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Thanks for the update Danny.
Have you got anybody you can delegate that workload to? As people get more responsibility, one thing I always notice in my work is that they struggle to delegate this down the ranks when they’re asked to step up. They instead take on the extra workload and pressure just for themselves and struggle, then ultimately fail. The team around them don’t realise the extra pressures you’re under (or sometimes do and don’t care… these are the people you want to burn bridges with, as they don’t have the same priorities that you do). Those that succeed, find a way to maintain their current way of working and their lifestyle. They communicate problems and use the team to support them. You may be able to pull off long days in the short term, but ultimately, it will effect your lifestyle, mistakes will begin to creep into your work, you won’t be motivated and ultimately won’t succeed in doing what you want to do. Take a step back and look at those around you, are they working as hard as you? You 100% have to put in the work sometimes to succeed, so don’t think I’m saying you should all the sudden turn down what sounds like a great opportunity, I’m just saying long term, it will be hard to maintain.
Thanks for answering my question about going away. I have one more question if you don’t mind.
Have you two discussed that it seems to be falling into a normal routine now? That they’re fucking, sometimes you listen, sometimes you don’t… is it starting to lose the excitement for you both that it originally did? Just wondering if you’ve thought about spicing things up or changing the dynamic slightly? Maybe that hotel room he suggested, or she surprises him wearing some lingerie (a step out of her own comfort zone).
Just a thought and something I wondered about anyway.
Have you got anybody you can delegate that workload to? As people get more responsibility, one thing I always notice in my work is that they struggle to delegate this down the ranks when they’re asked to step up. They instead take on the extra workload and pressure just for themselves and struggle, then ultimately fail. The team around them don’t realise the extra pressures you’re under (or sometimes do and don’t care… these are the people you want to burn bridges with, as they don’t have the same priorities that you do). Those that succeed, find a way to maintain their current way of working and their lifestyle. They communicate problems and use the team to support them. You may be able to pull off long days in the short term, but ultimately, it will effect your lifestyle, mistakes will begin to creep into your work, you won’t be motivated and ultimately won’t succeed in doing what you want to do. Take a step back and look at those around you, are they working as hard as you? You 100% have to put in the work sometimes to succeed, so don’t think I’m saying you should all the sudden turn down what sounds like a great opportunity, I’m just saying long term, it will be hard to maintain.
Thanks for answering my question about going away. I have one more question if you don’t mind.
Have you two discussed that it seems to be falling into a normal routine now? That they’re fucking, sometimes you listen, sometimes you don’t… is it starting to lose the excitement for you both that it originally did? Just wondering if you’ve thought about spicing things up or changing the dynamic slightly? Maybe that hotel room he suggested, or she surprises him wearing some lingerie (a step out of her own comfort zone).
Just a thought and something I wondered about anyway.
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Wow. Very well written, but a classic example of how the reader (you, me, etc.) puts their own feelings, emotions and fears into the story. Nothing Danny has said would indicate love or anything more than just good sex. He even noted her comments about the post sex "cuddling" wasn't as much as we're thinking.
Bottom line is that Danny knows what's going on and seems to have both eyes open on this. Lauren is getting the fucking she craves at this point and Danny gets all that comes with being a cuckold. They are communicating and Lauren is being truthful, which is exactly what a perfect cuckold relationship calls for.
Thanks for all the updates Danny. Can't wait until you go away for the weekend. I recommend no nighttime visits for a few days before that happens to ensure they are both super-ready for a weekend sex marathon.
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1. What else is there to try sexually that they haven't already except rimming and ass fucking? In terms of new things, they plateaued off quite a while back. When bareback fucking, cumming inside, fucking from behind, fucking her while she was still sleeping, she on top etc - all boxes were checked.RunDannyRun wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:57 amThey haven't tried anything new sexually. And just had sex only once one night( this never happened before).sandy691196 wrote: ↑Mon Jan 06, 2025 10:38 am
"I think I am noticing some diminished NRE between them. Maybe it is for the best."
How? Why? In the last 2 times she went to him, what was different? What makes you feel there is reduced NRE?
Lauren says that she didn't plan to stay back after sex but Adam went for repeats and initiated the cuddling and spooning. But what makes her go to sleep in his arms for hours?
She said that he didn't talk a lot compared to before. He hugged her / spooned her and slept off.
So they have been doing the same stuff for weeks now.
2. The night they did it only once was the time (friday) when Adam was exhausted (if I remember your report correctly) and had important work next day. The very next night they went 3 hrs and did it twice.
