Potentially the Start

[Lucky Dog]

I've followed this thread since the beginning. I've found much of it very thrilling, and watches as both cuck and HW shared their journey. When it comes to families doing what they want, it is my inclination to support them and always wish them the best.

Something about this is hard for me to take, as it seems that cuck has not only lost access to his wife's body, but the way this has been presented makes it seem there has been a far greater rupture in their relationship. It seems something that I can't personally feel good about, but I do hope they all find happiness on this path.

[edgedndenied]

I hope they change there minds and will update. There journey is ramping up to a whole new level.

[frb]

DDWHW, for what it's worth here are the questions your update brought up for me.

After you consummated your new commitment and sent DDW home, you all apparently had a reception of some kind. Was your toplessness the only sexual aspect to this reception? As you were surrounded by experienced swingers I have to think there may have been more to it. If so, were your two friends involved at all?

You vowed to obey your bf without hesitation going forward. Has he played that card yet? Have you been shared with anyone since the poker game?

Is DDW allowed to witness you and your bf fucking in the master bedroom or anywhere else in the house? Has your bf hinted at all that he might allow DDW out of his "permanent" chastity in future for any reason?

Thanks, and keep having fun.

[wifelver]

Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.

Totally agree.

[wifelver]

Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.

My thoughts exactly. I think we have different ideas of marriage than she does. This story has sounded like a trainwreck almost from the beginning, and I never got the sense DDW was happy with how things were going, but was codependent enough that he had no choice but to go along with everything. He avoided repeated questions about whether he was actually happy, just repeatedly deferring to the fact that he had agreed to go along with her frankly coercive efforts at gaining consent from him. The only difference between their marriage ending and what they have now is that she is keeping DDW around locked away so he can pay for everything instead of just taking half his money and letting him at least enjoy his life. Sorry if that is harsh, but it sounds like a miserable life to me.

Well said. That’s how I see it as well.

[tovid555]

I say good for them. And there shouldn't be one person in here that should be standing on their own pedestal of righteousness. As someone said, its a cuckold website, there should not be any surprised reactions to what three other consenting adults do with their lives.

[wifelver]

I say good for them. And there shouldn't be one person in here that should be standing on their own pedestal of righteousness. As someone said, its a cuckold website, there should not be any surprised reactions to what three other consenting adults do with their lives.

Ha! A pedestal of righteousness is it? And coming from those who would suppress a point of view different from theirs. That’s rich.

[frb]

No one is trying to suppress your point of view, even though it's moronic. I never cared whether you expressed it, as long as it wasn't in this thread, because:

1) OP and his wife explicitly said that too much negativity would drive them away from the site, which is exactly what happened.
2) I and many others wanted to hear from them.

This thread was killed by idiots like you incessantly criticizing OP and his wife for doing things that are very common among people in the lifestyle. No matter how many times they assured everyone that they were happy with their trajectory and that their marital bonds were stronger than ever, no matter how many times they pleaded with all the lurkers, most of whom don't even have girlfriends let alone experience in the lifestyle, to stop telling them that they're doing it all wrong, and raining on their parade, you kept at it. So now they're fed up and no longer posting. When all you had to do was create your own thread bashing DDW and DDWHW to your hearts' content.

Again, great job.

[wifelver]

No one is trying to suppress your point of view, even though it's moronic.

This thread was killed by idiots like you

lol. So when folks like me put forth a different point of view from the enlightened ones like you then you insult us. Why people feel the need to cast insults at the people whose opinions they don’t agree with is mind boggling. And, I might add, mean.

[frb]

What I've said about the history of this thread is completely accurate. But in the interests of peace I'll let you decide how to describe the people who killed it for absolutely no good reason.

[Wife4Guys]

Yawn

[Watchinu69]

Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.

Totally agree.

fuckin guy forefather wanted.... to get lichen away in a small cage,,, his wife getting laid without him along with public embarrassment with the wife's friends.... lives in the basement in a constant state of wondering what his wife is doing with her BF next... destroyed his world Bahahahaha !! He got what he wanted-

[Watchinu69]

Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.

