I'm Ky, and I'm a cuck-oholic

[vmb69]

Hi KY,

My wife and I have been on the denial train going on 2 years and in our talks she has the intent on only having sex with her permanent regular fwb.

Are you and Jaime talking about doing something similar? Will you become or have you become a denied cuck? And Jaime sex only for black cock.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the latest update Ky. I love how you explore the “mind fuck” as well how Jaimee takes Sipho.

[elina]

Thanks Ky

It is mind-blowing to follow your adventure,
I don't think any of us just reading can fully relate to your experience.

To me the interesting thing now will be to see how this impacts yours and Jaimees relationship. Hopefully you will grow stronger toghether, what seems certain is that it will be different than what you had before....

Take care of yourself and Jaimee,
Thanks for letting us follow.

Sincerely
elina

[lockedhappyhubby]

Sounds like you two are really evolving! Have to say ditto to what elina just posted. Hope you're ready, I see a chastity cage in your future...

[livinginsin]

Another incredible chapter in your narrative. Thank you for writing this up, you've become a phenomenal writer over the course of your experiences with Jamie and her lovers.

[silky nylons]

Wow. Your account is really breathtaking.

[viking53]

Hi Ky and thanks for getting back and bringing us up to date. There were many of us that were getting quite concerned about how things were developing.

It has been very interesting to hear about how Sipho has been developing this. First he focused on getting in Jaimee's mind, then he focused on your relationship and then first thereafter he focused on the sex. He has clearly stated that he has no boundaries - he wants to see how far he can push Jaimee. Jaimee's boundaries will continuously expand as he develops things which is already apparent from what you have written.

The big question is - what are your boundaries (and here I am being deliberately provocative):
- Cutting you off (not sure if that hasn't already happened from what you write)
- Demanding more exclusive time with Jaimee - nights, weekends, longer periods
- Sharing her with friends or others of his choice
- Exclusively black
- Whoring her out
- Impregnating her

I think, as things develop your boundaries are also going to expand but not nearly as fast as Jaimee's so this is something you need to continually be aware of and revisit.

[txrockdog]

Incredible series of posts so far Ky! Can’t wait to read what happened next. This feels like just the tip of the iceberg…

[bradisalpha]

I also think that Jaimee is special, but not as special as your relationship makes her. It is meant to be a compliment to you as a couple. I don't think she could do it, or even enjoy it as much as she is enjoying it without you. If she would be single I don't think she would go to those extremes. She is enjoying the physical - it is clear - but without you she wouldn't allow herself to the abandon of desire.

Take care!

false-abroad is point on in his statement that Jaimee would not enjoy the physical sexual intensity and arousal as a single person. Yes, of course,, she would enjoy it.. and be sexually overwhelmed by it.. and beg for more.. BUT, the mental arousal to go along with it would never reach the heights she is reaching as a part of a couple in the lifestyle.

Sipho is seducing Jaimee down a path of ownership. He is becoming her “Daddy”. He is also using Jaimee to seduce ky down a path of total submission to her. Jaimee’s reactions to Sipho’s Dominance leaves her with no choice other than enforce Sipho’s wishes on ky. Jaimee’s heights of arousal are now driven between total submission to her Daddy and the dominance of enforcing total submission on ky. It is like one bolt of lightning flowing through all three of them at the same time… and neither of them can control their own situation without the other.. they are all three feeding off that same bolt of lightning.. their minds are in turmoil taking all three of them to extreme heights of desire and wanting MORE !!

Sex is sex.. and a fuck is a fuck.. but a hotwife/cuckold couple with an Alpha Dominant male is a concoction that is addicting.

I know a few in this forum have gone to this extreme and are fully aware of this concoction and how strong, exciting and addicting it is.. and how far a couple will go with an Alpha Dominant BF.

From my experience…..

Brad

[David52]

I guess we are left with questions:

What has gone down with Matt and his family? That was the current issue in March.

Has you MIL made more inquiries about the boys? It seems the families may be asking questions?

Was Jaimee working on Sipho’s instructions when she cucked you on the boat? I’m wondering if Sipho instructed Jaimee to cuck you on the boat?