So Adam had plausible alibi for that one night of slacking.
He didn't talk a lot over the last 2 times. OK. The last time he tried talking, he stepped on thin ice with his "did you miss me" thing. She pointed out his gaffe with the stripper and understandably he doesn't wanna risk more talk on these lines. Let him regain his confidence a bit and then let's see..
Still, leaving them alone for a day or 2 of uninterrupted heart to heart communication, without time and situational pressure, is a bad idea Danny .. please..
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When she comes back from these sessions downstairs have you ever looked at her swollen and likely filled pussy? Might be something to investigate next time.
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I must have missed this part. Can you please point out where Danny said this in his recounting of Fri + Sat events?Midnight Joker wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:17 amHe even noted her comments about the post sex "cuddling" wasn't as much as we're thinking.
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sandy691196 wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:34 amI must have missed this part. Can you please point out where Danny said this in his recounting of Fri + Sat events?Midnight Joker wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:17 amHe even noted her comments about the post sex "cuddling" wasn't as much as we're thinking.
Seems I misread the part thinking it was her that was distant after sex. Turns out it was Danny. Also missed that she enjoys the post-sex cuddle. I still think we're reading into it, but I could be wrong.RunDannyRun wrote: ↑Mon Jan 06, 2025 9:04 am
I kinda asked her about the whole cuddling after sex with Adam thing. And again this is the case of "ignorance is bliss" scenario. She told me that before they actually had sex, she always assumed that they would just spend like 20 minutes to have sex and she will be in and out of his room in half n hour. But the first time they had sex, it was completely different from what she had in her mind. He was able to fuck her back to back. He is the one who initiates cuddles and pillow talk. She told me that he is the one who spoons her or pulls her towards him after they have sex. I will be honest here, I am a bit more distant after sex and especially if things got sweaty. yes I talk and maybe hug but I would rather not tbh. He doesn't mind that one bit. He is talkative after sex while my post-sex clarity renders me more introverted. She told me that this is all new to her and she enjoys it a lot.
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I get the impression that D&L have a communication issue. Maybe D doesn’t come out and say it in his thread and maybe the talk more than he lets on. However, in my mind they need to get away, just the two of them, and have a long, drawn out, deep, hard conversation about what all has happened, what the both want and need from each other and the lifestyle, and have a plan for where they want this to go. It doesn’t seem that they are completely forthcoming with one another as to what their own headspace looks like regarding her extracurricular activities. I’m reminded of the old adage of….”a failure to plan is a plan to fail.”
Not once, that I remember reading, has L really sat down and explained what she’s getting out of this and how she feels on an emotional level. Yes we know that A is giving it to her good with his big cock, but there has to be more than that for her. Otherwise she’d be up and back in D’s bed as soon as the deed was done.
To me, this smells of two young and inexperienced kids who have gotten in over their heads and don’t know how to deal with everything that’s transpired.
Not once, that I remember reading, has L really sat down and explained what she’s getting out of this and how she feels on an emotional level. Yes we know that A is giving it to her good with his big cock, but there has to be more than that for her. Otherwise she’d be up and back in D’s bed as soon as the deed was done.
To me, this smells of two young and inexperienced kids who have gotten in over their heads and don’t know how to deal with everything that’s transpired.
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I am glad Adam is getting his fill of sweet, delectable pussy. He deserves it!
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Everyone here knows this will go one of likely two ways. And yes we'll all be jacking off to either direction.
One is this keeps going like it has been and the married couple likely opened a door they won't plan on or try to close at all. It leaves on the table naughty options like the wife getting knocked up by someone like his ex-step brother Adam or someone else. But she has seen there is an endless possibility of great sex, post sex cuddling and other things from her lover or future lovers.
Two is as some are alluding to, she falls for Adam or some future lover and things get complicated and messy. We've all seen enough folks here or even in our lives that once extra sex is on the table, feelings no matter how you try, can become involved and then if the couple don't talk openly and honestly a lot of times the relationship suffers or ends in the long run. Not always does it come to this, but there's plenty of examples we can all give about men and women separately leaving a relationship once they start having some hot sex outside of their current relationship.
Being a cuck whose own desires is to have watched my wife leave me for her once long term boyfriend or another lover. I'm not sure some of us are as objective or always thinking about the best things for the couple. But if they had some sort of agreement where she cut Danny off sexually, stays with him for their lives together, but has lovers who take care of all of her sexual and post orgasm needs in bed. That would be a good compromise and he doesn't have to worry about losing her. But he needs to talk to her about how this will go for them both in the present and on into the future.
