was 16 and trying to get my GF to sleep around in high school. Clearly still immature and just a horny teenager. Finally at 19 she went for it and it was fine and dandy until she was addicted And I could no longer change my mind about her sleeping around. Not that I wanted her to but I knew that at this point there was no stopping her. I tested it and confirmed that "but you wanted this and now I don't want to stop".

The lifestyle is about the couple and compromising for each other. Meet halfway. Try yo sit down and let her know that she can have her freedom but you'd like to be included as well whether watching, pictures, videos, stories, or simply the truth.

One more thing, make sure she isn't doing it for the wrong reasons. The fight thing is a bit of a red flag and tells us she is after other men simply because you pissed her off. In her mind she could be retaliating.

[tankholder]

The thing is, there is a lot of truth in everything that all of you wrote, but i think it's more complicated. I don't mind it. I am questioning the situation, but I very much love it currently. We are even talking further, things like regular boyfriend, going away for couple of days on her own and with a boyfriend... just a while back, I also met a guy and exchange phone numbers in order to stay in touch, so that he could fuck her.

Basically, everything that has happened combined, made my head full of different emotions and feelings. I do strongly believe that she loves me. I do also believe, that it is for the right reasons - being angry is also acceptable reason for me. We had a talk initially, set some rules, but those rules mainly involved her freedom and my worshipping of her and her decisions.

As confused as I may sound, I just wanted to ask if any of you were in the similar ppsition and how it went for you?

[elina]

Dear Tankholder

Nobody can predict if this is going to backfire or not.
Also, I do think that what you do now will have a very strong impact on whether it will.

Dear are lots of people with experience to offer you their perspectives on this site if you will pleas post more in detail, background, how is your sexlife with your Wife? Girlfriend?. Obviously you are going to nude beaches so you are not the most conservative couple i guess.

First suggestion,
Show your Girl that you love Her,
Tell Her that She can safely confide anything in you.
Tell you that you know you were the one who suggested this and now your truly want to be in this together with Her.

If you can convince your Girl that you have something to offer her, e.g. longterm love and support, She may very well want to stay with you and include you even if She happens to have figured out that She is getting more out of Sex with other males.

I think the safest way to make it backfire is to say nothing and leave Her to explore on Her own and for you to wonder if She is telling you.
But when She does tell you, it is important that you support and accept Her for what you wanted Her to be.

Please continue to post more.

Sincerely
elina

[tankholder]

Dear Tankholder

Nobody can predict if this is going to backfire or not.
Also, I do think that what you do now will have a very strong impact on whether it will.

Dear are lots of people with experience to offer you their perspectives on this site if you will pleas post more in detail, background, how is your sexlife with your Wife? Girlfriend?. Obviously you are going to nude beaches so you are not the most conservative couple i guess.

First suggestion,
Show your Girl that you love Her,
Tell Her that She can safely confide anything in you.
Tell you that you know you were the one who suggested this and now your truly want to be in this together with Her.

If you can convince your Girl that you have something to offer her, e.g. longterm love and support, She may very well want to stay with you and include you even if She happens to have figured out that She is getting more out of Sex with other males.

I think the safest way to make it backfire is to say nothing and leave Her to explore on Her own and for you to wonder if She is telling you.
But when She does tell you, it is important that you support and accept Her for what you wanted Her to be.

Please continue to post more.

Sincerely
elina

I do tell her those things. She tells me the same. There is no problem in communication. Maybe she advanced her game to test my emotions a little bit further. Yesterday for example, i was working late, send her a message that I will be late and she sent me a video of sucking one of her bull. She didn't tell me before, she just did it. I was home before she came, and I waited for her on the bed, with my mouth ready to lick her both holes and taste her bull's dick.

When I went to sleep later, I was thinking... probably this emotional play needs to be part of the game. This is how she is doing it. I cannot say I don't like it. I like it, very much, it just goes her way, not mine. I think that is the case. Me wanting a little FLR and not being fully prepared but liking it along the way.

