First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
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First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
My wife will be meeting and potentially having sex with another man for the first time in about two weeks. I may or may not be in the room when it happens but I won’t be there for their first date. Was curious if anyone had advice or perceptive they could share. Would love to chat either way other men on signal who have experience or are in a similar place as I am.
Any tips for the first time? Issues I can avoid? Thanks!
Any tips for the first time? Issues I can avoid? Thanks!
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Since this is your first time, don't jackoff while she's away with him. It canMHotwifesStag wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 4:43 pmMy wife will be meeting and potentially having sex with another man for the first time in about two weeks. I may or may not be in the room when it happens but I won’t be there for their first date. Was curious if anyone had advice or perceptive they could share. Would love to chat either way other men on signal who have experience or are in a similar place as I am.
Any tips for the first time? Issues I can avoid? Thanks!
cause you to feel "off" mentally. Love her and show your appreciation when she returns, regardless of how you feel.
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Her number1 wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 7:09 pmSince this is your first time, don't jackoff while she's away with him. It canMHotwifesStag wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 4:43 pmMy wife will be meeting and potentially having sex with another man for the first time in about two weeks. I may or may not be in the room when it happens but I won’t be there for their first date. Was curious if anyone had advice or perceptive they could share. Would love to chat either way other men on signal who have experience or are in a similar place as I am.
Any tips for the first time? Issues I can avoid? Thanks!
cause you to feel "off" mentally. Love her and show your appreciation when she returns, regardless of how you feel.
I can definitely see how jacking off while she’s with him could cause problems. At least until I’ve eased in. Hopefully I an help myself.
Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
A little more background would help
1. Where did you meet the guy? (someone known or total stranger)
2. Does he know you in the picture too?
3. If yes have you chatted with him n vetted him? or wife's been chatting one on one?
4. What are you fantasies? Any specific scenario you two have fantasized about that you want to turn into a reality ?
1. Where did you meet the guy? (someone known or total stranger)
2. Does he know you in the picture too?
3. If yes have you chatted with him n vetted him? or wife's been chatting one on one?
4. What are you fantasies? Any specific scenario you two have fantasized about that you want to turn into a reality ?
Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
You will obviously want to hear all the details about her date, but my suggestion is to let her tell you in her own way and time with maybe just a bit of encouragement from you.
Ann wanted to tell me everything about her date when she got home the first time, but I desperately wanted to hear her describe their sex, not where they went, what the ate etc. I didn’t realise that the whole experience was important and special for her, not just the sex.
She said afterwards that I’d asked so many questions when she got home that she felt she’d been interrogated which spoiled it a bit for her.
I’ve found that I still hear all the details and she’s more excited telling me when I let her go at her own pace.
Ann wanted to tell me everything about her date when she got home the first time, but I desperately wanted to hear her describe their sex, not where they went, what the ate etc. I didn’t realise that the whole experience was important and special for her, not just the sex.
She said afterwards that I’d asked so many questions when she got home that she felt she’d been interrogated which spoiled it a bit for her.
I’ve found that I still hear all the details and she’s more excited telling me when I let her go at her own pace.
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Depending on your wife's experience, it could result in your wife being addicted to sex with a bigger cock and a man with more stamina than you. From my own experience, My ex's 1st dinner date at a romantic Chicago suburban, hotel restaurant, that slowly rotated 360 degrees overlooking Chicago's skyline, with a former high school boyfriend that after his recent divorce wanted to get reacquainted with her by sending a U.S.P.S. letter to her parents house that her father forwarded to her. She had not talked to nor heard from this former boy friend in 17 years. I gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, and naively thought that it would be one and done. For dessert he rented a room at the hotel. She had a very good time between 5:00 P.M. and 5:00 A.M. However, his bigger cock, more stamina than me and multiple orgasms that I could not give her, she became immediately addicted to sex with him and the next week, because he worked nights, they fucked at his place, Monday thru Friday while our elementary school daughters were in school and I was at work.
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Depending on your wife's experience, it could result in your wife being addicted to sex with a bigger cock and a man with more stamina than you. From my own experience, My ex's 1st dinner date at a romantic Chicago suburban, hotel restaurant, that slowly rotated 360 degrees overlooking Chicago's skyline, with a former high school boyfriend that after his recent divorce wanted to get reacquainted with her by sending a U.S.P.S. letter to her parents house that her father forwarded to her. She had not talked to nor heard from this former boy friend in 17 years. I gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, and naively thought that it would be one and done. For dessert he rented a room at the hotel. She had a very good time between 5:00 P.M. and 5:00 A.M. However, his bigger cock, more stamina than me and multiple orgasms that I could not give her, she became immediately addicted to sex with him and the next week, because he worked nights, they fucked at his place, Monday thru Friday while our elementary school daughters were in school and I was at work.