Were you ever able to connect with Zara and her husband?

It seems Jaimee (and Sipho?) has more of a D/s model in mind for you. She has warned you repeatedly that the “game” has been over for years. What control do you have now as things have moved along.

I know many are looking forward to hearing from you soon. Thank you and all the best, again.

[mick_flow]

Great to see you back Ky!

Phew, I think a lot of us were worried about Matt, it appears you guys over came that situation! - that’s amazing by the way.

Now, I think we’re all hanging in your next update. As always your writing is epic, and I know we are all keen to hear how the journey with Sipho developed…

lol!! - Tell your boss he needs to give you less demanding projects because your OHW community needs your next update

Take care!

[Ky_Da]

I also think that Jaimee is special, but not as special as your relationship makes her. It is meant to be a compliment to you as a couple. I don't think she could do it, or even enjoy it as much as she is enjoying it without you. If she would be single I don't think she would go to those extremes. She is enjoying the physical - it is clear - but without you she wouldn't allow herself to the abandon of desire.

Take care!

false-abroad is point on in his statement that Jaimee would not enjoy the physical sexual intensity and arousal as a single person. Yes, of course,, she would enjoy it.. and be sexually overwhelmed by it.. and beg for more.. BUT, the mental arousal to go along with it would never reach the heights she is reaching as a part of a couple in the lifestyle.

Sipho is seducing Jaimee down a path of ownership. He is becoming her “Daddy”. He is also using Jaimee to seduce ky down a path of total submission to her. Jaimee’s reactions to Sipho’s Dominance leaves her with no choice other than enforce Sipho’s wishes on ky. Jaimee’s heights of arousal are now driven between total submission to her Daddy and the dominance of enforcing total submission on ky. It is like one bolt of lightning flowing through all three of them at the same time… and neither of them can control their own situation without the other.. they are all three feeding off that same bolt of lightning.. their minds are in turmoil taking all three of them to extreme heights of desire and wanting MORE !!

Sex is sex.. and a fuck is a fuck.. but a hotwife/cuckold couple with an Alpha Dominant male is a concoction that is addicting.

I know a few in this forum have gone to this extreme and are fully aware of this concoction and how strong, exciting and addicting it is.. and how far a couple will go with an Alpha Dominant BF.

From my experience…..

Brad

Love these comments. I think they're so accurate. We've talked about this so many times. The game is only fun and pleasurable because we have what we have. She get's what she needs, and I certainly get what I need.

[Ky_Da]

Hey all,

I started this on Saturday, but didn't finish it until Friday morning when I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep.


It's a lazy Saturday evening, and here I am, manning the front porch, trying to keep our two little Houdinis from making a break for it while their mom's out. Seriously considering one of those high-tech door alarms to give me a heads-up on their escape attempts.

I've been wanting to catch up with everyone, fill you in on the past few weeks or even months, but life's been playing fast forward. The comments you all leave, I devour them, reading some several times over for the insights you share. There's been a lot of questions I've left hanging, so I figured I'd give you a quick rundown of the highlights. I'll circle back later with more details on the juicy bits.

When my wife dipped her toes into erotic literature, it wasn't long before she was diving in headfirst. Even the poorly written stuff seemed to do the trick, all about letting her imagination run wild. She's probably read just about everything by now, or damn close. Someone asked about her reading list, and while I don't have a catalog, maybe I should start one.

Those early days, with her reading while I worked my magic, were electric. Watching her lose herself in fantasy, feeling her excitement build, it was a high like no other. Then, someone suggested I write something for her, a story. That idea's been rattling around in my skull.

If I wrote something for her to read, she'd jump at it. But my posts, they're more reflective, about what's already happened. What if I spun a tale of what might be, something we could both escape into? Would she play along, or would it feel too staged, like kids pretending, where the magic's gone once you see the seams?

Or maybe I'd go too far, write something wild, something dangerous. My head's a mess of ideas that should probably stay there. Self-control's not my strongest suit when it comes to our bedroom adventures.

