cheating suggestion.

[majestic17]

Me and my significant other are into the lifestyle but are very new to it. She loves to sleep around and i love to hear about it but what she really like what give her the rush is when she cheats. As i got to know from her she had cheated on her previous relations and the rush she got out of it was something she haven't found after. She like casual sex, being hot girlfriend and all but her real tick is cheating.
And if you have read my other post i have recently developed a cheating kink specially after she started telling me more about her cheating experiences.
Can anyone suggest how we include cheating in our relationship? I know it would be hard since we are already in the cuckold lifestyle but still if anyone habe any suggestions. She wants to feel the same way she felt before

[Jujube]

It seems a lot of couples have the wife embark on an affair, or affairs, and not tell the hubby until weeks or months after the trysts. She is very careful her husband doesn’t find out until the great “reveal”.

[majestic17]

It seems a lot of couples have the wife embark on an affair, or affairs, and not tell the hubby until weeks or months after the trysts. She is very careful her husband doesn’t find out until the great “reveal”.

thats exactly what we thought of too. Like the reveal would be on special occasions like anniversary or birthdays. But before the reveal she will leave little hints that she has been with someone.

[Jujube]

Yes, some wives really get off on the cheating angle. One wife on here likes to play in the summer months. Try as he might, the husband cannot detect any different behavior in his wife. Come fall, the wife over weeks and even months slowly reveals just how naughty she was during the summer. I would also suggest you read “It might happen after years of telling me no” in the cuckold section, where the cheating is not so cloaked in secrecy, and is very hot!

[trecital]

If she's got good opportunities to cheat, and the husband doesn't know about it, where's the excitement for the husband? How can you get aroused by something you don't know about?

[majestic17]

If she's got good opportunities to cheat, and the husband doesn't know about it, where's the excitement for the husband? How can you get aroused by something you don't know about?

Its in the subtle hints that she leaves for me like when dress up for her date she would dress up in certain way like very revealing dresses, or cum on her panty. Sometimes its just the look on her face that gives the hint. This are few ways she lets me know what she is doing. And also its not like she doesn't tell at all, if she had slept with 5 guys she would tell me about 1 atleast other 4 she keep it to herself for our cheating kink. Best part is the anticipation and imagination for us about the unknowning like guessing every day if she did it or will do.

[mfm4bnc]

I am a has been, and am now pretty much just a wannabe, but I at least know she has it in her. My wife cheated on me while we were engaged in a way that was for her and not at all for me. She has slept with a couple guys since we have been married, and it was more ambiguous as to whether it was for her or me. That is how I LOVE for it to be... I don't want her consentig to my kink... I want her to be leading. The more it seems like cheating, the less it seems like she is just going along with my kink.

Majestic 17's post above hits on my favorite thing... I love when my wife leaves a trail of bread crumbs to make me wonder...

One of the ways we have kept the thrill in "cheating" is that we have made rules like: no ex boyfriends, none of the people in our friend circle, and nobody from work. The rules are basically straw men. Every time she has slept with someone, it has been someone from one of those categories.

One of the people she cheated with is a close mutual friend, and he still does not know that I know. She will sometimes send him a flirty text before some legitimate planned meeting, knowing it will drive me crazy. He also lives close to her parents. We have Life360, and she will sometimes park her car at his house when she goes to see her parents, and then leave her phone in the car, knowing it will drive me crazy.

[MartasBoy]

Me and my significant other are into the lifestyle but are very new to it. She loves to sleep around and i love to hear about it but what she really like what give her the rush is when she cheats. As i got to know from her she had cheated on her previous relations and the rush she got out of it was something she haven't found after. She like casual sex, being hot girlfriend and all but her real tick is cheating.
And if you have read my other post i have recently developed a cheating kink specially after she started telling me more about her cheating experiences.
Can anyone suggest how we include cheating in our relationship? I know it would be hard since we are already in the cuckold lifestyle but still if anyone habe any suggestions. She wants to feel the same way she felt before

My wife goes to occasional work conferences for her job. She will hook up on those usually, and sometimes brings me photos after the fact.

[slenderfish]

Its in the subtle hints that she leaves for me like when dress up for her date she would dress up in certain way like very revealing dresses, or cum on her panty. Sometimes its just the look on her face that gives the hint. This are few ways she lets me know what she is doing. And also its not like she doesn't tell at all, if she had slept with 5 guys she would tell me about 1 atleast other 4 she keep it to herself for our cheating kink. Best part is the anticipation and imagination for us about the unknowning like guessing every day if she did it or will do.

Sounds like you've already got it pretty much worked out!

I might suggest, just for kicks, that upon the big "reveal" she also provide images and/or video to really bring the point home. I think that would increase anticipation and intensity.