I do wonder if anyone knows of a couple where the wife or girlfriend stopped having sex with their significant other and the relationship lasted long term? There are several folks can point to. I know more wives who have stayed with their husbands after the guys were having girlfriends in the side, but told the wife who they used to swing with, no extra men for them anymore. Kinda stupid and selfish on the guy's part. I always think what's good for the guy should also be good the lady in the relationship.
But again my own proclivities, would be happy to give up sex with my wife, if she had a full time lover who declared her body off limits to me sexually. I've been in Adam's shoes up all night long jacking off listening or watching my wife cum on a better cock. It's addictive and I never wanted it to end.
Danny, the group here, including Sandy who is no fan of Adams have some interesting points and ideas they'd like to know and help you have your pie and eat it too. Even if you don't actually eat the creampie. But where do you hope things go from here with Lauren and either Adam or you? Have you two talked about finally telling him you know and enjoy her sleeping with him? That way everyone can get some sleep after having some earlier sex between those two. But also would you be OK if she slept in his bed all night long on the evenings where she went to his bedroom after dinner sex?
Either way, enjoy what is going on now. But make sure you are talking to your wife about any feelings good or bad she has now towards Adam. Tell her no judgments, you're just checking in on her and making sure everything is going great between you two. But since you opened this door don't be surprised if Adam takes a more permanent place on both of your lives and especially your sex lives going forward once he does know or it's out in the open.
We all wish you the best and yes we are very jealous that you have your wife's lover living in the house with you. Not to mention he makes her cum so much more. Enjoy it all every single time.
One is this keeps going like it has been and the married couple likely opened a door they won't plan on or try to close at all. It leaves on the table naughty options like the wife getting knocked up by someone like his ex-step brother Adam or someone else. But she has seen there is an endless possibility of great sex, post sex cuddling and other things from her lover or future lovers.
Two is as some are alluding to, she falls for Adam or some future lover and things get complicated and messy. We've all seen enough folks here or even in our lives that once extra sex is on the table, feelings no matter how you try, can become involved and then if the couple don't talk openly and honestly a lot of times the relationship suffers or ends in the long run. Not always does it come to this, but there's plenty of examples we can all give about men and women separately leaving a relationship once they start having some hot sex outside of their current relationship.
Being a cuck whose own desires is to have watched my wife leave me for her once long term boyfriend or another lover. I'm not sure some of us are as objective or always thinking about the best things for the couple. But if they had some sort of agreement where she cut Danny off sexually, stays with him for their lives together, but has lovers who take care of all of her sexual and post orgasm needs in bed. That would be a good compromise and he doesn't have to worry about losing her. But he needs to talk to her about how this will go for them both in the present and on into the future.
I do wonder if anyone knows of a couple where the wife or girlfriend stopped having sex with their significant other and the relationship lasted long term? There are several folks can point to. I know more wives who have stayed with their husbands after the guys were having girlfriends in the side, but told the wife who they used to swing with, no extra men for them anymore. Kinda stupid and selfish on the guy's part. I always think what's good for the guy should also be good the lady in the relationship.
But again my own proclivities, would be happy to give up sex with my wife, if she had a full time lover who declared her body off limits to me sexually. I've been in Adam's shoes up all night long jacking off listening or watching my wife cum on a better cock. It's addictive and I never wanted it to end.
Danny, the group here, including Sandy who is no fan of Adams have some interesting points and ideas they'd like to know and help you have your pie and eat it too. Even if you don't actually eat the creampie. But where do you hope things go from here with Lauren and either Adam or you? Have you two talked about finally telling him you know and enjoy her sleeping with him? That way everyone can get some sleep after having some earlier sex between those two. But also would you be OK if she slept in his bed all night long on the evenings where she went to his bedroom after dinner sex?
Either way, enjoy what is going on now. But make sure you are talking to your wife about any feelings good or bad she has now towards Adam. Tell her no judgments, you're just checking in on her and making sure everything is going great between you two. But since you opened this door don't be surprised if Adam takes a more permanent place on both of your lives and especially your sex lives going forward once he does know or it's out in the open.
We all wish you the best and yes we are very jealous that you have your wife's lover living in the house with you. Not to mention he makes her cum so much more. Enjoy it all every single time.
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100%Watchinu69 wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:45 am
Any chance Sandy can move in the other spare bedroom so we can get a reporter with boots on the ground reposting what the author is thinking..... that nobody cares about...