The whole Sipho saga started slow, then it hit like a wildfire. The dynamic between us, it's evolved, deepened. It's been trial by fire, mistakes, fixes, and more mistakes, but these last six months, they've changed us, changed our marriage. I'm more at peace with Jaimee's escapades, with her taking charge, deciding what happens without needing my okay.

Jaimee's got this knack for balancing family life with our wilder side, but it's a tightrope walk. We've had to tap out with our safe words a couple of times, even took a week off once to recalibrate, make sure we were still on the same page.

The in-laws, they've cooled it. There was a spell where Jaimee avoided visiting because of her mom's grilling, but they've called a ceasefire, and things are back to a semblance of normal. Matt's chapter is mostly closed too, though it's been tough. We knew it couldn't last forever, but disentangling was no picnic.

Jaimee keeps in touch with him, helps with his kids now and then, but it's tapering off.

And then there's Zara and Oscar. We finally met up with them. They're in their 40s, doing well for themselves, happy with life. Oscar's got this Spanish flair about him, adds a layer to their already interesting life. We don't see them much because they're globetrotters now, taking in the warm, cheap locales. But when they're back, they still play the game, just not as hard as with Sipho. Oscar laid it out for me, what being with Sipho would mean. And yeah, he was spot on. Sipho loves pushing limits, gets off on it, but he's not looking to upend lives or start a new family.

But let's circle back to Sipho. A couple of months ago, things got intense. He'd pushed Jaimee to the brink several times, leaving her legs like jelly.

I was in my spot, the usual chair in the corner, when Sipho asked, "Jillian, if I asked Ky who owns your pussy, what would his answer be?"

She took a moment, then, "I imagine he'd say his, if I'm honest. He's still my husband."

Sipho, behind her, fully inside her, asked me, "What about it, Ky? Whose cock has been in your wife's pussy the most?"

From where I sat, I could see her, knew she'd be swollen and tender. Despite our continued intimacy, I'd felt a change. Her usual grip, gone. Had she become looser, more accustomed to another? The thought was there, erotic, fleeting.

When I hesitated, Sipho pressed, "It's a question every cuck faces. But it's not enough she knows. I need you to know too."

"Yours," I graveled out, my voice rough.

Her face, lustful, as Sipho worked her clit, her moan low, pleasured. My arousal was palpable, a bulletproof hardness, as I watched, the scene crystal clear: her gasps, her cries, the shaking of her body. Nothing got me off more than this, watching another take her to heights I couldn't.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update Ky - as always very reflective and thoughtful about the game with Sipho and the changes in your lives

[funfortwo]

I can't wait until you "circle back later with more details on the juicy bits!" I would love to hear how you both are handling they dynamic and how it pushes limits while keeping your marriage in the forefront. Love your writing style and how you both are feeling. Thanks again for the updates!

[mundyman]

What are those extremes that he has taken you two?
What situation caused you to stop and recalibrate??

[DLD]

I know it’s a lot to process and write but would love for you to fill in the blanks of the details, especially this:

The whole Sipho saga started slow, then it hit like a wildfire. The dynamic between us, it's evolved, deepened. It's been trial by fire, mistakes, fixes, and more mistakes, but these last six months, they've changed us, changed our marriage. I'm more at peace with Jaimee's escapades, with her taking charge, deciding what happens without needing my okay.

Jaimee's got this knack for balancing family life with our wilder side, but it's a tightrope walk. We've had to tap out with our safe words a couple of times, even took a week off once to recalibrate, make sure we were still on the same

[vmb69]

I would assume that at this point Sipho owns Jaime's pussy and Ky is denied access most of the time. But that could be me transposing our own life with what they are doing. Still very hot assumption

[false-abroad]

It is his, because it is given away. It is his as a limited time offer. He will pass, you will not. I would say it is still your pussy even if he rents it for long stretches (wink, wink) of time.

I wanted to add one thing and a little analogy.

Our life on this world is finite. It sometimes can consist of multiple different "lives". Part of what makes up love is the shared time and experiences - after some time it is irreplaceable. Your wife could have a different life, she could be happy with a different man, but she chose and keeps choosing you. This is love. He doesn't really "own" anything out of her. You both are letting him. But I understand that saying that he does is a mind-blowing sentence.