[elina]

I do tell her those things. She tells me the same. There is no problem in communication. Maybe she advanced her game to test my emotions a little bit further. Yesterday for example, i was working late, send her a message that I will be late and she sent me a video of sucking one of her bull. She didn't tell me before, she just did it. I was home before she came, and I waited for her on the bed, with my mouth ready to lick her both holes and taste her bull's dick.

When I went to sleep later, I was thinking... probably this emotional play needs to be part of the game. This is how she is doing it. I cannot say I don't like it. I like it, very much, it just goes her way, not mine. I think that is the case. Me wanting a little FLR and not being fully prepared but liking it along the way.

Dear Tankholder

Thank you for this wonderful post.

It seems to me like you are handling this very well.

I also thinks it is highly encouraging that She just sent you this video out of the blue, it shows that She does enjoy involving you, but that She will do it i HER way and when it suits Her. I would assume that your reaction to Her Video pleased Her. You demonstrate your complete acceptance and your desire to worship Her.

Maybe you are also stepping up your contributions to doing the chores around the house? Always fullfilling Her wishes immediately and with a smile. It is another way to demonstrate your commitment and acceptance to Her, and showing Her how useful you can be to Her.

I would love to hear more from you on how this is evolving.

Sincerely
elina

[tankholder]

She went on her own again. Apparently she met a guy online, then after drinks went to his place. I was at work, texting her that i would be home late. She texted back an image of her pussy, just stating, that she doesn't mind, and that she will be late also.

Couple of minutes later, she sent me a video of sucking a big cock.

I was home before she came back, waiting for her pn our bed. Without any small talk, she came into bedroom and stuffed my face with her ass and pussy.

Yep, i like it. My insecurities are fading away. This is the new normal for me.

[Wantsomefunto]

Great posts! Seems like you are adapting well. A few things seem obvious, she likes big cock, fucking bare and you like cleaning her. Cleaning her after can be a rewarding way to reclaim her. Does she still let you fuck her? Have you been able to feel her amazing pussy after she has been filled? Are you going to share any pics of her?

[Handsome63]

This is an interesting thread. I wish there were more depth. All I can say is that when I was young, I couldn't have handled this. With maturity and the experience gleaned over the years, I believe I could do a much better job of enjoying a relationship like this. I would dip my toe by swinging and nude beaches etc. but here's the thing; once that ship leaves the dock, there's no going back. It is so easy for a man to lose all semblance of control of the relationship and think "what the fuck did I do?"

[Handsome63]

This is an interesting thread. I wish there were more depth. All I can say is that when I was young, I couldn't have handled this. With maturity and the experience gleaned over the years, I believe I could do a much better job of enjoying a relationship like this. I would dip my toe by swinging and nude beaches etc. but here's the thing; once that ship leaves the dock, there's no going back. It is so easy for a man to lose all semblance of control of the relationship and think "what the fuck did I do?"

[tankholder]

Great posts! Seems like you are adapting well. A few things seem obvious, she likes big cock, fucking bare and you like cleaning her. Cleaning her after can be a rewarding way to reclaim her. Does she still let you fuck her? Have you been able to feel her amazing pussy after she has been filled? Are you going to share any pics of her?

Yes, she lets me fuck ger, but far less than before. Right after she has been with her bulls, i feel her less.

[Wantsomefunto]

Reinforce that you like being part of what she is doing by telling her you enjoy the pics and vids she sends you and they make you hard. Tell her how much you like reclaiming her with oral after she has been filled and that her pussy feels amazing when she lets you fuck her. See what she says or does after that.

[Teensy1]

You’re quite right. This is your new normal. Cuckoldry is always about the wifey and what she wants. We hubbies may be jealous or angry or humiliated but there is no holding our wifeys back once they decide that they enjoy it. Most of us wanted our brides to fuck other men. Can we blame them when they take us up on it?