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Watchinu69 wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:45 amAny chance Sandy can move in the other spare bedroom so we can get a reporter with boots on the ground reposting what the author is thinking..... that nobody cares about...
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I agree with Mrs Angela. I would like to see D&L sit down and talk. I'm also on the side of the fence that should come clean with A. Like someone else mentioned here. They could just say they have an open relationship.
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Topnotch,
I agree. They can't keep up this cheating wife angle forever. I would direct them to some of the posts on here that suggest how to do that very thing. Especially the ones that do not expose Dan's cuck kink to Adam. How and when they decide to do this is totally up to them. But I have to think that they have discussed the possibility of Adam wondering if Dan has suspicions that he is fucking Lauren. Particularly in the instances where the fuck session was rather long and they cut it close to Dan waking up the next morning.
Furthermore, isn't Adam wondering whether Dan would wake up in the middle of the night and notice Lauren not there? He likely has to have some thoughts about that, especially now. But, then again, even if he does maybe he just wants to keep it an unsaid secret because he really loves fucking Lauren.
Right now, he is living in their house supposedly rent free. And he doesn't have to go out and chase women to get laid. Lauren comes on to him on a regular basis now. Why ruin a good thing?
Who knows what will happen on this topic. But they will eventually need to address this between them.
I agree. They can't keep up this cheating wife angle forever. I would direct them to some of the posts on here that suggest how to do that very thing. Especially the ones that do not expose Dan's cuck kink to Adam. How and when they decide to do this is totally up to them. But I have to think that they have discussed the possibility of Adam wondering if Dan has suspicions that he is fucking Lauren. Particularly in the instances where the fuck session was rather long and they cut it close to Dan waking up the next morning.
Furthermore, isn't Adam wondering whether Dan would wake up in the middle of the night and notice Lauren not there? He likely has to have some thoughts about that, especially now. But, then again, even if he does maybe he just wants to keep it an unsaid secret because he really loves fucking Lauren.
Right now, he is living in their house supposedly rent free. And he doesn't have to go out and chase women to get laid. Lauren comes on to him on a regular basis now. Why ruin a good thing?
Who knows what will happen on this topic. But they will eventually need to address this between them.
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Look at the clock. Is Lauren back now at her 1st floor bedroom? Or is she going on round 3?
Or perhaps spooning naked in her lover's arms?
Or perhaps spooning naked in her lover's arms?
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Very quiet in here. Hope you are getting all your code written Danny. You good?
Odds are Lauren has already been with Adam this week with the prime time weekend nights cuming up. Bet she already has her game plan in mind and Adam is resting up for a couple of all-nighters.
Odds are Lauren has already been with Adam this week with the prime time weekend nights cuming up. Bet she already has her game plan in mind and Adam is resting up for a couple of all-nighters.
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Seems like Danny is going to be too busy to update us much, and since he said something about updating once a week, I'm expecting this thread to die down a bit. It's sad. This has been my favorite thread in quite a while.
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If you are checking this forum right now Yes she did and Yes he is. Check back in an hour or two and it will be Yes they did. Pure speculation / wishful thinking on my part but hey its friday night and i'm horny
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Ok.. it's loving cuddle and sleep time now after the 3rd round..
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Hope everything is going okay Danny. The community is missing your detailed updates (don’t worry, we understand, but doesn’t stop us missing them).
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Yeah, a quick update would be nice if Dan has a few minutes.
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Reminder: he said we would get updates 1x per week. Let's not get too anxious waiting for it our treat
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I am equally anxious about the other aspects of their relationship..
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I'm just waiting for adam to find out he knows and they can be open about it. That way they can fuck whenever. Adam come knocking on thier bedroom door to collect her would be wild.
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Howdy guys,
Hope you all are having a smashing Jan. Lauren and I are doing great. We are staying indoors a lot these days. Just going to the local gym to run on the treadmills. We also visited a friend couple a few days ago for dinner and some games. Now for the details you all have been waiting for, they had sex twice so far this week and I am sure they will have sex again tonight. My wife almost missed a deadline this week and she decided to not have sex with Adam during the week except for Wednesday (her Thursdays are usually a bit chill). So that's what she did. She had sex with Adam on Wednesday night and then she had sex again with him yesterday.
Their texting patterns have changed a bit. Adam kept begging her for sex. Every day. She described me her Wednesday night with Adam and they way she described, it seemed like they were just going through the motions. She mentioned that she came quite a few times. While she didn't say it, I am coming to think that Adam is also a bit vanilla. He just gets her off orally and the fucks her twice.She also told him during the day that she can't stay a lot with him during the night as she needs to get enough sleep.
