New poster, old tales

[Sunray]

Hi all! I've lurked here now and then for the past year. I thought I may as well post about some past history in two marriages. Not sure which forum would be best, but this should work. I cover wife M first and hopefully do a post later on Wife 2.

I've only had very limited classic cuckold and hotwife experiences, but had certainly been a non humiliation cuckold. At least not humiliated in my eyes.

My two marriages have partially covered more than 40 years, with a single period in between. Less than a year into my first marriage, wife M began to cheat on me. She wasn't working for some time and I was. She was attractive and had a tight sexy bod, mid 20's. I knew she had a pretty extensive sexual history before we were married, but likely not more so than many college women. From tales I encouraged her to share, a bit of it involved group sex. I had been used to men hitting on her when we dated and after marriage. We had established that we would be faithful before marrying. That didn't last too long, evidently. It was becoming obvious and two people that I trusted also told me that she was cheating with multiple men. Nearly all at home, while I was at work. I calmly confronted M about it, which she automatically denied. After I pointed out some things, she tacitly admitted that she had cheated. Not so much of an apology, but almost a right since she was bored. I was hurt by it but likely a bit aroused as well. I wanted the marriage to work. So, I eventually gave her a pass to responsibly and occasionally enjoy other cock. Limited, discrete and only 2 guys. No romance.

I would have welcomed a chance to play a bit in more of a wife swap deal. M vetoed that, but said she might consider that down the line on a vacation or such. I wasn't having as much sex as I would have liked with M. So, for about a year M got her fairly regular poundings along with maybe once every week or two with me. She wasn't really interested in me being there but I did experience some sloppy seconds a few times or was at least the second cock of the day. Pretty much her 2 regulars each a few times a month. One evening, one of her FWB, stopped by when I was home. I casually knew the guy. The three of us had some wine and I could see M going into heat. I was pretty lit and told M to drop her pants and fuck him on the sofa. Even half drunk, I could hardly believe that I said that. They quickly went at it and for that one time I watched in full pleasure, shock and fear. He pulled out and came on M's bush and belly. I was blown away and I think my heart didn't slow down for an hour.

Not long after that evening, M started working a bit and she agreed to drop the cheating for good. Normal times for about 7 or 8 years. Then M went with a girlfriend to the beach for a few days. Sort of a pre-wedding trip for the friend. That had trouble written all over it. When she returned, she was a whole lot more horny than usual and we had more intense sex than we had in years. I inquired about the weekend and she mildly admitted that things happened. Knowing what was likely, I pried for more info. She and girlfriend had met two young guys in a bar the first night and each fucked them both for two nights. That didn't help the marriage and I wasn't so much into the kink at that point. Another 5 years and we were divorced. In retrospect, it could have been a good wife swap or hotwife LS, if it had all happened a bit differently.

Next post, bit about my second marriage and another pass. If you made it this far, thanks.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Sunray. She sounded fun. Too bad it didn't last.

[aandmp]

Great post! My 1st wife, we married young, was a true 3 hole woman, who loved cock. Things went ok, for a few years. Until I was working, she wasn't. So, to occupy her time she started fucking. A lot. Me being young and dumb, ended it. Like you, I know now what it 'could' have become.

[Sunray]

Thanks for the post ad! A bit about my second wife, K.

To continue a bit; After divorce, I was single for about 9 years. I did a good bit of dating, with some breaks now and then. Several year or two year steady dating relationships and a lot of shorter things. Only one or two who probably had some swinging or hotwifing experience, but I wasn't pushing it. Much of the sex was especially good.

Eventually met my current wife, K, who seemed fairly straight laced but had a serious horny streak. After a couple years, we married. She is about 10 years younger than me and at the time was in full early 40's libido. She has always looked younger than her age and still does in her early 60's. I was working long hours early in the marriage, she worked light part time. Did my best to give her enough sex but she wanted lots of cock and very often. She started cheating on me at home, when I was at work and kids weren't around anymore. Also on the way home from her job with another guy. I called her out on it in a civil way and eventually got something like a confession. I had no interest on going through another divorce. I knew it was all just fucking, so once again in a marriage I'm tacitly giving out a limited pass to a wife. She happily accepted it. She was going to cheat regardless, at least for a while.

K's extra activities went on for at least two years. Two regulars, that was the agreement. One did home repairs, so stopped by a couple times a week. He was married. The other was a divorced guy that K stopped to see on the way home from her job, maybe every two weeks. On just a couple occasions, I was home when the repair guy came by. K loves doing BJ's and is quite good at it. K sucked us both those times, but wouldn't fuck him while I was there. I would have loved to see that. I guess she didn't mind me seeing her with a mouthful. That guy was especially hung, maybe 8 inches or close. In fact, for those couple years, K frequently had a stretched pussy that swallowed my average at best cock. I had sloppy seconds sometimes and otherwise well fucked pussy.

Eventually, Mr. Big the repair guy stopped straying on his wife and something went off with the other guy. I started hinting on a new hotwife or swinging kink involving both of us. I tried to put some multiple guy fantasy role play into our sex. K seemed interested, but when I explained that I wanted to watch and sometimes participate, she would shut that down. I would have welcomed some couple swap eventually, but my first kink was watching her and spitroasting her. I offered to find her another man, but I wanted to be included this time. K seemed to think that was too weird for me to be there, so I dropped the matter. It ticked me a bit that she would have gladly taken a new man but not include me. A few months later K surprised me by asking about me finding her a new guy. Of course, that had larger equipment. I told her I would try to but what I wanted was inclusion. That was pretty much the end of that. I did try again a couple times to get K into it. I think she really wanted to, but was afraid to say yes to the watching or threesome. What could have been.

So, I was essentially a cuckold in two marriages in the classic sense. I did get to watch my first wife M get fucked once. Also watched my second wife, K suck her FWB twice. I did get turned on by the cheating at times. In both marriages, my wife found the guys. I've passed on many chances to cheat myself, especially in my younger and middle aged days. Sometimes I wish I had a bit, but I didn't want to complicate things more.

[Sunray]

Great post! My 1st wife, we married young, was a true 3 hole woman, who loved cock. Things went ok, for a few years. Until I was working, she wasn't. So, to occupy her time she started fucking. A lot. Me being young and dumb, ended it. Like you, I know now what it 'could' have become.

Yes, what could have been a more mutual sex life. My first marriage especially. A lot more honesty and communication would have likely worked. My ex, after divorce did a few years of plowing the fields, then settled down with a marriage decades ago. From what I heard, she became quite the popular hotwife and swinger for many years, with encouragement. She was sometimes fairly cold with me but could be aroused some times. But when she got really horned up, fairly regularly, I think she would sit on any thing that walked in the door. Then another.

[isinlarsa]

Like you, I was cucked by both my wives. With the first one we started by swapping with another couple, but then she cheated on me with another guy. She never could keep a secret so she eventually told me, and we agreed she could continue. The marriage ended, but not because of the sex.

My second wife had been quite the slut while single, but wanted a monogamous marriage. That lasted for 16 years, and then she decided she wanted to date other men when she was in her mid-40's. She told me before she started, so she wasn't cheating on me.