[submissivedanny]

My first wife cuckolded me and she slept around with many guys until she met a guy she really liked. I was good with it and we loved each other until she got pregnant. She still wanted to stay married but I convinced her it would be best for the child if her and the father got married and raised their child as a family.

My second wife also cuckolds me but I don't have to worry about her getting pregnant. It has worked out well for us.

[ucaneffher]

My first wife cuckolded me and she slept around with many guys until she met a guy she really liked. I was good with it and we loved each other until she got pregnant. She still wanted to stay married but I convinced her it would be best for the child if her and the father got married and raised their child as a family.

Sounds just like my story... My gf slept with a bunch of guys and basically kept most of them on rotation as regulars so she had a variety of men every week. Eventually she began hanging out with one of them more and more and not just sex. She confessed to wanting more than just sex and friendship and I gave her my blessing to date him more seriously.

In a matter of weeks I found myself fully cut off from penetrating her, a few months after that she told me that she had gotten off birth control shortly after she cut me off sex, and It was roughly a matter of a year into her relationship with him when she told me during pillow talk that she really wanted to have a baby girl with him and that she was not making him pull out anymore. We dated for another year after that until we broke up for both lifestyle related and non lifestyle related matters.

That last year was one crazy rollercoaster of missed periods and me saying to myself "well, this is it. He finally got my girl pregnant"

I think that the only way I would be okay with another man getting my gf or wife pregnant is if we lived together in a poly-cuck arrangement where he is her main partner but I can obviously foresee issues with that in the long-term.

[PANTIES]

My wife is pregnant by her lover, this was a planned pregnancy by them. She’s due mid August. She’s moving in with him after the 4th of July so he can take her to he hospital when she’s ready to give birth. He’s also going to sign the birth certificate .

sissy pauline

[stevens4fun]

Old guy here. With experience. :-) There's all kinds of directions your scenario can take, and there's some factors you can't control or influence. You have to live with these uncertainties. For some, that's probably a part of what attracts them to this lifestyle. My wife and I didn't have the "anger" factor in play - to us, that's a wildcard that carries more risk to our relationship than her having sex with other men and reducing her sex with me.

If you can, take a step back and try to envision the intermediate and long-term scenarios that may develop and how both of you might deal with them. Putting aside pregnancy, think about how you'll feel at work, or sitting home alone as your wife is enjoying her BFs in hotels, or even in your marital bed. What will you do when you want to spend time with your wife (example, a vacation or having dinner out) and she won't because she's invited a guy to your home to spend the night (or a few days) with her. When my wife and I starting bringing other men into our relationship (it was for me as much as it was for her) I learned that I might not be ready for what was happening while my wife was way more realistic and mature about what was happening and what her needs were. We had to have some serious talks about what we wanted and in a way my wife became my coach as I matured into the relationship.

After small fight and cooldown, she started to meet other guys. At first, online, then later in person (at nudist beaches mostly). Couple of times I was present, mostly in hotels on vacations, now lately, she is doing it without me. I don't even know if she tells me everything.

The thing is, I wanted this. I still want this, but it's like a part of me that didn't realize this is the new normal. She told me that she won't back down ever and i was fine with that. There is a lot more going on, but let's leave it here, for this topic.

What do you think? Is this a dream? Is this going to backfire somehow?

[ucaneffher]

Old guy here. With experience. :-) There's all kinds of directions your scenario can take, and there's some factors you can't control or influence. You have to live with these uncertainties. For some, that's probably a part of what attracts them to this lifestyle. My wife and I didn't have the "anger" factor in play - to us, that's a wildcard that carries more risk to our relationship than her having sex with other men and reducing her sex with me.

If you can, take a step back and try to envision the intermediate and long-term scenarios that may develop and how both of you might deal with them. Putting aside pregnancy, think about how you'll feel at work, or sitting home alone as your wife is enjoying her BFs in hotels, or even in your marital bed. What will you do when you want to spend time with your wife (example, a vacation or having dinner out) and she won't because she's invited a guy to your home to spend the night (or a few days) with her. When my wife and I starting bringing other men into our relationship (it was for me as much as it was for her) I learned that I might not be ready for what was happening while my wife was way more realistic and mature about what was happening and what her needs were. We had to have some serious talks about what we wanted and in a way my wife became my coach as I matured into the relationship.