Totally agree.

fuckin guy got what he wanted.... to get locked away in a small cage,,, his wife getting laid without him along for the ride & with public embarrassment with the wife's friends.... lives in the basement in a constant state of wondering what his wife is doing with her BF next... destroyed his world Bahahahaha !! He got what he wanted congratulations

[txrockdog]

Sounds to me like one marriage has been destroyed.
Bye.

Totally agree.

fuckin guy got what he wanted.... to get locked away in a small cage,,, his wife getting laid without him along for the ride & with public embarrassment with the wife's friends.... lives in the basement in a constant state of wondering what his wife is doing with her BF next... destroyed his world Bahahahaha !! He got what he wanted congratulations

I never got the impression being locked away in the basement like a forgotten toy never to have an orgasm again, while some guy replaced him in his wife’s social life, emotional life, sexual life, and in his own house and bedroom was really what DDW was really after when he talked to his wife about this. When asked about it, he would never say he was enjoying it or that he was happy with things. He would just repeat that he and his wife had talked about and he had agreed to what she wanted. Always seemed pretty melancholy and unwilling to openly say he wasn’t happy because he knew his wife would read about it.

[gesdell]

This was an excellent cautionary tale for those who don't want the extreme loss of control that happened here. I have noticed that he never posts anymore, the wife took over his account and probably locked him out of that too. Maybe he had a mental breakdown or some other psychological problem happened. For those that enjoyed what happened toward the end of this thread, may I suggest that the are plenty of car crash videos on YouTube to watch.

[scarlettscuck]

This was an excellent cautionary tale for those who don't want the extreme loss of control that happened here. I have noticed that he never posts anymore, the wife took over his account and probably locked him out of that too. Maybe he had a mental breakdown or some other psychological problem happened. For those that enjoyed what happened toward the end of this thread, may I suggest that the are plenty of car crash videos on YouTube to watch.

Another bad example of what happens when people make absurd and non-factual assumptions. Disappointed because you have no sex life? This is the crap that drives people to stop posting their stories. Cmon’ people, just go with the flow!

[mundyman]

This was an excellent cautionary tale for those who don't want the extreme loss of control that happened here. I have noticed that he never posts anymore, the wife took over his account and probably locked him out of that too. Maybe he had a mental breakdown or some other psychological problem happened. For those that enjoyed what happened toward the end of this thread, may I suggest that the are plenty of car crash videos on YouTube to watch.

Another bad example of what happens when people make absurd and non-factual assumptions. Disappointed because you have no sex life? This is the crap that drives people to stop posting their stories. Cmon’ people, just go with the flow!

[vicouple]

Totally agree. The mods need to boot people out who post negative speculation in threads when they have been asked not to by the originator of the thread. It is no different than talking on a cell phone about how terrible a movie is during the movie. If you want to complain about something go do it in your own thread.

[elina]

This was an excellent cautionary tale for those who don't want the extreme loss of control that happened here. I have noticed that he never posts anymore, the wife took over his account and probably locked him out of that too. Maybe he had a mental breakdown or some other psychological problem happened. For those that enjoyed what happened toward the end of this thread, may I suggest that the are plenty of car crash videos on YouTube to watch.

Another bad example of what happens when people make absurd and non-factual assumptions. Disappointed because you have no sex life? This is the crap that drives people to stop posting their stories. Cmon’ people, just go with the flow!

Fundamentally, we should all respect the choices each individual makes for themselves.
Following this story from the start, it is very clear how DDW has encouraged and fully supported DDWHW decisions at ever step.
It is also clear how DDWHW has carefully researched the lifestyle, made Her choices and proceeded with Her loving and supporting cuck endorsing Her all the way.

The strength of this site is that allows people to share these experiences. It is a huge pity that some judgemental individuals who believe they are the guardian of truth should drive people away from the site like we frequently see happening.

Sincerely
elina

[Bluetoed]

DDW has given me little to no reason to believe that he is happy with what has unfolded and where they are now.

However, I think he is totally enjoying what has unfolded and where they are now. What has happened to his marriage is painful, and a masochist enjoys pain.

To each their own.

[Gearup]

It was fun while it lasted. at this point, I think it will be a long time before we ever read another post from DDW or DDWHW. Glad they are happy & have moved on. So will I