I often don't like car analogies, but my car analogies are good Your wife's body is a sport car. You are not a race driver, you can ride it good, but maybe you will never learn how to really make it roar. Her lovers are race drivers and you like the show. But! You co-own the car with your wife. If someone else drives it he complies with his contract or he will be terminated. If you find a different driver that you want to see drive the car you may replace the driver. Does the driver really own the car?

[michey]

It is his, because it is given away. It is his as a limited time offer. He will pass, you will not. I would say it is still your pussy even if he rents it for long stretches (wink, wink) of time.

I wanted to add one thing and a little analogy.

Our life on this world is finite. It sometimes can consist of multiple different "lives". Part of what makes up love is the shared time and experiences - after some time it is irreplaceable. Your wife could have a different life, she could be happy with a different man, but she chose and keeps choosing you. This is love. He doesn't really "own" anything out of her. You both are letting him. But I understand that saying that he does is a mind-blowing sentence.

I often don't like car analogies, but my car analogies are good Your wife's body is a sport car. You are not a race driver, you can ride it good, but maybe you will never learn how to really make it roar. Her lovers are race drivers and you like the show. But! You co-own the car with your wife. If someone else drives it he complies with his contract or he will be terminated. If you find a different driver that you want to see drive the car you may replace the driver. Does the driver really owns the car?

I being a motor engineer i kinda like that analogy, when servicing i like to do more than just kick the tyres

[lockedhappyhubby]

"I was in my spot, the usual chair in the corner, when Sipho asked, "Jillian, if I asked Ky who owns your pussy, what would his answer be?"

She took a moment, then, "I imagine he'd say his, if I'm honest. He's still my husband."

Sipho, behind her, fully inside her, asked me, "What about it, Ky? Whose cock has been in your wife's pussy the most?"

From where I sat, I could see her, knew she'd be swollen and tender. Despite our continued intimacy, I'd felt a change. Her usual grip, gone. Had she become looser, more accustomed to another? The thought was there, erotic, fleeting.

When I hesitated, Sipho pressed, "It's a question every cuck faces. But it's not enough she knows. I need you to know too."

"Yours," I graveled out, my voice rough.

Her face, lustful, as Sipho worked her clit, her moan low, pleasured. My arousal was palpable, a bulletproof hardness, as I watched, the scene crystal clear: her gasps, her cries, the shaking of her body. Nothing got me off more than this, watching another take her to heights I couldn't."

Ky, You definitely hit the nail on the head here, it's like heroin to a cuckold's thought process. Just reading it had me reliving some of our cuckold experiences. Rock hard in my chastity cage.

[Jacko]

It is his, because it is given away. It is his as a limited time offer. He will pass, you will not. I would say it is still your pussy even if he rents it for long stretches (wink, wink) of time.

I like this analysis, but I'd suggest that it belongs to Jaimee. She was born, it belonged to her. In marriage, she promised her body to Ky. Now, as a result of their play and Sipho's pushing, Ky and Jaimee have accepted that she deserves to explore her physical and emotional boundaries. So she has claimed it back. Now, it's likely at some point the "game/new reality" may end, and it will become Ky's again ...

[txrockdog]

So Ky, it seems like you have made a kind of peace with this being “who you are now” as a couple and I sense that you like that the issue is somewhat settled between the two of you. Has that balance extended to anything else Jaimee has wanted from you? I know you have an affinity for “the edge”, but has the involvement with Sipho gotten you any closer to what she has been wanting…for you to let her lead you to the edge as she sees it? Has Sipho been making any effort to push your boundaries while in the process of having you both admit the reality of your relationship to each other?

Can’t wait to read more. But I also can’t help but feel happy for you two already with what you have told us because from your writing so far it seems as though your latest experiences have really brought the two of you into sync with one another even as she gives control of her body (and her mind?) to Sipho. Thanks as always for bringing us along for the ride!

[Southernman]

Bump! Hoping for an update. We miss you KY.

Southernman

[michey]

Bump