After small fight and cooldown, she started to meet other guys. At first, online, then later in person (at nudist beaches mostly). Couple of times I was present, mostly in hotels on vacations, now lately, she is doing it without me. I don't even know if she tells me everything.

The thing is, I wanted this. I still want this, but it's like a part of me that didn't realize this is the new normal. She told me that she won't back down ever and i was fine with that. There is a lot more going on, but let's leave it here, for this topic.

What do you think? Is this a dream? Is this going to backfire somehow?

That's great advice. This is actually advice that I could have used when I was 15 years old and trying to convince my high school girlfriend to sleep around with the football players or other guys in school. When she finally started sleeping around at 19, I still had not given it this level of thought because all I wanted was to get off to the thought of her being promiscuous.

However, once reality hit and found myself alone on Friday Saturday and Sunday because my girlfriend was spending the night on Friday to Saturday with one guy and then spending the night with another guy Saturday to Sunday. This was a whole different thing that what I thought it would be.

I did not realize that her dating and sleeping around with other men as if she were single would take time for. Out relationship and our time because I was too focused on her just doing it.

As a cuckold, a man needs to be aware that his woman will spend a lot of time with other men, that more often than not we will not be her sexual priority, and that means we spend more time away from our women as well as likely take on additional work around the house to compensate for her absence.

Speaking for myself, I am wired to be a cuckold so I can say that I wouldn't have it any other way if it meant that I get to be a cuckold.

[Long Lurker 34]

Old guy here. With experience. :-) There's all kinds of directions your scenario can take, and there's some factors you can't control or influence. You have to live with these uncertainties. For some, that's probably a part of what attracts them to this lifestyle. My wife and I didn't have the "anger" factor in play - to us, that's a wildcard that carries more risk to our relationship than her having sex with other men and reducing her sex with me.

If you can, take a step back and try to envision the intermediate and long-term scenarios that may develop and how both of you might deal with them. Putting aside pregnancy, think about how you'll feel at work, or sitting home alone as your wife is enjoying her BFs in hotels, or even in your marital bed. What will you do when you want to spend time with your wife (example, a vacation or having dinner out) and she won't because she's invited a guy to your home to spend the night (or a few days) with her. When my wife and I starting bringing other men into our relationship (it was for me as much as it was for her) I learned that I might not be ready for what was happening while my wife was way more realistic and mature about what was happening and what her needs were. We had to have some serious talks about what we wanted and in a way my wife became my coach as I matured into the relationship.

After small fight and cooldown, she started to meet other guys. At first, online, then later in person (at nudist beaches mostly). Couple of times I was present, mostly in hotels on vacations, now lately, she is doing it without me. I don't even know if she tells me everything.

The thing is, I wanted this. I still want this, but it's like a part of me that didn't realize this is the new normal. She told me that she won't back down ever and i was fine with that. There is a lot more going on, but let's leave it here, for this topic.

What do you think? Is this a dream? Is this going to backfire somehow?

That's great advice. This is actually advice that I could have used when I was 15 years old and trying to convince my high school girlfriend to sleep around with the football players or other guys in school. When she finally started sleeping around at 19, I still had not given it this level of thought because all I wanted was to get off to the thought of her being promiscuous.

However, once reality hit and found myself alone on Friday Saturday and Sunday because my girlfriend was spending the night on Friday to Saturday with one guy and then spending the night with another guy Saturday to Sunday. This was a whole different thing that what I thought it would be.

I did not realize that her dating and sleeping around with other men as if she were single would take time for. Out relationship and our time because I was too focused on her just doing it.