Yesterday was different. Adam was apparently very horny. After the first time they had sex and she went to cleanup, she was expecting Adam to be sleeping when she returned, but he was already hard and was grinning. He made her ride her and after some time, he shifted into missionary and she said that this was the most aggressive he fucked her. She had to stop him and tell him to be more gentle. He obliged and soon came in her again.
He fucked her again after half an hour. She said that she was too tired to go to the bathroom to get his cum out of her. She just slept afterwards in his arms. She came into our bedroom at around 04:30 am. She slept till 07:30 in the morning and then told me after she woke up and cleaned herself up.
I know folks will probably micro analyze this but she actually refused to have sex with me on Wednesday and told me that she is saving herself up for Adam that night. She told me that we can have sex next day. I didn't really care that much but it was amusing to notice her hesitation and how tried to let me down without hurting my feelings. I think she is scheduling her nights with us to have least impact on her work.
I was going through their texts and it is mostly him asking everyday during lunch time if she can visit him that night. Lauren replied most days except for Wednesday and Friday with a "No" and then he tries to convince her and guilt trips her by saying that he is horny and she should take care of him. He also used the line, "Blue balls can be fatal!". But Lauren is steadfast.
She told me that she will also have sex with him tonight. I might listen in today.
Hope you all are having a smashing Jan. Lauren and I are doing great. We are staying indoors a lot these days. Just going to the local gym to run on the treadmills. We also visited a friend couple a few days ago for dinner and some games. Now for the details you all have been waiting for, they had sex twice so far this week and I am sure they will have sex again tonight. My wife almost missed a deadline this week and she decided to not have sex with Adam during the week except for Wednesday (her Thursdays are usually a bit chill). So that's what she did. She had sex with Adam on Wednesday night and then she had sex again with him yesterday.
Their texting patterns have changed a bit. Adam kept begging her for sex. Every day. She described me her Wednesday night with Adam and they way she described, it seemed like they were just going through the motions. She mentioned that she came quite a few times. While she didn't say it, I am coming to think that Adam is also a bit vanilla. He just gets her off orally and the fucks her twice.She also told him during the day that she can't stay a lot with him during the night as she needs to get enough sleep.
Yesterday was different. Adam was apparently very horny. After the first time they had sex and she went to cleanup, she was expecting Adam to be sleeping when she returned, but he was already hard and was grinning. He made her ride her and after some time, he shifted into missionary and she said that this was the most aggressive he fucked her. She had to stop him and tell him to be more gentle. He obliged and soon came in her again.
He fucked her again after half an hour. She said that she was too tired to go to the bathroom to get his cum out of her. She just slept afterwards in his arms. She came into our bedroom at around 04:30 am. She slept till 07:30 in the morning and then told me after she woke up and cleaned herself up.
I know folks will probably micro analyze this but she actually refused to have sex with me on Wednesday and told me that she is saving herself up for Adam that night. She told me that we can have sex next day. I didn't really care that much but it was amusing to notice her hesitation and how tried to let me down without hurting my feelings. I think she is scheduling her nights with us to have least impact on her work.
I was going through their texts and it is mostly him asking everyday during lunch time if she can visit him that night. Lauren replied most days except for Wednesday and Friday with a "No" and then he tries to convince her and guilt trips her by saying that he is horny and she should take care of him. He also used the line, "Blue balls can be fatal!". But Lauren is steadfast.
She told me that she will also have sex with him tonight. I might listen in today.
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Phew, this is so hot, thank you for the update.
I wonder whether Lauren can get some changes to the pattern a bit ... rock him out of his vanilla-ness somewhere ... perhaps with your encouragement and hinting of ideas you may have, or this forum can give.
An example could be - you could buy some lingerie with her to surprise him with - sexy night attire, etc - whatever would excite and please him. I know she found it funny before but perhaps she could indulge him and surprise him, and you'd get some kicks too. That's just an idea, there will be others.
Just something to ring the changes a little.
I wonder whether Lauren can get some changes to the pattern a bit ... rock him out of his vanilla-ness somewhere ... perhaps with your encouragement and hinting of ideas you may have, or this forum can give.
An example could be - you could buy some lingerie with her to surprise him with - sexy night attire, etc - whatever would excite and please him. I know she found it funny before but perhaps she could indulge him and surprise him, and you'd get some kicks too. That's just an idea, there will be others.
Just something to ring the changes a little.