Sex Clubs? Question for a first timer

[jsawnlim]

Hello; wife and I are already actively in a cuckolding relationship, and I'd like to do something outside our comfort zone.

We're planning a trip to Las Vegas later, and I was curious if others here have had good/bad experiences at sex clubs (or adults only clubs, etc., I'm not even familiar with the vernacular honestly). Would you have any recommendations?

What does one even do there? I realize this might be a silly question, but as a cuck husband who only watches my wife with our bull, would it still be appropriate for us both to go? Or are there cuckold only clubs?

All your comments are much appreciated. Thanks!

[jw_kk]

The Vegas sex clubs are sketchy - The Red Rooster and Green Door are two of the better known. Mostly negatives about both. Everything else is going to be much sketchier, typically clip joints...

Rooster is "regular people," which includes both the good and bad sides of the distribution. Green Door is expensive, crowded, preppier, "pretty people," overpopulated, but you can definitely get your wife fucked there - last time we went it was easily 10:1 male:female.

You're better off hiring a male escort (sure thing), or just having your wife surf the target rich environments of the casinos. That's the best approach, because you can make several visits to the casino floor for fresh meat if your hotel suite's just upstairs.

[The Owl]

You and your wife can just go to a sex club and watch, not play. Or, she can play if she finds somebody with whom she wants to play. "No thank you" is generally respected at a sex club.

[zorro]

"No, thank you" is always the rule at a sex party. If not respected when uttered, bring security over to enforce the rule.

[knight4princess]

We've been to the Red Rooster. It wasn't all that impressive and it drew an older crowd. But nobody was crazy and we had a great time overall. Wife had two or three offers but she wasn't wantiing it from those who offered. We generally go to swing clubs for the visual entertainment and recreation, rather than a serious effort to find sex ourselves. We've been going to swing clubs for more than 20 years so lots of experiences all across the country.

[stonemtncouple]

Surprising that Las Veges isn’t such a sexual sin city.
Its not. The best sex club we’ve been to were the Trapeze Clubs, Hollywood Florida and Atlanta.
I hear good things about Colette's in Dallas and New Orleans but have only played in NOLA club.

[kinkydetroit]

Before answering I reviewed your previous posts and then re-read this one. At first I thought you were interested in going as a couple, but it sounds like you would like to go as a threesome. As a former swinger's club owner either is acceptable. I guess I would offer advice by asking what you wish to accomplish by going, i.e. find another guy or couple to play with your wife and her bull? Enjoy the humiliation aspect of being aware that at least 50% of the folks in attendance will recognize your status? Or perhaps just enjoy the erotic atmosphere of a sex club.

As someone mentioned Vegas may not be the spot to start out. We have never been to either of the places mentioned by a previous poster, but we too have not heard good things about either clubs them listed. Vegas tends to be very transactional.

I would suggest you visit a swinger's club/sex club in your geographic area. Many will have days that they admit singles if you goal is to find another guy to add to the mix. Most will have couple's only nights. That said do not be discouraged by the term. Contact the club owner and explain that you are a cuckold couple and you would like to come as a threesome. Some clubs will turn you down, but most will allow you to come with the understanding that you will be responsible for any bad behavior on the part of your bull. We regularly had threesomes come out to our events.

As StoneMtnCouple said, Florida seems to have the best clubs and the best being Trapeze. Another option are swinger hotels I believe there is one on the Palm Springs area and there are a couple in Florida.

[knight4princess]

I totally agree with kinkydetroit as well as his point of agreement with StoneMtnCouple. The only club better than Trapeze -- in Atlanta and Fort Lauderdale -- in our opinion was (past tense) Club Sesso in Portland, Oregon.

[stevens4fun]

My wife and I found JW-KK's approach to be a good one for Las Vegas and if budget isn't a problem - there's a variety of ways to play it. We never went to the clubs there, although we talked about it - we were concerned that we wouldn't have much control in that environment.