[majestic17]

Its in the subtle hints that she leaves for me like when dress up for her date she would dress up in certain way like very revealing dresses, or cum on her panty. Sometimes its just the look on her face that gives the hint. This are few ways she lets me know what she is doing. And also its not like she doesn't tell at all, if she had slept with 5 guys she would tell me about 1 atleast other 4 she keep it to herself for our cheating kink. Best part is the anticipation and imagination for us about the unknowning like guessing every day if she did it or will do.

Sounds like you've already got it pretty much worked out!

I might suggest, just for kicks, that upon the big "reveal" she also provide images and/or video to really bring the point home. I think that would increase anticipation and intensity.

Yes thats the best part. Getting to see her fucking or giving sloppy hot bj on a thick big dick is just what makes it more hot.

[leander99]

Let her keep a diary.... which she will give to you, but only after more than a year has passed.
You will eventually learn everything, but only 12 to 24 months after the act.

[majestic17]

Let her keep a diary.... which she will give to you, but only after more than a year has passed.
You will eventually learn everything, but only 12 to 24 months after the act.

thats a great idea too. reading about every details about her cheating would be so hot. she would one day hand me the dairy while she would be leaving for her date so that she could have her fun and I could have mine.

[majestic17]

I am a has been, and am now pretty much just a wannabe, but I at least know she has it in her. My wife cheated on me while we were engaged in a way that was for her and not at all for me. She has slept with a couple guys since we have been married, and it was more ambiguous as to whether it was for her or me. That is how I LOVE for it to be... I don't want her consentig to my kink... I want her to be leading. The more it seems like cheating, the less it seems like she is just going along with my kink.

Majestic 17's post above hits on my favorite thing... I love when my wife leaves a trail of bread crumbs to make me wonder...

One of the ways we have kept the thrill in "cheating" is that we have made rules like: no ex boyfriends, none of the people in our friend circle, and nobody from work. The rules are basically straw men. Every time she has slept with someone, it has been someone from one of those categories.

One of the people she cheated with is a close mutual friend, and he still does not know that I know. She will sometimes send him a flirty text before some legitimate planned meeting, knowing it will drive me crazy. He also lives close to her parents. We have Life360, and she will sometimes park her car at his house when she goes to see her parents, and then leave her phone in the car, knowing it will drive me crazy.

i like the idea about the rules and then eventually breaking it. thats very new.

[iloanmywife]

If she's got good opportunities to cheat, and the husband doesn't know about it, where's the excitement for the husband? How can you get aroused by something you don't know about?

If I don't know about every time, it might have happened at any time. The unknown is a constant mind-fuck, and it sexually supercharges our marriage.

If she gets a manicure and then visits her mom and is gone all day, it's possible she's getting laid at some point (actual example, btw). If she comes home and immediately unzips my pants and goes down on me, that's 100% an admission and I don't even have to ask. Or maybe she'll wait until later that night to whisper a confession in my ear as I slide inside. "How do you like your sloppy seconds, cuck?" Maybe she'll give me the juicy details, or I can sort of infer where she was. I think the hottest is when I know and she knows that I know and neither of us says a word about it. Fucking each other in white-hot silence.

I'm not advocating for unscripted play, which is likely to cause heartaches for just about any relationships. The fantasy is probably better than reality. I'm just explaining that there's something "in it" for the husband in this style of play. Honestly, we're so busy these days that it's been hilariously impractical for her to find enough free time to fuck someone without telling me. And both of us still usually prefer a "vanilla" MFM threesome anyway.

And we all agree that cheating play is not the same thing as straight up cheating. Cheating sucks.

[trecital]

If I don't know about every time, it might have happened at any time. The unknown is a constant mind-fuck, and it sexually supercharges our marriage.

I can fully understand your scenario. I suppose you could categorise it more as 'undeclared hotwifing', or something similar. And the examples you give are hot!

I was assuming that the original poster was thinking about a situation where he'd get no, or few, clues, hints etc.

Like a lot of things, there's a spectrum of ways this could work.

[CuckedbyNikki]

If she does not tell you who she is fucking, when & where it can be classified as cheating. Just act like a normal couple where she has sex with anyone she wants to but you don't know that. A few weeks/months later she can tell you. It will be fun if she gets laid with someone you know (your friends, her friends/colleagues, common friends).

[Mgcouplemn]

We have been a very happy couple, we jointly decided in the beginning that we would only cheat if the other was present. With each of us present while the other had sex covered us with swinging with other couples in the past and currently the cuck and Hotwife. I really enjoy watching my wife having sex even when I was having it with some guys wife at the same time, so does my wife. Now I love being in the room jerking off while she is having sex, she says she loves looking over and seeing her husband masturbating when some other guy is fucking her. For us it is win win.