As a cuckold, a man needs to be aware that his woman will spend a lot of time with other men, that more often than not we will not be her sexual priority, and that means we spend more time away from our women as well as likely take on additional work around the house to compensate for her absence.

Speaking for myself, I am wired to be a cuckold so I can say that I wouldn't have it any other way if it meant that I get to be a cuckold.

UC - So being a Cuck is much like being retired or winning a lottery, one has to find things to do to fill your 'free' time.
- I have lots to do, but those who still need some recommendations, any suggestions? Hobbies are good too.

[ucaneffher]

Old guy here. With experience. :-) There's all kinds of directions your scenario can take, and there's some factors you can't control or influence. You have to live with these uncertainties. For some, that's probably a part of what attracts them to this lifestyle. My wife and I didn't have the "anger" factor in play - to us, that's a wildcard that carries more risk to our relationship than her having sex with other men and reducing her sex with me.

If you can, take a step back and try to envision the intermediate and long-term scenarios that may develop and how both of you might deal with them. Putting aside pregnancy, think about how you'll feel at work, or sitting home alone as your wife is enjoying her BFs in hotels, or even in your marital bed. What will you do when you want to spend time with your wife (example, a vacation or having dinner out) and she won't because she's invited a guy to your home to spend the night (or a few days) with her. When my wife and I starting bringing other men into our relationship (it was for me as much as it was for her) I learned that I might not be ready for what was happening while my wife was way more realistic and mature about what was happening and what her needs were. We had to have some serious talks about what we wanted and in a way my wife became my coach as I matured into the relationship.

After small fight and cooldown, she started to meet other guys. At first, online, then later in person (at nudist beaches mostly). Couple of times I was present, mostly in hotels on vacations, now lately, she is doing it without me. I don't even know if she tells me everything.

The thing is, I wanted this. I still want this, but it's like a part of me that didn't realize this is the new normal. She told me that she won't back down ever and i was fine with that. There is a lot more going on, but let's leave it here, for this topic.

What do you think? Is this a dream? Is this going to backfire somehow?

That's great advice. This is actually advice that I could have used when I was 15 years old and trying to convince my high school girlfriend to sleep around with the football players or other guys in school. When she finally started sleeping around at 19, I still had not given it this level of thought because all I wanted was to get off to the thought of her being promiscuous.

However, once reality hit and found myself alone on Friday Saturday and Sunday because my girlfriend was spending the night on Friday to Saturday with one guy and then spending the night with another guy Saturday to Sunday. This was a whole different thing that what I thought it would be.

I did not realize that her dating and sleeping around with other men as if she were single would take time for. Out relationship and our time because I was too focused on her just doing it.

As a cuckold, a man needs to be aware that his woman will spend a lot of time with other men, that more often than not we will not be her sexual priority, and that means we spend more time away from our women as well as likely take on additional work around the house to compensate for her absence.

Speaking for myself, I am wired to be a cuckold so I can say that I wouldn't have it any other way if it meant that I get to be a cuckold.

UC - So being a Cuck is much like being retired or winning a lottery, one has to find things to do to fill your 'free' time.
- I have lots to do, but those who still need some recommendations, any suggestions? Hobbies are good too.

Never looked at it that way but now that you mention it, you are absolutely right! Especially when both you and the hot wife/hot GF have the same mentality about the lifestyle.

In my case, Ialways encouraged her to go out and not hold back at all. In the beginning she would hold back because she felt bad leaving me alone but she would admit to being seriously horny and craving alone time with another man. One night during pillow talk I laid it out for her and gave her full power to make decisions to go out whenever she wants, as s frequent as she want, for as long as she wants, with whomever she wants, without having to ask and without prior notice as long as she tells me within a reasonable amount of time after the fact I also told her not to worry about me, if she was horny she was horny and she should be taking care of it with the man of her choice.

In the beginning she felt really guilty constantly wanting to be with other men but once I gave her the green light, she practically spent more time with other men than she did with me and as a cuckold I was loving it. That's when my free time actually began as prior to that, we spent a lot more time together despite her sleeping around. With all the free time, I was working on growing my client base, catching up with friend who I had sort of neglected once I started dating my GF, and spent tons of time at the gym.