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Met him online, he’s in the lifestyle with prominent past partners, and they’ve talked a few times now. Video and phone.leo-cpl wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2024 4:34 amA little more background would help
1. Where did you meet the guy? (someone known or total stranger)
2. Does he know you in the picture too?
3. If yes have you chatted with him n vetted him? or wife's been chatting one on one?
4. What are you fantasies? Any specific scenario you two have fantasized about that you want to turn into a reality ?
He does and we talk.
I eventually want to be in the room but to start she needs space to explore. Eventually I want to even be involved. Touching and kissing her during their sessions.
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Maybe that’s not so bad?naivecuck2 wrote: ↑Wed Oct 30, 2024 4:31 pmDepending on your wife's experience, it could result in your wife being addicted to sex with a bigger cock and a man with more stamina than you. From my own experience, My ex's 1st dinner date at a romantic Chicago suburban, hotel restaurant, that slowly rotated 360 degrees overlooking Chicago's skyline, with a former high school boyfriend that after his recent divorce wanted to get reacquainted with her by sending a U.S.P.S. letter to her parents house that her father forwarded to her. She had not talked to nor heard from this former boy friend in 17 years. I gave her a "hall pass", before the movie, and naively thought that it would be one and done. For dessert he rented a room at the hotel. She had a very good time between 5:00 P.M. and 5:00 A.M. However, his bigger cock, more stamina than me and multiple orgasms that I could not give her, she became immediately addicted to sex with him and the next week, because he worked nights, they fucked at his place, Monday thru Friday while our elementary school daughters were in school and I was at work.
Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Find activities to keep yourself busy during that time, so you're not obsessing about it.
And, as was said above by another person, don't interrogate her afterward.
And, as was said above by another person, don't interrogate her afterward.
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
If he's experienced then you shouldn't have concerns with her running off or them falling for each other (though she will definitely get a crush). Most wives I've been with the first time they prefer the husband not watch (don't want to have to worry about putting on a show and conversely, don't want to have to worry about his reaction if she's really into it).
From what I've heard from couples, let her tell you the details when she's ready—though if it's a really good experience, she'll probably be wired and ready. In my experience, couples usually grow closer because of the experience, but it's important to be supportive, open, and be prepared that there will be something you hear about that stings (it might not be as obvious as his cock is bigger, could be the way he kisses or he's funny, etc.).
From what I've heard from couples, let her tell you the details when she's ready—though if it's a really good experience, she'll probably be wired and ready. In my experience, couples usually grow closer because of the experience, but it's important to be supportive, open, and be prepared that there will be something you hear about that stings (it might not be as obvious as his cock is bigger, could be the way he kisses or he's funny, etc.).
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Re: First time happening in 2 weeks, would love advice and perspective.
Good recommendations have already been posted, so I won't repeat. Two recommendations that I would add. These are based on personal experience.MHotwifesStag wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 4:43 pm
Any tips for the first time? Issues I can avoid? Thanks!
1. Ask her to establish a date and time certain after which you are not allowed to penetrate her or bring her to orgasm before her date. A period of restriction from her pussy before she loses her marital virginity and becomes a hotwife - not just in fantasy, but in fact - can be a huge turn on for her, and for you. The length of time of abstinence for both of you should be based on how long it will take her to feel extra frisky before going out with the Bull. She decides how long (3 days, 5 days, etc.). You can hug and cuddle after that but no penetration and no orgasm. Whisper in her ear, "Are you looking forward to having his cock slide inside you?" And see how she responds. Build her anticipation and make sure her pussy is fresh and ready when she offers herself to the Bull. Even if they don't have sex during their first meeting, if she is feeling frisky when they meet, the interaction will be more flirtatious and more enjoyable for her.
2. When she returns to you, let her be the guide regarding disclosures (as already recommended). And let her be the decision maker regarding when you reclaim her. She may want you to ravish her immediately. Or, she may feel sexually spent. If his cock has a large girth and if he has stamina, her pussy may feel completely satisfied, if not a bit saddle sore, so to speak. She may not be physically or emotionally ready for more sex immediately. She may want to just cuddle or sleep. She may need some time to privately savor what she has enjoyed. She may want you to fuck her vigorously immediately. She may want you to gentle lick her pussy and to savor the flavors of her fresh fuck. No matter what, she will want you to let her know how much you love her. If she loves baths, draw her one. Put candles around it. Poor her a glass of her favorite wine. Wash her back and tell her how beautiful she is to you. Whatever she wants is what you should want when she is back with you.
Most importantly, remember, this is primarily for her pleasure. Your pleasure is secondary. You love her so much you want her to enjoy maximal pleasure and to be fully in charge of her sexuality. She shares that with you when and how she desires - not based on your level of arousal and desire.
I hope those recommendations are helpful.