My wife found that by sitting down without me at a blackjack table (not the lowball $5 ones, but at least $10 - $20 minimums) and her showing a little cleavage and enthusiasm she'd be hit on after a short while and that would continue for the night. Sometimes women hit on her! Everyone is sizing everyone up at the tables in Vegas, especially late at night or early am. Who wants to go back to their room alone? Nobody. :-)))))

If the goal is for her to get laid, there's different ways for hubby to enjoy the fun. Rent adjoining rooms for example. That way your wife can take a lover up to "her room" and you can listen from your room next door. If the rooms have adjoining doors, that's all the better. After her lover leaves, you can simply open the door between the rooms and enjoy all the benefits of a wife who has just enjoyed a lover. Your wife can also have guys meet her in Vegas if that's the way you like to play. Again, you need to be in your own room. Sometimes you can't get adjoining rooms, - when that happens you just have to make the best of it. Or gamble with your wife and the two of you invite guys up for a threesome. No guy will say "no" to such an offer. If the two of you meet a guy she wants to go solo with, you can always excuse yourself and continue to gamble. Or escort them up to "her room," buy a round of drinks and then leave.

The "two room" thing works well anywhere, - as her husband you can be close by for security reasons, while her lover thinks she's solo. The approach gives you to opportunity to be back with her the minute her lover leaves. He'll never know that you listened to the whole thing, then took seconds.

Hello; wife and I are already actively in a cuckolding relationship, and I'd like to do something outside our comfort zone.

We're planning a trip to Las Vegas later, and I was curious if others here have had good/bad experiences at sex clubs (or adults only clubs, etc., I'm not even familiar with the vernacular honestly). Would you have any recommendations?

What does one even do there? I realize this might be a silly question, but as a cuck husband who only watches my wife with our bull, would it still be appropriate for us both to go? Or are there cuckold only clubs?

All your comments are much appreciated. Thanks!

[Wifesharing]

Sex clubs can be fun you go hang out and engage as you see fit, you can say no thank you and it will be respected. When we do go if she meets a guy she likes then I watch at a sex club you are not going to shock anyone there. We have found couples only swing clubs to be a bit harder as usually they want to play as a couple, but still a good time can be had.

Vegas as others have said not actually as sexually wild as you would think .

Green Door - been there it was some time ago it is crowded 10 to 1 male to female, we played ourselves on display.
Red rooster- been a handful of times fun a bit older and calm had sex there once other times just hung out.

The studios ( now club 5150 ) was great but after covid has new management not bad but just a differet vibe.

Whispers - if very clean and nice but mostly a couples place.

There a few others you might enjoy The most important thing is to go in with no big expectations and let your self be surprised.

[Gulfcpl]

We went to the Red Rooster once and only. We stayed about 40 minutes and left. It was a filthy place. I wouldn’t recommend.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

The only time we went to a swinger’s club was in Germany (near Dresden). We were just curious and wanted to see what the scene was all about. We spent a lot of time going from room to room, watching other folks fuck (young and old, everything in between). We went with my wife’s aunt/uncle, and my wife’s hottie 25-year-old cousin (from a different aunt/uncle). Fun to watch the fellows hitting on her. Like moths to a flame! Eventually got to watch everyone fuck and have a good time, and we even gave them a little memory of us having a good time, too. A good time was had by all. It was a fun night, but not our cup of tea. My wife prefers the security of a long-term boyfriend, and that’s how she prefers to cuck me. Don’t think we’ll do the club scene again, but it was fun to experience.

At the very least, go and enjoy the ambiance!

[rascalnvixen]

We have found through our experience at clubs in Vegas, not to go to a club on a Monday night. They are open, sort of, but if they are open there is very little happening with very few others there looking to play. We thought the Rooster was a very relaxed and laid back club. The others were a bit more fancy and folks seemed to want you to be at their level or higher. You should dress for success in either location.

Rascal