I remember those Saturday nights at 1 am pushing those heavy weights at the gym and having nothing in my mind other than imagining my girlfriend wearing that sexy lingerie and heels that she was packing earlier before heading out to the club with another man. After a sexy night of dancing and drinks she always spent the night. I guess I didn't mind being alone as long as I knew my GF was in some guys apartment modeling her lingerie for him and getting the brains fucked out of her.

[stevens4fun]

Ha ha - no way I could think ahead at age 15. But I clearly remember when another girlfriend (I was then 19) was with another guy, I was jealous, and I had an erection that no amount of jacking off would satisfy. Then later, when my wife was traveling with her boss (to Canada for a trade show) and checked into a hotel as HIS wife, I found myself again with an erection, but jacking off gave some temporary relief. Then in the refractory period I found myself thinking "Now what the hell am I going to do." The fact was, my wife was doing everything we both wanted and wasn't home all that much for me to enjoy between work, family and other obligations. But when we did have sex, she was taking care of me out of concern that I be taken care of and relieved more than out of a need to have sex with me. The pace began to wear on her, though. She didn't want to give him up, but we switched to a strategy of hosting him in our home and things improved greatly for all of us. It took a while as he wanted to be sure he could keep his activities with my wife unknown to others.

Old guy here. With experience. :-) There's all kinds of directions your scenario can take, and there's some factors you can't control or influence. You have to live with these uncertainties. For some, that's probably a part of what attracts them to this lifestyle. My wife and I didn't have the "anger" factor in play - to us, that's a wildcard that carries more risk to our relationship than her having sex with other men and reducing her sex with me.

Putting aside pregnancy, think about how you'll feel at work, or sitting home alone as your wife is enjoying her BFs in hotels, or even in your marital bed. What will you do when you want to spend time with your wife (example, a vacation or having dinner out) and she won't because she's invited a guy to your home to spend the night (or a few days) with her.

That's great advice. This is actually advice that I could have used when I was 15 years old and trying to convince my high school girlfriend to sleep around with the football players or other guys in school. When she finally started sleeping around at 19, I still had not given it this level of thought because all I wanted was to get off to the thought of her being promiscuous.

However, once reality hit and found myself alone on Friday Saturday and Sunday because my girlfriend was spending the night on Friday to Saturday with one guy and then spending the night with another guy Saturday to Sunday. This was a whole different thing that what I thought it would be.

I did not realize that her dating and sleeping around with other men as if she were single would take time for. Out relationship and our time because I was too focused on her just doing it.

As a cuckold, a man needs to be aware that his woman will spend a lot of time with other men, that more often than not we will not be her sexual priority, and that means we spend more time away from our women as well as likely take on additional work around the house to compensate for her absence.

Speaking for myself, I am wired to be a cuckold so I can say that I wouldn't have it any other way if it meant that I get to be a cuckold.

UC - So being a Cuck is much like being retired or winning a lottery, one has to find things to do to fill your 'free' time.
I also told her not to worry about me, if she was horny she was horny and she should be taking care of it with the man of her choice.

In the beginning she felt really guilty constantly wanting to be with other men but once I gave her the green light, she practically spent more time with other men than she did with me and as a cuckold I was loving it. That's when my free time actually began as prior to that, we spent a lot more time together despite her sleeping around. With all the free time, I was working on growing my client base, catching up with friend who I had sort of neglected once I started dating my GF, and spent tons of time at the gym.

I remember those Saturday nights at 1 am pushing those heavy weights at the gym and having nothing in my mind other than imagining my girlfriend wearing that sexy lingerie and heels that she was packing earlier before heading out to the club with another man. After a sexy night of dancing and drinks she always spent the night. I guess I didn't mind being alone as long as I knew my GF was in some guys apartment modeling her lingerie for him and getting the brains fucked out of her.